First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - There's one thing you should NEVER bring on a date in this First Date Follow Up!

Episode Date: November 19, 2021

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".There's on thing that you should never bring on a date! James called The Jubal Show four days and five emails after going on a date with Rachel! Why won't she respond to his emails!? The Jubal Show is about to get the answer in this First Date Follow Up! Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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First day follow-up. Don't think the guy on the phone today for a first date follow-up has waited long enough to do a first date follow-up, but whatever, he sent five emails. Five? Really? He sent us a bunch of emails, so we're going to do it. But I don't think that he's waited long enough. James is on the phone today for a first date follow-up.

He's not getting a call back from a woman named Rachel that he went on a date with. And James, how long has it been since your date? It has been four days. Four days? Four days. I thought it was going to be same day. Yeah, I mean, it's a couple days she hasn't responded to you.

Are you sure she's ghosting you? Because four days, it could be she's busy. Well, yeah, I mean, well, I don't know. That's why I'm calling you guys to find out.

It's, I thought we had a really, I thought we had a really nice date. And then like the next day I sent her a text saying I really enjoyed the date. I didn't hear back from her. Then the day after that, I went on her Facebook page and I sent her a meme. She didn't respond to that. And then I liked and commented on one of her Instagram posts

and she never responded to that. You don't have any shame? Well, yeah, but I just don't know what's going on. We had a really fun time. Still, I mean, that's fine. But she does have the option to not respond, you know? Yeah. Well, yeah, but, I mean, at least she could respond to me telling me that she doesn't want to respond to me. Right. I'm very curious, James.

Tell me anything you can about her. Like, you know, what did you like, all that stuff. She, well, she had the cutest nose in the world. What? So I took her to this bar. I looked up some Yelp reviews, and this bar had some great Yelp reviews. And we went there, and she ordered this drink called Makeout on the Beach. Oh, that's a good sign.

That sounds like a sex on the beach. So it was like a variation of that drink and she took a sip of it and her nose just scrunched up like a little bunny.

Oh God. And it was just the cutest. It was so freaking cute when she did that. I know the feeling though.

Alex and I are married if you didn't know that. There's constantly things like that that Alex will do and I'll be like oh oh, my God, that was so cute. And it's so adorable watching him do it. So you like the way her nose crinkled?

Yeah. I mean, we had a nice conversation. It was all, I commented on how cute her nose was, and maybe she thought that was a little creepy. What did she say when you said that? She blushed a little and got into sort of didn't really say anything.

So you're a nose guy? Yeah, somebody or boob guys, I'm a nose guy. Nose and toes? Nose and toes. So do you think that maybe it creeped her out? Maybe that's too soon for your nose is cute when it crinkles up compliment? Well, also when I, you know, she ordered a makeout on the beach and I said, jokingly,

I said, well, you know, is that a sign of things to come? Oh, James. Yeah. I mean, well, she did chuckle and she said, it depends on how the rest of the date goes. That's some cute flirtation right there. It's cute if she thinks he's cute. Well, the way she said it, though, is flirty back. Right.

Depends how the date goes, sucker. Or she gives him saying that to be nice. Yeah. I think being nice. So what did it end with a make out on the beach? Oh, no, no, no. We we had some drinks, we had some conversation, and it ended right there at the bar.

Not even a hug? No, not even a hug. Okay, so it sounded flirty from what you just said. Something might have changed after that, or she might not have really been into it. Is there anything else you can think of? I can't, that's the only thing I can think of. Uh, maybe, maybe she thought I came off a little too creepy, which was not my intent. I was just,

I'm not a very, I'm not a very good flirter. And, uh, uh, and, uh, maybe she took my flirting as creepiness, but, uh, I'm a, I'm a But I'm a really nice guy, and I just want to find out what's going on here. All right. Okay, cool. Well, we'll play a song, come back, and then call her and see if we can figure out why she's not calling you back, okay? Oh, that'd be great. Thank you, guys. We'll get your first day follow-up next.

It's the Jubal Show. James? Yeah? It's good that that drink was a makeout on the beach and not a sex on the beach, because that joke you made about that would have been definitely wouldn't have hit right. It's good that that drink was a makeout on the beach and not a sex on the beach. Because that joke you made about that would have been definitely wouldn't have hit right if it was the other thing. Right in the middle of today's first date follow up and James is on the phone. He went out with a woman named Rachel.

He really likes her a lot. He took her out for drinks. He said that he said the conversation was fun. He thought it was flirty. He commented on her nose being cute when it crinkles up. And she ordered a drink called a makeout on the beach, which is, I guess,

their version of kind of a sex on the beach. And then he made a comment that he thinks might have turned her off. And that was, hey, maybe we could do that later. Well, you didn't say it like that. How'd you say it, James? I said, is that a sign

of what's going to happen later tonight? Yeah. That's what I said. Okay. That's better than be like, hey, can we do that? So anyway, you think that that might've been one of the things that she didn't like. Maybe she thought you were being creepy when you were just trying to be flirty because you're a bad flirter.

Yes. Okay. All right. Well, we're going to dial her phone number right now and see if we can figure out if that is the reason or if there's another reason. Here we go. Hello. Hi, my name is Jubal from a radio show called The Jubal Show. And my name is Alex from a radio show called The Jubal Show. And my name is English Evan from a radio show called The Jubals.

And we're looking for Rachel. Hi, it's me. Wait, are you calling me? Are you serious? It's me? You know about us? Yes, of course. I listen to you all the time.

