First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - This First Date Follow Up has the biggest plot-twist EVER!

Episode Date: December 2, 2021

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".There's some things you can say that would completely offend most woman! That's how today's First Date Follow Up ends except what this guy asks for is completely reversed on him, in a good way!Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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First day follow-up. I'm always interested about what apps people meet each other on. You know, like there's the normal ones like Tinder and Farmers Only and Vegetable Lovers Only. Christian Mingle. Whatever, but there's, you know, there's all the kind, but sometimes they meet in places where you don't really expect it. And Kelly, who's on the phone for our first date follow-up today, isn't getting a call back from a guy named Trayvon, and apparently they met kind of in a weird place.

Anyway, I'll let her tell it. Kelly, before we find out about how you met Trayvon and more about your date and try to speculate on why he's not calling you back, how long has it been since you went out with him? It's been about three weeks. Three weeks? Why are you just trying to reach out to him now? Well, I would have done it like two weeks ago, but apparently you guys have so many

requests for these things that your producers told me that I couldn't do it until now. We do get a lot of requests for these and sometimes it takes a while to get to them, but at least we called you back. Unlike Trayvon, that was rude. I didn't mean it that way. But anyway, how many times have you tried to get a hold of him since your date? Probably about like five times because I texted him and then I messaged him on LinkedIn and Instagram. LinkedIn.

I feel like it's a little weird to reach out on LinkedIn. I don't know. Yeah, I agree. You know, I know it's kind of like a weird place to meet a guy for a date, but you can see similar interests. Like we both work in the tech industry, and I actually don't really even know how he saw my profile, but he reached out to me and asked me out. And I think, you know, like you guys at first, I was a little confused.

And I thought it was strange, but he was a really nice guy. Well, what did you guys do for the date? We ended up kind of meeting up and talking and we had dinner and we actually went to this bar and there was a trivia night. So all my friends were there.

That's fun. It was nice. I mean, to bring around your friends on a first date, that's a bold move. I wanted it to be casual, you know, and it was still fun. Like, I feel like you get to know people pretty well. Like, I found out he is really, really smart

and he's cute and he's well off. Which isn't bad. Yeah, so it was like, yeah, my friends were around, but it was still a date. We still got to know each other a little bit. Okay, and did your friends approve of him? I think my friends thought he was a little awkward.

He is just a little awkward. But he's adorable. Like, he's really, really smart. So that was pretty attractive. And it was cool. It was nice to hang out with someone who, yeah, knew all the trivia, but he was also legit sweet. And after the trivia, he walked me to my car and I gave him a little kiss on the cheek

and he did this little giggle thing that was adorable. So it was cute. Well, why do you think he's not calling you back? You know, I I don't know. I answered a lot of the trivia wrong and I'm not stupid, but maybe he

I don't know, thinks I'm not that smart. So you think that maybe Trayvon, the guy you went out with, isn't calling you back because he wasn't impressed by your knowledge at trivia night and he maybe thinks that you're not smart enough to date him. Yeah yeah i just think maybe he thinks that i'm not on his level that's rude that is very if that's what he thinks but we don't know that so we'll give him a call all right um hopefully it's not that though i mean i couldn't see that being a reason but there are judgy people

like that so maybe if that's the only thing that went wrong then hopefully it's not that because i'm not gonna like him very much if that's the case that's went wrong, then hopefully it's not that. Cause I'm not going to like him very much. If that's the case, that's rude. But anyway, well, I mean, you know,

if you, I guess if you think someone's not on your level and can't talk to you about stuff, it makes sense. But like, it just seems judgy. Yeah. It's a stupid trivia night.

It's cooling someone down. Yeah, it is. All right. Well, we're going to play a song, come back and then call him and see if we can figure it out for you with your first day followup.

