First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - The Jubal Show resolves abandonment issues in this First Date Follow Up!

Episode Date: December 3, 2021

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".Some shows assume that you know all about everything they do! We're not that show, we're The Jubal Show! We do this thing called the First Date Follow Up! If you have been ghosted following a first date, you call us and we call them to get some closure to your abandonment issues! Today Hannah doesn't know why Cody won't return her calls! Will The Jubal Show solve another dating mystery!? Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Is on the phone today for a first date follow up And she's not getting a call back From a guy And I forgot his name That's why I said it like that Hannah what's his name Corey Corey

Yes And I'll just ask Hannah. Hannah, what's his name? Corey. Corey? Corey? Corey? Yes. Corey with an H? No, with a C. Corey. So you went out with a guy named Corey. Now he's not calling you back.

And before we get into the date and everything, how long has it been since you went out with Corey? It's been two weeks. How many times have you tried to get a hold of him in that two weeks? Well, okay, we texted a little bit after the day, like for the next few days. But it really felt like I was forcing conversation. Like I was forcing it to keep going. Oh, I don't like that.

When the other person isn't invested and you feel like you're asking every single question. Yeah, exactly. Yeah, that sucks. When you're trying to keep it going, you're like, maybe if I could just throw one line out there i'll get them back you know yeah like you can tell them just stringing you along be like maybe i could just say like the funniest thing or something really cool and then they're gonna be like all of a sudden back on board and obviously that didn't happen because he hasn't texted you because he stopped talking to you right you've been ghosted

yeah okay well i guess yeah all right well well tell us a little bit about the date and what do He's been talking to you, right? You've been ghosted? Yeah. Okay. Well, I guess, yeah, I guess. All right, well, tell us a little bit about the date and what do you think went wrong? I mean, I think, like literally the only thing that I could think of that would have gone like weird is, okay, we went to this restaurant, it's like 50 diners themed. Okay.

So I got a burger and and fries kind of like fitting the vibe and people really do say that i'm really weird for this but i squirt my ketchup all over the fries instead of dipping them some people are very particular about yeah how they do their ketchup well i i'm just still stuck on squirt yeah once you said that word i think a lot of people kind of were like what yeah why Yeah, why did she say it? So there's many things that could have gone wrong there, but he didn't make a comment on it.

He did make a comment on the way that you squirt your ketchup. What was the comment? Well, he was saying it like, joking, but he was like, he said, I woke up and chose chaos today. Oh, okay. But I did have a friend who was like super, super upset for the way,

because of the way I was eating fries. What does that mean? I didn't realize. I didn't know. I didn't realize I had like a polarizing food opinion. That's crazy. Yeah, that's mental. Was he just joking though or was he serious?

I mean, he was joking, but like, I don't know. I know that like some people are really weird about that stuff. Yeah, maybe he's super hardcore about his condiments and how you put ketchup on French fries. Yeah, that's what I'm thinking. I don't know. I mean, I've thought of everything, but that's just what I'm thinking. That's a pretty shallow reason, if that's the reason.

Well, boys can be shallow. That's very true. How did everything end, though, after your date? I mean, it was fine. He walked into my car. We had a quick little kiss, but nothing crazy. And that was it. We said goodnight.

Was it the kiss on the lips or on the cheek? It was a pop kiss. It was like, mwah. Weird. Just a real quick little mwah. Just like a kiss,. It was like, mwah. Okay. Just a real quick little, just like a kiss, but not like a, you know,

a big mwah. So it was like that. Mm-hmm. Mwah, mwah. And not like, blah, blah, blah. Yeah. It wasn't that second one,

no. Okay, right, right. He initiated it. He did, he went in, popped kiss, was like, okay, bye.

And I was like, okay, bye. Yeah, oh, what? You're leaving? Were you hoping for blah, blah, blah. Blah, blah, blah. Blah, blah, blah. Blah, bye. And I was like, okay, bye. Yeah, what? You're leaving? What are you hoping for? I could gobble around. I don't know. So he texted you a little bit after

and then he just stopped talking to you and the only reason you can think is maybe it was the way that you put ketchup on your fries. Yeah, I mean, now I'm thinking there's so many more reasons, but I keep thinking about that comment. Okay. All right. Well, we'll try to figure it out for you.

