First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - This First Date Follow Up has everything you'd find in a scary movie!

Episode Date: October 27, 2021

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".Be afraid ... very afraid! Today's First Date Follow Up has everything your favorite horror film involves: murder, mayhem and mystery! After a date at the local corn maze, Isaac doesn't know why Bailey won't call him back. The Jubal Show finds out what happened in this scary First Date Follow Up! Let us know what you think on social!Follow us at: @thejubalshow @jubalfresh @thatdreas @evanontheradioSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First date follow-up. You guys remember the other day when I started off the first date follow-up with a very, very bad cheesy joke? Yeah. You guys actually kind of liked it when I did it. Yeah, it wasn't bad. I got another one for you.

Okay. You know, it is October. Yeah. And that means Halloween's coming up. Yep. Which is really scary to think about because there's a guy on the phone who got ghosted. God, that was terrible. That was bad.

Don't they normally get ghosted? Yeah, they all do. It's just scarier right now. That was so bad. I apologize to everybody. I apologize to myself. I apologize to the world for that terrible, terrible, terrible.

It wasn't that bad. Half a joke. Thanks. All right. Never myself. I apologize to the world for that terrible, terrible, terrible half joke. Thanks. All right. Never mind. Isaac is on the phone and he sent us an email because he went out with a girl named Bailey. That's her name? Okay. And how did she ghost you? Okay. So, I mean,

we've texted before and all of that. So, it's kind of weird to get ghosted now, but we've been friends a while. And when you say friends, like how good of friends do you mean? She used to work with one of my best friends and we've just kind of been around. And I I've kind of liked her more than more than other people since I've gotten to know her better, sort of through the friend group. And so I finally decided to know her better sort of through the friend group. And so I finally decided to ask her out. She said, yeah, sure. When? Basically like asking when. So steamy.

Yeah, sure. When? Yeah, sure. When? Straight to the point. How was the actual date? What'd you guys do? So Halloween's coming up. Yeah. And, uh, and so one of my favorite places is this corn maze that I've been going to since high school every year. So I was like, okay, this is going to be perfect because I don't think she's been to it. And so we go to this corn maze and they're not operating this year. You didn't check it beforehand? No, I just, it was open every year and I was just kind of excited that she said yes. I mean, when she asked when, I was like, how about tomorrow? So I didn't have a lot of planning time. I know it's been open every year, but this would be a year to check. Yeah, it would be.

This would be the year. Yeah, and by the way, there's probably nothing more attractive than a guy not being able to make plans, right Alex? No women don't find that sexy. Yeah, I don't think she did either. So I'm trying to figure out what what to do next. So we go we're sitting in my car. I'm like Googling if there's any other corn mazes around that are open. And and that's taking too long so I just say how about we just go back to my place and watch a scary movie and she was cool with that. That's good for you because that's a lot more intimate I feel than the

maze. Well you've never been to a corn maze then. Keep your corn away from me. It's almost like you planned it Isaac. Did you? I mean it kind of felt like alright this is working out. I wasn't going to offer this on the first date but I'm glad it, Isaac. Did you? I mean, it kind of felt like alright, this is working out. I wasn't going to offer this on the first date, but I'm glad it's working.

And so we go back and we're watching the movie and it's cool. What was the movie you guys watched? We watched Sinister. Have you guys seen it? No. That's a really scary movie. I don't watch a lot of scary movies.

Oh, I love scary movies. I don't. No, it actually was really scary. I'm not going to lie to you guys. But obviously, you know, I was being the man for while we were watching it and all that. I put my arm around her and she leans into it. So I'm like, I'm in, right? You know, so the movie ends and I kind of didn't know if I should go for the

kiss or not. So it was just kind of this like awkward hug. We said goodbye and I thought the whole thing went well and we had a connection, but I keep reaching out to her to see if she'd like to go out again and I'm just not hearing anything. So I need you guys. She hasn't talked to you at all since the date, huh? No. I mean, we talked later that night. I called her and it seemed like things were good. So I felt great about the date, but nothing ever since. Do you think it was because the corn maze was closed and that it just wasn't like a plan, like what you guys planned on doing?

I mean, I didn't think that was an issue because the movie went well, but now I kind of think that's what it was. Okay, so she actually talked to you after the date too and not answering. That's weird. All right, well, we'll figure out what happened, okay? We'll play a song, come back, call her, and get your first date follow-up, all right? All right, thank you. All right, we'll do it next.

It's The Jubal Show. I've never liked watching scary movies on dates. Really? No, not at all. Right in the middle of a first date follow-up. We'll get to that in just a second. I just feel like it's a bad setup for a date and and it's always i get in my head about it so isaac who's on the phone for a first date follow-up right now he went out with a girl named bailey

he had planned to go to a corn maze corn maze was closed he didn't check ahead of time so they decided to go back to his place and watch a scary movie what was the movie again isaac it was sinister sinister okay so they watched a scary movie. What was the movie again, Isaac? It was Sinister. Sinister, okay. So they watch a scary movie together and he thinks everything went fine. They even talked after the date for a little while. Yeah. Like right after. But I was going to say,

I never liked watching scary movies on dates because if you do want to make a move or something, it's always awkward. Somebody just got murdered and you're like, I am so turned on right now. It just gets in my head. I can't do it. I love blood, do you?

Yeah, that or really sad documentaries. I don't know. It just feels awkward being like, let's switch real quick. It is. So other than the fact that you messed up the corn maze thing, you don't know why she's not calling you back? Yeah, I thought everything was good after that. And I really want a second chance because I like her a lot.

