First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Sophie doesn't like liars.

Episode Date: October 9, 2023

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So in a little while, so in just a few minutes, we're going to call Sophie and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But before we do that, Thomas, how long has it been since you heard from Sophie? It's been about four days. Okay, that's not too bad. You sure you're getting ghosted? I have sent a few messages and I haven't heard back.

So at this point, I do think I'm getting ghosted. Okay, well, let's hear about your date. How did that go? So in my mind, it went pretty well. I think we had some drinks and appetizers. We got to know each other a little bit and it was good overall. There was one moment where we I don't even want to call it an argument, but we did have a little like heated back and forth for a minute. So that's why I'm thinking that's what it probably was if i were to guess okay well let's get to the heated back and forth in just a second how'd you get there oh we were just

we were just getting kidding like getting food i picked her up and we went and uh yeah just got some food and drinks and it was pretty low-key so what was the heated debate about then so we were going through uh we were talking about my dating profile and stuff and she kept just being like uh so what's your real height or or so what's your real job and i'm like what do you it's right here like i already said it uh for some reason she didn't believe me uh it seemed like she didn't believe me and so it just got kind of uh back and forth but once i cleared it up i feel like uh everything for the rest of the night was was good and we had fun was she joking or she actually legit didn't believe you it seemed like

she she didn't believe me if she didn't believe you that wasn't you a you problem like i think that that would just mean that she'd been lied to and those apps had been leading her astray many times before you so you know i guess it would depend on how you responded to that. So you yelled back or what? What did that sound like? Yeah, no, I don't think I wasn't trying to. I wasn't yelling back or anything, but I think after the second time, I'm kind of like, so what's your real? I was kind of like, well, this is my real job.

Like these are these is what I do. That was my I'm not lying. I might have sounded a little more intense. So that's why I was saying it wasn't really an argument. It was just kind of like a heated thing for a second. I mean, can I ask, was there like your height, exact height? I don't know. Some guys lie about their height.

I have to ask. It's there. I don't do that. I put my real height on there. I put my job on there. That's cool that you're out here telling the truth. I think that that's understandable and not understandable, but

we respect that. Are you a shorter dude? I'm six foot flat. Oh. I don't think it was the height. I don't think it was the height here. Was there anything else that happened on the date that may have caused a little bit of, I don't want to say tension, but I was going to say friction, but usually friction could be a good thing. That's a good word. She kind of asked

for it. She kind of walked right into friction. Maybe she's one of those people that gets turned on by arguments. Oh yeah. You know how some people are into that and they like like a heated debate. So maybe if you engaged for a minute and then diffused it, maybe she got bored. That would be really sad and that would be a flag on your side if this was true yeah but maybe interesting how did things end with you guys um it was pretty good we we we hugged we didn't kiss but uh it wasn't it didn't feel like things were bad it felt like

at that point the the energy had kind of turned around and the vibes were back up. Did she say anything about future plans like, you know, when you guys parted ways? I said, I'll text you and she said, alright. Okay. Well, and you've heard nothing in four days. So, we'll play a song, come back, and then call her.

See if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date, alright? Awesome, thank you. Alright, play a song, come back, get your first date. All right. Awesome. Thank you. All right. Play a song. Come back. Get your first day. Follow up next. We're so done with new year, new you this year. It's more you on Bumble.

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Yeah, so Sophie and I met on one of the dating apps. We ended up going out for drinks and appetizers. It was a pretty good time overall. At the beginning, we were going over my dating profile, and she was pointing out some things that she thought thought were maybe i was lying about but i wasn't and so they got kind of a little tension there for a moment but after that it was all right but i haven't heard from her since so hoping to just clarify that up with her and have another date all right well you ready for us to call her yes okay here we go Hello? Hi, may I speak to Sophie please? Speaking, who's this? Sophie, hi, how are you? My name is Jubal and I host a radio show, it's called The Jubal Show. Hi Sophie, I'm Nina, also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Hi.

Hi everyone. So there's three people on the phone with you, how I'm Victoria. Hi. Hi, everyone. Three people on the phone with you. How are you? I'm good. There's so many of you. What's up? We do a segment on the show. It's called the First Date Follow-Up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them,

that person can have us get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. You're currently actively ghosting somebody, I think. Okay. And his name is Thomas. Okay. And you went out with him a couple days ago? Yeah,

I think it was like, I don't know, like four or five days ago or something. And he says you haven't talked to him since you guys have gone out, so we're wondering if you would tell us why you're ghosting him. Yeah, I mean, I'm just like really awkward about sending the text it's like i'm not interested um so i just avoid doing that um on our date he like we got into like a fight um and i just feel like if you get into like a fight on your first date like it's probably not gonna work out what was the fight about it was just like a couple things like he was just being super cagey about like his profile because like he you know on his profile i think he said he was like six feet and like he's not six feet and so i was just like oh like so what's your real height and he was just

like i'm six feet and i'm just he's not um and so that was weird and he got really like defensive about it and then i was like asking him about his job because like that's what you do on a first date um but he just like kept deflecting and like not answering my questions which i thought was super weird and he kept like laughing at me when i was getting like frustrated and like saying it was cute but like i wasn't trying to be cute i was getting frustrated so yeah i mean i just think he's like i don't know i'm not i'm not into it okay so you guys were legit arguing because he told us a little bit about your date and that part sounded like it might have been a playful thing to me.

