First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - These two things don't mix in this First Date Follow Up!

Episode Date: February 24, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".Dogs and cats just don't get along! Sometimes people get together and realize they are just like cats and dogs, they don't mix! In today's First Date Follow Up Ray calls The Jubal Show to find out why he's getting 'Bye Felicia'd' by his date Felicia ... and it has something to do with our furry friends! Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Yeah, Ray is on the phone and apparently he went out with a woman named Felicia and now she's ghosting him and he doesn't know why. And we're going to see if we can help him out. What's up, Ray? Hey, what's going on? Not much. Not much. So you actually got bi-Felicia'd. Bi-Felicia'd.

Bi-Felicia'd. That's cool. Kind of. Yeah, literally bi-Felicia'd. Yep. Wow. Before we get into the date and everything, how long has it been since you went out with Felicia?

Bi-Felicia'd. Just a couple weeks. Couple weeks. All right. And when is the last time you heard from her? I haven't heard from her since right after the date, okay. And when is the last time you heard from her? I haven't heard from her since right after the date, really. And how many times have you

tried to reach out to Felicia? I messaged her a couple times. Just a couple? Yeah, maybe more than a couple. And you didn't get one message back? Nothing. Nothing. She left me on read.

I don't even put my me on read. Damn. I don't even put my stuff on read. I know. Yeah, why would you do that? Yeah. Obviously, she definitely didn't enjoy your date if she didn't even pretend. What did you guys do? We just went out for coffee.

For coffee? Yeah. I wanted to, you know, our first time meeting, because we met on Tinder. So, like, the first time we met, I didn't want it to be like this, you know, dinner and a movie, you know, huge pressure type of deal. Well, how did coffee go? I mean, it was awesome. Honestly, it's one of the best dates I've been on, to be honest. Why is that?

Like, was your guys' vibe was just on or? Yeah, we were. I mean, the conversation was there, you know, she's beautiful. I mean, she's got her life, you know, she's got it together. Like it's, you know, she's the whole package basically. Oh, go to life together. So different from most Tinder girls. All right.

So you liked her a lot. And then after coffee, I'm guessing there was, you said you met quickly for coffee because you didn't want to be like stuck with a whole evening with with her if you showed up and it was a guy named bruce basically because it was tinder and you didn't know that makes sense yeah i like the first meeting to be like you know low pressure right you know did you plan on another date with her beforehand like um or at coffee did you plan another date as soon as i met her her, yeah. I was like, oh, I'm going to, I want to go out with her a hundred more times. Yeah.

So did you, did you guys plan that though? At the end of the date? During coffee? Like at the end of it? No, we didn't. I kind of, I didn't really, I probably should have, but I didn't ask her. What did you say at the end of the date? Did you tell her that you would hit her up and that you wanted to see her again or that you wanted to go on another date, but just didn't ask her. What did you say at the end of the date? Did you tell her that you would hit her up

and that you wanted to see her again or that you wanted to go on another date, but just didn't set one up? I mean... I should have. I just, I don't know. I just kind of said bye and like, I don't know.

I should have done something, but... Were you nervous? Yeah, really nervous, to be honest with you. So you liked her a lot, obviously. You were that nervous where, even when you're talking about her, you sound like you're nervous thinking about her. Yeah, I mean, honestly, to be honest with you, I think maybe the reason she hasn't gone back to me is because I didn't ask her

to hang out again or whatever. So I don't know if that's the reason. Maybe she thought I was too hesitant. Right. Oh, yeah. Like you weren't showing interest. You weren't a take charge kind of guy. She wants a take charge kind of guy who's like, we're going to dinner here and I'm ordering

exactly what you eat because I take charge. Well, they like the first part. If you decide on where to go to dinner, they do think that's sexy. But the other thing I wouldn't recommend. But that's why you think so? Yeah, I think she just maybe thought I wasn't assertive enough, maybe. That's the only thing that I can venture to guess, to be honest. Yeah, and if you were nervous, you might have been awkward,

so she might have even not thought you were into her at all and wanted to see her again if you didn't really bring it up to her. Yeah I could have I don't know I might have misread the whole vibe or misread the vibe that I was giving out I don't know Well let's see if we can get a hold of her and figure it out Yeah we'll try. Alright we'll see if we can figure

it out for you and don't worry you don't have to be assertive and make the phone call I'll do it for you Alright We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and see if we can figure out why she's not getting back to you

with the first date follow-up, okay? Okay, thanks. All right, we'll do it next. It's the Jubal Show. You know what we're doing right now? What? We're doing the second part

of the first date follow-up. That's what we're doing. How hot was that? Being assertive as hell. Yeah. Mr. Assertive right there. Unlike Ray, who's on the phone with us right now, and he's not getting a call back from a woman named Felicia.

Remember, he got by Felicia by Felicia because she hasn't called him back. It's been a couple of weeks and all they did was go out for coffee. They met on Tinder and Ray said he was most comfortable just meeting for coffee before he decided to do something more that would involve more time because you never know who you're meeting on Tinder. But when Ray showed up, he said that he really liked Felicia a lot. We're about to call Felicia and see if we can figure it out.

