First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - The bare foot bandit of love
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First date follow-up.
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Celine is on the phone today for a first date follow-up.
She's getting ghosted by a dude named Jesse that she met at a bookstore.
Hey, Celine, how are you?
Thank you for your email.
Before we get into your dating stuff, how long has it been since you talked to Jesse? About six days. So how did you guys meet
at the bookstore? So it's not the average way to meet someone at a bar or something.
We actually just ran into each other at the bookstore and we were both looking in the cinema section.
Okay.
You actually physically ran into each other?
No.
So then we started talking about our favorite directors
and he actually ended up asking me out
to see an indie movie.
Okay.
And so I thought it was super attractive
that he picked me up in the bookstore
and then wanted to follow up at a movie.
And he's a fellow movie snob.
So am I.
Also, he's a total babe.
Very attractive.
Okay.
Well, this is already kind of a good setup.
So then what did you guys end up doing for your date?
So we did go to see the indie movie.
And how was it?
He was such a gentleman.
He paid for everything.
And we started talking movies right away.
We didn't stop until the movie started.
Since he was paying, I did kind of get quite a lot from the snack bar.
I was hungry.
That's expensive.
At a movie theater, that's expensive.
Well, yeah, he did make a joke about it, too.
But it didn't seem to bother him
and I started to put some stuff back
and he was like, no, no, it's fine.
He said he was just kidding
and it was his treat.
So I was like, this guy's awesome.
Did you share your snacks?
No, he got a little something for himself he wasn't he didn't really seem to be that hungry he just had a speaker spot okay okay
all right so other than the snacks though you know that you think the date was pretty good
i think so we hung out for a little bit afterwards and he kissed me on the cheek before he left and said that, unfortunately, he had to go and that he would like to see me again.
So I was like, okay, I love that.
Hopefully, it'll be soon.
Why did he have to run off so soon?
I'm not really sure.
Maybe he was tired.
I didn't want to ask too many questions.
So then that was the last you heard from him? That was your last interaction?
Yes.
Did you try to reach out to him after that?
Yes, but he hasn't really responded.
Okay.
I did like everything about him. He was very relaxed, and he was very witty.
Uh-huh.
Kind of an asshole in a fun way, and also nerdy.
So I don't know.
I thought that our conversation was going to carry on to talking further afterwards.
But I guess maybe I shouldn't have gotten that many snacks.
So you think the snacks were the deal breaker, essentially?
Yeah.
Maybe.
Maybe I got a big ass photo, too.
I'm someone who pieces.
I really, I'm like a town.
Do you know where that turned you off?
If a girl just ordered everything on the menu?
No.
I mean, I think it'd be cool.
I like that actually.
You know what I can't stand is when you go out on a date, you know, she wants to eat,
but she orders a salad, but she does that because she doesn't want to eat too much in
front of you.
That's always like, just, you know, especially if you
go to a nice restaurant or something, it's like, that's a $50
salad. Get a steak. I know, get something you want to eat.
I used to be that way, but I get it.
Yeah, I would find it attractive because you're like, you know,
you're like just being you. So I think
that's, I think it would be good, but, you know,
maybe not. Maybe, maybe he's
broke now. Maybe he's homeless. Maybe he can't pay his phone bill. Maybe
that's why. Maybe I'm
just a loud che to or something.
All right. Well, we'll try to figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back and
then call him and see why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay.
Thank you so much.
All right. We'll get your first day follow up next.
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If you're just joining us for today's first date follow up, Celine is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jesse that she met at the bookstore.
And before we give him a call to find out why you're getting ghosted, Celine, why don't you
refresh everybody's memory on your date with Jesse? So like you said, we met at the bookstore,
which is super awesome. And we connected on what kind of movies that we liked, because it was a cinema session.
And then afterwards, we went on a date.
We went to the movies.
I may have gotten way too many snacks.
And the movie just seemed to go over pretty well.
We talked a lot before.
I haven't seen him since.
He gave me a kiss on the cheek and
this was about six days ago. So I haven't seen him since. And I don't know why he's not answering
any of my messages. All right. Well, we're about to give him a call. You ready?
Yeah. Okay. Well, I'm going to call him right now. Here we go. go hello hi may i speak to jesse please yeah this is jesse who's this jesse how are you my
name is jubal i host a radio show called the jubal show hi jesse my name is nina i'm on the
jubal show hi and, I'm Victoria. Yeah.
Hi.
What's what's going on?
What's up, man?
So, yeah, there's three people on the phone with you right now.
Have you ever heard the show before?
Yeah, maybe once or twice.
Why am I on the show?
Well, because we got an email about you from somebody who listens to the show.
Oh, OK.
All right.
We do a segment called the first day follow upup that's where if you go out on a
date with someone and then you end up ghosting them that person can email us to get you on the
phone and ask why you're ghosting them so we got an email about you from selene oh okay uh-huh
selene yep you remember selene she's. Yes, yes, we met in a bookstore.
