First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Shane & Carolina - She Ghosted Him After a Wild First Date — The Reason Will Make Your Jaw Drop

Episode Date: December 24, 2025

As part of the 12 First Date Follow Ups of Christmas, Shane thought he’d found an instant connection after a flirty arcade bar date that took a very unexpected turn. But three weeks later, he’s completely ghosted. When The Jubal Show’s First Date Follow Up team tracks down Carolina, the truth behind her silence isn’t awkward… it’s calculated. What starts as a steamy, confusing first date quickly unravels into a shocking revelation that no one saw coming. This unforgettable First Date Follow Up is packed with betrayal, revenge, and one of the most explosive explanations in show history. Listen to find out what really happened and why this date was never what Shane thought it was. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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We count down all the way to the number one first. date follow-up that you voted on. Shane is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and he's getting ghosted by a girl named Carolina. So in a few minutes, we're going to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Shane, how long has it been since you heard from her? It's been probably like three weeks.

Okay. Have you reached out to her in that time? Yeah, like maybe four or five times. That is a definite ghosting. I don't think that's why he's going. I guess to tell him that. He knows. Tell us about your date.

I'm sorry, Shane. Yeah, so I actually met her on Instagram. She just slid in my DMs, and apparently we had gone to the same college together, but I didn't know her while we were both there. But we chatted for probably a few weeks, and then we met up at this bar. It had arcade games in it. We played pop a shot and ski ball and stuff. It was cute.

What really attracted me to her was that she was competitive about it. you know i i love that and a girl um but we did that had some drinks had some snacks and it was a great time like a lot of flirting a lot of touching going on we talked endlessly we laughed like it really seemed like perfect date yeah i mean the only thing that i can think of is that we both uber there and then after the day we both went in our respective ubers you know but before that she pulled me in the alley and we made out

pretty intensely and it escalated into like this weird dirty talk I mean she told me to tell her that I was a piece of a what?

Yeah she made me do this little strip tease and she was filming this and you were okay with that? It was very, weird but something about it was kind of hot like I was kind of into it she kept asking me if I wanted more and obviously I said yes and then on a dime it just completely stopped because your cars came or just all of a sudden she's like okay I'm done now no it's like the switch was just

turned off and she thanked me for the night she gave me one more kiss and then she asked me if I knew what I did. And I didn't know how to answer that. I mean, I don't know if it was some kind of like kinky buildup thing. Yeah. But that was it. I mean, that was the last time I talked to her. So you know you did something.

He did a strip tease. Maybe that did something to her. I don't know. I have no idea. It was so bizarre. Yeah. Okay. And you've texted her and she said nothing to you.

Yeah, absolutely nothing. I feel so invested. Yeah, like, what was, like, the last thing you did before she just stopped? Um, I mean, I think I just, you know, so I like to see her again and, uh, had a great time, you know, the usual end of date, small talk. Yeah, but I mean, like, when you were like, I'm a naughty little boy. Well, transition. Yeah, like, was there something that you did where she was like, okay, I'm done? Like, pull your pants.

Can't up real quick? No. The way that she actually, it didn't seem like she was reacting to something that I did. It just, all of a sudden, she just stopped. I really have no idea why. Right in the middle of your first date, follow up if you're just joining us. Shane is on the phone and Shane is getting ghosted by Carolina. So we're about to call her and see if she tells us why she's ghosting and maybe get him another date.

But first, Shane, why don't you catch everybody up on your date with Carolina? Yeah, so, I met on Instagram. We went out, had a great time in our arcade bar. Afterwards, she had me do, like, this weird kinky stuff in the alley, and I was pretty into it, and then she just suddenly stopped, and I have not heard from her sense. Okay. Are you ready for us to call her?

I would want to know it's been ready. Yeah. All right, here we go. She was so laughing. Sorry. Uh, hi. Hey. Hey. Is this Carolina? Uh, yeah.

Uh, this is the Jubal show. It's a radio show. My name's Jubal. How are you? Hi, I'm Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Hi. Do you listen to the show? I do, actually, yeah. Do you have any idea why we're calling you today? Um, not really. Okay. Have you heard a first?

date follow up before? Um, yeah, yeah. Mm-hmm. Well, that's why we're calling you. We got an email about you from somebody that you're ghosting. Okay, okay. His name is Shane. Oh my God.

Really? Yeah. Shane emailed us and told us about your date, and he said it's been three weeks since he heard from you, and he wants to know if you'll tell us why you're ghosting him. Um, okay. Um, I am ghosting him because I got what I want from him. I got what I want from him.

