First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Slow down, Charlie, you can't say that on the phone

Episode Date: June 23, 2023

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dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections. Tune in and join the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First date follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys online at advocateslaw.com. Charlie is on the phone today for a first date follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Mary. And I'm sorry for you, Charlie. I think Charlie and Mary is a cute name. It's also it sounds like it could be a sitcom name to Charlie and Mary, Charlie and Mary Thursdays on NBC. Anyway, Charlie, what's up, man?

Hey, guys. Thanks for having us. Thanks for coming on. So before we get into your date with Mary, how long has it been since you talked to her? It's probably been, I'd say, like a week at this point. And how many times have you tried to reach out to her? Like every day? Once every day?

Multiple times every day? At least twice a day i'd say that feels like a lot man it probably is a lot but i think i probably started doing it more in the last few days because it's like probably the opposite of what i should have been doing really so how did the date go I thought I weren't great I mean we uh we just went to like a bar and we had uh dinner and we were talking the whole time and I got a really good vibe from her that she loved it and yeah I mean it was honestly one of the best dates I've ever been on so I I'm really clueless as to what's going on here okay well tell us about the date all right yeah so uh well first off we you know we met on tinder who tinder um and then we uh we

chatted for a while and then we decided uh like we even talked on the phone a bit and then like yeah let's you know let's let's do this so i picked this this bar that i really like it's usually a winner um and then we had dinner and she told me she enjoyed all of it which I could kind of get that vibe and honestly like we drank oh well we pretty much closed the bar down is how the date went which is already like usually a great sign and then even better was I walked her out to her car and I was you know keep myself contained to the best of my ability didn't want to you know make make too crazy of a move but we did make out a little bit and uh

which was again another home run and then she said she would text me uh when she got home which she actually when she got home she didn't text me she called me she called me and then we spent literally like two little over two hours just talking on the phone and it was honestly so much fun which is great it's just like a great you know nightcap to the to a date and then uh before she hung up she said she'd call me the next day um and we decide like where to go from there. And yeah, that was a week ago. It seems like she was into you, but you said you closed the bar down. So like on a scale of one to 10, how wasted were you guys?

Yeah, like eight and a half. Okay. So is there anything in that eight and a half part of the date that you can remember something happening that might've turned her off? I've been honestly trying to remember for like so many hours of the date that you can remember something happening that might have turned her off? I've been honestly trying to remember for so many hours of the day. I'm just like, what did I do? But I can't really grasp anything.

No, no, no. I really feel like it went well and I didn't make a fool of myself, I don't think. So, yeah, I got nothing. Is there anything from that phone call that could have been a flag? I definitely did get a little forward in the phone call and, like, you know, said, like, ooh, like, next time. Like, it's just, you know, it's going to rock your world or, you know, something stupid probably like that, honestly. Yeah, I did get a little dirty in the call and that might have done me in. Maybe.

And you've heard nothing back from her and you've texted her almost every day for a week. Yeah. I haven't heard anything back. No responses. And the last thing I pretty much was saying was dirty talk. So, you know, that might have done me in. Yeah. I mean, you know, I've been there.

I've been in your shoes and I felt the same way. I was like, that probably is what did it. And I know I never got an answer. So I'm glad you're doing this so we can find out together. I'll just take your answer as mine now too. We'll play a song, come back and then call her and see why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date in your first day follow-up. Okay. Awesome. Thank you guys. All right, man, we'll do it next. First date follow-up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. A little bit of drunk, dirty talk might be what did Charlie. And if you're just joining us for your first date follow-up, Charlie is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by a woman named

Mary for about a week now and he doesn't know why. And we're about to call her, get her on the phone and ask her and then maybe get him another date if he still wants one. Charlie, before we give Mary a call, why don't you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Mary? Yeah, sure, so, met on Tinder, went to a bar, had a great time, closed down the bar, made out at her car, and then when she got home, she called me, we already talked a little bit,

and I haven't heard from her since, so that's pretty much where I'm at. Okay, all right, we're gonna dial her up right now. Are you ready, Charlie? I don't know, Let's do it. Okay. Here we go. Hello?

Hi, may I speak to Mary, please? Yeah, this is her. Who's calling? Mary, how are you? My name is Jubal. I host a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Mary. My name's Nina please? Yeah, this is her. Who's calling? Mary, how are you? My name is Jubal. I host a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi, Mary.

My name's Nina. I'm on the show, too. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Why are you guys calling me? Have you ever listened to the show before? Are you guys calling about Charlie? You're answering a question with a question, but I'll just go ahead and answer your question. Yes, we are.

