First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - There's a bed, but not the one you sleep on in this First Date Follow Up!

Episode Date: March 23, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".There's a bed, but not the one you sleep on in this First Date Follow Up! Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Why is Spence blowing her off? I don't know. Brooklyn, what's up? Tell us what's going on. Well, just want to say that I love you guys and I listen to you all the time. And I wish we weren't chatting under better circumstances. Well, thank you for listening. So you got ghosted by a guy named Spencer, right? That's right. And he's hot. I can't lie.

I want to see him now. Well, when was the last time that you heard from him or has he not responded at all? We had a date like two weeks ago, but I, you know, it's been a minute. Okay. And have you tried texting him or calling him or anything like that? Of course. I texted him that night thanking him for the good time, and he literally hasn't responded. I mean, he's just like a ghost. And did you text him at all after that?

Yeah, I tried him again, but he just hasn't replied. Okay. That is ghosting. You have no idea why at all. I have no idea. And it just sucks because I had fun. Like, was it fireworks and mind-blowing chemistry? No, but it was fun.

I just can't fathom any reason why he'd ignore me. Like, the date seemed perfectly fine. And obviously you really want this date because you said he was effing hot, right? Yeah. Wait, how did you guys meet again? We met on Tinder and he asked me out. All right. Just like every dude asks every woman out on Tinder.

What did you guys do on your date? Let's see if we can figure it out. We went for dinner. But, you know, I just, i really got done up for this you know i think i the entire night i just i got a spray tan that morning i had a blowout and i just you know later i just thought what and the date felt good and then boom cricket you went on a date with crickets i think that's a miss too. Okay, back to the thing. He asked me out, you know, so I know the interest was there, like initially,

which now I can't decide if that's good or bad because it was there and clearly it's gone now. Okay. Is that the usual amount of preparation you put into a date, like getting a spray tan on the morning of? No, not always. Is it just because he's super hot?

Yeah, he's so hot. I really want to see this guy. Why? You want to get a spray tan and date him? I mean, maybe.

I mean, it could be, you know, Spencer too is a good name. Did you guys do anything after dinner? We just had a couple of drinks.

Like, you know, we were at for an hour and a half. It was a school night and both of us were working the next day. I liked that though. It was kind of chill. Okay, so you only hung out for like 90 minutes? And you screwed it up in 90 minutes you screwed it up. That's all it took you?

Leave me alone. Well, how did the date end? He gave me a kiss. Oh, he did? Yeah, and he said he had a great night too. Did you guys meet there? Yeah. Mm-hmm.

Yeah. Did you make plans to go out again? No, but it just kind of felt like we would. Yeah. Well, if he kissed you at the end of the date, I would think you'd probably think that he would call you back. All right, well, we'll try to figure it out. We'll play a song, come back,

and then call him and get your first date follow-up next. Sound good? Mm-hmm. Great. We'll do it after this. It's the Jubal Show. Brooklyn is on the phone and she went out with a dude named Spencer

and now Spencer isn't calling her back and she has no idea why. She said they went out and just hung out like normal, regular date, dinner, drinks, and hung out for 90 full minutes. So it's like a soccer game. 90 minutes, and that was it.

But he did kiss her at the end of the night, and after her date, she hasn't heard a thing from him. It's been two weeks, and we're about to see if we can get him on the phone and find out why. All right, Brooklyn, are you ready? Yes. I mean, I'm nervous, but I'm ready. Here we go.

Hello? Hi, may I speak to Spencer, please? This is Spencer. Who is this? Hi, Spencer. My name is Jubal Fresh from The Jubal Show. And this is Alex Fresh. And this is English Evan. And Christian Gray Snow. It's a radio show.

Radio show? Yeah. What's going on? This is The Jubal Show. This is really like innovative radio stuff that we're doing here. It's called The Jubal Shows Who's Chillin' Check-In. So, Spencer, you're chillin'? Awesome. We do this on the fives.

I'm chillin'. Chillin' Check-In's on the fives. Spencer's chillin' right now. We'll have another one coming up in five minutes. No, we're calling you because we do a segment called The First Date Follow-Up. That's where if you go out on a date with someone and then you end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and find out why.

