First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - This First Date Follow Up feature's a lot of teeth!

Episode Date: January 28, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".Today's First Date Follow Up features Craig, Beth and a whole lot of teeth! Why isn't Craig getting a call back from Beth and can we get them on a second date!? It's time to take a bite out of a brand new First Date Follow Up! Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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for a first date follow-up, and I don't know why he's not getting a call back. Really? Yeah. Craig, I don't know why you're not getting a call back because the date that you went on is amazing. If you would have taken me to a place like that, oh my goodness. Where did you take her? The things that would have happened to you, sir.

Yeah. Yeah, man. Well, it's too bad you didn't take me on a date. I guess you went on a date with somebody named Beth. And before we get into the date that you went on, how long has it been since you went out with Beth? Been about two weeks. Okay. Two weeks, all right. And how many times have you reached out to her in that two weeks after your date? Like five times once a day. Okay.

I don't think any more than that would have been overkill, right? What were they saying? Like, hey, hey, hey, yo. Hey, you. What's up? You know, hi, how's your day going? Like, remember that time we went on a date? Obviously she's ghosted you.

Yeah, and I don't know why, because we had a lot of fun at the aquarium. There you go. The aquarium? That's where he went, the aquarium. That's sick. I love aquariums. Did she seem like she enjoyed herself at the aquarium?

Yeah, that's why I'm so confused. We had a great time. The conversation was flowing. I like this girl. She's beautiful. She's smart, funny. She's got a gap in between her front two teeth. Oh, so does Jubal.

A diastema. Is that what that's called? It's called a diastema, yeah. So you like the tooth gap, huh? I love it. In fact, my Middle Eastern friend told me it's a sign of great lust. Oh, wow. All right. Well, lusty people do have tooth caps. Some lust for Beth. All right. So wait, why did you decide to go to an aquarium? And yeah, whose idea was that?

I worked there and it's a beautiful place. And I thought, you know, we'd look at some fish, we'd talk about life. Yeah. I thought about the date for a long time. And my boss called me up and said they needed someone to feed the sharks while I was on the date. So I said yes. But I thought it'd be rude to just cancel. So I brought her with me. Wow. That's a good date.

That's why she's not calling you back, bro. She doesn't want to go to your work for you guys' date. Well, except he took her backstage at the aquarium. Who gets to go backstage and feed the sharks? Feeding the sharks is the most masculine sentence I've ever heard, too. Yeah, she seemed to be into it at the time. That's why I'm so confused. Was there any awkward moment that you can think of?

No, literally nothing else went wrong. Believe me, I've been on dates that suck. This was not one of them. Is there any reason that you think though that she decided to ghost you after your date to the aquarium maybe i talked about myself a little too much maybe it came off like i was trying to be impressive i i wasn't are you talking about like when you're there you're talking about like the aquarium the animals or about that and your personal life or what in general?

Well, I was telling her about the fish we have in the aquarium and I was talking about my own aspirations of being a marine biologist and how I got into fish. I mean, that's cool. That is cool. Were you talking about yourself the whole time? Did you learn anything about her? No, I learned things about Beth. Like what? She likes designing things. She's into yellow jackets. She does a little, she makes her own, she makes some stuff on her own. She's got a, she's a good sewer.

Oh, okay. That sounds like you found out a lot. So maybe you talked about yourself too much. Yeah, it was the talking thing. And maybe I, I don't know, maybe I threw her off trying to, she thought I was trying to impress her too much with the feeding the sharks things. Oh, yeah. She was trying to be too much of a man.

At the aquarium. Look at me. You want to feed some sharks? I can get us in there. Still think it would be kind of a cool thing. Anyway, we'll try to figure it out for you. How did the date end with her? It ended pretty well. I took her back to her place. We didn't kiss or anything,

but we said that we'd hang out again. Did you at least give her a hug? Yeah, we hugged. And what did you feel like her vibe was? You can tell. I mean, she squeezed. I squeezed back. I thought it was a good hug,

and I thought we had a good time. Okay. All right, cool. Well, we was a good hug and I thought we had a good time. Okay. All right, cool. Well, we'll play a song and then come back and call her and see if we can figure it out for you, all right?

Oh, thank you guys. Yeah, man. We'll get your first day follow-up right after this. It's the Jubal Show. Time, part two of your first day follow-up. Greg has been getting a call back

from a date he went on with a woman named Beth and he took her to where he works. He works at the aquarium. He actually was able to hook it up so that she got to feed the sharks on their date.

Deals on wheels. Pretty cool. The baby sharks, the adult sharks, the whole family of sharks and then he got ghosted. He's not getting a call back. It's been about two weeks.

He's tried to reach out to her a bunch of times and has heard nothing. He thought the date went great and he doesn't know why so we're about to get Beth on the phone and see if we can figure it out for him.

