First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Tank & Jenna - No Pushovers

Episode Date: April 4, 2024

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Yeah, no, Tank is my real name. My parents were in the military. That's cool. That is cool. It also could be a little intimidating, just saying. It's been a weird day, but it's fine. All right. Well, we're about to see if we can figure out why you're getting ghosted by Jenna and Intimidating, just saying. It's been a weird day, but it's fine. All right.

Well, we're about to see if we can figure out why you're getting ghosted by Jenna and maybe get you another date if you still want one. First, before we get into everything, how long has it been since you heard from her? I feel like it's been about a week. We can begin a couple of days. Not that I'm counting the days, but I feel like it's been about nine days. Yeah. Okay. Not that I'm counting, but exactly nine days. Yeah. And in in that time how many times have you tried to reach out to her um i did the i did the thing where you wait like a couple days at first and then i and i it was like about three

days and then i tried the day after that then i wanted to give it another day and then i waited another day and i still just haven't heard anything. I don't know what's going on. Tell us about your date then. Well, first of all, it was great. You know, we, um, we met on Tinder and we, uh, took it to the next step. So we've been chatting on Snapchat for a while, like about a week. And, uh, you know, we just wanted to make sure that neither of us were crazy. And, um, we decided to meet up and, you know, we exchanged pics of each other and so we can, you we could not be catfished, I guess, and it was great. It was really, really nice.

We decided to meet up, and we went to a coffee shop. First of all, when I saw her, it was so great because she's more beautiful than the pictures were. She's really, really beautiful. She's really nice and talkative, and she kind of had everything, so I was really, really beautiful. She's really nice and talkative. And she just, she kind of had everything. So I was really, really excited. Our plan was to, you know, have a cup of coffee, take a long walk throughout the city and then have dinner. And we did, we did the coffee, but then all of a sudden she was like, she said she had to be back. She had to go somewhere and

come right back. And I was like, Oh, like oh okay it'll probably be a lot like 10 15 minutes or something like that but uh i ended up waiting there for about an hour and a half what yeah i was it was like it's like that's like the length of a movie so i was just it was weird but then she came back after the hour and a half for an hour and a half you didn't question that i kind of did but then i was like i thought maybe something may have happened something maybe she got hurt or something so i just wanted to you know who knows you know so um i uh waited and then she came back and then we went to dinner and the date kind of continued but that's the thing the date continued and the dinner was good you know we even kissed at the end it was great so now i'm like well i don't really know what

happened when she came back did you say anything of why she was gone for an hour now yeah did she tell you where she was i asked her and she said she said she just had a bunch of stuff to handle and things kind of got on top of each other. And she's kind of apologetic about it. But, you know, she seemed earnest. And I was just like, well, I guess it must have been something really personal. So she would tell me if she really needed to tell me. But I was a little concerned. She took a recess.

Oh, Tank, bless you. That's really nice of you to be patient like i'm sure she appreciated it but also what i'm surprised you were there he's still there isn't that kind of flaggy to you tank yeah i mean it is i didn't feel great about it but i mean then she came back and like i said the date went really good after that with the kids and everything okay i mean the absence in the middle of it that is is weird, but I mean, I still want to see her. I mean,

the date was great. Okay. So you want to at least give it another shot? I like to, I like to, I mean, yeah, it was weird that she took off.

Maybe she wanted you to, maybe it was like a game. She wanted to see if you would leave. Yeah, I don't know. You sound really sweet, so I don't know that you did anything, but I guess we'll find out.

Yeah. Okay. I don't know. We'll play a song guess we'll find out yeah yeah i don't know we'll play a song and then come back and call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date okay cool all right play a song come back get your first day follow up next hey everyone it's katie couric well the election is in the home stretch and i'm exhausted but turns out the end is near right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. This podcast is for people like me who need a little perspective and insight.

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All right, cool. So Jenna and I met on Tinder. We upgraded to Snapchat and kind of got to know each other a little bit better. And then we went out and had a coffee date where we were going to have a nice little walk afterwards and then go to dinner. And then right after the coffee, Jenna disappeared for about an hour and a half and uh then she came back and then we resumed the date and it was great like we had a really nice time and i really want to go out with her again but i it was kind of weird that she took off for like the length of a movie and i don't know what happened and i asked her and she didn't really divulge anything. So I was like, what's going on?

Well, you ready for us to call her? Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Jenna, please? Yeah, this is Jenna. Hey, Jenna, how are you? My name is Jubal, and I host a radio show that's called The Jubal Show.

