First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - There were more than two people on the date in this First Date Follow Up!

Episode Date: February 11, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".Tena isn't getting a call back from Malcolm and the problem may be that there were more than two people on their date, and no, they never discussed a third person! Who was on the date and could The Jubal Show get her a second date!?Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Yeah? You're not an art critic, are you? Um, no. Okay, good. Just checking because it's time for your first day follow up. Tina is on the phone. She's not getting a call back from a dude named Malcolm. And she said that on their date, they went to one of those sip and paint dates, you know,

where you go have some drinks and they tell you something to paint and you paint it. And I was like, that could be a reason you're not getting a call back if you're an art critic and you were just super rough on him after the painting. I was like, that is terrible. And then you wrote a whole blog for whatever blog you write for and it's gone viral. And now he's the laughingstock of the art world. That would be a reason you're not getting a call back, but you don't really know why you're not getting a call back, right? No, I really don't. None of that happens. Okay. So it said you went to a sip and paint date with Malcolm, the dude you went out with. How long has it been since your date? Well, it's been like a month. You know, I texted him like,

yeah, I texted him three times and he left me on read three times. And like, I still understand. Whose idea was it to go to the paint and sip? It was his idea. He chose it. We painted like this, you know, like wildlife scene with a tiger and a bull. I mean, how did the date actually go?

And did he ask you if you like wine? Because usually it's like a wine. Yeah, I drink wine. I love wine. And how did the date actually go? Was it a good time? You guys vibe good? Yeah, I mean, overall, the date was smooth.

I had a really good time. We talked a lot. We laughed. We really related to each other as single parents, which I love that. Do you think maybe you're not getting a call back because he thought your painting was bad? Oh.

I mean, I hope not. I'm joking, I doubt that's why. Well, how did the date end? I mean, we were done painting, he took me home, I even got like a little you know a little kiss afterwards

and then he actually he took my painting home with him and said he was going to hang it up on the wall oh that's nice

yeah I thought it was super cute I thought it was a good sign that the date went well did you take his um no I didn't take his he wanted it

oh maybe that's it he's like dude I was like gonna put her painting up and she didn't even want mine. I'm not calling her back. I know he wanted to show, you know, his kid as well what he did because he does love to paint. So I didn't want to take it from him. Okay.

I mean, that's cool. That's a really, that's a smooth move, right? To say that even if he wasn't planning on it. Good job him. But I can see why you thought you'd get a call back. Yeah. What do you think happened? Yeah. I mean, I don't know. I really can't planning on it. Good job him. But I can see why you thought you'd get a call back. Yeah. What do you think happened? Yeah, I mean,

I don't know. I really can't think of anything. If I had to like guess, maybe because, you know, I didn't offer to pay at the end and it was kind of expensive. For his painting? Maybe that.

Pay for his painting? Yeah, maybe. No, for like the whole experience, like the ticket. Okay, all right. I was thinking like, you know, $100,000, I take that painting home with me.

You're an amazing artist. I didn't hear what she said. So she said that she didn't offer or she did offer? I did not offer. Oh, you didn't offer to pay for your half. Gotcha. Yeah, maybe. Sorry about that.

I was being, I was joking around too much there. Maybe, yeah, maybe, maybe that's it then. Maybe he wanted you guys to split it. Did he seem upset when you guys paid? Not that I noticed. Like I didn't, I didn't notice anything different. I mean, he kind of offered to do it. I don't know.

That's the only thing I can think of. Okay. All right. Well, we'll play a song, come back, and then call him and see if we can figure it out, all right? Thank you. Yep. We'll get your first date follow-up right after this.

It's The Jubal Show. In the middle of your first date follow-up, if you're just joining us, Tina is on the phone. She's not getting a call back from a dude named malcolm and they went to a sip and paint night she said they had a great time and she doesn't know why she's not getting a call back even at the end of the night she got a kiss he actually took her painting and said i'm gonna put it on my wall so cute so they'll be at my house the next time you come over yeah i don't know if he said it that way but there wasn't a next time he said something and yeah there's been no next time because he hasn't talked to

her and it's been a month so she doesn't know why she's been that way, but... There wasn't a next time. He said something. And yeah, there's been no next time because he hasn't talked to her. And it's been a month. So she doesn't know why she's been ghosted. The only reason she can think of is that maybe she didn't pay for half of it. So we're about to call him and see if we can figure out what happened. All right, Tina, are you ready? I am ready. Okay, here we go. Hello?

Hey, can I speak to Malcolm, please? This is Malcolm. Malcolm, how are you? Not bad. My name is Jubal from a radio show called The Jubal Show. And my name is Alex from The Jubal Show. It's a radio show. And my name is English Eppin from The Jubal Show. It's a radio show.

And we're calling you because we got an email about you from one of our listeners we do a segment on our show called the First Date Follow-up it's where if you go out on a date with someone and then they end up and then you end up ghosting them

they can email us to get you on the phone and find out what happened and we got an email about you from a girl named Tina oh yeah

so Tina emailed us and told us a little bit about your sip and paint date and she's just wondering why it's been a month and she hasn't heard from you. I don't really know if I want to go over this information with you guys. Why? Why not? It just doesn't seem like something you should really put out into the public, maybe.

