First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - She got sick and ran out on this First Date Follow Up!

Episode Date: July 25, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".Everybody's been on a bad date once in their life, but have you ever been on a date so bad it actually made someone sick to their stomach? There is a guy on the phone where for his first date the girl acted sick and then ran out of the date!Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Have you called or texted or both? Or just a picture? Just pictures, Brian. Man, I've called, I've texted, I've sent messages on Instagram. Oh, all right. Yeah. So you've been trying really hard to get a hold of her. Yeah, man. Really beautiful lady. I had a really good time. Okay. Well, tell us about this really beautiful

lady and the wonderful time you had. Well, I met Krista and we went down to a neighborhood pizza bar. I thought we had a very good time. Great conversation back and forth. Good vibes. But she left pretty quickly. Her excuse was she had something to do in the morning. Okay. But I honestly think she was sick from the pizza. Oh. Because her face was really, like, her face was really pale. Oh. You know, when she rushed out. So you think that she was sick and she didn't want to tell you about it?

Yeah, and maybe it's my fault because I took her to the pizza bar and she got sick. And, you know, I just think that wasn't the case. Did she say anything about being sick or whatever? I just she wasn't feeling well but i don't know she said it was something in the morning but she never responded i i texted her to check on her i called her to check on her nothing no responses at all okay i mean i definitely think you did the right thing by you know just kind of letting her step out to go home because when you're not feeling well the worst thing is when someone says, are you okay?

For real. And then it's like, no, I'm dying. I got to go. Letting her leave peacefully, good for you. I wonder if she's lactose intolerant. Yeah, that could have done it. Did you ask her if she was lactose intolerant? I didn't.

I didn't. That would have been a better question. Yeah. Well, I'm sure she would say something. Or, you know, like the dairy-free icky cheese. Mm-hmm. You can tell. I mean, if somebody was lactose intolerant that bad, if they would get sick that quick,

they would definitely tell you. Or they would order, exactly, the nasty cheese, like you said, that doesn't taste at all like regular cheese. But as someone who is lactose intolerant, who has to eat that cheese once in a while, you bite into it and you pretend to like it because it has kind of the consistency of maybe cheese. Oh, God. Any other reason why you think she's not calling you back?

Man, I'm stumped. I really can't think of anything. Like I said, we had a great conversation, goodbye, joked around a little bit, so I thought the date went pretty good. Okay, and then how long were you guys talking before you actually went out with her? We had texted back and forth for almost like a week and a half. Okay.

You know, it was our first time meeting up, week and a half, almost two weeks. Okay. Other than her going from looking great the whole night to queasy, I don't know what happened. Okay. Did she seem like she was having a good time before? I mean, you said, yeah, we talked about stuff and whatever, whatever. But what about her made it seem like she was really liking it?

I've been out with a lot of people who didn't like me very much and they talked and had pizza and they left. Sometimes it could be like something that was brought up in the middle of the conversation too. Yeah. Conversations really didn't change. From how we were texting to actually get to the meetup, it didn't change at the table. I was thinking that we were making strides towards another date. Body language, other than wanting to puke. That body language you saw where she looked like she was sick and wanted to throw up.

Did it look like she was into you? Leaning into you? Playing with her hair? All those things that people say that people do when they like you. Yeah, the flirty stuff, you know, taking her top off. Yeah, I saw a few flirty things, you know,

the batting of the eyes, you know. She laughed at a couple of jokes that I know wasn't funny. Okay. That wasn't funny to me. That's a good sign. Okay, that can't always be the end-all, tell-all

or whatever the hell that is. Yeah, end-all, be-all. Yes, yes. Because I'm super shy on dates and I'm like cringey. It's just so awkward. Yeah, Alex does get awkward on dates. Alex and I are married. We're not going into that right now, Because I'm super shy on dates and I'm like cringy. It's just so awkward. Yeah. Alex does get awkward on dates.

Alex and I are married. We're not going into that right now, but I'm just saying. That's not the end of me all. Even our first date though, you know, like you laugh a lot, you smile a lot and stuff like that,

but even on our first date, you didn't really do much of that. I didn't. You were kind of like playing with your sunglasses, fiddling with the glass, like looking around and I was like,

I think she's nervous. Either that or she doesn't just want to look at me. Yeah, you freak. I don't know. I'm kind of getting the vibe that maybe she was into it and then got actually sick

during the day and that's kind of embarrassing, you know, but you also shouldn't blame yourself for that. It's not your fault she got sick. Yeah.

