First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Sophie & Chris - the Ex’s Bestie

Episode Date: November 20, 2024

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Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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You'll hear from Bloomberg journalists like Matt Levine. A lot of this meme stock stuff is, I think, embarrassing to the SEC. Follow the Big Take podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen. People, my people, what's up? This is Questlove. Man, I cannot believe we're already wrapping up another season of Questlove Supreme. Man, we've got some amazing guests lined up to close out the season. But, you know, I don't want any of you guys to miss all the incredible conversations we've had so far.

I mean, we talked to A. Marie, Johnny Marr, E., Jonathan Schechter, Billy Porter, and so many more. Look, if you haven't heard these episodes yet, hey, now's your chance. You gotta check them out. Listen to Questlove Supreme on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome. My name is Paola Pedrosa, a medium and the host of the Ghost Therapy Podcast,

where it's not just about connecting with deceased loved ones. It's about learning through them and their new perspective. I think God sent me this gift so I can show it to the world. And most of all, I help people every single day. Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First date of follow-up, powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys, online at advocateslaw.com. Sophie is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and she's getting ghosted by a guy named Chris. So in a few minutes, we're going to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date.

But first, Sophie, how are you? Hi, I'm good, all things considered. How long has it been since you heard from Chris? It's been about two weeks now, so a good chunk of time, honestly. Have you been trying to get a hold of him? I was, but then I didn't want to seem crazy, i kind of i kind of tapered off and now i'm texting you guys they're calling you guys okay great well let's talk about it how did you meet chris like how was your date um so everything was really great i mean he the only weird thing is he

is best friends with my ex and um we matched on hinge and i kind of was like and i saw him and i've always thought he was really cute and a nice guy but I ended up swiping on him just to see it's like a social experiment. We ended up matching. So yeah and I was like we were like haha this is so weird but

we really hit it off and we ended up moving off of Hinge and texting phone calls and then about two weeks ago we actually went on a first date. Okay and he's your friend's best friend that was already his ex is your ex's best friend yeah so you knew him before then while you were with your ex i knew who he was yeah i'd known him for a bit like we'd always been friendly and it was never it was like he was just you know my ex's good friend and so i saw him quite a bit but it was never, it was like, he was just, you know, my ex's good friend. And so I saw him quite a bit, but it was never anything romantic. Did you guys talk about that before you decided to go on a date?

Yeah, we definitely like, you know, talked about the elephant in the room. And we were like, is this really weird? Is this like messed up? And we were like, no, we're adults. Like we can, we can do this. Why don't we go on a date and see if it is really weird? So that's what we decided to do um well how'd it go it was honestly like one of the best first dates i've ever had um

we went to this arcade and we were playing games and we got wings and shots and i just like felt like a kid again and i mean i was drinking shots as a kid, but you know. Right, right, right. Squeeze its first shot. Got it. Yeah, exactly. Sugar, you know, was a drug at that time. And then we kissed at the end of the night and it was actually really hot. But then he was like,

I don't know. I just feel really weird about Kyle. That's my act. I'm gonna call him and just let him know. And I was kind of resistant, honestly. I was like, I don't think weird about Kyle. That's my ex. I'm going to call him and just let him know. And I was kind of resistant, honestly. I was like, I don't think you need to do that, but go ahead. Go for it. And he was like, okay, I'm going to. And I guess something must have happened in that conversation

because everything was great, and then he said he was going to call Kyle and has not responded to my texts. My calls have completely ghosted me. Anything else you can think of other than your ex's best friends with him? I mean, I think that's a pretty big thing. So I don't know. I don't think anything else happened. Like, it was a really great date.

So something must have happened in that conversation. And it makes me sick to my stomach. Well, how would that conversation even go? Like, I don't even know how I would feel if, like, my friend me was like hey i'm dating your ex is that okay how would you handle that jubile oh i'd be fine with it but then again that's just how i am i'd be like yeah cool whatever you know unless unless it was an ex who was like dude like good luck oh shoot speed sophie do you got got something to tell us about your last relationship? No, I really don't.

