First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Ryan & Shaina - Tie My Shoes - Win a Free Trip to Jamaica

Episode Date: September 20, 2024

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Attorneys online at AdvocatesLjury Attorneys, online at advocateslaw.com. Ryan is on the phone today for our first date follow-up. He's getting ghosted by a woman named Shana, so we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. First, Ryan, how long has it been since you heard from Shana? It's been about three days now. Three days? And I know that doesn't feel like a long time,

but after like our date, it feels like forever because she was responding so much before, you know? Okay. Why don't you tell us about the date and how you met her and stuff? Cool. So we met during a pub crawl. It was fun. She wasn't out very long,

but like I got her number before she left. And we thought that like we talked about it and we'd like, we'll have a proper date. Um, there's this little pocket of the city that has a park, one of my favorite pizza places and like an ice cream spot next door. So I was thinking like, that might be actually a really fun date. We get multiple venues, a little extra time, depending on how well it goes, you know? And then I found out there was a band performing at the pizza place one of the nights. So I asked her out for that and she said, yes.

And like, it was such a great vibe. We had pizza, we had drinks, we laughed so much. Like, you know, when your stomach actually hurts from laughing. Yeah. And then we ended the night with like, we both didn't want to really go home. Uh, so we went and we did get the ice cream and we had a really nice kiss at the end yeah i had like so much fun with her and i feel like there's a little bit of mystery to her and i really want to get to know her more she's like guys she's like so pretty like i just couldn't

get enough okay well what do you think happened it sounds like it was so sweet I made a joke and sometimes jokes don't always come across when you're nervous she had dropped something on the floor and I was like I noticed that my shoes weren't tied and I was like why don't you just tie my shoes while you're down there and like I was just hey tie my shoes and make me food oh no just might be it what did she do though when you were like tie my shoes she actually tied my shoes and i was like no oh she actually did it huh yeah did she did she laugh did she think you were serious no i was not serious whatsoever um and i at the time i didn't really think it was a big deal because it kind of felt

like playful like she was like here done you know um but then when i told my buddies about it they couldn't stop like making fun of me and i genuinely feel that because it's just one of those things you know like when we're nervous we're out with somebody that we like we sometimes say stupid stuff and I'm not that guy who would be like you know like you were saying like tie my shoes and make me a sandwich that's not me uh it's genuinely a bad joke and that's all it was but now it's been three days and it feels pretty blatant because she was always responding like right away like i would text her i would think about like what to say and i'd text her i'd spend like 20 minutes and then within like 30 seconds she'd be back with like 10 texts and now it's just been nothing i mean you know what

jubile always says though jubile always says it's all about the delivery. So if you thought you were being funny, but if it didn't deliver. Yeah, I'm with you guys. I'm with you guys. I wish we could go back and change. You know what? She kissed you afterwards. A really nice long kiss, too, where I was like, OK, she's feeling the connection, too.

Did it seem like she wanted to kiss you or did you also go and now give me a kiss? The obvious part. No I was like thanks for coming here's your reward. No I'm playing. You did a good job tying my shoes sweet thing. Brian your jokes are funny.

Consent is sexy so my move is I always say can I kiss you that's my move and she smiled and she was like yeah and she pulled me in okay and like the last thing that i actually texted her was actually like um that i was thinking about her and then i couldn't wait for the next date to kiss her again and nothing i was thinking about you because my shoe just came untied sorry i couldn't help it. Alright, man. We'll figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and see

if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you, okay? Sounds good. Alright. Play a song, come back, get your first day follow-up next. Ugh. We're so done with New Year, New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists,

especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. Right in the middle of today's first day of follow-up, if you're just joining us, Ryan is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Shayna. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But real quick, Ryan, why don't you refresh everybody's memory on your date with Shayna? We met during a pub crawl.

We ended up going to, on a separate night, pizza, ice cream, there was a live band, had a great kiss. I made a bad joke asking her to tie my shoes. She actually did it. And now I think I might have lost an amazing opportunity to get to know someone really cool. Yeah, you liked her a lot, right? I did. She's so pretty. It's crazy and cool and fun and smart.

That sounds like you. Yeah. Alright man, you ready for us to call her? Yes, please. Okay, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Shana, please? This is she. Who's this?

Hey, Shana, how are you? My name is Jubal, and I host a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Shana. The whole show's here. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. How are you?