Oh, my gosh. Okay. How'd you know? Yeah, how did you know? but I'll just go ahead and answer your question. Yes, we are. Oh my gosh, okay. How'd you know? Yeah, how did you know? Why else would a radio show be calling me if it's not some like date thing? You could have won a prize. I didn't apply for anything though. Okay, good point.

Anyway. It is one of those. We do a segment called the first date follow-up where if you go out on a date with somebody and end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. And Charlie emailed us about your date. He said he really liked you, but he doesn't know why you're not getting back to him.

Oh, I mean, I, okay. I like to think like the bar and the dinner was cool. And you know, I, I did really like talking to him he's he's pretty sexy he just like really cut me off like later when we got home when I got home what happened well so I was gonna text him just to say I had a really great time after I got home but I accidentally slipped with my hand and I accidentally hit call so he picked up before I even realized

what happened and then he just started talking to me that's usually what happens when people call people yeah he just kept talking a lot so I just kind of joined in that conversation like no harm no foul like i did really like talking to him so then what went wrong

this is where it got weird i mean he started like kind of getting into dirty territory it was kind of just like a little bit abrupt like i kept trying to deflect it but he just kept pushing and pushing and pushing and then he just wanted phone sex it was oh wow so he like he wasn't just like a little bit oh you didn't tell us that part no i mean i know we both had a few drinks but he just kept being very graphic and it really kind of freaked me out oh god i do not remember being that bad mary that was actually charlie he's actually on the line listening wants to talk to you no no no wait i'm i'm really so that is i didn't know i was that i knew i was like it got bad but not like that bad like again i, I think I was way more drunk than you were.

And you were just like, I'll be honest, your voice is really sexy. You were just really hot and really sexy. And I was very drunk, and we'd already made out. So I was feeling really, really good. So I sincerely apologize. That's super embarrassing. I don't remember being that bad. But if I was, I'm very sorry.

Charlie, you were asking for some weird stuff, okay? We don't have to go into it. We don't have to do that. You know, we can just forget that. I'm sorry. I'll just apologize. I don't even remember what I asked for. Look, I was really drunk.

I promise I'm not into any of that weird stuff. I'm not a psycho. I was really hammered and you was really drunk. I promise I'm not into any of that weird stuff. I'm not a psycho. I was really hammered and you were really hot. And that was just how it was. Hey, you know what? That's honest. Yeah.

Charlie, do you remember any of the things that you were saying? I think it might have involved peanut butter. What? What? I don't know. Yeah, a few different condiments, actually. What? I don't know. Yeah, a few different condiments, actually. What? Charlie, what were you asking for?

This is a call I want to get. I was drunk and hungry at the time, I guess, so... Yeah, I'm sorry. I mean, it was entertaining, but I just wasn't expecting to get that, you know, close that quickly. Yeah, no, I wasn't either. So I do, again, I apologize. I was not in the right mental state at the time. And again, you're very attractive.

And to be fair, I'm actually allergic to peanut butter. So I don't know why I was even remotely bringing that up. Yeah. Hives sounds pretty bad. I don't want to have to take you to the ER. Yeah, so let's avoid that. So I promise that would never happen if, you know, you ever wanted to go out again. Mary, would you like to go out with Charlie on another date?

We'll pay for it. No condiments. Yeah, if there's no condiments. I mean, also, who has phone sex anymore? Nina's face. I'm sorry. Look, again, I was way too drunk. We made out in the parking lot.

You're hot. I was getting way out of my zone. Yeah, just text me goodnight. Okay, like we don't need all of that. That's old school, okay? And the condiments are a little too much. It's also exciting, but that's okay.

Agreed. Look, if you go out with me again, I promise you I will not phone sex, dirty talk, condiments, peanut butter, any of that nonsense, I promise. I'm hiding the lip cream. All right. So is that a yes, Mary?

Yeah. Sweet. Yes. Congratulations, Charlie. You got another date, man. Oh, my God. This is a first for me. Thank you.

Jubal's first date follow-up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out,

like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back at The Daily Show, and he's bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears with The Daily Show Ears Edition Podcast. Dive into Jon's unique take on the biggest topics in politics,

entertainment, sports, and more. Joined by the sharp voices of the show's correspondents and contributors. And with extended interviews and exclusive weekly headline roundups, this podcast gives you content you won't find anywhere else. Ready to laugh and stay informed? Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. Tune in and join in the conversation.

Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.