Those still exist, but bookstores, they're still around.
We talked to Celine, and she told us about your date.
She said that she really liked you, but she's confused.
She wants to know why you haven't called her back.
Oh, yeah.
Why didn't I call her back?
Okay, well, to get into it, into it, I thought she was cool.
The banter was good.
We both bonded over movies.
She's a bit of a nerd.
I'm a bit of a nerd.
We got the movie.
We got some snacks.
Conversation was still good.
I thought it was cute that she got a lot of snacks. I called her out on it, but I thought it was cute that she got a she got a lot of snacks i
called her out on it but i thought it was cute that's what she she told us that she got a ton
of snacks she thought actually that might be the reason that you're ghosting her oh no no no you
know you're the movie you can have as many snacks you want part of the deal good answer uh but no
and then we got in the theater and after the previews she kicks off her shoes no, and then we got in the theater, and after the previews, she kicks off her shoes, no socks, and puts her bare feet up on in the seat in front of her.
And, like, I don't have pet peeves until now, I guess.
I thought there was no class there, you know?
It wasn't even like, I'm not sure if they smelled or not.
I was just totally taken aback.
It was like, I just thought it was weird they put me off i don't know because you put a bare
feet up on the seat in front of you in front of her yeah it's like it's one thing to even put your
your you know your covered feet up on the seat in front of you which is a little rude but i do it
all the time yeah it was a little classless.
So just to clarify, you said she took off her socks and shoes.
It wasn't sandals that she was wearing.
She had to physically remove her socks to be that comfortable.
Yeah, I don't even know.
I just looked up and I saw bare feet. I don't even remember what shoes she was wearing.
But yeah, it just totally grossed me out.
So that's pretty much why.
All right.
Well, thank you for telling us.
I don't know if that would bother me or not, but I wonder if it bothers Celine.
Wait, what?
Yeah, I wonder if it bothers Celine because she's on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Oh.
Jesse?
Hi.
Okay, I am in complete shock for doing that there.
I do think that is classless. I don't even remember doing it.
In my defense, I remember just chowing
down, curled up in the chair, which is something I only really
do at home while I'm watching a movie. So I guess it's just I felt
really at home and very comfortable.
So maybe I just started doing what I do at home.
Okay.
Yeah, I mean, it's still weird.
It's still kind of weird.
I don't know.
I don't know how else to say it.
I'm sorry that bothered you about my toes and my feet,
but I just got a French manicure.
My feet are looking great.
So I take care of them.
They're clean.
Well, like I said, it was really dark, so I couldn't really see how nice your feet were.
So maybe if it was better lit, I would have been, oh, those are amazing feet.
I still find it kind of gross.
I don't know.
I don't know what to tell you.
Okay.
All right. Well, I, to be honest, I really don't think it's that gross, but I'm, I understand where
you're coming from.
Do you take your feet out in other places, Celine?
Is this something you usually do?
No, really just at the movies and at my own house.
Honestly, I can't think of anywhere else.
And if I'm doing yoga or something, is it okay if i take my shoes off when i do yoga uh yeah no worries there because i won't be doing
yoga with you oh okay okay so jesse but did you like you other than celine putting her feet up on
the seat in front of her you liked her right, right? Yeah, we had a good time.
But it did kind of ruin the movie for me.
So everything before the movie was real good.
It ruined the whole movie?
Yeah.
Well, that's all I could think about.
Oh, my gosh.
You don't want to give her another chance.
Hey, Jesse, would you go out with Celine on another date?
We'll pay for it.
Listen, if she wears her Ugg boots, then they don't come off.
Yes, Celine, I would go out with you again if we follow the no feet in public rule.
Okay, okay.
I promise I'll keep my shoes on unless we go somewhere that's a little bit more comfortable,
like my house
or your bed.
Wow.
That escalated
very quickly.
Yeah, it did.
Yeah, that works for me. Also, you know,
footwear in bed is not
always a bad idea.
That's quite weird too.
Jessie wants to wear her side heels. That's quite weird too. Jesse wants to wear his high heels.
That's what it is.
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Hey everyone.
It's Katie Couric.
Well, the election
is in the home stretch
right in time
for a new season
of my podcast,
Next Question.
I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're
also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God.
We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about?
Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app,
Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Catch Jon Stewart back in action on The Daily Show and in your ears with The Daily Show,
ears edition podcast. From his hilarious satirical takes on today's politics and entertainment to
the unique voices of correspondents and contributors, it's your perfect companion to stay on top of what's
happening now. Plus, you'll get special content just for podcast listeners, like in-depth interviews
and a roundup of the week's top headlines. Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,
or wherever you get your podcasts. and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives
dictated by traditional patriarchal norms.
Tune in and join the conversation.
Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network,
iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.