Play a song and then come back and then call him and get your first date follow up. How's that sound? Okay. That sounds like a great idea, doesn't it? Sounds like... Maybe we'll get you that. What is it? All right.

We'll get your first date follow up right after this. It's the Jubal Show. The Jubal Show on demand. If you're just joining us for today's first date follow-up, Hannah is on the phone, and Hannah went out with a guy named Corey. They went out to like a 50s-themed type restaurant, and she said everything seemed great. After the date, he even walked her to her car,

and she got a real quick kiss, not a big type kiss. And then after the date, he texted with her a little bit, but she could tell that he wasn't really into her. And then, and then now she's been officially ghosted.

So we're going to see if we can get a hold of Corey to find out what happened. And the only reason that Hannah can think of as to why Corey is not calling her back is the fact that she

likes to squirt her ketchup all over her french fries instead of putting it on the side. Like a normal human being. Or in a cup or even in a ramekin. Oh, with some ranch. What is a ramekin? It's those little side dishes.

Those little white side dishes. Oh, you bougie. Oh, dude, I'm bougie as hell. I love ramekins. Hannah, are you about ready to call him? Enough about the ramekin stuff. Sorry. A little sidetracked.

I'm ready. Okay, here we go. I'm going to dial the phone number right now. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Corey, please? Speaking. Hey, Corey, how are you? This is the Jubal Show. It's a radio show.

My name is Jubal. Mine's Alex. Mine's English Evan. Whoa. What's going on? Why are you guys calling me? We're calling because we got an email about you from one of our listeners because they went on a date with you and now you've ghosted them. Oh, wait, this is about Hannah, right?

Oh, okay. Yes, it is. I was going to ask if you could guess, but you guessed right. Because when people like to guess, they always guess like the wrong. Yeah, they guess the wrong name. People are you ghosting? I thought it sounded like players. You want to tell us a little bit about Hannah? I mean, she's a great girl, you know.

We had a nice date at a really fun little 50s kind of themed diner. Yeah, she told us where you guys went and everything. She thinks that you stopped talking to her because she squirted ketchup all over her fries instead of putting it on the side, and you made a comment about that like you thought it was crazy. Oh, no, I thought it was funny. I mean, I don't care about that. Yeah, so it didn't make you angry? No, why would that make me angry, I don't, I don't, I don't care about that. Yeah. So it didn't make you angry. No. Why would that make me angry?

I don't know, but she thought that was the reason you're not, um, well, she said you texted a little bit after your date and then stopped talking to her. So she thinks that might be the reason. Oh yeah. No, that's not why. Okay. Well why? It sounds really bad. It does. The way you said, oh, yeah, was not good. You know, listen, I'm not sure I really want to tell her stuff on air. I don't think that's cool.

Well, she knows that that's a possibility, right? She didn't ask, and she does want to know. And everybody that we do this with, we always tell them beforehand, like, hey, you might hear something you don't want to hear, but if you're going to do the first day follow-up, you got to be prepared. Exactly. And she is. So go for it. You might have a dish full of embarrassment served up in a ramekin for you, but you got to be ready for it. Okay, well, honestly, she said something that kind of freaked me out.

What'd she say? She said she dates to marry. Well, don't we all? She dates to marry. No, normally. Is it the fact that she said it on her first date that freaked you out? Yeah. Yeah, I mean, like, you know, it was just like a get to know you.

