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Episode Date: November 2, 2020Ethan calls into The Jubal Show and asks for help when at the end of a great date, being the gentlemen he is, pulled away from a kiss from Irene. Jubal Fresh calls her up and she spells out the real s...ituation!Let us know what you think on social!Follow us at: @thejubalshow @jubalfresh @thatdreas @evanontheradioSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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you get your podcasts. The new hits 106.1. First day follow up. You know, the common stereotype
about dudes is that they're intimidated by really beautiful, strong women. Yeah. Right. I think
that's true. It is true. Anytime you talk to a woman who's like on the pretty side of things,
I was like, guys are scared to talk to me because a lot of guys will not approach someone who they
think is really gorgeous because they're like, well, what if she turns me down?
My whole life is going to be ruined.
You don't often hear from a guy who's like, I think chicks are intimidated by me.
Yeah, that's not a cool thing.
Well, on the phone right now is Ethan.
And in Ethan's email to get a first date follow up, he said he thinks the girl might not be calling him back because she's intimidated.
Ethan, you're intimidating, huh?
I don't think, I mean, maybe on the surface
I can seem intimidating, you know,
but once you get to know me, obviously not.
But, you know.
Okay, well, we'll get into the reason
that you think you might be intimidating.
By the way, I'm not picking up that vibe from you right now.
No, I don't have it either.
Yeah.
Alex, you have it?
No.
Not at all.
All right.
So we don't think you're intimidating, but maybe she did.
And we'll figure that out in a second.
But first of all, what's the girl's name that you want to call today?
Irene.
Where did you guys meet?
We actually met at a happy hour.
Happy hour.
Okay.
So was that the date when you were at happy hour?
No, that wasn't the day.
That was a happy hour with some business partners.
And that's actually where I met her.
Oh, okay.
So you started talking to her and then what?
You got her phone number and went out after that?
Yeah, pretty much.
You know, I saw her from across the room.
It like, you know, it looked kind of like she was interested in me.
So, you know, I went over there and we started talking and it was good.
She was,
she was just a good vibe. And, uh, you know, I just in a few minutes asked her out and we had plans. Okay. So you guys made plans to do what? Um, yeah, we met for coffee and, uh, it's where
I like, you know, meet a lot of chicks for first dates. Um, you know, it's healthy to have wifi.
I can, you know, I can multitask while I'm waiting
Again, just because I'm pretty busy
And I would hate to just get hung up on a bad date
Right, yeah
I mean, coffee is a good first date
It really is
Because if you don't want to spend more than an hour with somebody
You don't have to
Yeah, that's true
That's a good point
Did she seem into it?
Yeah, I mean, I think I thought we
had pretty good conversation. There was a lot of back and forth. She was telling me about her life,
you know, I was obviously very interested, you know, and then I told her about like what I was
doing and yeah, I just felt like it was a good, like it was a good vibe. Okay. Your email said
you think she might've been intimidated by you. What does that mean?
Are you a model? I mean, you know, I have done some part-time, you know, modeling. It's not,
it's not a full-time gig, obviously, but, you know, I've definitely done some freelance work.
For Calvin Klein? I wish. It's for actually one of the clothing brands that I actually created
oh wow
so
are you a fashion
icon
fashion maker
I got some startups
that I've tried in the past
and you know they're still working out
pretty well you know the clothing was
one of the ones that I've,
you know, one of the niches that I've always been interested in doing.
Okay. All right.
So you think that maybe she was intimidated by your looks?
I think she may have just been intimidated by my lifestyle.
I'm just, I think maybe to her,
maybe it just sounded like, I don't know,
maybe I don't have time for her, but.
Okay. So how did your coffee date end?
Well, the date ended, you know, I asked her,
I was like, hey, I had a great time. You know, would you like to go out again? And she said,
yeah, sure. Text me. And, you know, and then she kind of came, it looked like she was kind of
coming in for a kiss. But, you know, I don't really do that on first date. So, you know,
kind of gave her a hug. Okay, so you denied her kiss, too. Respectful. Yeah. That's not like men, really.