Yeah, I'm trying to think. It wasn't a great breakup. It was fairly amicable, and it was a while ago. I don't really have any hard feelings towards him. Yeah. Okay. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you. Play a song, come back, and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you

and maybe get you another date, all right? Okay. That sounds great. Thanks, guys. Yep. Play a song, come back, and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, all right? Okay, that sounds great. Thanks, guys. Yep. Play a song, come back, get your first day follow-up next. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, and I'm exhausted. But turns out the end is near, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. This podcast is for people like me who need a little perspective and insight. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Van Jones, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, even though these days fun and politics seems like an oxymoron. But we'll do that thanks to some of my friends

like Samantha Bee, Roy Wood Jr., and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Power to the podcast for the people. So whether you're obsessed with the news or just trying to figure out what's going on, Isn't that what democracy is all about? Power to the podcast for the people. So whether you're obsessed with the news or just trying to figure out what's going on, this season of Next Question is for you. Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. right in the middle of today's first day follow-up if you're just joining us sophie is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a guy named chris so in a second we're going to call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date but

first sophie why don't you refresh our memory on your date with chris yeah i mean it was a really great day because it was really fun really hot but um he is i mean he is my you know ex's best friend so he's like i'm just gonna call and give him a heads up because he's my friend and after that i guess i've just not heard from him in two weeks so something must have happened in that conversation yeah yeah all right probably told him not to see you, right? Yeah. Well, let's see. Are you ready for us to call him? Yes, but I'm also so scared. Okay, here we go. Hello?

Hi, may I speak to Chris, please? This is Chris. Chris, what's up? Chris, please? This is Chris. Chris, what's up? How are you? This is Jubal. I'm from a radio show called The Jubal Show. Yeah, hi, Chris. I'm Nina, also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Okay, we're in a radio group chat or something? Yeah, that's what you can call it.

Yeah, have you ever listened to the show before? Yeah, I have. Well, have you ever heard a first aid follow-up before? Yeah, I was wondering why you were calling me because I'm like, I've heard the show, but I didn't fill out any like, you know, contest anything. Somebody emailed us about you because the first aid follow-up is a segment where if you go out on a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.

And we got an email about you. Do you know who it would be from? I'm probably, yeah. Who? It's probably Sophie, right? It is Sophie. You want to tell us why you're ghosting her? I mean, well, I don't know what she told you, but, I mean mean we went out but she's we matched up online and long story short she

dated my best friend for quite some time and they broke up i wouldn't want somebody going out one of my buddies going out with my ex right but i thought okay well you know kyle's not like me pal's probably cool with it so we went out out and, and it was, everything was great. Um, but just at the end of the night, I just, you know, felt like,

I really need to say something to Kyle just to make sure. So I called him up and I know what I thought. Kyle was like, yeah, go ahead. Do whatever you want. Okay. He seemed to not have a problem with it. Um um but he didn't tell me that our other buddy

uh robbie ran into sophie uh recently and took her home that night wait so so now like i'm just you know that's that's a that's a little too much like i know kyle's cool and i can deal with that but if she's like if she's trying to work her way through a crew to get back at kyle i don't know what's going on so i just i just kind of stepped back okay did you think to ask her about that or you're just like nah i'm out no just at that point i'm like look i don't know i don't even know what the situation was i'm not sure if she's like purposely trying to get with with kyle's buddies or or or what the deal is but i'm just like now that that's two of my friends there she's been with i'm i just okay well thank you for being honest with us and she's also been with us actually this whole time

she's on the phone listening and wants to talk to you oh well you didn't tell me that. Sorry about that. I forgot about that part. Sophie? Yeah, what the hell? That's not true at all. Yeah, you could have asked me because I would have told you right then and there.

That's a complete lie. That's not true. You didn't go home with Robbie the other night. I mean, why would Kyle lie? Why would Robbie lie? I mean, we've known each other since we were kids. They're not going to lie to me. Yeah, well, I think Kyle, this is just showing how manipulative and controlling Kyle can be. Because, yeah, Robbie did take me home. It was right after the breakup. I was definitely a mess. Like, I was, like, crying. I was wasted.

Robbie was at the same bar as me. And, yeah, he did take me home to my own house. We didn't do anything. He just, he gave me a ride because I should not have been driving in that state. So, like, that was, yeah, that's a complete lie and it really kind of pissed me off, honestly.

I think you should have mentioned that if you didn't. Like, saying you took a girl home is very different than, oh, I took a girl at home. I literally took her to her house and dropped her off. He meant to say it like that. He 100% meant to say it like that. I know Kyle, and that's just really frustrating. So he would say that knowing what the truth was, but was just trying to plant.