Well, here's the thing. She hit us up and she wants to know. And she does know that there might be something that you say that she might not want to hear but she's okay with it. She's ready.

Did you have fun at least on the date? The date was okay. Yeah, there was nothing wrong with the date. She told us that you went out and you did the sip and paint thing and that you guys had a lot of fun.

She thought, and she said, even at the end of the night, you took the thing that she painted and you were going to put it on your wall and you haven't talked to her. That's kind of messed up. Actually. I'll tell you what,

I'll tell you what, I'll tell you what she thought. Okay. She thought you weren't calling her back because she didn't pay for her half. Is that it? No, that is not it at all. I mean, I didn't't calling her back because she didn't pay for her half. Is that it? No, that is not it at all. I mean, I didn't, I didn't, I wouldn't, I wouldn't want to take any money from her. Uh, yeah, I'm, I'm, I don't, I don't know how to like delicately put this. So I'm just going to do, she's too much. She's two months pregnant. She's two months

pregnant. She showed up to our, I'm sorry. What did you say? She's pregnant. She's two months pregnant. She showed up to our first date. I'm sorry, what? What did you say? She's pregnant? You heard me clear as day. She's two months pregnant. How do you know that? Are you guessing?

She told you. No, no, no. She didn't say it like right out the gate, but it's a stipend paint. So the whole thing is to like get a buzz on while you're just doing the artwork. So she wasn't drinking at all. And finally I asked her about it

and she was a little hesitant. But finally, she came clean. And she was like, yeah, I'm two months pregnant. And I'm keeping it. I have so many questions. And you didn't know? No, I didn't know. She's like, who signs up for a date two months pregnant?

Literally. I have so many questions. Maybe we should ask her. I seriously have so many questions right now. Yeah, I have a lot of questions, but I have no interest in getting any answers because I have no interest in going on a date with a woman who's too

much pregnant. Okay, well, any interest in talking to her because she's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Yeah. No, no. She just like eight weeks ago, she was catching it raw and now she wants another hitter. That's not me. She's on the phone. Did you hear that? I don't think he's registered it. Did you say she's on the phone? Yeah. Yes, she is.

I forgot to tell you that part. Hey, Malcolm. Oh, hey, I'm sorry. I didn't realize you were listening and I went off. I'm sorry. Yeah, I'm sorry that I had to do this, but I just, you know, really wanted to know, um, why, you know, you left me on the road. So I don't know. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I just, so are you with the baby dad? Um, no, um, I actually am not going to, uh, go back to him. He's, he's, he's abusive, but I am still going to keep the baby. Okay, that's really actually brave of you to go on a first date.

It is. Two months pregnant. Yeah, I'm sorry. I didn't tell you about it. I just, you know, it's not something I'm proud of. I just want to go around telling everybody I'm still trying to figure all this out. You know, it's a little embarrassing. It's, you know, a little complicated.

And we've been talking for a while, and I just really wanted to meet you. So I, you know, just thought it would be okay to go on a date. And, yeah. If you're going on a date with someone, you should tell them that you're pregnant because I'm looking for a girlfriend, and it's obvious that you're looking for a daddy or maybe that or something that I'm just that's just we're not looking for the same thing yeah but you said that you wanted you know the sort of family one day and I don't know I wasn't one day I wasn't thinking that far and

honestly yeah I just thought you would be happy for me or you know for us maybe I don't know I thought this could work out. It was just a date. Okay, yeah, but like you didn't, like 50% of the date was drinking wine and you couldn't do that. You know what I mean? You might want to, I mean, just like make somebody aware of it so that they're not surprised when they go out on the date

and they're like, why are you not drinking? You're like, I'm pregnant. If you would just let people know that beforehand, we can avoid all of this awkwardness. It's just, that's a really big one to like. Well, now, hey Malcolm, now that you know, would you like to go out on another date with Tina? We'll pay for it. No, definitely not.

I'm not looking to be a dad again. No, no, no, no. Okay. Yeah. I mean, whatever. You know what? Some of the best people have kids. So screw you.

You're lost. And you know what? Some of the best people have kids, so screw you. You're lost. And you know what? Get this. If any of you out there listening right now want to go on a date with a hot pregnant lady, dial in right now. Let them know, okay? Oh. Yep, and I'm pregnant, so I'm a sure thing.

Yeah, you don't have to worry about getting her pregnant. Probably going to get a lot of texts. The Jubal Show on demand. Ugh, we're so done with new year, new you. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them.

More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. This week on the R&B Money Podcast,

Tank and Jay Valentine sit down with the one and only Snoop Dogg. I wanted to be here personally to come give y'all flowers and let y'all know y'all doing an amazing job. I love the outlet. I love how y'all treat the artists that come on here. I come give y'all flowers and let y'all know y'all doing an amazing job. I love the outlet. I love how y'all treat the artists that come on here. I love how y'all speak to the realization of R&B music and R&B money. Snoop Dogg on R&B money.

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