First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - The Jubal Show learns being hangry can't excuse everything!

Episode Date: October 26, 2020

The Jubal Show talks to a woman who went on a first date with an acquaintance, that ended with a kiss at the end of the night, she can't figure out why he ghosted her! Let us know what you think on social!Follow us at: @thejubalshow @jubalfresh @thatdreas @evanontheradioSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Can we go somewhere else? What's happening? This drink is way too liquidy. Send it back. Are you making fun of me? No, I'm not. Alex tends to be a little bit picky. You didn't know Alex and I are married, so I know her eating styles. And no, I'm not making

fun of you at all. Usually, when you do complain about food, it is a legit concern. And it's not just like you're picky or being high maintenance. I promise. I'm not just saying that. But on the phone right now is Kim for a first date follow-up, and she feels like that's the way she came off on her first date with a dude named Carter,

and that's why she's not getting a call back. And we're going to hopefully find out the reason that he's not calling her back in just a second. But first, Kim, what's up? How are you? I'm good. How are you? Oh, my God. This phone call sounds like a phone call. It's bugging me. Can we stop it? We'll get to the thing about you feeling like you were too picky or whatever on your date, but before we talk

about that, tell us about the dude you want to call today. What is his name? My name is Carter, and we've been friends for a while, but casual friends, like not super close. So it's not like a best friend situation where you guys decided to

like, hey, you know, we've been friends forever. Let's try it out. Try out dating. And now he's not calling you back? No, not at all. Who initiated the first conversation like to go out? Oh, it was Carter. But I've always had like a little bit of a crush on him.

So I was really excited when he asked me out. Okay. So where did you guys end up going for your date? Well, we went to dinner. But I had to. Ew. Okay. So where did you guys end up going for your date? Well, we went to dinner, but I had to. Sorry, I'll stop doing that. That's annoying. Okay. So we went to dinner and there's just a restaurant nearby, but everything was like great.

Like we had a great conversation and we laughed a lot, which I love. Was he more than what you thought he'd be based on the fact that you guys kind of knew each other you know you said you had a crush on him was he everything that you thought was Carter everything that you thought Carter would be? Yes Carter was we like I said we didn't know each other super well but he's funny and he's really smart and we also talked about like our families and even our like fears and dreams so it was a little deeper than I thought it would be and like it was surprisingly like really good. Were the fears like spiders and things like that or did you go hey what's your fear and he's like commitment.

We did like irrational fears and then just you know things that you're kind of afraid of like in general. Yeah so you said that things like went good on your date but um you said that you think that you're high maintenance well i think well the only thing i can think of is that i did send my drinks back twice because it just it didn't taste right and i don't normally do that but it it really was like not good yeah well it's not good maybe he thought I was too picky or something or high-maintenance did you did you send anything else back okay well I did get a steak and it wasn't done enough so I did like send it back okay all right that's the reason

you think he's not calling you back I mean it sounded like everything went great other than that. Yeah, I mean, we even, like, when I dropped him off, we even, like, kissed, and, like, everything went great, and that's kind of the only thing I could think of. Oh, that's surprising. That was a turn off. Okay. Yeah.

And there's absolutely, like, nothing else that you're leaving out that you think he might not be calling you back for? No, I mean, not at all. Did you guys meet there? No, his car was in the shop. So I actually picked him up and we drove together. Okay. So have you tried to text or call since and he's not answering or what's going on with that? Yeah, well, I've texted him a couple of times and he's just kind of takes hours to respond. And normally he's like way more responsive and then his responses are a little more short and it just like, yeah.

Okay. So you can tell that he's just not interested in going out again. That's kind of how I feel. And I don't know why. Okay. And when you dropped him off, he kissed you at the end of the date. So it's kind of weird. Well, exactly. We'll play a song, come back, call him and see if we can figure it out. Okay? Okay. Thank you.

All right. Hold on. We'll do it next. It's the Jubal Show on Hits 106.1. The new Hits 106.1. First date follow up. Something that I've always found interesting with these type of segments, the first date follow up, which you're in the middle of right now,

is that when people go out on a date, right? A lot of times they'll kiss at the end of the date, they'll kiss the person that they went out with and then never talk to them again. Like polite? I've done it. You've done it? To be polite, yeah.

Oh, gosh. Kim, who's on the phone right now for a first date follow-up, thinks that might've happened to her because she went out with a friend of hers named Carter. I guess they're more like acquaintances, but they went to dinner. She said they had a great time. They even talked about their fears and other deep conversations, she said.

She said he was really funny. And even at the end of the night, she drove because his car was in the shop. At the end of the night when she dropped him off, they shared a kiss, but he's not talking to her. And the only thing that she thinks she could have done wrong is maybe she came off a little picky because, Kim, you wouldn't stop sending your food back. Isn't that right? Well, no. I mean, I sent my drink back and I sent my steak back, but I was really, I mean, I was really nice about it. It was polite. All right.

You don't have to be rude about that. Please calm down. Yeah. I mean, you don't sound like somebody who would be really rude or anything, so we will get him on the phone right now and see if we can figure it out, okay? Okay. Alright, here we go. Hello?