That's actually messed up. Yeah, it's very messed up twist the word there but Sophie are you sure Robbie did like Robbie come in your house like was there anything did he make any moves on you or was it just completely innocent it was called Robbie right now and ask him like yeah

nothing happened so I'm sure that when Robbie told Kyle that he took you home, Kyle just naturally assumed that Robbie's a player. He's a dog. That's what he does. He chases honeys like it's his job.

So, right. Like we just assume that if Robbie's with a girl, he's, he's gone there, right? That's how, that's how he is,

has been since we were kids. So Kyle might have actually thought something hooked up, but I'm not going to that if kyle knew otherwise he wouldn't still try to maybe make it seem that way that is kind of how it can be a real jerk like that sometimes i'm not gonna argue i mean yeah there you go i was gonna say wow you are really in kyle's corner here why don't you two date like you're very much like defending him um him. Um, I, yeah. Of course I'm gonna defend him. We've been boys since school bus riding

days. I'm gonna defend him. Of course, but you could have called me. You could have called me or texted me and been like, hey, I heard this. And I would have immediately told you. I guess now I'm really hurt that you just sort of assumed the worst of me. Like, I'm, like, trying to get through the friend group. Um, I almost didn't even, you know, swipe right on you.

Like, I almost, you know, because I didn't want to have that impression, now at this point I'm just, like, very upset, and I don't even know how I'm giving you a second chance. I thought you were different. We both know Robbie kind of is like, yeah, I took her home and sort of, like, lets that sort of innuendo sit there, and I think Kyle knows like, yeah, I took her home and sort of like let that sort of innuendo sit there. And I think Kyle knows that too, so I think the two

kind of work to his advantage and sort of why do you be a little manipulative about that. Yeah, I mean, we all know Robbie's like, oh yeah, I took her home. I took her home. We're like, haha, okay. We made like a drinking game about it at one point, I think. I was going to say,

you know as well as I do that when Robbie is with a girl, that's pretty much what happens. That's how it rolls. I mean, like, it sounds like you're really into Robbie because it sounds like, you know, you couldn't do anything except sleep with him because he's just such a,

he's just so irresistible. What? Yeah, I mean, I don't even know how to respond to that, honestly. I'm not I mean, whatever. I mean, that's fine. Maybe I will hook up with Robbie. He's probably a better kisser than you were anyway. Oh, wow. Okay, well, Chris,

would you like to go out with Sophie on another date? We'll pay for it. No, I don't think so. I don't think so at all. Yeah, I'm not here for this all. Yeah. Yeah, I'm not here for this one. At least you found out why you're getting ghosted. Yeah. Hey, closure is I want a closure either way

so I'm not mad about that. Maybe just stay away from that group. Yeah, yeah. I think I'm done. Alright, well make sure to give, you know, Robbie another kiss from me. Oh wait, I never kissed him All right, well, make sure to give, you know, Robbie another kiss for me. Oh, wait, I never kissed him. So, well, bye.

Jubal's first date follow-up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show, ears edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The forces shaping markets and the economy are often hiding behind a blur of numbers. So that's why we created The Big Take from Bloomberg Podcasts, to give you the context you need to make sense of it all.

Every day in just 15 minutes, we dive into one global business story that matters. You'll hear from Bloomberg journalists like Matt Levine. A lot of this meme stock stuff is, I think, embarrassing to the SEC. Follow The Big Take podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen. People, my people, what's up? This is Questlove. Man, I cannot believe we're already wrapping up another season of Questlove Supreme. Man, we've got some amazing guests lined up to close out the season, but you know, I don't want any of you guys to miss all the incredible conversations we've had so far. I mean, we talked to A. Marie, Johnny Marr, E., Jonathan Sheckner, Billy Porter, and so many more.

Look, if you haven't heard these episodes yet, hey, now's your chance. You've got to check them out. Listen to Questlove Supreme on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome. My name is Paola Pedrosa, a medium and the host of the Ghost Therapy Podcast, where it's not just about connecting with deceased loved ones. It's about learning through them and their new perspective. I think God sent me this gift so I can show it to the world. And most of all, I help people every single day. Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.