We're sitting down and she kind of lays it on me. And I was like, so are you not looking to marry anybody ever? Sure, maybe. I mean, when I find the right girl. Yeah. But like, what if she's like amazing, amazing. Right. And you met her on the first date and then she was so amazing. And then she said that. But like, you couldn't stop thinking about her. It's like because that one comment, like, what if she's not crazy at all she's just looking into like she's dating because she wants to get married i i don't move that fast i feel like i feel like you know even if she's amazing you still gotta get to know the person you know but that's just like a comment

though how was it said though that's what i was trying to figure out she kind of laid it out real heavy and it freaked me out i mean to be honest, like, you know, I don't know her that well. I'd like to get to know her still. But it's just that kind of was hanging in front of me. And I thought, yeah, I think her expectations are a little fast. She didn't say she was trying to get married now, though. I mean, I think most people date in hopes of something, you know. Finding someone that they want to eventually marry or be with forever.

A lot of people want to get married, you know. Yeah, I get that. I mean, you're right, but you know, in the moment it just felt real heavy and then afterward the next couple days it just, that's all I could think about was like she's like staring at me like

you're the one coming for you. Why not tell her though, Instead of ghosting her. I don't know. Fair enough. I don't know. Yeah, that's a good question. Are you thinking she might be like a stage five clinger or something? Yeah, it's hard to know.

I mean, that's the problem. It's really hard to know. Well, I know the way we can tell. She's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. So I think now's a great time to find out. What? Yeah. Oh my God. Sorry. I'm there. Sorry about that. We forgot to tell you. So I think now's a great time to find out. Yeah. Oh my God.

Sorry. Sorry about that. We forgot to tell you. We always do. Hannah? Hey. Hey, Corey. Hey, Hannah.

How's it going? What's up? What is up? There's not much. You come on the radio with you. Well, I mean, I wasn't trying to freak you out. I was literally just saying that if I'm not seeing a bunch of random guys, then I'm loyal and committed, you know? Yeah.

Yeah. No. Okay. I mean, it was just like isn't that wouldn't that be something that you wanted like or do you want somebody that's like no i'm dating everybody yeah i mean no i do i do i do want someone like that look i'm not opposed to you know like marrying someone i do want to get married. It's just, you just got to understand it was a lot on a first date. It's a lot. I mean, I'm not trying to marry on the first week. I'm just trying to be clear with my intentions.

You know, I'm saying once I find somebody that I'm dating, I'm only going to date that person. I'm going to be committed. That's the point of dating i mean i think yeah no i i get it but listen it it just could have waited until like date three date four man you took that real serious huh yeah yeah yeah i did yeah but you know what i gotta be honest with you, look, you're a great girl. Like you're beautiful. I had a good time with you, but I guess I just, you know, I, I got it. I got in my head a little bit after the fact and that, and that statement just kind of kept rattling around. And then, you know, cause we were texting and everything was kind of okay. And it just came up again and again in my head. I was like, it just, maybe, maybe I just kind of made more of it than I meant to.

Yeah, I mean, I'm not a weirdo. I'm fine for dating for years, you know. I mean, one more date, I mean, if you want, no pressure. It's not like I'm not asking for marriage. Alright, well, let me ask you the question there. Would you like to go on another

date with Hannah? We'll pay for it. Yeah. Really? Yeah. Okay. Yay. All right.

Hannah. I like her enough. I like her enough. You got over your fear of commitment in just a few minutes. I'm glad I told everyone on the radio that I'm not a weirdo. That's good. No flirting. Well, I mean. No flirting. I'm glad I told everyone on the radio that I'm not a weirdo no squirting well I mean I mean do you know

not a dinner maybe on the third date I'm ruining my moment we can't do that until marriage and I'm not even thinking of that Corey might be all about getting married now if you tell him that's a thing I'm going to call back and he's going to say, no, she's crazy.

The Jubal Show on demand. Ugh, we're so done with new year, new you. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini is because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my

podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back at The Daily Show, and he's bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears

with The Daily Show Ears Edition Podcast. Dive into Jon's unique take on the biggest topics in politics, entertainment, sports, and more. Joined by the sharp voices of the show's correspondents and contributors. And with extended interviews and exclusive weekly headline roundups, this podcast gives you content you won't find anywhere else. Ready to laugh and stay informed? Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.