Okay. I guess. And that's the only reason you can think of that she's not calling you back and obviously you didn't kiss her or anything because she looked pale

and then ran out of the pizza place. Yeah. Did she book it out of there? Yeah. Did she actually run? No, she kind of spit at what? Yeah. Did she book it out of there or did she just walk? Yeah, did she actually run? No, she kind of spit, spit, what? Okay.

All right, yeah. Maybe she was sick then. Yeah. Okay, well, we'll play a song, man. The pops is making a clack, clack. Oh, no! Oh, my God! Then the clack, clack, clack, clack, clack

out of the pizza place. All right. Clack, clack, clack, clack, clack. We'll play a song and then call her and see if that is the reason or if it's something else and then we'll see if we can get you another date, all right? All right. All right, we'll play a song, come back her and see if that is the reason or if it's something else. And then we'll see if we can get you another date.

All right. All right. All right. We'll play a song, come back and do it next. Hey, Brian. Yeah. Can you do the sound again of what it sounded like when Kristen, the woman you went out with, who's not calling you back when she ran out of the pizza place?

What was the sound of her shoes again? It was like clack, clack, clack, clack. Clack, clack, clack. She said, I'm out of here. Clack, clack, clack, clack, clack. All right. So she clack, clacked out of your life and you haven't been able to get a hold of her. Brian went on a date with Kristen and they went to a pizza place.

He said that everything was going great until all of a sudden she looked kind of pale and then clack, clack, clack, clack, clacked out of the door. And she hasn't responded to any of his messages. It's been a week. He's tried to reach out to her three times through the phone and then a couple of messages on social media and has heard nothing. And the only reason you can think of that she's ghosting you is because maybe lactose intolerance right yes okay well i feel like she got sick and didn't want to tell but i really like her and i would really like to go on a date again all right cool well we'll call her right now let's do it yeah we'll see if we can get her on the phone and find out what happened

here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Kristen, please? This is Kristen. Hey, what's up, Kristen? This is The Jubal Show. It's a radio show. My name is Jubal.

My name is Alex. I'm Christian Gray Snow. How are you? Hello. How are you guys? Wonderful. Thank you for asking. Appreciate that.

Okay. So what's the call for? It wasn't just to tell you how we feel. But it was for Jubal. To ask you a question. All right. I'll get to the point. Recently, you went out with a guy on a date and now you're not calling him back. And we do a segment on the show where if you go out with someone and then ghost them after,

they can email us to get you on the phone and ask what happened. And you recently went out with a dude named Brian, right? Yeah. Okay. And now recently went out with a dude named Brian, right? Yeah. Okay. And now you're not calling Brian back. And he's trying to reach out to you. And he wants to know why. That's why we're on the phone.

Okay. Well, first off, we went to dinner. Oh, she's ready to name. Whoa, whoa, whoa. You really did not have a good time with Brian, it sounds like. First off, she said. Yeah. I don't know.

I have feelings. Okay. Sorry. Go ahead. First off, we went to dinner. And beforehand, he claimed he knew some delicious't know. I have feelings. Okay, sorry, go ahead. So first off, we went to dinner and beforehand he claimed he knew some delicious Italian restaurant

and he was all excited to take me. Okay. And we show up to this so-called restaurant and it was literally just a pizza joint. Oh.

What if it has like really good food? Yeah, exactly. This sounds like recently Alex and I are married, I don't know if you know that, but kind of same situation. I was like really excited

about this pizza place or Italian place. I'm like, oh, because in my mind, I remember it being very upscale and nice, but the food delicious. And then we got there was basically like one of those Italian bars that look like that. It looked like you just like one of the places where you stand in line. It looked like a Sparrow, basically. And then we were doing a date night and I'm like, oh, crap.

This isn't how I remember it at all. I was super excited, too. But the food ended up being good. So it saved the day. It didn't look like we just went out to the mall on a date. Well, you guys got lucky. Oh, okay. It wasn't good? So, like, all they served was

beer, pizza, and salad. So, what the f*** was that? I was way overdressed. Like, I was in a little black dress, orange pumps, curled my hair, thinking we're going out to this, like, bougie, nice restaurant. It was so f***ing awkward. Oh, man.

