First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Ryan & Layla - First Date Fallout: The House That Ended It All

Episode Date: October 9, 2025

Ryan thought his all-day date with Layla was perfect—until she suddenly stopped responding. In this First Date Follow-Up on The Jubal Show, Ryan reveals a secret he didn’t tell her: the “amazing house” she thought was his… actually belonged to his boss. 😬 What happens when the truth comes out on-air? Listen for the hilarious twists, secondhand embarrassment, and one of the most awkward radio confrontations ever. Perfect for fans of dating drama, ghosting stories, and wild relationship confessions! Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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and maybe get him a second date, but first, Ryan, how long has it been since your date? It's been almost, almost a week now. You've been trying to hit her up? Yeah, I've been trying to get a hold of Layla for a bit. We ended up, like, we ended up spending a whole day together, and I've just been trying to, you know, call and text without being, you know, overwhelming or anything like that. But I just can't seem to get any sort of response from her. Well, tell us about the date.

okay yeah so so the day was great like we planned to meet for lunch but we ended up spending the whole day together which i didn't really expect like just like a quick little coffee at this cafe but it just like kept i don't know like the day just kept going on and on and on and so after that we wouldn't like grab a couple bikes and went for this ride by the water and stopped and grab some snacks and you know grabbing snacks and just like chatting and everything you know we're by the water and she's just like we started talking about seafood for some reason and it's so weird because I don't like seafood and she she goes oh I don't like seafood either why would anybody want to surf and turf and you can just do you know double turf I thought that was so funny it's funny it's just like

tell me about herself and her family and all this stuff and like I was like well you know like let's keep the conversation gone let's go grab some steaks we'll go back to my place and just like cook some dinner together and she's like well if we're getting steaks we're she'd grab some wine. Like, okay. That's what I'm saying. Like, the whole day just ended up... She's cool. Building on each other. She was so cool. And I don't know. I'm not much of it, like a Netflix and Chill guy.

And so when she came over, she was like, hey, I see you have Uno. I was like, yeah, do you play cards? She's like, of course I played cards. And it turns out she's, like, really competitive. And so we played, like, we ended up playing Uno and just, like, putting music on the speaker back and forth, taking turns. It, like, felt... I know that sounds super cheap. easy, but it felt like a scene out of

a movie. Really fun. Yeah, it does sound fun. Did anything else happen? That's your place. Like, she spent the night. Okay. But I don't know, well, not like, listen, we've been drinking. I don't want you driving until you're like comfortable, but like you can take my bed

and, like, sleep out on the couches. Like, I don't know. I didn't want the night to end. This was a really good date. So, what could have gone wrong? I don't know. Like, I'm worried I came on too strong. because like I really hadn't felt like I connected with somebody like this and she was just like I know people go to term adventurers around a lot

but the fact that she was just like kept adding onto the date it was just so fun and like I was just I was gung ho I was like yeah let's go for it and then I would suggest something and she'd be like yeah let's go for it so I know she was into it too I just can't figure out why like I mean I kind of have a theory I just I don't want it to be true What is it? Okay, so, like, when I invited her back to my place, like, it wasn't actually my place.

I was house-fitting for my boss. Oh, okay. Do you think she knows that? No, no, she does not know that. There's no way. Because I just kind of, like, played it off. I mean, I wasn't trying to lie. Like, I'm not that kind of person.

I just, like, got caught up in the moment. Like, she was, like, talking about stakes. And, like, well, let's go back. I was like, oh, yeah, let's go back. And she's, like, just, you know, I'll hop in the car. you and I just kind of went on like you know auto mode and I don't know me I'm just like like I didn't say it was my place or anything like that like I know my way around the kitchen I'm like stayed sitting at my boss's place before but like I don't know like I'm worried I don't know maybe

she saw like the mail or something with with and didn't have my name on it I just I don't know so you just didn't say anything was it like a mansion yeah yeah it's a really nice house it's a really nice house and like i i i'm in a condo and i just like the difference is so staggering it's just i just feel awful like i wish i just told her like hey i'm house sitting i don't know why i didn't say that yeah right well let's see if that is the reason we'll play a song come back and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's going to sing you and maybe get you a second day okay okay yeah thank you guys we'll get your first day follow up right after this podcast, and we're bringing you the horror every week all October long.

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supposed to be a short date it turned out into like a whole day affair and I invited her back to my place to cook some dinner she had us spending the night but um I was house sitting on my boss's place. It wasn't actually my place. And you think she might have found that out? I definitely. That's all I can think about. All right.

Are you ready for us to call her? Ooh, yeah, yeah. Okay. Hello? Hi, man. I speak to Layla, please. This is... Layla, how are you?

This is the Jubal show. It's a radio show. Hi, Layla. I'm Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Hi. And my name is Jubal. How are you?

I'm okay. You listened to the show before? No, I'm so sorry. Did I win something? Well, I don't know. Kind of. It kind of depends on how you see it, I guess. We're calling you today because we do a segment that's called the first date follow-up.