Alright, cool. Any last words before we call her? Did you know sharks are older than trees? No. Did not. Are they really? Okay. Been around longer. Okay, that's very interesting and I did not know that. Yeah, I didn't either.

Alright, I'm going to dial her phone number right now and get her on the phone and see if we can figure out why Beth isn't getting you a call back, okay? Hello? Hi, may I speak to Beth, please? This is her. Hey, Beth. How are you? This is The Jubal Show. My name's Jubal. please? This is her. Hey, Beth. How are you? This is The Jubal Show.

My name's Jubal. And my name is Alex. And my name is English Evan. The Jubal Show is a radio show. We do a segment on our show called The First Date Follow-Up. That's where if you go out on a date with someone and then end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask what happened. And we recently got an email about you from somebody who listens to our show.

Oh, okay. Any idea? Who you've ghosted recently? Hmm. Mm-hmm. Okay. I'll just say the name and you can tell me if we're right or wrong, okay? His name is Craig.

That's correct. Okay. So Craig emailed us because he said he really liked going out with you and he thought his idea of taking you on a date to the aquarium and feeding some sharks was a really good idea for a date. He also thought you had a good time but then after the date you haven't talked to him

at all and he's wondering why. Can you tell us? Well, you know, I don't really want to talk to or about craig ever again oh so i'm just gonna go oh no hold on don't yeah don't go yet can you stick around for just a minute i mean like yeah like what what what do you want well he wants i mean he he knows that it you you know, could be whatever. And he knows that the information could not be what he wants to hear. But he's prepared for it. So we, you know, would relay the message.

And so if it's something that you don't really want to talk about, that's, you know, totally up to you. But we would love to know. I mean, like, I just felt so embarrassed and, like, humiliated after the date you know he like he spoke to me like a baby at every single exhibit at aquarium like he spoke to you like a baby what do you mean by that so he talked to you like a baby yeah and you know like like at first i thought it was like kind of cute you know like weird but i was thought it was like kind of cute, you know, like weird. But I was like, that's different. Kind of cute. And then like every single enclosure, like I felt like he thought I was stupid or like I had never seen a shark.

I know what a tiger shark is. OK, like I've seen them before. National Geographic. Like, I'm not, you know. OK, so when you say talk like a baby, you mean he was literally baby talking or he was like sort of condescending and talking to you like you were a little kid going through there and he was a tour guide being like, and here we have the hammerhead shark. Do you know why it's called a hammerhead shark? But he got it like on the nail.

Hammer on the nail. Literally. Hammer on the shark. Practicing maybe? I don't know. It just ended up feeling really weird. Yeah. Did he speak to you normal at all during the date? In between exhibits, it'd be like, it was like almost psychotic the way he would switch because we'd be on normal conversation zone

and then we'd get to the exhibit and it was like, he was a different person or he thought I was a small child. All right, so that obviously turned you off. Yeah, no, it was, mm-mm. All right. Well, thank you for telling us. Yeah, we appreciate it. Appreciate that. I do need to let you know though,

that Craig is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Hi, Beth. Oh, s***. Sorry about that for not telling you. How are you? Really? Small talk right now. Okay, I know that it came off as condescending,

but I give a lot of tours at work, and there are young kids at the aquarium all the time, so it's a habit. I didn't mean to insult you or anything. It ruined the date. I mean, Beth is there anyway. We could try again. I mean, I understand it was, you know, I didn't realize it would bug you that much.

I know it's weird, but is there a possibility that we could see each other again and I'll talk in a normal adult voice? The whole time? Yeah, yes, the whole time. You bet. All right. Well, let me ask her officially then and see. Beth, would you like to go out with Craig again on another date? We'll pay for it.

If he talks like an adult male the whole time. You know, honestly, I have another date lined up this week anyway, so I'm going to pass. Oh. No? Really? Yeah. No, I'm not interested. You really just, the baby talk really gave me small dick energy, and I can't.

I can't. Oh, no. Okay. Well, it's your loss. And for your information, it's 10 inches. No baby talk over here. How's that for baby talk, huh? The Jubal Show on demand.

Ugh, we're so done with New Year, New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will, too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble.

Consider this is a daily news podcast, and lately, the news is about a big question. And find them on Bumble. better and less expensive. Follow coverage of a changing country. Promises made, promises kept. We're going to keep our promises. On Consider This from NPR. Listen on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get your podcasts. This week on the R&B Money Podcast, Tank and Jay Valentine sit down with the one and only Snoop Dogg.

I wanted to be here personally to come give y'all flowers and let y'all know y'all doing an amazing job. I love the outlet. I love how y'all treat the artists that come on here. I love how y'all speak to the realization of R&B music and R&B money. Snoop Dogg on R&B money. Listen to this episode on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.