It wasn't, oh my God, I can't believe you actually called you guys. It wasn't a, like, was not a real date for me. It wasn't a real date? What does that mean? Okay, so I was literally just on Instagram. You probably told you that that's how we met. But I was scrolling and I saw him and I recognized him because he screwed over my sister in college. Oh, how so?

um my older sister elena and him were together and he was a total um just sleeping with anything that moved um just mind her making empty promises and all this crap and she was so oh my god i've never seen her more heartbroken it was ridiculous this was in college so you saw him on instagram and set up a date with him to get revenge yes oh so he He never met you when he was dating your sister. Like he had no clue who you were. No, no. I said that I told him that we went to college together.

He just went to college with my sister and I wasn't even like in the picture. But, I mean, he believed it. I guess he believed when he wanted to believe that a girl would want to go out with him. And yeah. Okay. Does your sister know that you did this? She knows now. She didn't know before the fact.

But I wanted to give it to her as kind of like a surprise because she's like, fine now. I mean, she's over him because he's garbage, but I and I wasn't even thinking about it. I just saw him on Instagram and I was like, oh, my God, I have to do this. So is that why you filmed him doing all kinds of weird things in an alley?

I was like, which part is revenge? Because it sounded kind of hot. He definitely seemed to think that it was because he was really into it. But that was for, yeah, that was for the revenge. I showed my sister the video. And we were cracking up about it.

It was so freaking funny. So it's a video of him doing a strip tease? Mm-hmm. And him saying, I wanted to make sure that I made him say that he was a piece of shit. He thought that that was, okay. He thought you were like, you know, that was your thing. Yeah, and I was like degrading him or whatever. Or that, like, you know.

Oh. Okay. You really got to think twice before you. For real. I don't know, anything. The next time someone pulls out their cell phone in an alley and wants to film doing weird things? I'm going to question it twice before I do it. He made it so

easy. He made it so easy. Thank you for being honest with us. Carolina, Shane is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh my God. Seriously? I honestly, I can't I can't believe what I'm hearing. Are you serious?

Yes. Carolina, this is psychotic. After I like, You just not really wanted to talk after what you did to my sister. This is just like, I mean, if you heard someone I love, like, seriously. That was years ago. You are seriously crazy for doing this. Oh, my God.

You're the one who would do whatever a girl tells you in an alley, so I don't really know, like, what. What are you talking? I was in college. Like, I'm a completely different person now. The fact that you did this whole thing. Sorry? Absolutely psychotic. Okay

Seriously You're gonna record me like that Who else has seen this video Oh my God Literally just me and my sister Calm the f*** down Why should I believe you? No honestly

Carolina I should get a lawyer Oh my God Oh my God Please What would you see though You were always overreacting Literally like chilled F out

What do you think You don't even know me No, I know what you're like. I know you did to my sister. How should I react to this? I mean, this is insane. I don't know. It's insane what you did to my sister.

You don't treat people like that. You have no idea and you're condescending your laugh. Like, oh my God. Absolutely. Whatever, man. It's just karma. It's just coming back around. You just can't handle it.

Karma. Okay, yeah, sure. Sure. Wow, you're a real pet. Seriously. I really missed out. Yeah, I mean, I guess you did. You're having fun. You're the one who did all who was so willing to do all this stuff in the alley with me. Like you didn't take any convincing. Yeah, because I thought I was on a real date. And it turns out that you're doing this revenge on me. This is absolutely crazy. Whatever. You just can't, you just can't take it. Don't dish it out then if you can't take it. Look, oh my God, I'm going to delete it anyway. I already sold my sister and I'm going to delete it after I show one of my co-workers.

You'll be hearing from me. Okay, cool. I'm getting legal advice about this. I'm serious. I'm dead serious. Okay, I'll hear from you on Instagram. I don't know if you can do anything, though. What does you say?

I willingly did a strip tease and now it's public? Yeah. I'm sorry, Shane. I know that sucks. On both sides? I don't know what to say here. Okay, I guess I won't do a video then. I'll just hold on to it in case I need to show it in court.

And it'll just entertain me until then. Well, Carolina, would you like another date with Shane? We'll pay for it. If you're paying for it, I'll just record him doing more stupid stuff. That's fine with me. You're going to hear from my lawyer. Okay, cool. You know what?

I'm glad I cheated on your sister. Oh. Is that a no, then second date for you guys? Yeah, no way in hell. Yeah, I don't think so. He obviously doesn't learn from his mistake. All right. Then bye then, stripper boy.

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than answers? Who catfishes a city? Is it even safe to snort human remains? Is that the plot of footloos? I'm comedian Rory Scoville, and I'm here to tell you, Josh Dean and I have a new podcast that celebrates the amazing creativity of the world's dumbest criminals. It's called Crimless, a true crime comedy podcast. Listen on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I know he has a reputation, but it's going to catch up to him.

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