That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting. Oh, that's awful. And we got an email about you from somebody. About me? Yes. Are you ghosting anybody? Oh my God, no.

No, I've been ghosted. That's awful. I would never. Okay. I mean, I've been out on like a few dates. No, I mean. And you haven't ghosted them? No, I mean, literally I've gone out on like two dates.

There was like one really casual and then this other guy who I actually kind of, Doug, but yeah. Okay. Well, the email we got about you came from somebody named Ryan. Yeah, no. I know, Ryan. I'm not, does he think I'm ghosting him? Yes.

You're not ghosting him? No. Well, first of all, our date was like three days ago. And, no, my phone died, and then I had brought it to Apple. I actually just got it back today. Okay. Does he really think I'm ghosting him? Oh, my God.

Wait, wait, wait, wait. so you're not you're not ghosting me then yeah Ryan is actually on the phone wants to talk to you oh my gosh Ryan hi that um hello hi yeah hi um you're not ghosting me okay great um no wait why would you think that i had a really good done with you we went out just like a few days ago i i would never first of all i would never do that because i've been ghosted but why would you think that I would ghost you. I had a really good time with you. I'm so happy to hear that. Like I had a good time too. I really did. I thought we, we connected and I just, I hope, oh God, I just hope I'm not coming on that like a crazy person been too strong. I just,

you know, I was worried that I hadn't heard back from you. It felt like a week. No, it was three days ago. And my father died. Like, no, I mean, this is weird, but We had a really good date. That was a great date. That was a great date, right? Mistakes for good. No, it was. They were really good.

I actually was impressed. Yeah, me too. And you're a great Uno player. I could have thought. I thought that was a game of luck, but apparently it is not. You're very good at that. Thank you. I think so, too.

I'm just so relieved that you're not ghosting me then. No, I would never. No, no, I'm so sorry. My phone died and... No, it's fine. I just, I was so worried because, you know, I was, I was actually house sitting for my boss and I just really thought that, like, I don't know, maybe you thought that I was just trying to, like, squat or, or lie about, you know, my, my, my, my situation.

Wait, what do you mean house sitting? That, that wasn't my house. That was my, that was my boss. Wait, that wasn't your house? No, no, no, no. And that's like when you were asking about the car and everything, I was just like, oh, yeah, I'm trying to like change the subject. That's not my house.

Wait, hold on a second. You literally were talking about your couch. You were like, I bought this because I went to Tuscany with my sister. And I just was inspired. You literally were talking about buying the couch with your sister. Okay, hold on, hold on. Wait, now I feel like you're messing with me. technically i don't live there you're right but what's like i did go to italy and i guess the

couch that i want to have someday you see that sounds like you're trying to act like that's your place right yeah yeah no i that's but weird i'm no no i'm not i'm not trying to lead you on like i'm not trying to lead you on it is such a cool place on no no that's just you blatantly lying no i'm not it's not a lie it's not a lie it's a technicality right you don't I was like, I, but no, but I do right now. Literally, we're talking about a cow. No, I do right. No, that's, no.

Please, I've just never pulled a girl like you before. It's just like, I could tell you, like, just was somebody impressed. Wait, Ryan, no, I'm sorry. No. Oh, my gosh. Okay, listen, I had a really good time with you. I enjoyed our date. I liked you.

It was a great day. But now I'm actually not sure. It was the real, that was the real me. But you literally were talking about the water is me. Ryan, you're not actually listening to me. You blatantly lied about where we were. You would talk about the couch, the lamp. You even talked about the painting.

Oh my God, no. Sorry. A red glass. Nope. Nope, nope, nope, nope, nope, nope, nope. I'll ask you now. Layla, would you like to go on another date with Ryan? We will pay for it.

Ryan, look, I had it. I had a good time with you. I think that you're nice, but clearly you've got some stuff that you need to work through. But no. No, thank you. Are you sure? Dude, I could never trust you. You literally were talking about items in a house that you don't live in.

So who are you? I don't even know. Because that's what I want to provide. Like, I want to be able to get that and provide it for you. Like, and you're not even like going to give you a chance. No. Ryan. I mean, I don't want to give up.

No, I don't want to give up. No. Listen. What's it. Listen. I don't. Ryan, I'm giving up. I'm sorry.

But I am the guy that you like. But that's weird. You know, are not listening to me. No, please, please, please, please. Just like, begging, please go with me just like one more time. And I just will make you an even better steak. And we can like, I'll tell. Oh, my God, no.

Well, hold on. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. I think you're a nice guy, but this is really. I will take you to my apartment. I will take you to my apartment. No. Ryan, this is fully giving me the X factor. Okay, I gotta go.

This is ridiculous. But you're so hot. Okay, thank you. I have to go. Joubles' first date follow-up. Samihante, it's Anna Ortiz. And I'm Mark and Delicado. You might know us as Hilda and Justin.

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