Hi, may I speak to Carter, please? This is him. Hey, Carter, how are you? This is Jubal from The Jubal Show. I think you might have the wrong number. I don't think so, because I asked for Carter and you said yes, and then I said Carter again and you still responded. So I think I have the right number,

unless I'm calling a random Carter that has the same number as you, Carter. Okay, this is the, what did you say your name was again? My name is Jubal and I host a radio show called the Jubal show. Uh, okay. So why are you calling me? That is an interesting question, Carter. Before I answer that, I want to introduce you to everybody on the show. My name is Jubal. Like I said, with me as always is my hottest wife, Alex for free. Hello. And English Evan. Hello, Carter. Hello. So,

uh, why are you calling me again? I'm calling you because we got an email about you from somebody who listens to the show. Okay. We do a thing on the show where if you go out on a date with someone and then ghost them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and figure out what happened. And recently we got an email from a woman named Kim.

Okay. Yeah. Did you go on a date with a woman named Kim? Yes, I did. Okay. A little bit ago. Did you kiss a woman named Kim and never call her back? Yes.

That is what I did. All right. Do you mind telling us why you don't want to call her back? She's really curious. Oh, she wants to know. Yes. I don't really want to hurt her feelings or anything. Well, she reached out to us and wants to know, so not a big deal.

Like, you can say it. Yeah, she knows the deal. We all want to know. Okay, well, she's really cool. You know, we've been kind of friends for a little while, and we've always gotten along really well. You know, I always kind of had a little crush on her. Oh, you guys both had crushes on each other,

and you were kind of friends for a long time. Why aren't you married by now? Yeah. Well, like I said, she was cool. There was just something I discovered that I didn't know about her that kind of threw me off a little bit. What was that? Well, she kind of seems to have some anger issues.

Really? What? Anger issues? Well, she said that she had to send her drink and her steak back, but she said that she wasn't rude about it. Oh, yeah, no. That didn't bother me at all like that was no big deal so where does the anger come into play so she picked me up to go to the to go to the restaurant and um it was pretty road ragey on the way there oh oh really yeah like like really road ragey like because like you can rage, but then you can road rage. Yeah.

Like, are we talking flipping people off and yelling? Yes. Yes to both of those things. Like, super aggressive driving. What? You know, cutting people off. Are you talking about my husband now? No, this is, you know, nice old Kim.

Wow, it is not that serious. I don't know if she just felt comfortable doing that because we, like, knew each other, but, like, I did not feel like getting in a fight for our first date. Yeah. That'd be a weird warm-up before you get to dinner. Well, she definitely didn't tell us about the road rage. No, she didn't. I think I know why she left it out now.

Why is that? Because she's road raging. It's crazy. Oh, she definitely didn't tell us about the road rage. No, she didn't. I think I know why she left it out now. Why is that? Because she's a road raging. It's crazy. Good point. She was scary. I was scared. Well, firecracker. Hopefully she's in a good mood still because Carter, I have to let you know that she's actually on the other line listening to this conversation

and wants to talk to you. What? She's on the phone listening? Yes, she is, unless she hung up. Are you there, Kim? Yeah, I'm here. Is what Carter says true? I mean, I get a little irritated when I drive, but I didn't think it was crazy or scary. You know, I don't think you're crazy, but that was crazy behavior. I mean, I was a little hangry.

I'm sorry. I just wanted to, like, get to the restaurant. Well, were you hangry after the date? Because the road rage was not that much better on the way home. Well, yeah. I mean, if I'm driving behind some f***ing nugget that's super slow, I'm going to flip them off.

Yeah, I'm always wanting to flip someone off if they're going at or below the speed limit. Yeah, those nuggets, man. Those nuggets. There's the rage. You know how many times I heard f***ing nugget this and f***ing nugget that on the way home? That's funny. Look, Carter, I am sorry. Like,

I do get a little angry when I drive, but apart from that, the date was really great, right? Yeah. I mean, other than being scared for my life, going there and coming back, it was great. Well, it clearly wasn't that bad because you did kiss me. Yeah. I mean, I had just gone through a traumatic experience, you know. I was scared. He's going to get raged on. Make out rage. All right, well, at least we know what happened.

But Carter, would you like to go out on another date with Kim? We'll pay for it. I'm not sure. That was a scary ride. I promise. Like, you can drive every time And I I promise I won't

Be like that There you go Carter I mean you said you liked her Just don't ever Let her drive Yeah Um Well

You were Looking pretty cute In those heels So uh I wouldn't mind Seeing that again So Yeah I mean

Yeah Let's do it. Awesome. Yay. Congratulations. Seems like kind of a scared yes. Yeah, it does seem very timid. It's a timid yes, but it's a yes nonetheless. That rhymed.

Kim, congratulations. We got you another date with Carter. Yay. Thank you, guys. Yeah. And I would have hated to have found out what would have happened if we didn't get you a date from the same things. Well, I would have had to call found out what would have happened if we didn't get you a date from the same things. Well, I would have had to call you guys. Jubal's first date follow up only on the new hits.

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thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeart of what's happening now. Plus, you'll get special content just for podcast listeners, like in-depth interviews and a roundup of the week's top headlines. Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics

surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. Tune in and join in the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.