First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - There was a glitter glitch in the ghosting saga

Episode Date: May 22, 2025

Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Okay. Okay, okay. That's a good amount of time. Yeah. So have you been trying to get ahold of him? How have you felt during that time? Oh man. I haven't been so nervous. Like I actually did reach out to him two days ago and he didn't respond.

Okay. Well, let's talk about your date. Like what could have gone wrong? How was it? I thought it was great. You know, like it was a classic get to know you thing, coffee in a bookstore. And you know, we just like kept hanging out

and we watched some people watching, you know, like by the park and he's really funny, low key, you know. She said low key. Okay. Yeah, and we had this moment where he brushed my hair back while we were sitting on the bench and well, things got a little romantic after that. I mean, it just made me think he likes me. And he was real. Like none of the like performative stuff you get on the apps and like, I felt so seen.

I don't know. He even remembered the book. I said I loved him high school. Oh, that's cool That is cool. So you felt like he was vibing you too. Yeah, and his voice is so dreamy I don't know. I'm just like so into him and I don't get it. I thought he was into me, too Okay. Well, why do you think he's ghosting you? I can't really think of anything I just feel like maybe he found me too talkative or he didn't like my jokes, you know, like, I mean, I made this like one political joke, but like,

it wasn't even a joke that I made up. You know, I just like Google jokes to talk about on dates and so you went political, like I'm not even a political person. Like I don't care about politics, you know, but maybe he found what I said offensive. Like so you went political. Like I'm not even a political person. Like I don't care about politics, you know, but maybe he found what I said offensive. Yeah. I mean, usually they say talking about politics on a first date is a bad thing. Yeah. But you Google jokes before you go on dates. That's what they gave you. If you go prepared, you don't know. I mean, I've never done it before, but I think that's kind of cool actually. I'm about to start.

So you go to dates with like a list of pre-approved or pre-Google jokes to use. Yeah. That's cool. I think that like actually if I were to go on a date with you, I think that was dope. If you told me that you Google things, I'd be like, that's awesome. That's effort, right? Yeah. Yeah.

I mean, I didn't tell him. I mean, you don't tell the person you're on a date with that you've Googled jokes or something. That's like months into the relationship. Then you, then you tell them. Right. When they're like, she had all these jokes, but now she doesn't. You're like, yeah, it's cause I've been Googling them.

But yeah. How was his mood after the political joke then? What did it change after that? No, I mean, I mean, he laughed, you know, but I don't know if it was like an awkward laugh. Did you guys change the subject after that? Um, yeah, I mean, honestly, the conversation just kept flowing naturally. Like, and then we just like made people, made fun of people walking by and, and,

and I don't know, I just, I, I didn't really think anything bad happened. So that's why I'm just very confused, you know? He gave me a little kiss on the cheek and that was it. Well, so how did you guys leave it? Did you plan on seeing each other again or was it just like, oh, this was fun, thanks? Yeah, yeah. I mean, I was like, okay, well, I'll see you soon, hopefully.

And then that's kinda like how we ended it. And then these days go by and I'm just like Replaying the date in my head over and over again, and I'm like wait. What did I do like? I don't get it I thought we were good. I wasn't being weird or anything when I texted him two days ago like I just you know sent him a playful tech and You know, he didn't respond. So it's like what's up? Okay Well, we'll try to figure it out for you And, you know, he didn't respond. So it's like, what's up? Okay.

Well, we'll try and figure it out for you then. We'll play a song, come back, and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date if you still want one, all right? Yeah, I want one. All right, okay. We'll play a song, come back,

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First aid follow up powered by the advocates injury attorneys online at advocateslaw.com. If you're just joining us for today's first aid of follow up, Tasha is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jordan. So we're going to call him in just a second and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. You still want one, right Tasha? Tasha Jones Oh yeah. Robert Furrow And maybe get her another date if she wants

one, which she said she does. But first Tasha, let's get a recap of your date real quick before we call him. Tasha Jones Oh yeah. It was such a beautiful date. You know, we went to a bookstore and a coffee shop and then we like sat at the park and people watched and it was, it was literally like a movie, like a romantic comedy movie and I was the star and he was the hero. The only reason you can think of that he might be ghosting you is because you

made a political joke on your date. Yeah, but I don't care about politics. All right. Well, are we ready for us to call him? Yeah. Okay. Here we go. Yeah. Hello. Jordan, please. Jordan, how are you? My name is Jubal and I'm calling from a radio show. It's called the Jubal Show. Hi, I'm Nina. Also on the show. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Wait, is this a prank?

No, it's not. We're calling you today for a different reason though. It's not a prank. Okay. So we do a segment on our show. We're going to be talking about the show. We're going to be talking about the show. We're going to be talking about the show.

We're going to be talking about the show. We're going to be talking about the show. We're going to be talking about the show. We're going to be talking about the show. We're going to be talking about the show. We're going to be talking about the show. We're going to be talking about the show. We're going to be talking about the show.

We're going to be talking about the show. We're going to be talking about the show. We're going to be talking about the show. We're going to be talking about the not. We're calling you today for a different reason though. It's not a prank. Okay. So we do a segment on our show. It's called the first day follow up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them, that person can ask us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So we got an email about you from someone that you've been out with but aren't calling back. Oh, wait, Tasha?