No, not at all.
You know, you're right.
I'm not like most men, you know.
Maybe she's not.
It might not be the lifestyle thing.
She might have think you turned her down for a kiss.
Oh, yeah.
If that's what happened.
You turned the cheek.
She actually might be embarrassed.
Yeah.
Yeah, I don't know.
All right, well, we'll give her a call and see if we can figure it out for you, okay?
All right, guys.
All right. All right. Play a song, come back a call and see if we can figure it out for you. Okay? All right, guys. All right.
Play a song, come back, and then see why she's not calling this unique male back.
Okay, Alex.
Yep.
If you went out on a date with a dude and you went to go kiss him and he turned you down, would you call him back after?
No.
Point blank.
I say that because Ethan is on the phone right now for a first date follow-up,
and he went out with a girl named Irene.
They met at a happy hour while he was out with his business partners,
and he decided to go out with her for coffee.
He thought everything went great.
He thinks she might not be calling back because he's apparently a very busy guy,
and his lifestyle is kind of crazy, and maybe that turned her off.
Also, at the end of the date, he said she went in for a kiss,
and he doesn't kiss on the first date because why is that, Ethan?
I just, you know, I want to be
respectful. I don't think it's appropriate
on a first date and I'm not like most
dudes. How long has it been since
your date? It's been about a week.
And how many times have you tried to
reach out to her? I've tried a couple
times. You know, I text her and
I gave her a call. I left a voicemail
and then I sent another text.
Okay. And nothing? No response at all?
No, nothing.
Okay. Alright, well, I'm going to call
her right now and see if we can figure out why she's not getting back
to you, okay? Alright.
Well, that sounds good, but hey guys, I just want to let you know
I do have a meeting coming up.
Okay, we'll make it quick.
Yeah, we'll try to figure it out quickly for you.
All right.
Um,
I'm going to dial her phone right now.
Here we go.
Hello.
Hi,
may I speak to Irene,
please?
This is her.
Hey,
Irene,
how are you?
This is Jubal from the Jubal show.
Um, I'm sorry. Jubal. Is that what you said? Yes is Jubal from the Jubal show I'm sorry, Jubal?
Is that what you said?
Yes, Jubal from the Jubal show, it's a radio show
You can also find it in podcast form if you'd like to
Okay
And you're calling me because?
I'm calling you
Because somebody sent us an email about you
And by the way, on the phone right now is me
My name's Jubal, my hot ass wife Alex Freya
That's me.
And English Evan.
Hello.
Hi.
We do a segment on our show where if you go out with someone on a date and
then you ghost them,
they can email us to figure out what happened.
And you recently went out on a date with a guy named Ethan.
Uh,
yes,
I did.
I went out on a date with a guy named Ethan.
Yeah.
Well,
Ethan emailed us because he said that you aren't calling him back, and he really liked you, and he wants to know why.
Hmm. Okay. So weird.
Do you have a second to tell us?
Sure, I guess.
I can tell you why we think you're not calling him back if you're interested.
Oh, sure. I'd love you why we think you're not calling him back if you're interested. Oh, sure.
I'd love to hear that.
Yeah.
Well, he described your date.
He said you guys went out for coffee.
He thought everything was going wonderful.
He did say, though, when you guys were parting ways that you went in for a kiss and he turned you down because he doesn't kiss on the first date.
And we thought maybe that that was the reason.
Like, you felt embarrassed about that.
No. No. No.
No?
No.
Yeah, no.
I definitely didn't try to kiss him.
Okay, so why are you not calling him back?
So he, okay.
So, like, don't get me wrong.
He's super attractive.
When I first met him, he seemed really cool.
But on this actual date, it was just all about
himself.