All right, cool. Well, we'll dial her phone right now. See if we can get her on the phone and find out what happened. Here we go. Okay. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Bailey, please? This is she.

Hey, Bailey. How are you? This is Jubal from The Jubal Show. It's a radio show. Oh. With me right now is the entire show, so I'm Jubal. That is my hot ass wife, Alex Freyash. Hello.

Hi. And over here is English Evan. Good morning. Oh, hello. So we do a segment on this show called the first date follow up. What that is, is if you go out on a date with someone and then not call them back after, they can email us to get you on the phone and figure out what happened. So you recently went out with someone and aren't calling them back.

Do you have a second to talk to us about that, please? I guess. Do you know who we're talking about? I don't want to say in case I get it wrong. In case you get it wrong. Well, the guy that I'm calling about, his name is Isaac. Isaac? Yes.

He emailed you about me. Okay. Correct. He told us about your date and he said he really liked you and he doesn't know why you're not answering any of his phone calls or text messages now. So we're calling to find out why. Can you tell us? I mean, we had a good evening and I mean I even agreed to watch a scary movie which is not my thing

and after the movie ended you know like I was like I probably should go home and I left and I went back to my apartment and he called me which I asked him to call me but I didn't think he was going to call me like an hour later so you meant like call me tomorrow or something?

Yeah. Yeah. Or like in a couple of days. Yeah. So like, yeah. I mean, it was like two o'clock in the morning.

So I thought, Oh my gosh, something's wrong. So I answered and he was just really scared about the movie. What? He was freaking out. He was like, I can't go to sleep sleep i keep seeing it every time i close my eyes i really need you to just talk to me until i fall asleep so i don't have any nightmares

oh my gosh do you think he just wanted to talk to you oh that's a good point. It might have been that. No, it was not like he wanted me to like tell him like lullabies. Oh my God. Wow. You know what this reminds me of? It reminds me of as a kid when I would have sleepovers at other friends' houses and I wanted to go home in the middle of the night so I'd call my mom. Yeah. That's kind of what it sounds like.

So you're not calling him back because he's acting like a baby because of a scary movie? I'm not his mommy. If you're scared, call your mom. Tell your mom, I went on a date with this cute girl. I watched a scary movie that I couldn't handle and I need you to help me get a place. That's really funny. It doesn't make sense to me.

He did mention though that you guys spoke, but he did leave the pod out where he was scared. Yeah, he thought it was a positive. He was like, I even called her later and she answered, but he didn't tell us that he called later because he was... Yeah, of course he answered. It was 2 o'clock in the morning. Why would he be calling me? Well, there's another reason. She might have wanted less than to talk him

to sleep, but... I mean, it was just weird for me. Yeah, I can understand that. You know what else is weird? He's actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. Oh. Hey, Bailey. Hey, Isaac. So that's the reason why? Yeah. It was a scary movie. I'm aware. I didn't know it was going to be that scary

Okay but why call her In the middle of the night asking her like I can't believe you did that Who better to understand You just saw the same movie So you'll get it I don't know just find some lavender scents And take a unisom

Bailey I don't actually like scary movies. I just figured you would. Right. You should ask, hey, what kind of movie would you like to watch? There's a lot of Halloween-themed movies that one can watch

without it being a scary movie. We could watch Hocus Pocus. I love Hocus Pocus. You think I'm going to put on Halloween Town? That would have been a better move. It's not even about the movie. It's about the fact that you had to call me to comfort you. Well, I'm sorry that I thought I could be honest with you and be emotionally available about being scared.

We pulled the emotionally available card. I love when they do these things. Way to turn it back around. He just pulled the you're being insensitive card on you and that he's a rare man who's emotionally available.

How are you going to deal with that, Bailey? Yes. You might say emotionally available. I might just call you a f***. Hey, Bailey,

would you like to go out on another date with Isaac? We'll pay for it. Would you like to go out on another date with Isaac? We'll pay for it. Would you like to go out on another date with Isaac? No. We can watch a different movie. We can go out. I'll make sure it's open. Bailey, I'm sorry. Honestly, I've just really liked you for a while, so I've been overthinking. Please, can I get one more chance?

Bailey, are you there? Liked you for a while, so I've been overthinking. Please, can I get one more chance? Is she hanging up? Bailey, are you there? I'm there. I'm here. I'm thinking. I'm thinking. Oh, wow. Okay.

That was a lot of time. Yeah. Oh, my gosh. You must have had another call. I know. I was like, I thought you just hung up. Like, I'm done with this conversation. Doing the dramatic pulls.

Yeah. What do you think, Bailey? Give him one more shot. I don't really see this going anywhere, and I'll try to do that up front. So if you let me take everything that we do, we can go out one more time. Okay. So one more time, knowing that it's probably not going to work. Isaac, you cool with that?

Okay. Look, I know where you stand, and here we go. At least she's being up front. That's true. You know, not leading you on. Yeah. Yeah, no, that's fair. I'll take what I can get.

All right, man. Congratulations. Good luck. I know this is going can get. All right, man. Congratulations. Good luck. I know this is going to be scary going forward, but you can always call us if you need someone to talk to, okay? Well, there is a sinister two, so me and you can watch that. Stay away from that. Jubal's First Date Follow-Up. Hey, everyone.

It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric,

on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show Ears Edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.

That's right. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, we share our personal journeys navigating our 30s, tackling the complexities

of modern relationships, and engage in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations. From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that will resonate with your experiences, Decisions Decisions is going to be your go-to source for the open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world.

Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections. Tune in and join in the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.