First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Sasha was only stuck for the weekend in this First Date Follow Up!

Episode Date: February 8, 2021

Sasha has the time of his life a spending a weekend with Stephanie but after she goes ghost, he calls The Jubal to find out what happened! You know what they say, if it's stuck, then its up!Let us know what you think on social!Follow us at: @thejubalshow @jubalfresh @thatdreas @evanontheradioSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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and you just know that you're going to hook up that night? It's a jewel show. No. No, not really. It could be a look they give you or a twinge of human intuition where you clue into the other person's energy and you know you're going to link up.

Or it could be such a sure thing because it's two o'clock in the morning and you're on the wrong side of town with 60 bucks in your pocket. Sometimes you just know, is what I'm saying. And apparently Sasha, who was on the phone to do a first date follow-up, met a girl named Stephanie

and he says he just knew that they were going to hook up as soon as he met her. Oh, wow. What's up, Sasha? How are you? Hey, I'm good. How are you guys doing? Not too bad. So she just looks like a hoe? No, no.

She's so beautiful. And she was so, she just had this energy about her. And I just knew immediately when I saw her that we were going to vibe and that we were going to hook up. Oh, so, I mean, did she feel the same? Well, we did hook up, so I guess my intuition was correct. Oh. Okay.

And was it because you talked to her and you guys vibed, or was it the $60 thing, wrong side of town thing like I brought up before? We just vibed. It was like, you know, when you meet someone and everything flows, it's easy. Where did you meet her? We met at a friend's party. And the thing is, is that we ended up, after hooking up, spending all weekend after that party. Spending all weekend doing what?

Yeah, we had brunch in the morning after we had hooked up the night before. And then we hung out that whole day. We went to the park. We had dinner. I even came back to her house. Wow. So you spent the weekend together. Yeah.

Ah, okay. Because you just said we spent the weekend. Yeah, you didn't finish. I haven't finished. Oh, no, no. Okay. Because you just said we spent the weekend. Yeah. Oh, no, no. Okay. So you spent the weekend together with her and is that

the last time you saw her? No, we actually hung out the week after with a group of her friends at a restaurant. She's not calling you back

though, right? No. Okay. Not at all. Was there anything that happened during the date that maybe turned her off that you could tell? The only thing I could think of is we have a mutual friend and they were talking

that last time we were together and she might have said something to her. I'm not sure. I mean, is there something bad to say to her? Yeah. I don't think there's anything. I don't know. Someone can always say something, you know, I'm, I'm always saying something about my friends, but not in a mean way, just like teasing people, you know? Okay. So that's the only thing you think of though, is maybe this person that you knew might've said something to her, but you can't think of anything

that they would have said? Yeah, honestly, I can't figure it out. Okay. Okay. And well, how long has it been since your guys' last time seeing each other? And also, how many times have you tried reaching out to her? In a month. A month? Oh, wow.

Okay. That's a long time. You're definitely getting blown off. Yeah. So how many times have you tried to like text or call her? This is embarrassing, but probably, let's say every other day. Every other day for a month. And nothing.

Nothing. Yeah, I'd hate to say this, but it might be time to give up. She is amazing, and I've thought of giving up, but I really don't want to, because I think we could have something special. Okay, and you don't think maybe you overdid it by texting and calling every other day for the last... Yeah, exactly. I don't know. I think if something really means

something to you, you should really try. That's true. Yeah. If it's worth it, you gotta go get it. She might actually appreciate it. Some guys who are persistent then end up getting the girl that they want. Isn't the time frame usually shorter than a month? Not necessarily.

Sometimes it's years. Sometimes it's decades. Guys on social media will try and DMs for years and years and years just, hey, hey, hey, non-stop. Oh yeah, they'll have conversations with themselves. How often does that work? Not for me.

All right, well, we'll figure it out. We'll see if we can find out why she's not calling you back. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and get your first day follow-up, all right? Okay, thanks, guys. Yeah, man, hang on. It is weird that somebody could hang out with someone and hook up with them all weekend and then go on another date the week after,

and after that, they just stop calling them for a whole month. Like, they just ghost them after that. Very strange. That is very strange. I want to know why. Usually at three dates, you're at the point where someone might be like, hey, I like you. I like you or hey, I don't like you. Right. You know?

And not just disappear. And that's what happened to Sasha who's on the phone right now. He went out with a girl named Stephanie. He actually met her at a friend's house. They hooked up that night and then spent the whole weekend together. And then they had another date with some friends out in public. That sounds weird to say, but like at a restaurant.

And after that, she kind of dropped off the face of the earth. It's been a month since he's talked to her. He says that he's tried to call her or text her every other day for a month, so she's probably pretty annoyed. And he has no idea why. The only thing you can think of is that they have a mutual friend, and he thinks maybe the mutual friend might have said something bad about him. But are you sure, Sasha, that there's nothing that person could have said about you that would be bad and make Stephanie not want to date you?

Not that I know. Well, I'm going to dial her phone right now so we can get her on the phone and figure out what happened, okay? Hello? Hi, may I speak to Stephanie, please? This is she. Stephanie, how are you? This is Jubal from The Jubal Show.