Like, he claims to be an entrepreneur, he drives a Camaro, and he went on and on about
this Camaro, but there was just no depth.
Okay, I mean, the Camaro should have been a sign for you.
I feel like Camaro or Mustang is like, get out of there.
Yeah, run.
Okay, so he's self-centered.
Yeah, he's self-centered, but I don't even know, like, what kind of business he has, because he kept saying his startups, his startups, his startups, but he never really explained it.
Okay. startups, but he never really explained it. But then like the real kicker for me was I checked out all the social handles and stuff.
And in the bio on his Instagram, it says serial entrepreneur.
Okay.
Wow.
Entrepreneur is spelled wrong.
It's what?
It's spelled wrong like incorrectly serial entrepreneur
but he can't even spell it yeah how did he spell it so he spelled it e n t r p r e n e w e r
brand new like a newer thing. The newest businessman.
Yeah. Okay.
And there was a photo of a private
jet, but it just looked like he took it
from an ad and just threw it on.
Oh, okay. I wonder if he
knows how to spell entrepreneur if he did that on purpose.
Oh, maybe.
Someone like that isn't going to
do that as a joke. Yeah.
I doubt it.
Well, why don't we just ask him about it?
What do you think?
No, no, I'm good.
I think we should ask him.
I think we should too.
Yeah, Irene, he's actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you.
He's on the phone with us.
Yep, if he hasn't taken another meeting.
If he's still there.
Yeah.
Yes, Irene, I am here.
So it's spelled wrong in my bio. Uh, yeah, yeah. Oh my gosh. I can't, that's, that's embarrassing. Did you know
that, uh, you, you know, you obviously tell yourself as a pretty busy man, businessman,
did you know that you spelled entrepreneur wrong in your bio section? No, it has to be one of my assistants
and that's so embarrassing.
Oh, one of my assistants.
Oh, really?
One of your assistants?
And you don't like check it to make sure that,
you know, you don't quality check your product?
I mean, you know, I have a lot going on
and, you know, it's just like a very small detail
that could have easily been overlooked.
Okay, so you have multiple assistants okay um so like name two of them for me um ashley and
uh trina oh yeah yeah i totally i yeah no i totally call bulls**t. And how about that private jet on your profile picture?
Yeah, that's a good question.
That's my business partner's private jet.
Okay.
Of course it is.
Do your business partners have photos of your Camaro on their profile?
Look, you can choose to believe me or not, but ultimately it's going to be your loss.
Whoa. Okay. Like that kiss, huh that i totally missed out on that kiss well before you before you lose everything irene would you like to go out on another date with ethan we'll pay for it even
though we probably don't need to right ethan no you don't no i'm good but i'm totally sure that
you have so many other options, Ethan.
And, you know, there are so many girls out there that you can take on world tour on your business partner's private jet.
That's fine.
I mean, you know, I'll find my queen one day.
And when you see me on the cover of Forbes, you'll remember this conversation.
Hashtag goals.
Okay.
Yeah, I will. I will. Yeah. Hey, at least one thing we
learned. If you're going to call yourself an entrepreneur, learn how to spell the word.
Jubal's first date follow-up only on the new hits 106.1.
Hey everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my
podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra
Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my
friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well.
I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about?
Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric,
on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Catch Jon Stewart back in action on The Daily Show
and in your ears with The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast.
From his hilarious satirical takes on
today's politics and entertainment to the unique voices of correspondents and contributors it's
your perfect companion to stay on top of what's happening now plus you'll get special content
just for podcast listeners like in-depth interviews and a roundup of the week's top
headlines listen on the iheart radio appio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever
you get your podcasts. Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are
pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B,
as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.
That's right. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms.
With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, we share our personal journeys navigating our 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engage in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.
From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that will resonate
with your experiences, Decisions Decisions is going to be your go-to source for the open
dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world.
Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom
of authentic connections.
Tune in and join in the conversation.
Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.