Yeah, that is kind of embarrassing. So he just made it seem like you guys were going to go on like a super romantic date and it just was like a pretty low key. Yeah, but I mean, it gets even worse. Like he showed up wearing jeans with flip flops, which is a total no, no. Like even in a laid back setting, like it just looks super tacky. Not how I'd want my man's dress at all. I've seen people wear jeans and flip-flops and pull it

off before, in 2007. Or a first date. It's a first date, yeah, unless you guys are at the beach or something, or it's Matthew McConaughey. He could do that. Alright, alright, let's get some pizza. If you've ever been to a place where you thought you were supposed to dress up and you walk in and you're the only dressed up person, if you own it

it's kind of fun. You're like, yeah, screw it. We showed up to this dive bar in tuxedos and that's fun, right? You can have fun with that but if he showed up dressed in flip flops and jeans and stuff like that, so then you're with that guy he's not on the same page as you at that point. Now you're just the weirdo who's all dressed up. Exactly. He could have told me it was

more low key and I wouldn't have worn a freaking dress and heels and curled my hair and did my makeup and everything. Like it was literally a dive bar. Is that why you ran out of the place? Like he said that you kind of just got up and then he described it as clacking out because of your shoes. Like clack, clack, clack, clack, clack. Yeah. That's why I left. I did not like his outfit. I thought he looked tacky. I didn't like how he told me we're going somewhere nice and he took me to a little bar like all of it together was not yeah it's not the dude for you that sucks yeah I feel bad for you and I feel bad for him it sucks to

be on either side of that because I've been there before in my life where I'm like I know that I'm not the right style you know you and I are married if you don't know that by the way we'll go to a five star restaurant in jeans but if you're both doing it, that's fine. That's fine, yeah. If you are.

I feel bad, actually, for the restaurant. I'm like, sorry, I'm underdressed. Next time we go out to any restaurant, I'm going to wear a tuxedo, and then you can wear jeans and flip-flops. You don't have a tuxedo. A tuxedo. Yeah, last time I had to wear a tie, I had to have my lawyer tie it for me in his office. So I obviously don't wear a tuxedo.

I also feel awkward. I also feel awkward because Brian is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh, yes. Oh, sorry. Oh, yeah. I forgot to tell you about that part. Hello. Hi, Brian.

First off, right, when I said I was going to a nice restaurant, that's one of the nicest in town. Now, I do admit, the flip-flops, I probably could have did away with those. I would never do that combination again. Jeans and flip-flops, never do it again. Like ever? Yeah, like I... Like ever. Ever.

But you look very beautiful. Aw, that's so sweet. Thank you. Just like a little cringe. And again, I thought we were going to some fancy place like that's the best pizza bar you'll ever eat you know so i really wanted to store a little bit of my favorite place like i wish you would have told me to dress casual because i'm walking through there like i'm shutting down a runway you did look good though like every head was starting to look at you so there we go i mean that's a plus thank you

but like i don't want every head turning the pizza bar i'm gonna try to stick out there so you look better than a pepperoni pizza okay all right that is all right you know what pizza is delicious everybody loves pizza that might be one of the nicest compliments i've heard you look better than a pepperoni pizza i'm saving that one that was a pretty good one okay but like honestly did you like him at all like if it was you know if he didn't wear the jeans and the flip-flops and yeah i did the outfit just really threw me off the place like well you know if you let me take you out again you know we can probably go to a fancier pizza place where they actually have like the little lettuce and avocados and you know all the anchovies and stuff on the pizza to make it real flat. And the thin crust comes out on a pretty platter.

You put the chairs in with the candles. I love him. You know? And then, you know, you dip your pizza in some type of semi-glade sauce, you know? And I even wear a top hat with a tuxedo. My top hat and tuxedo. And I could be the one that's feeling awkward this time.

Hey, what do you think then, Kristen? Would you like to go out on another date with Brian? We might pay for it. That sounds expensive though. I don't know. I mean, maybe.

Maybe. That's better than a no. Yeah. How do we get a yes? We have to know soon. All right, I guess, but it's a yes.

No more dive bars or false information. Or flip flops. Or flip flops. Yes. Promise me. Flip-flops are left at the beach. I promise you that will not happen.

Then I will go on a second date with you. Yay! Yay! Congratulations. That's what I like to do. You got a second date. Yeah, thank you all. Thank you so, so much.

This is so exciting. Now I got to find a suit to wear. The Jubal Show on demand. We're so done with New Year, New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's

because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will, too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. The Indicator is a podcast where daily economic news is about what matters to you.

And we're guessing most days that's money. Workers have been feeling the sting of inflation. So as a new administration promises action on the cost of living, taxes, and home prices. The S&P 500 biggest post-election day spike ever. Follow all the big changes and what they mean for you. Make America affordable again. Listen to The Indicator from NPR on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get podcasts. Hey everyone, it's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch,

right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends, like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean,

isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.