Hi, Jenna, the show's here, too. I'm Nina. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Hi, everyone, I'm good. How are you guys? Good. Do you listen to the show at all? Yeah, a little bit, yeah.

Sweet. Oh, cool. I don't know if you listen to the first eight follow-ups at all, but that's a segment we do where if you're ghosting somebody, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. Yeah. Yeah. Well, we got an email from somebody about you saying that you're ghosting them.

Oh, my God. Do you know who that would be? Maybe. Want to take a shot? Is it tank? Yes, it is tank. Oh, boy. And he told us about your date, and he says he cannot figure out why you're not calling him back.

Would you mind telling us? Yeah. Um, when we were on the date, I kind of like left the table for a while and I just didn't really love how he handled it when I got back. Like, to be honest, me leaving and coming back was a bit of a test. And, um, I even, I like took that time to quickly go like grab a little something to eat so I wouldn't eat too much on the date itself but like the whole point of it was to really see you know if he would stick around or if he'd kind of correct the behavior when I came back and like you know would speak up and he didn't he really just I feel like it was no big deal and I was kind of disappointed I was really hoping he would kind of you know man up and and tell me that he didn't appreciate it.

Wait, is this something that you do regularly? I mean, I don't know if I would say regularly, but, you know, I liked him and I just, I feel like I don't have time to waste. So I just want to see from the very beginning if like these are people when I'm on dates, if there are people that I could actually build something with, you know? So if you like somebody and you think there's a potential longterm thing, it's a red flag for you. If they don't call you out on leaving them somewhere for a long time. Yeah.

I mean, I don't want to push over. Okay. I was, you know, we talked to him about the date and he told us that you left for a while and I said he was very patient. And then I also was joking about i was like maybe she was testing you but you actually were interesting yeah i don't know what to say to that i mean i do have a lot

of questions but i'll just leave that yeah there for right now thank you for being honest with us i appreciate that yeah of course um also i don't know if you remember or not, but the first day of follow-ups, the person that wanted us to call you is on the phone. So Tank is on the phone. He's been listening this whole time and wants to talk to you. Oh, my God. Hi. Hi, Dylan. I mean, it's interesting.

Interesting point of view. I don't know. I guess if you wanted me to man up, I understand that. But, I mean, I don't know. My parents are, like, really aggressive and stuff. So I'm kind of like, if someone wants to do something, I think they have the right to do it. But, I mean, I don't know. I didn't want to get in your face about it.

Jenna, like, what exactly did you want me to do? I guess I just really would have liked you to just say something and be like, even, I mean, you are such a great guy and, you know, like wanting to give me that time. But even if you just had been like, hey, is everything cool? Like you were gone a while. You just didn't even like bring up the elephant in the room you just kind of actually acted like nothing really you know out of the ordinary happened and we just kind of kept going about the date and i don't know that was just a little odd to me he's trying

to be nice you guys just met yeah i mean and i just i remember being like is everything was everything okay is everything all right you were like yeah fine. Like, you kind of brush off. So I was like, oh, well, something important must have happened. Let me not press because, you know, I was trying to make a good first impression on you. I appreciate that. But you didn't pass the test? Not entirely. I don't know.

I guess it did come off a little bit as pushovery. I mean, your name's Tank. You shouldn't be movable. I shouldn't be able to push you over. The Lodge is a gentle tank, you know? I guess so, yeah. It's like a toy. All right, well, I can show you that I can be like a tank. I am. Why don't we just do a second date? I'll show you what you want.

I totally can. Wait, wait, wait. Jenna, you're going on a second date with me. That's it. Whoa. Whoa. Hello, tank. Ever there.

Jenna, would you like to go on another date with Tank? We'll pay for it. Yeah, after that, I would definitely go on another date. Good. This makes me so sad. I'm just confused. I'm really sad. Yeah, I mean, listen, I like that energy.

If you could keep that up, Tank, that would be good. You'll see. I will. What? Okay. Well, have fun. Well, hey, Tank. That would be good. You'll see. I will. Oh, what? Okay. Have fun. Well, hey, Tank, you got another date. Congratulations.

And Jenna. I can't. Maybe, you know, you guys talked about an issue you had with Tank and he's going to fix that for you and become the big firm tank that you need him to be. Thanks, guys. Yeah. Thanks, guys. Appreciate it.

Jubal's first date follow up. Hey, everyone. It it. Jubal's first date follow-up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun,

thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your

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