First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - She may have slept with someone he knows?!

Episode Date: August 15, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".Jess is on the phone for a First Date Follow Up and he is not getting a call back from Claire. He doesn't know really why he is not getting a call back, but in the middle of the date he noticed she started to push back! Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Join Bobby Bones on the official Yellowstone podcast Let's go to work. Listen to the official Yellowstone podcast now on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The Jubal Show on demand. First date follow-up. Jess is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and he's not getting a call back from Claire. Jess, I'm assuming Claire's probably got a lot of money. Why? Because Claire's in the mall? Yes, Claire's boutique. I was getting there. I was going to make a Claire's probably got a lot of money. Why? Because Claire's in the mall? Yes.

Claire's Boutique. I was getting there. I was going to make a Claire's Boutique joke. Lots of money out of piercing ears. Claire's Boutique. Yeah. Right. It doesn't really matter.

It's more about why Claire's not calling you back and let's figure that out. So first, Jess, first, how long has it been since your date with Claire? It's been about a week. Okay. About a week. About a week. And how many times have you reached out to Claire in that time? Let's see.

Twice. Just twice. Twice? All right. And you texted her? I did, yes. And she didn't respond at all? No.

What about social media? Social media? We didn't get each other's Instagrams. I just have her through Bumble, you know? Okay. So you met her on Bumble. Tell us about the date. Why do you think she's not calling you back?

I truly have no idea. I mean, I've been thinking about it. Maybe it was something I said. I mean, we went out to eat at Bumble. The conversation was really easy, and I was talking about things he talked on the date about right you know my friends and sports and all that um you know what though i could sense in the middle of the date i could sense her sort of pushing back so it must have

been something i said yes it must have been something I said. Yes. It must have been something that you said, or maybe something that you did. Yeah, and what do you mean by pushing back? She just got a lot quieter. I ordered kind of a lot of food, a couple appetizers, a meal, a dessert and stuff, and this is when the date kind of went south. She kind of just picked at her food

didn't really eat the dessert and so i i don't know i something happened to where she was turned off okay maybe she wasn't feeling well maybe she's a vegan maybe i don't know maybe she didn't like the food yeah and she's blaming it on you did you you invite her here? Did you bring her to that restaurant? Yeah, I mean, I suggested the place. Okay. Maybe she didn't. I don't know. But I thought that she would have liked me well enough to, like, still keep in touch and go out again.

Yeah, I mean, it would be pretty harsh if she didn't want to call you back just because she didn't like your selection of a restaurant. But, I mean, that could happen. Some people could be like that. But, I mean, I wouldn't want to go out with that person again if they didn't want to talk to me restaurant. But, I mean, that could happen. Some people could be like that. But, I mean, I wouldn't want to go out with that person again if they didn't want to talk to me because of the restaurant I took them to. Did you make her pay? That's true. No, no, of course not. Did you have to split the bill?

She had to pay for, like, a bunch of your food. Yeah, that would do it. No, I covered it. I told her this one was on me. Well, she did say, which I thought was kind of interesting, that I looked like someone she knew. She said it multiple times, too. She was like, are you sure? I don't know you.

You look so familiar. Oh, weird. And she said it in a way that she wasn't pleased about it. Oh, weird. Maybe she realized who you were. Maybe you guys had a bad past or something you don't remember about. You ever have a road rage incident recently

with somebody that looked like her? Maybe you cut her off in traffic for some time and she can't forget it. She looks out the window and sees your license plate. That was him. No, I mean, it's not my fault if I look like someone that she,

you know, doesn't like. It could actually be you, though. What if something happened and you don't even know about it? That'd be crazy. The odds of that would be insane. Or maybe bad case of the ex, you know, you might look like her ex. Oh, yeah. I'm sure you remind me of a girl, you know.

Yeah, that can happen, too. Like, you do, like, a little thing that reminds her of her ex. I wouldn't want to date with somebody like that be like uh you know i was gonna say that you'd be surprised what has happened on dates you know you say that would be whatever impossible or like the odds no yeah it could happen i mean you've heard but i've heard well i just i want to figure it out because I really liked her and I really would like to see her again. Okay. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and get your first date follow-up right after this.

Middle of your first date follow-up, if you're just joining us, Jess is on the phone and he's not getting a call back from Claire. They met on Bumble and they went out to just a normal American restaurant to have some burgers and chat. Jess ordered a bunch of appetizers did you order the dessert jess i didn't ask you that that's very important thing that i forgot to ask you you did say did you say dessert okay so it's not that i didn't ask i wasn't listening at that point in the conversation um they went out to eat though and then at a certain point her mood changed and she put she was sort of pushing back is how jess described it she just

didn't seem like she wanted to be there. One word answers. And the only things that Jess can think of being a reason that she's not calling him back is that maybe she didn't like the restaurant. And also, she kept saying that he reminded her of somebody. So it could be that he reminded her of someone that she never wants to see again. Or maybe she ran into Jess somewhere. Like he took her spot in line at the Apple store when she was waiting for a new iPhone or something. Rude.

And she never forgot. I don't know. But we'll try to figure it out right now. We're going to call her, get her on the phone, and see if we can find out why she's not calling you back. Jess, are you ready? I'm ready. All right, cool. I'm going to dial her phone number right now.