It wasn't playful. Not for me. Like I was getting like he thought he seemed to think it was fun, but like I wasn't having fun because it's like I don't like having people like kind of lie to me. And I'm just like, I don't even know if his job like is his job. I don't know. I was sketched out. So you didn't get the vibe that he was lying to you before you went on the date? It was when you got there and saw him that you felt like he was lying?

Yeah, well, because like before we had just been like texting and stuff and like messaging through the app and stuff and like he was fine. And then when I met him in person, like I guess he had more time to like be weird about things. I don't know. He seemed fine before. So what made you feel like he was lying about his job? I don't know. Like just with the job thing, it's like, I don't know. He seemed fine before. So what made you feel like he was lying about his job? I don't know. Just with the

job thing, it's like, I don't know. Answering a question with a question is weird. So you just felt like he wasn't truthful with you? Yeah, I mean, he definitely I would be literally shocked if he was truthful at all. Okay, well, let's ask him because

now I have to be truthful. Sophie, Thomas is on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. Hey, Sophie. This is really awkward. I know. I just, hold on, because I feel like maybe I wasn't clear at dinner and stuff, but I was not lying about those things.

And it seems like you still feel like I was lying. First of all, sorry if I said all that stuff about you uh it seemed like you were lying and I just weirded me out I'm sorry in my opinion I was like oh great like good we we had a good first conversation that like we're at least like expressing expressing ourselves and being honest. I don't know. I felt like that was a good way to start our relationship. I wasn't lying.

Yeah, we don't lie. I just feel like I feel stuck in a corner because it feels like there's nothing I can say that will make you believe me. Well, what do you consult on? I mean, just various businesses hire me. Okay, that... You guys, come on.

That's like, what is that? Okay, well, that's cool. So what did you consult on on your last job? It was a construction business. Okay. Okay. What did you consult with them? Like, what do you do specializing in construction?

Just sort of coding and just general, like, permit stuff. Yes, I mean, it's like you didn't really answer anything about anything so it's like what project are you working on right now right now i'm in between projects okay so what was your last project the one that just finished it was it was for an updating like a subway station what i mean people really do this does this sound like that's I can see Sophie's side on this Thomas you're not giving enough detail to make it sound convincing

really I mean the truth is I work for what was my dad's company and I still you know I've taken over a lot of responsibility but I feel like maybe that's something I've been hesitant to say because it's not like I built it myself. I think that's fair. Also, maybe there doesn't need to be that much pressure on your job on a

first date. Yeah. Okay, fine. Okay. So, all right. But like, what about the height? Like, how tall are you actually? When I go to the doctor, they say I'm six foot flat. Are you paying them to say that? You're not. Hey, if you want to go on another date, you can measure me. Oh, there you go. Sophie, would you like to go on another

date with Thomas? We'll pay for it and then you can measure him. No? I don't want to measure him. I don't want to do that. I don't want to do that. Okay. No, there's absolutely no way. They don't sound that compatible, to be honest. They're not.

Okay. Well, thank you for being honest. Thank you for thanking me. Well, it's your loss because, yeah, you could have measured me in more ways than one. Oh. Jubal's first day follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorney. Online at advocateslaw.com.

Ugh, we're so done with New Year, New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will, too.

Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. The Indicator is a podcast where daily economic news is about what matters to you. And we're guessing most days, that's money. Workers have been feeling the sting of inflation. So as a new administration promises action on the cost of living, taxes, and home prices. The S&P 500 biggest post-election day spike ever. Follow all the big changes and what they mean for you. Make America affordable again. Listen to The Indicator from NPR

on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get podcasts. I'm so sick of hearing men talk about women's basketball. This is Lexi Brown. And Mariah Rose. And we've got a new podcast. Full Circle. Every Wednesday, we're catching you up on what's going on in women's basketball. We've got you with analysis, insight stories, and a little bit of tea.

Full Circle is an iHeart Women's Sports production in partnership with Deep Blue Sports and Entertainment. Listen to Full Circle on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Presented by Elf Beauty, founding partner of iHeart Women's Sports.