The only reason that Ray can think of that he's not getting a call back is that he wasn't assertive enough at the end of coffee and he didn't ask Felicia to go out again and he thinks maybe that was unattractive. And other than that, you literally can't think of anything. No, I'm just getting even more nervous now.

All right, I'll shut up. I think I'm making it worse. Take some deep breaths. All right, I'm going to dial her phone up right now. Here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Felicia, please? This is Felicia. May I ask who's calling?

Yes, you may. Felicia, how are you? This is The Jubal Show. It's a radio show. My name is Jubal. My name is Alex. My name is Evan. Oh, um, okay. Uh, hi. Hi. Why are you calling me? We're calling you because we got an email about you from somebody who listens to the show. We do a segment called the first date follow-up. Not sure if you've ever heard it or not really don't care cause it's happening right now. Um, and what that means is that you went out on a date with somebody and then

aren't calling them back. So they emailed us to get you on the phone to figure out what happened because they want to know why you won't talk to them. That's kind of extreme, but okay. His name is Ray. Oh, Ray. Yeah, why did you not call Ray back? Ray is a dirtbag cat hater, that is why.

A what? What? Dirtbag cat hater? What does he do to cats? Yeah, seriously. Well, we went for coffee. We met on Tinder. We went out for coffee, and everything seemed to be going really great.

He seemed like a great guy. But on our way out of the building, a really cute stray cat walked past us and he kicked towards it and said, disgusting. What? Yes. To shoo it away. I mean, did you tell him that you have a cat? No, I hadn't gotten that opportunity to yet. But as soon as he made the scene about how gross cats are, I just knew, nope, this is not going to work. Yeah, totally agree. He's a dirtbag. I'm glad you got rid of him.

So you just didn't want to tell him that? Yeah, I just didn't want to give him the time of day after that. He's a dirtbag. A dirtbag? Wow. You know who else is a dirt bag? Dirt bag liar. I don't like those guys. What do you mean? Well, I guess I'm a liar, but I wasn't completely truthful when we started this phone call because I didn't tell you that Ray is actually on the phone and wants to talk to you. Are you for real? Are you serious?

Are you for real? Ray? That's why you didn't call me back. That's why you didn't text me back. Yes, that's why you didn't text me back. Yes, that's why I didn't text you back. How could you possibly kick towards any type of creature at all? Okay. That's actually something so much.

Guys, first of all, she's lying. She's exaggerating. I didn't kick towards the cat. I stomped on the floor to scare it away what i thought you were gonna say i stomped on the cat no i just stomped on the floor to like scare it away because i don't want it to like i don't know scratch me and give me i don't know was it was it even like bothering you at all cat, it was near enough to me that it could have jumped on me or like scratched me. And I don't know what cats have, you know, salmonella or whatever.

Are you insane, Ray? Why would a cat even jump on you like that? When has a cat ever jumped on you? I've never been jumped by a cat, but it's because I'm very careful. And I always shoo them away. You take the right precautions. But you don't need to scare them.

I didn't kick it is my main point. I just stomped at it, but I didn't kick it. I'm not like a psychopath. But you stomped aggressively. You stomped aggressively and made an aggressive gesture to scare away a poor, innocent creature. Yeah, they're innocent until they claw your eyes out. I don't think they're going to agree.

Well. Hey, you know what, though? Sometimes in relationships, it's good if you guys are kind of opposite, right? It's okay to disagree. Yeah, it's okay to disagree. Also, you know, too much in common. You're just the same person. You gotta have a few differences.

Like, maybe you guys can make it work. I do love cats, and I honestly just can't even imagine myself being with anybody ever, even if Ray was the last man on this earth. If he doesn't like cats, it's not gonna work with me, period. Well, that's gonna make this next part hard.

Yeah, it is. Hey, Felicia, would you like to go on another date with Ray? We'll pay for it. We'll pay for it. No, absolutely not. If you could just do me a favor and actually donate that money to the local cat shelter, that would make me feel a lot better about this entire phone call. You know what they do with those shelters, right?

They help those poor cats find homes with people who don't want to stomp on them. Okay. Okay. Sorry, Ray. I thought you were going to say something like, I knew about it. He's just like, no, I'm done.

I'm not even going to get into it. Sorry, Ray. No date for you, man, but I think you're probably good with that at this point. Yeah, I feel like I'm not even going to get into it. Sorry, Ray. No date for you, man. But I think you're probably good with that at this point. Yeah, I don't. I feel like I'm being misrepresented. Can you do one thing for me then? What's that? Can you just say bye to Felicia?

Bye, Felicia. Bye, psychopath, cat-hating dirtbag. All right. Ouch. The Jubal Show on demand. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election

is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's,

to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and

Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart

is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show Ears Edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get

candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. Tune in and join in the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.