First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Ryan & Shaina - Tie My Shoes

Episode Date: November 14, 2024

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First date follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. Ryan is on the phone today for our first date follow-up. He's getting ghosted by a woman named Shana. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date first ryan how long has it been since you heard from shana it's been about three days now three days i know that doesn't feel like a long time but after like our date it feels like forever

because she was responding so much before you know okay why don't you tell us about the date and how you met her and stuff cool so we met uh during a pub crawl it was fun she wasn't out very long but like i got her number before she left and we thought that like we talked about it and we'd like we'll have a proper date um there's this little pocket of the city that has a park one of my favorite pizza places and like an ice cream spot next door so i was thinking like that might be actually a really fun date. We get multiple venues, a little extra time depending on how well it goes, you know. Then I found out there was a band performing at the pizza place one of the nights. So I asked her out for that and she said yes. And like it was such a great vibe. We pizza we had drinks we laughed so much like you

know when your stomach actually hurts from laughing yeah and then we ended the night with like we both didn't want to really go home uh so we went and we did get the ice cream and we had a really nice kiss at the end okay yeah i had like so much fun with her and i feel like there's a little bit of mystery to her and I really want to get to know her more she's like guys she's like so pretty like I just couldn't get enough well what do you think happened it sounds like it was so sweet I made a joke and sometimes jokes don't always come across when you're nervous um she had dropped something on the

floor and i was like i noticed that my shoes weren't tied and i was like why don't you just tie my shoes while you're down there and like i was just kidding hey tie my shoes and make me food oh no that just might be it what did did she do, though, when you were like, tie my shoes? She actually tied my shoes, and I was like, no. Oh, she actually did it, huh? Yeah. Did she laugh? Did she think you were serious?

No, I was not serious whatsoever. And at the time, I didn't really think it was a big deal, because it kind of felt like playful. Like, she was like, here the time, I didn't really think it was a big deal. Cause it kind of felt like playful. Like she was like, here, done, you know? But then when I told my buddies about it, they couldn't stop like making fun of me. And I genuinely feel that. Cause it's just one of those things, you know, like when we're nervous, we're out with somebody that we like, we sometimes say stupid stuff. And I'm not that guy who would be like you know like you were saying like tie my shoes and make me a sandwich that's not me

is genuinely a bad joke and that's all it was but now it's been three days and it feels pretty blatant because she was always responding like right away like I would text her I would think about like what to say and I'd text her I would think about like what to say and I'd text her I'd spend like 20 minutes and then within like 30 seconds she'd be back with like 10 texts now it's just been nothing I mean you know what Jubal always says though Jubal always says

it's all about the delivery so if you thought you were being funny but if it didn't deliver yeah I'm with you guys I'm with you guys. I'm with you guys. I wish we could go back and change that. But you know what? She kissed you. Afterwards, a really nice long kiss, too,

where I was like, okay, she's feeling the connection, too. Did it seem like she wanted to kiss you, or did you also go, and now give me a kiss? The obvious worry. No, I was like, there's your reward. No, I'm playing. You did a good reward no i'm playing sweet thing and your jokes are funny but consent is sexy so my move is i always say can i kiss you that's my move and she smiled and she was like yeah and she pulled me in

okay and like the last thing that I actually texted her was actually that I was thinking about her and then I couldn't wait for the next date to kiss her again and nothing. I was thinking about you because my shoe just came untied. Sorry, I couldn't help it. All right, man, we'll figure it out for you.

We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you, okay? Sounds good. All right. Play us on. Come back. Get your first day follow-up next.

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Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, even though these days, fun and politics seems like an oxymoron. But we'll do that thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee, Roy Wood Jr., and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about?

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don't you refresh everybody's memory on your date with Shana? We met during a pub crawl. We ended up going to on a separate night, pizza, ice cream. There was a live band, had a great kiss. I made a bad joke asking her to tie my shoes. She actually did it and now I think I might have lost an amazing opportunity to get to know someone really cool. Yeah, you liked her a lot, right? I did. She's so pretty. It's crazy and cool

and fun and smart. That sounds like you. Alright man, you ready for us to call her? Yes, please. Okay, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Shana, please? This is she. Who's this? Hey, Shana,

how are you? My name is Jubal, and I host a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Shana. The whole show's here. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. How are you? Okay, is this a joke? No, it's not. Have you ever heard the show before? Yeah, I'm on the radio. Yes, you are.

We're actually calling you because we do a segment called The First Date Follow-Up. So if you go out on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why. And you're currently ghosting somebody. They like you a lot and they don't know why they're getting ghosted. Um, okay. Any idea who that would be? I'm thinking maybe Ryan.