We're calling you today because we got an email from a woman named Brooklyn. Uh-huh. Yes, we did. You sound thrilled. Quite the reaction there. So why aren't you calling

Brooklyn back? Something tells me this is going to get real weird real quick. It doesn't have to get weird unless you want it to get weird, Spence. You want it to get weird? Not really. All right. Well, then don't get weird with it. Okay.

I feel like you're making it weird. I think I was. Sorry about that. I think I do that often. Anyway, yeah, no. We want to know why you're making it weird. I think I was. Sorry about that. I think I do that often. Anyway, yeah, no, we want to know why you're not calling her back. So what, you guys are just wanting to get an answer out of me as to why I'm not calling her or something? Yes, that's exactly what we're doing.

Jeez. You can do it this is not something I'm really proud of I have this weird thing with feet oh you have a foot fetish and she's not into it no no no no it's not like that I'm not turned on by feet by any means

believe me that's not it it's just I'm really picky about types of feet I can be around. What, does she have some really not good feet? I don't know. I just, I hate, I really hate really long, weird toenails. So did she have long, weird toenails? That's what she had.

No, no. I'm not texting her back because of her toes in general. It's not that they're long. She has really large toenail beds, and it's kind of freaky. Toenail beds? Like she puts her feet up on a bed? I don't know. I told you this would get weird. Toenail bed? her feet up on a bed? I don't know. Like her feet slip on a little toenail bed?

What's a toenail bed? Oh, is that underneath the toenail? The bed of the toenail? Oh, okay. I was picturing toes on like little beds. Little pillows. Yeah, little nails on little pillows. Long ones.

So you just didn't like her feet? Yeah. I mean, yeah, but specifically her tail a little bit. It just kind of freaked me out. Okay. So she was just like flaunting them at you or like why were they in your face? No, it's just something I noticed. I mean, she was wearing heels where I could see her feet and they were just right there

and I couldn't help but notice them and it was just not my thing. I just. Okay, wait a sec. Spencer, Spencer, what the. Hey Spencer, Brooklyn's on the phone and she wants to talk to you. She's been listening this whole time so now she heard you call her feet,

her toenail beds nasty. So Spencer, what the. My toenails? Okay, see, this is up. She's on the phone. Look, I didn't want to do this, and I wanted to let her down as best I could, you know? Oh, so the best you could is just ignore me? What else was I supposed to do text you saying I saw your toes and your heels and as we were leaving and they weren't cute

I can't do that well you just did except on a radio show you called me Brooklyn you're the one who put this on a radio show yeah hang on you clearly have some weird issues going on my feet are weird I've never heard of it

our toenail beds? Why do you even know what that is? You crazy fuck. It's not that. Like, it's actually a pretty common thing, a nail bed. Yeah, except you don't hear. Who hasn't heard of a nail bed? You don't hear dudes really harping on nail beds, though, you know?

I think we've all heard of nail beds just not being into someone because of their nail bed. I mean, and also, like, not being into someone because of their nail bed. I mean, and also like not being into somebody's feet. Like I dated a girl one time and the first time I saw her feet,

that was the last time I saw her feet. Honestly, they were huge, way bigger than mine. I was like, are you an NBA player? That says 25 shoe.

Get out of here. Yeah, so I can see how you'd be turned off by the shoe, but the nail bed specifically is kind of weird. Anyway,

I'll stop while you're, I don't think, your head at all. Spencer, would you like to go on another date with Brooklyn? We'll pay for it. I think we all know the answer to that one. Well, I haven't heard Spencer say it, Brooklyn. Listen, I'm not saying it's not weird, my saying, but it's my truth. You know, I just don't think there's a connection. And once I'm turned off by something, I'm done.

It's no offense to Brooklyn. She's nice and everything. I just, it's not going to work. Well, I'm just turned off by your double negative in a sentence. Bad English kills me. And me and my toenail bed say, it's you. The Jubal Show on demand. Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well.

I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, Ears Edition podcast. Join late-night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show, Ears Edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid.

Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. That's right. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, we share our personal journeys navigating our 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engage in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations. From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that will resonate with your experiences, Decisions Decisions is going to be your go-to source for the open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections.

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