Yes, it is Tasha. Yeah, she emailed us. And she told us about your date. She said she really liked you, but she's confused because it's been nine days and you haven't responded to her. I mean, she was great. The date was actually a lot of fun and she made me laugh a lot. She's actually really funny.

Do you mind telling us why you're not talking to her though? Uh, it's the glitter. The what? She had a lot of glitter on her face, like, like a lot of it, you know? And I don't know. I just, by the time we were done, it was all over me and it was all over my clothes and my car and I could never get it off. And I know, I know that sounds crazy but I'm serious

it's just I kept finding glitter on myself for days it was like I was dating a disco ball so what was it like her eyeshadow? I don't know she's wearing her hair I guess her face I think it was on her hands and had it been on her hands I don't know it was everywhere oh she had that much glitter on I mean I guess it was like I wore it all day. Kind of a clean freak. Okay. Wait, you ghosted me because of glitter? Hey Jordan, that's Tasha.

She's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh my, this is embarrassing. Uh, hi Tasha. Look, it's nothing personal. I swear I really did have a great date and you were very pretty and hilarious. But I'm thinking about methods and it just stressed me out and I can't have glitter all over me. Like I took a bath in it.

It's called Sparkle Jordan and some of us like to shine. Oh, okay. Okay. It's fine, but I don't like the sparkle. I need to kind of think that's like a little kid thing to do. Wow. No. Okay. Sparkle life, you know, and I'm a sparkly girl and I don't think there's anything wrong with him. And I mean, you, you've been to strip clubs before, so I'm sure you've had your you know load of I don't really go to strip clubs like that because of this reason. I'm so it sparkles I don't even know what it is. I

Mean what's so bad about it? Like it just makes your life a little bit more shiny. I Mean, I'll help you clean it up. It's impossible to clean up. I'm sorry. The date was great but I just it was like it was ending up in my food because it was all over my hands and my hair and all my job. If there was less Jordan would you be down with that? Jordan would you like another date with Tasha will pay for it if Tasha was willing to cut back on the glitter a little bit There's no glitter involved yeah, I mean yeah, there's a good day Yeah, I'm not sure about that because I am a sparkly girl I don't know if I even want to live a life without glitter Wow, okay stand on yours girl

if I even want to live a life without glitter. Wow. Okay. Stand on yours, girl. Okay. Well, I mean, maybe we take like somewhere less glitter friendly, like a pool. I feel like that would be worse, Jordan. Honestly, you're swimming in it then. I mean, I already was. Just embrace it. I mean, I'm not even sure anymore, Jordan, because I thought we had something special and I can't believe you ghosted me because I sparkle. And I don't even know.

I don't even think I want another date with you. I don't want you dimming my light, okay? Oh. Okay, so is that a no then, Tasha? You don't want another date with Jordan? No. No, I will pass. Okay, well, at least you know now why he's ghosting you

and that he's probably not a good fit for you. Yeah. I'm very disappointed about this, Jordan. Aww. Hey, I'm sorry to disappoint you, but I'm sure there's a lot of guys who would love to have your sparkle all over them. Yeah, there is. And his name is Nate,

and I'm going on a date with him actually tonight. So whatever. Okay! Jubal's First Date Follow-Up This week on Dear Chelsea with me, Chelsea Handler, Jay Shetty joins us. The people who need the most love often ask for it in the most unloving ways. So when I see someone's behavior, the first thing I try and think of is how is that a plea for love? Whatever behavior you see from someone, it's them asking for love in some way.

And I think we see it in children the most where when a child's throwing a tantrum, they're simply asking for presence, love and connection. Listen to Dear Chelsea on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. So in the last month, the Midas Touch Network beat Rogan, Tucker Carlson, Candace Owens, Charlie Kirk, and Ben Shapiro all combined. What happens when three brothers take on right-wing media and start winning? I find out on the latest episode of Next Question

with me, Katie Couric. We just want people to live their lives and be happy and be able to enjoy it without some, you know, lunatics screaming in their face every three seconds. Listen to Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. I'm Andrea Gunning, host of the podcast, Betrayal.

Police Lieutenant Joel Kern used his badge to fool everyone. Most of all, his wife, Caroline. podcast, Betrayal. Police Lieutenant Joel Kern used his badge to fool everyone. Most of all, his wife, Caroline. He texted, I've ruined our lives. You're going to want to divorce me. How far would he go to cover up what he'd done? The fact that you lied is absolutely horrific. And quite frankly, I question how many other women are out there that may bring forward

allegations in the future. Listen to Betrayal on the iHeartRadio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Yo, K-Pop fans, are you ready? It's your boy, Bum-Han, and I'm bringing you the K-Factor, the podcast that takes you straight into the heart of K-Pop. We're talking music, idols, exclusive interviews, and even the real behind the scenes K-pop stories. Plus, you're the fans, you're part of the show. And you can get a chance to jump in, share your opinions, and be part of the conversation like never before.

And trust me, you never know where we might pop up next. So listen to the K-Factor starting on April 16 on iHeartRadio Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcasts. This isn't just a podcast, it's a K-pop experience. Are you in? Let's go. You're listening to an iHeart Podcast.