Here we go. Hello? Hi, is this Claire? Yeah, who's this? Hey, Claire, how are you? This is Jubal from the radio show The Jubal Show. Hi, Claire, this is Alex from The Jubal Show. It's a radio show called The Jubal Show. Hi, Claire, this is Bennett.

I am a producer on The Jubal Show. Okay, well, why are you calling me? We're calling you because we do a segment on the show called The First Date Follow-Up. It's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask what happened. So you recently went out on a date with a dude named Jess. Yes. Jess, you did.

Yes, I did. I'm hilarious, Claire. Thank you. So, Jess emailed us, though, and told us about your date. He said he liked you a lot, and he also said that you're ghosting him,

and he doesn't know why. Can you tell us? Oh. Um, well, um... This is awkward. Here, I'll tell you what he said, okay? He said that he thinks two things could have gone wrong on the date.

He thinks either you didn't like the restaurant so much that you didn't want to talk to him anymore because he took you there. And then he also thinks that maybe he reminded you of somebody that you don't like because you kept saying that he reminded you of somebody. No, none of those. But two weeks before our date, I ended up going on a date and sleeping with one of his friends. Oh, Kurt. And he had been talking about this person, and he has a very specific name that I won't mention.

And I was like, it has to be the same person you know people with unique names there's only one so I was like oh that's interesting do you have a picture of him and he showed me a picture and it was him and I just was like oh okay he said at a certain point you seemed like you were kind of over the date was that after you saw the picture and you're like, oh, weird? I just told him, oh, that's not the same person. And then I just stopped talking. And then I was like, this is awkward. And I just was trying to get through it.

But the other guy, he's such a jerk. And we slept together. After we slept together, I didn't want to continue it. And I just thought, oh, well, his friend must be a jerk. He's a jerk. Oh, did... Okay, so did...

Maybe not. Yeah, not necessarily. You know, some people are jerks. He's a jerk. Some people are nice and have friends that are jerks. Uh-huh. Well, I just didn't want it to be awkward

that I slept with his friend and then I was just like, I might as well just... Maybe he'll be into it. Maybe he'll think it's cool. Or not. Yeah, I don't know. I'm just saying, I might as well just thank you. Maybe he'll be into it. Maybe he'll think it's cool. Or not. Yeah, I don't know. I'm just saying, if you liked him, then, like, why not let him know that, you know, and then see where it could go.

Did you like Jess? Yeah. But, like, I slept with his friend. Don't you think that would be a turnoff? I mean, I would think so. For some people. Kind of, but, like, we all have a past, you know. Yeah, exactly. We're still, like, in would think so. For some people. Kind of, but like we all have a past. Yeah, exactly.

We're still like in the friend circle. I also don't really ever want to see this other guy again. So the fact that they're friends is not the greatest. That does make sense. Yeah. Well, I guess this is the point for me to let you know that Jess is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh my God. Surprise.

I mean, that uh pretty crazy would you be able to get over that if she went out with you again just theoretically oh well yeah yeah oh okay well men are defensive women definitely not all yeah this it happened before we met so i i can't hold it against you why do you have rude friends yeah she said your friend is a hole rude boy boy oh yeah he's totally i mean i actually i stopped talking to him like a week ago after something that he did really so not wow so hold on both you guys have broken up with your friend. That sounds like. Oh my gosh. As long as you're okay with it, you know, I didn't know how to bring it up.

And she's awkward and I don't know. No, I totally get it. Claire, would you like to go on another date with Jess? We'll pay for it. I mean, as long as now that both of you guys are single from Jess's a-hole of a friend, I don't see why you wouldn't. Well, are you guys, like, going to be friends again, do you think? Or is that, like, going to?

No, I mean, we're not friends anymore. If I see him around town, like, you know, every once in a while, I'll just believe that, no, we're not friends anymore. If I see him, if I see him around town, like, you know, every once in a while, I'll just believe that, no, we're not friends. I would choose you a million times over him. Aw. That's so sweet. Okay. Claire, would you like to go on another date with Jess?

We'll pay for it. I mean. Oh. Yeah. No hesitation. Yes. Congratulations, Jess. You got another date.

Woo! I'm so excited right now. Yep. Awesome. Thank you so much. Okay, let us know how it goes. Thank you. Yeah, absolutely.

And when you guys make it, when you guys finally kind of seal the deal, try not to think about your friend. Or have him as your best man at your wedding. Yeah, there you go. Stories for days. No. Oh, my gosh.

The Jubal Show on demand. We're so done with new year, new you. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes.

More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will, too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. Consider this is a daily news podcast, and lately, the news is about a big question. How much can one guy change?

They want change. What will change look like for energy? Drill, baby, drill. Schools? Take the Department of Education closer. Health care? Better and less expensive. Follow coverage of a changing country.

Promises made, promises kept. We're going to keep our promises. On Consider This from NPR. Listen on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get your podcasts. Calling all Yellowstone fans. Let's go to work. Listen on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get your podcasts. Yellowstone a cultural phenomenon. Our family legacy is this ranch. And I protect it with my life. Listen to the official Yellowstone podcast now on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.