I'm okay. Can I help you? Yes, you can. Are you familiar with the show? I've heard of it, yes, actually. That's good. We do a segment on our show called The First Date Follow-Up. That's where if you go out on a date with someone

and then end up not calling them back, they can email us to get you on the phone to try to figure out what happened. So we got an email about you from one of our listeners. Oh, okay. Do you know who we're talking about? Um,

I might have an idea, maybe. Do you want to take a guess and we'll tell you if you're right no all right that's fair i'll just tell you then his name is sasha okay okay do you remember that guy well uh yeah yeah no i i do what's wrong with sasha why didn't why did you stop talking to him? Yeah. He said that you guys hung out for like a whole weekend and then had another date. And he had a lot of nice things to say about you. And now he's having a very hard time getting a hold of you.

Yeah. Have you been getting his text messages? Every other day? Well, it's kind of hard not to. He says that he's reached out to you a lot and he's wondering why you're not getting back to him. Well, first of all, I don't really understand the couple of dates. Yeah, we hung out for a weekend,

but that's pretty much it. It wasn't anything crazy. In all honesty, I think Sasha's a little clingy, if I can say that in a nice way. Clingy? Okay.

Is it because he called? Since you haven't talked to him, he's texted or called you every other day for the past month? Actually, like, before that is kind of when I was a little turned off by him. What do you mean before that? Well, honestly, like, yeah, we had a connection in the beginning, but the whole weekend, I kind of got stuck with him

for the weekend. You got stuck with him for the weekend? I literally had that instinct. I wonder if she didn't have a choice. Really? So how did you get stuck with him? I hate to say this in a mean way like like i you know we were drinking the day before and you know i i may or may not have stayed over and you know forgot a lot

of the night but you know the next day you know just going and getting brunch and i was like sure and then i was like you know i gotta go to my house and he kind of like followed me I don't know he was creepy and I got kind of stuck with him for the weekend until my girlfriend I finally got out of it you know getting in contact with somebody to just you know make up an excuse and be like well I gotta go know. So he said that you guys also hung out the week after. We were out with friends. We were at a friend's gathering at a restaurant. We were not there together.

Oh, so it was like a mutual friend thing. But he said it was with your friends. Yeah. Yeah, it was. And I guess he knew somebody and I guess he got a pity invite. You didn't invite him oh god no okay all right so his story doesn't really match up with yours because he says that you invited him there or at least you guys planned to go there together no I I mentioned of it but I

we have maybe one or two people that you know might, might know each other, but like, he doesn't know my friends like that. So he ended up posting a photo of him, me, and a couple of my friends that were at that restaurant that night. And he had this hashtag under there that said relationship goals. Oh, well, oh God. It's not okay okay definitely don't tell us about that either yeah he he left a couple things out just a couple misrepresented a couple things sasha is actually on the line listening and wants to talk to you oh my god are you serious uh so i i've been on the phone the whole time and I've heard everything. And I'm sorry, Stephanie, but your story is completely fabricated. It's fabricated.

How is my story fabricated? I haven't made anything up in my head or verbally. How many times do I hear, oh, I don't remember what we did last night. Like, come on. Even when we're drunk, like we remember stuff. Like you remember us having a good time you remember the next morning wanting to go to brunch and you're the one who even asked me like what do you want to get breakfast like let's not finish this day like

come on like oh my i did not say any of those things we just kind of hung out and you lingered and I was trying to shoo you away in a nice way and I thought maybe brunch, after brunch we would go our separate ways, but no. You followed me to my house. These are two very different stories. Very different stories. And I don't know, I'm kind of leaning toward believing Stephanie.

Sasha? Yeah, this is not true. You're probably just feeling shy on the radio. I get it. She's not responding, though. Yeah, dumbass. Like, I haven't talked to you in, like, almost a month now. Fine.

I'm going to prove to all of you guys that she was lying. How? Okay, yeah. Show me the proof, please. Okay. So that photo, I did post it on Instagram, but I never hashtagged relationship goals. I hashtagged couple goals. So she's making stuff up.

Oh, okay. It's like the same thing, man. Oh, my God. No, she's lying. My bad. You're really clutching at straws here. Yeah, you are. I mean, either way, you shouldn't be putting that after meeting someone, you know, for three dates.

Have you taken your medication lately? Yeah, I did this morning. Why? I like Sasha. Yeah, I like Sasha, too. Sasha, I like you, man, but I don't think this is going to work out for you. I still have to ask, though. Stephanie, would you like to go out with Sasha on another date?

We will pay for it. Oh, my God. No, please. Don't lose your money. Are you sure about that? Yes, I'm so sure. And if you need a hashtag for that, hashtag oops. Jubal's first date follow up. Hey, everyone.

It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Jon Stewart is back at The Daily Show, and he's bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears with The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. Dive into Jon's unique take on the biggest topics in politics, entertainment, sports, and more. Joined by the sharp voices of the show's correspondents and contributors. And with extended interviews and exclusive weekly headline roundups, this podcast gives you content you won't find anywhere else. Ready to laugh and stay informed?

Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The forces shaping markets and the economy are often hiding behind a blur of numbers. So that's why we created The Big Take from Bloomberg Podcasts, to give you the context you need to make sense of it all. Every day in just 15 minutes, we dive into one global business story that matters. You'll hear from Bloomberg journalists like Matt Levine.

A lot of this meme stock stuff is, I think, embarrassing to the SEC. Follow the Big Take podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen.