First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - The Fishstix Family is on this First Date Follow Up!
Episode Date: June 7, 2021Vanessa and Ricky met at her son's baseball game, and after talking, Vanessa spoke about always going fishing as a kid, so Ricky planned a fishing trip for a date! Now he is ghosting her! Jubal Fresh ...calls Fishin' Ricky to find out what happened! Let us know what you think on social!Follow us at @thejubalshow @jubalfresh @thatdreas @evanontheradioSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time
for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's,
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Welcome.
My name is Paola Pedrosa, a medium and the host of the Ghost Therapy Podcast, where it's not just about connecting with deceased loved ones.
It's about learning through them and their new perspective.
I think God sent me this gift so I can show it to the world.
And most of all, I help people every single day.
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The new hits, 106.1, First Date Follow-Up.
Every once in a while, we get an email in for a First Date Follow-Up,
and I read the description of the date, and I'm like, man, that sounds horrible.
Why?
But most people would probably like it.
I just am not a very outdoorsy guy.
Yeah.
And Vanessa, who's on the phone for a first date follow-up today, said she went on a fishing
date.
Oh, that sounds cool.
Fishing with a guy named Ricky.
Yeah, you're not a fishing type of guy, Jubal.
I am not a fishing type of guy.
I'm a catching type of guy.
It super annoys me anytime I've been fishing and I catch a fish and they're like, well,
you're going to throw it back.
Catch and release.
No.
I sat here for 17 hours.
Yeah, no.
I'm going to take that home and I'm going to cook it.
I don't care if it's a little minnow.
No, don't kill it.
I'm taking it home.
But Vanessa is on the phone and she went fishing with Ricky.
That sounds like a TV show.
What's up, Vanessa? How are you?
Hi, I'm okay.
How are you? Not too bad. So
you're not getting a call back before we get into fishing with
Ricky. How long has
it been since you talked to Ricky?
It's been a week and a half.
It's like long. That's long after
a first date. That is long. Yeah, I
feel like I got ghosted here. I don't know.
You did. Definitely sounds like it.
Has he responded at all since your date?
No. I mean, I just
wrote like I had a good time and
he wrote thanks or
something inconsequential
and then I just never heard back from him.
You were definitely being ghosted.
Okay, so then have you reached
out to him after that?
Yeah, I texted him like three times and literally like nothing.
Nothing at all.
All right, maybe he's fishing and doesn't have reception, you know,
because fishing can take a long time and you said you guys were fishing.
So he might be somewhere with no reception for months waiting on that perfect catch.
That's very hopeful.
I doubt that's it.
Yeah, well, okay, So where did you guys meet?
We met at our kids'
baseball game, actually.
Oh, that's cool.
We were just talking during the game
for a while, watching our kids play,
and he asked
me about growing up, and I mentioned
that I used to go fishing
with my dad every year before he
passed away, and that I really miss it.
But yeah, I thought he was so sweet.
I really liked him.
The fact that he took me fishing
based off of that conversation,
and he set up a whole cute romantic picnic.
That is cool.
How was the actual date though?
I thought it went great.
That's why I'm so confused.
I really liked him
he was really sweet
and I just
like I can't figure out
what happened
did he catch anything else
on the trip besides you
no we did not have
a lot of luck
with our fishing line
maybe he doesn't like you
because you're not
a good angler
terrible
that's a fishing term
that I don't really know
what it means
why do you think he's not calling you back then Angler. Terrible. That's a fishing term that I don't really know what it means.
Why do you think he's not calling you back then?
Honestly, I have no idea.
I can't figure out what happened.
How'd you guys end things?
He drove me home and, you know, we gave like a cute, like peck on the cheek, you know,
first date.
And then that was it.
I thought, I don't know.
I thought it went great.
It was very pleasant.
Okay.
Okay.
Real quick.
What if he has like a wife or a girlfriend or something? Like you guys met at a kid's, you guys' kid's baseball game.
Oh yeah.
So what if he's a player?
Oh.
Well, I mean, he did mention his ex, but because he said ex, so I mean, I don't know.
I don't think he's dating anyone else right now that I know about.
I mentioned his ex on the first date as well.
That means he's thinking about her.
Oh, my God.
No, they're probably talking about it.
Probably talking about their exes because they have kids on the same baseball game.
Yeah, if they have kids, it's pretty standard.
It's pretty easy to get in conversations.
If you're spending time talking about an ex on a date and you don't have kids, bad thing.
If you have kids, it kind of makes sense most of the time.
Yeah.
I mean, it's your kid's parent, right?
So it's like they come up in conversation.
Right.
Right.
Totally.
Okay.
Well, we will play a song and then come back and call him and see if we can find out why
he's not calling you back then.
Okay?
Okay.
Thank you.
Yep.
All right.
We'll do it right after this.
Fishing with Ricky.
My name's Ricky Fishsticks.
Sorry, I'm annoying.
It's a weird last name for a guy that fishes and his name's Ricky.
But my name's Ricky Fishsticks.
This is my co-host.
My name's Alex Freshie Fishsticks.
My name's English Having Freshsticks.
And we're all the Fishstick family and we're out here fishing.
It's Fishing with the Fishsticks. Fishing with Ricky. Fishing with the Fishsticks. and we're out here fishing. It's fishing with the fish sticks.
Fishing with Ricky.
Fishing with the fish sticks.
Fishing with the fish sticks.
That's better than fishing with Ricky.
Vanessa is on the phone and she isn't getting a call back from a dude she went on a date with.
His name's Ricky and they went fishing.
That's why the whole fishing with Ricky thing.
But now I think we should start a new show called Fishing with the Fish Sticks.
With the fresh sticks.
The fresh sticks.
I like it.
That's good.
And Vanessa met Ricky during their kid's baseball game.
They bonded.
She brought up the fact that she used to go fishing with her dad and she really misses
doing that.
So Ricky, being the nice guy that he is, planned a little fishing date because that's what
Ricky's always doing, fishing.
Vanessa, does Ricky do anything but watch his kid's baseball game and fish?
I mean, he has a job.
They went fishing.
Vanessa said they had a great time, and she doesn't know why he's ghosted her,
but he's not calling her back, and she has no idea why.
So we're about to get him on the phone and see if we can figure it out.
You ready?
Yeah.
All right, here we go.
We're about to call Fish and Ricky.
I'm excited.
I've never met a celebrity before.
Hello, this is Ricky.
Fish and Ricky?
I don't know if I'm Fish and Ricky, but my name's Ricky.
Who is this?
This is Jubal from The Jubal Show. This is Alex Fresh from The Jubal Show. This is English Evan from The Jubal Show. And we are excited to meet you, name's Ricky. Who is this? This is Jubal from The Jubal Show.
This is Alex Fresh from The Jubal Show.
This is English Evan from The Jubal Show.
And we are excited to meet you, Fish and Ricky.
Oh, good to meet you too, I guess.
Have you ever heard the show before?
Yes, yes.
Oh, you have?
Awesome.
Well, this is the first time I've heard of Fish and with Ricky, so I'm really not sure what you're talking about.
Well, I'll tell you what we're talking about.
We're talking about the date that you had with Vanessa.
Okay, so she emailed you guys or something?
Yes, she did.
She emailed us.
She told us how you guys went fishing, said she had a great time, also said that she's tried to get a hold of you since your date and you have not responded to anything.
So it's like fishing Ricky. Why?
Well, I mean, I was kind of hoping to talk, maybe catch up with her in private at the next game.
But, you know, over the radio is fine.
Talking about the little league game.
She said that you guys met at your kids' baseball game.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Our boys play little league and we often just sit in the bleachers and catch up and talk
while we're watching our kids play.
Okay.
So you were going to actually talk to her though.
You had planned on talking to her?
Yeah.
I was just going to have a conversation about it, but I mean...
What's the reason that you're not calling her back?
Well, like, so me and my ex-wife, we are really good at co-parenting.
While we split up relatively amicable, at the end of the day, you know, my son didn't
ask for that, you know, so the two of us try to go a long life just living separately, but still
being friendly and communicating. Okay, so what happened? Why aren't you calling her back?
Because a few times while we were while we were out, my wife, my ex-wife had my son and, uh,
I got a couple of text messages from my ex-wife just updating me about what
they were doing. And, you know, my son did something annoying and she just,
your son's in trouble. And I took this away from him,
took his skateboard or something silly like that.