Please tell me I won't take it to the show. Did I win tickets to the show? What show? What show? The concert or something, right? The concert or something. You just won some tickets. We're calling because we got an email about you

from someone who listens to the show and you and him went on a date and now you're not calling him back. Yeah, would that be James? Yes. Bingo. It would be James. And you and him went on a date. And now you're not calling him back. Yeah. Would that be James? Yes. Bingo. It would be James.

Oh, boy. James wants to know. He said he thought you guys had a great time. He really liked you a lot. And he's wondering why you're not calling him back. He said he's tried to get a hold of you a few times. He said it's only been like four days, but he really wants to talk to you. Okay. four days, but he really wants to talk to you. Um, okay. Yeah, we did go on a date.

That's fine. But, um, I, yeah, I don't know what to say. He's a little, it's just, he was a little out there. Let's just say that. A little out there? How so? Uh, creepy. Oh, creepy? What did he do that was creepy? Let's just say that. A little out there? How so? Creepy. Oh.

Creepy? All right. What did he do that was creepy? Well, I had a drink. And, you know, I'm not a person that likes the taste of alcohol. So I kind of made a weird face. And people tell me I do that all the time. And he thought it was cute.

Yeah, he told us about that. He likes your nose. He said your nose was really cute when you didn't like the taste of the alcohol and crinkled your nose up. Yeah, okay, that's, yeah. I think that's a little creepy. I knew you would find it creepy, honestly.

That's the reason why you're not calling him back? You think the nose comment, you don't take that as a compliment? I mean, if I took a drink of something and someone was like, oh my goodness, your nose crinkles up. It's the cutest thing. I'd probably be like, thank you.

Guys, guys, he brought a hamster on the date. Let's just get to the point. What happened? A hamster. He brought a hamster. He definitely didn't tell us that. He bought a hamster, the animal. In his pocket? Yes, it was in his pocket. Okay, so listen.

I ordered some wings. There was like a garnish on the plate. He pulled it off, and it disappeared. I didn't think he ate it, but he put it in his pocket. Then at first I thought, you know, why is he putting garnishes of every dish in his pocket? Then he pulls out a real hamster, and he's feeding it.

Was it cute at least? It doesn't matter. They're at dinner. Yeah, and he didn't tell you he brought a hamster. He just busted out a hamster. Yes, no, he didn't. No, oh my God. He couldn't even like warn a girl?

Okay, let's just say it's just too weird, and this is the reason why I don't go on dates and the guy is weird. You seem super shook. It's a rodent. We're in a restaurant. I can't believe you guys are answering these questions.

It's nuts. It's just creepy and nuts. There's nothing else to say. Creepy and nuts. There is something else to say and if you listen to the show, you probably know what I'm about to say. Creepy and nuts. There is something else to say and if you listen to the show, you probably know what I'm about to say. What? Well, I was about to say that James is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.

Oh. Yeah. Yeah. James? Yeah. Can I have a chance to explain what happened? Please explain, James. Chill, chill, chill. I don't understand what else is there to say.

You brought a hamster and a camel. Well, I want to tell you why I had Hamla Hammerson in my coat pocket. Hamla Hammerson, that's all. Yes, Hamla Hammerson. Don't you remember the name? We had a whole conversation about it at dinner. Okay. Yeah.

I wasn't paying, I didn't take you seriously yeah what well because i i picked her up from the vet okay she was a little sluggish i took her to the vet i picked her up i didn't have a chance to take her home so i put her in my pocket and she goes out with me in public all the time okay she's really more like a dog than a hamster. That's adorable. Come on. I love this. This is too weird. This is the reason why I wasn't talking to him anymore. Like, this is just too weird. I can't.

Well, you didn't freak out when I showed her to you on the date? Well, because she was scared. I don't know. They could have something like, if they bite you... What, rabies? Something or another. Okay, if I take my hamster to the vet, my hamster does not have rabies, okay?

You take your hamster to the vet. I've never known anybody to take a hamster to the vet. That's where you picked it up from. She was feeling sluggish. I was just moving right. I had to take her to the vet. Yeah, I mean, good.

You know, you're supposed to do that when animals feel sluggish, so I'm glad you're taking care of her. I'm going to ask this question right now, even though I'm pretty sure I know the answer. Rachel, would you like to go on another day with James? No.

No. Now that I talked to her and all this hamster slander is going on, I don't think I want to go out with her again. I didn't know she had this much against hamsters and pets and loving another creature. Are you kidding me? Yeah, I thought you'd be a little more understanding, okay?

No, I'm fine with not understanding this, okay? How about that? Stop slandering my hamster. Dude, she hung up. This has got to be a joke. Are you joking? He's not joking. I'm not joking. I mean, you have to like, if you like me,

you have to like Hamela. That's totally fine. I think it's okay. like, if you like me, you have to like Hamela. That's totally fine. I think it's okay. If you want to date you, you got to also date the hamster. You have to acknowledge, you can't make fun of her. You can't be scared of her. Well, you hear about these people who treat their dogs and treat their cats. What's wrong with treating a hamster like one of your children?

You're very close to them. I agree. If anything, it's more convenient. What's wrong with treating a hamster like one of your children? You're very close to them. I agree. If anything, it's more convenient. It's a smaller animal. Yeah, nothing wrong with that. Nothing wrong with that. You keep protecting Hamala. Yeah.

Thank you. Thank you very much. All right, man. Well, good luck. Take care, okay? All right, thank you. The Jubal Show on demand. Hey, everyone.

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