Is that right? It is Ryan. Oh, gosh. Okay. Telling us why you're ghosting him? I mean, I know this might sound ironically that I'm being nitpicky about him because basically I'm ghosting him because he kept nitpicking on me about how I eat my ice cream. Nitpicky about how you eat your ice cream? Yeah.

I mean, I know it's weird that I like caramel on strawberry ice cream, but he started calling me a psychopath. And he just, you know, he wasn't letting go of it. And I was like, I know it's weird, but then he started commenting how I hold a cone. And then he started making jokes about, like, I don't know, just other things, like being picky with me. Was he joking? I don't think so. But, joking? I don't think so, but like I don't know. It was like I said, you know, like I said

caramel and he says it's caramel. And it just all started to be a little bit too much and it just didn't feel like the kind of guy I want to spend so much time with. Okay, so you felt like he was ripping on you. Yeah, like the whole night he's pulling my pigtails, you know?

And I just want to have peace with somebody on the date, you know? You kissed him after, though. He told us that. I did, because he's really cute, and he's really nice, and I know he's really trying, but, you know, I don't know if I want to sign up exactly for another night of that, but being picked on all the time. Yeah, okay. Yeah on all the time.

Yeah, that makes sense. Does that make sense? Like, I just, I know that, and I don't mean to be a ghoster because it's no fun, you know, but I'm just like, oh God, I just don't want to be criticized. And I don't know, I moved around a lot as a kid and I was really shy and a little insecure and I'm trying to get over that, but it just takes, it just kind of ruins the night a little bit. Constant picking can be a little triggering. I get that. Well, thank you for being honest with us and now

I have to be honest with you. Ryan is actually on the phone listening. Yeah, okay. And wants to talk to you. Hi, Ryan. Hi. Okay, so first sorry. I didn't realize that I was doing that.

But also, I'm hugely relieved that it wasn't the shoe tying thing, because I was so afraid that you thought I was this one guy who was just like, get my shoes, get me a sandwich, go do this, where I was just nervous. Because I was just joking about that, by the way, the shoe thing. No, I got the joke. I got the joke. I didn't love it, but I didn't ghost you over it. Okay.

Thank you. But I'm sorry. I am so used to hanging out with my buddies and all we do is roast each other. And I guess that's been affecting me so much that I didn't realize that I was doing it too much. I honestly think it's so cute the way that you were holding your cone and the way that you pronounce words. I am just, you know, sorry, that's not the experience I wanted you to have, a bad one.

But I will say this with dating. Sometimes you write people off so quickly. And communication, you're such a great communicator. Like, thank you for telling me through the radio about what I did wrong. Like I would be willing to work on that, you know, um,

like I'll lock it up. No roasting. If you were to go out with me again. And if I do, I know, I know I have like weird little habits and it's caramel and i know i hold my phone funny and and all that but it's what makes you you i think it's lovely you know i was just nervous trying to make jokes and trying to make sure you have an extra good

time and then doing so i kind of messed up and i'm sorry about that no no i didn't think it uh you know i might have gone too far but honestly like you haven't even seen a real psychopath until you see me eat hot dogs. You can always see me in front of me. You eat hot dogs weird, Ryan. You gotta even it out, huh? That's what everybody says, you know.

That's what everybody says. I just love some meat. Alright, well Shana, would you like to go out with Ryan again and maybe eat a hot dog and watch how much he loves meat? We'll pay for another date. I mean, I just want you to be, like, I do get joked

and I know I'm a little sensitive and I just, I don't think I'll handle the constant clowning around very well, you know, but I mean... No more clowns, no more clowning. I'm going to show up in my suit and tie, but I still want you to be, I don't want someone to not be themselves around me too, you know, but I mean, you're so nice and you're so lovely and to

go try to contact me through a radio station. I mean, nobody's ever done that for me before. So I mean, I know you put so much effort into finding all those really fun places and all that. So, I mean, yeah, let's go on another date. Let's give it a shot. Sweet. Yay.

Congratulations, Ryan. You got another date. Thank you. Thank you guys for making it possible. And thank you, Shayna. You won't regret it. And if you do, you guys for making it possible. And thank you, Shayna. You won't regret it. And if you do, you can roast me right back. Yeah, I will make fun of you and the way you eat hot dogs.

Okay. Yeah, it's really weird. You got to see it. Maybe we'll have hot dogs on this show. I want to see it. It's like, watch, no chilling. Jubal's first date follow-up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric.

Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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