And, um, it just kind of went back and forth.
But then all of a sudden, like right after that,
she started making like jokes about my baby's mama and stuff.
And like it felt like she was she was suddenly intimidated.
So Vanessa, who you went on the date with, I'm getting confused because you're talking about the ex-wife.
No, I'm not confused.
I know. But now I got it. Now I got it.
Vanessa was making comments about your ex-wife and you thought that maybe she was intimidated by her.
Correct.
So then you decided to ghost her though for that reason?
I'm not going to text her back just for the sole fact that I'm too busy for that kind of nonsense, that kind of animosity.
Like she didn't even take the time to ask me these questions about my son and my relationship with my ex-wife.
She just got into being
too much and just threatened by it.
I just don't need that right now.
Nobody needs it. Fish and Ricky doesn't need that in his life.
Fish and Ricky ain't got
time for that. Fish and Ricky ain't got time
for Vanessa
being jealous of your
ex-wife and your guys' relationship
for co-parenting?
It seemed more than jealousy.
It seemed actually like she was threatened by...
Gotcha.
If she was threatened
because she didn't tell us that when we talked to her
and she's on the phone listening right now
and wants to talk to you.
Yeah, you forgot about that part.
Oh, well, I'm...
Hi.
Yeah, I'm here.
That's funny.
Hi, Vanessa. How are funny. Hi, Vanessa.
How are you?
Well, yeah, I mean, I don't think I was really acting that way.
But, you know, if you don't want to go out again, I guess that's your loss.
You called her my baby mama.
And after she texted me like, no, it wasn't even her text.
It was my buddy's text.
And you thought it was hers.
And you said, do I need to cut a bitch
oh my god
that sounds like jealousy to me
I was joking
she was joking
no come on I mean
obviously I'm not going to actually hurt anyone
like can you see how that kind of
sounds like a jealous comment
or just comments
especially on a first date i guess i mean like i
don't know maybe we just don't have the same sense of humor right right so are you typically like a
jealous person in a relationship like to be honest like no no not at all okay not at all you just
think that relationships with exes are just always bad i just thought it would be funny because she
kept texting all the time so I was like wait do I need
to you know do something about this like it's like a joke it wasn't that bad I only made like
one comment max one wait a minute so you just said that you felt like I was talking to her
the entire time but you only made one comment come on now yeah three texts you said something like four times um called him
said do i have to cut a bitch you rolled your eyes and got all huffy at one point when one
message came through like well look like she's texting you the whole time i'm on a date with
you i put my phone away because i'm a polite person you should not have been texting your
ex unless it was an emergency with your son right Right. Yeah. Well, at the end of the day, anything about
anything about my son coming through from my ex, she knew where I was. She knew what I was doing
because I told her everything. I told her what I was doing. She only texted me because she needed
to give me the information. No, she was only texting you because she knew that you were out with another girl.
That's why she was texting you.
Come on.
Vanessa, Vanessa, I've told you this already.
She's remarried.
She doesn't care.
And he's like loaded as well.
So that's what's just mind boggling to me.
Oh, and now you're thinking about her.
Whenever you bring her up, you talk about how much money her new man makes.
So obviously it makes you feel
a little insecure. It's all you think about,
I guess. She wants to be with him now
and not with you. Fish and Ricky, would
you like to go on another date with Vanessa? We will pay for it.
That's a perfect time to ask. Yeehaw.
I'd rather throw myself headfirst into
a wood chipper. Oh,
Fish and Ricky. Oh my god.
What do you say? I've heard it work. That would kind of
be it. Yikes.
Hey everyone, it's Katie Couric.
Well, the election is in
the homestretch, right in time
for a new season of my podcast,
Next Question. I'm
bringing in some FOKs,
friends of Katie's, to help me out,
like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki,
Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha B
and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean,
isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me,
Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,
or wherever you get your podcasts.
Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears
on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team
for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind.
Listen to The Daily Show, ears edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you
get your podcasts. Welcome. My name is Paola Pedrosa, a medium and the host of the Ghost
Therapy Podcast, where it's not just about connecting with deceased loved ones.
It's about learning through them and their new perspective.
I think God sent me this gift so I can show it to the world.
And most of all, I help people every single day.
Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app,
Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.