Okay, this is Joe. No, it's not. Have you ever heard the show before? Yeah, I'm on the radio. Yes, you are. We're actually calling you because we do a segment called the first eight follow-up. So if you go out on a date with somebody and you end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why.

And you're currently ghosting somebody. They like you a lot and they don't know why they're getting ghosted. Um, okay. Any idea who that would be? I'm thinking maybe Ryan, is that right? It is Ryan. Oh, gosh, okay. Telling us why you're ghosting him?

I mean, I know this might sound ironically that I'm being nitpicky about him because basically I'm ghosting him because he kept nitpicking on me about how I eat my ice cream. Nitpicky about how you eat your ice cream? Yeah. I mean, I know it's weird that I like caramel on strawberry ice cream, but he started calling me a psychopath. And he just, you know, he wasn't letting go of it. And I was like, I know it's weird, but then he started commenting how I hold a cone. And then he started making jokes about like, I don't know, just other things,

like being picky with me. Was he joking? I don't think so, but, like, I don't know. It was, like, I said, you know, like, I said caramel, and he says it's caramel. And it just all started to be a little bit too much, and it just didn't feel like the kind of guy i want to spend so much time with okay so you felt like he was ripping on you yeah like the whole night he's pulling my pigtails you know and i just i just want to

have peace with somebody on the date you know you kissed him after though he told us that i did because he's really cute and he's really nice and I know he's really trying but you know I just I don't know if I want to sign up exactly for another night of that but being picked on the whole time yeah all right yeah that makes sense does that make sense like I just I know that and I don't mean to be a ghoster because it's no fun you know but I'm just like oh god I just don't want to be criticized and I don't know I moved around a lot as a kid and I was really shy and a little insecure and I'm trying to get over that but it's just it just takes it just kind of ruins the night a little bit constant picking can be a little

triggering I get that yeah well thank you for being honest with us and now I have to be honest with you Ryan is actually on the phone listening. Yeah, okay, okay. And wants to talk to you. Hi, Ryan. Hi. Okay, so first, sorry. I didn't realize that I was doing that. But also, I'm hugely relieved that it wasn't the shoe-tying thing because I was so afraid that you thought I was this one guy

who was just like, tie my shoes, get me a sandwich, go do this, where I was just nervous. Because I was just joking about that, by the way. The shoe thing. No, I know. I got the joke. I didn't love it, but I didn't

ghost you over it. I'm sorry. I am so used to hanging out with my buddies and all we do is roast each other. And I guess that's been affecting me so much that I didn't realize that I was doing it too much. I honestly think it's so cute the way that you were holding your cone and the way that you pronounce words. I am just, you know, sorry, that's not the experience I wanted you to have, a bad one. But I will say this with dating sometimes you write people off so quickly and communication you're such a great

communicator like thank you for telling me through the radio about what i did wrong like i would be willing to work on that you know um like i'll lock it up no roasting if you were to go out with me again and if I do call it out yeah yeah okay I mean I know I know I have like weird little habits and it's caramel and I know I hold my phone funny and and all that but it's what makes you you I think it's lovely you know I was just nervous trying to make jokes and trying to make sure you have an extra good time and then doing so I kind of messed up and I'm sorry about that. No, no. I didn't think it.

You know, I might've gone too far, but honestly, like you haven't even seen a real psychopath until you see me eat hot dogs. You can always make fun of me for that. Did you eat hot dogs weird, Ryan? You gotta even it out. That's what everybody says, you out. That's what everybody says. Everybody says, I just love some meat. All right.

Well, Shana, would you like to go out with Ryan again and maybe eat a hot dog and watch how much he loves meat? We'll pay for another day. I mean, I just want you to be like, I do get jokes and I know I'm a little sensitive and I just, I don't think I'll handle the constant clowning around very well, you know, but I mean, you're so nice and you're so lovely and to go try to contact me through a radio station. I mean, nobody's ever done that for me before. So, I mean, I know you put so much effort into finding all those really fun places and, and, and all that. So, I mean, yeah, let's go on another date. Let's give it a shot. Sweet. Congratulations, Ryan. You on another date let's give it a shot sweet yay congratulations ryan you got another

date thank you thank you guys for making it possible and thank you shayna you won't regret it and if you do you can roast me right back yeah i will make fun of you and the way you eat hot dogs okay yeah it's it's really weird you gotta it. Maybe we'll have hot dogs on the screen. I want to see it. It's like, watch, no chili. Consider this is a daily news podcast, and lately the news is about a big question. How much can one guy change?

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