Okay. All right. Thank you. Yep. We'll do it next. It's a Jubal show. out for you with your first day follow-up. Okay. All right. Thank you. Yep. We'll do it next. It's a Jubal show. In the middle of your first day follow-up, if you're just joining us,

Kelly is on the phone and Kelly is real dumb. Isn't that right, Kelly? I mean, I hope not. Why are the pretty ones always so dumb? No. Oh,

I hope not. Yeah. Kelly isn't getting a call back From a dude named Trayvon They actually met on LinkedIn Because He found her profile somehow They work in the same tech industry

And they agreed to go out They went to dinner And then they hung out With some friends of hers And played trivia And she liked him a lot Said he was cute Really smart

A little bit on the shy side You say he's kind of like A little awkward A little socially awkward But ended the night With a kiss on the cheek And he giggled a little bit on the shy side. You say he's kind of like a little awkward. A little socially awkward. But ended the night with a kiss on the cheek and he giggled a little bit, like a little school girl. Happy about that.

And since then she hasn't heard from him. She thinks maybe she was bad at trivia and Trayvon seems like a smart guy. So maybe he was judging her based on that. And we don't know. We're about to call him right now and see if we can find out anything else you want to add before we do that.

I don't think so. I think I'm ready. Okay, here we go. I'm going're about to call him right now and see if we can find out anything else you want to add before we do that? I don't think so. I think I'm ready. Okay, here we go. I'm going to dial the phone number right now. Hello? I'm looking for Trayvon. Yeah, this is Trayvon. Who is this? Hey, man, how are you? This is Jubal from The Jubal Show.

It's a radio show. And it's Alex Ruff from The Jubal Show. And this is English Evan from The Jubal Show. It sounds like you're busy. We'll keep this quick if you have a moment to talk to us. Yeah, sorry. Let me just give me a us. Yeah, sorry. Give me a second. Okay, sorry.

Yeah, I'm at work. Go ahead. We do a segment on this show called the First Date Follow-Up. Have you ever heard of that before? I'm not sure. Is it on like Fox? I really don't watch network TV. I'm sorry.

No, this is a radio show, not a TV show. Oh. Network TV. I'm sorry. No, this is not. This is a radio show, not a TV show. Oh, is it like terrestrial radio or satellite or like a podcast? It's like regular radio. The first one. Just regular old fashioned radio that I guess you don't listen to. No, sorry.

I usually like only listen to binaural beats in my headphones. Oh, okay. While I work. Wow. Sweet. All right. Well, we are not that for sure.

Those things are good for your brain, I hear. Well, there's also this like other couple podcasts that I like. Wait, I'm sorry. Why are you calling me again? Yeah, that's right. You a f***ing nerd. Because you're not calling someone back That you went on a date with Do you know who we're talking about?

Are you talking about Kelly? Yes we are And we do a segment Where if you go on a date with someone And don't call them back They can email us To get you on the phone And ask why

So Kelly emailed us And told us about your date And she said that she's sad because she could use some more Trayvon in her life and you haven't called her back and we're calling to see what's up with that this is interesting so you do this often too much actually we do it a lot you mind sharing it with us though because she really wants to know uh yeah I kind of do mine. I mean, that's kind of personal.

If you're feeling iffy about telling us, I'll tell you what she said. She said she really liked you, enjoyed the date, thought it was awesome. You went to trivia night. She feels like she did a bad job at trivia and you were really good at it. So maybe you don't think she's smart enough to date you.

Oh, no, I don't think that at all i was actually very like impressed by her i mean really she's really smart and very charismatic you know i don't go out much so it was you know it was nice to cut loose with her on the trivia court you know what i mean okay but we're like all really dying to know why you won't go out with her again. I realized something that night about dating. What about it? Well, I just realized that for me, dating is, I don't know how to put this, but basically dreadful. Oh, I mean, dating is dreadful. I thought you said Kelly didn't suck though. She was cool.

Yeah, she was cool. I mean mean she's smart, like I said, and very beautiful and charismatic. I just realized how much I hate dating, you know, it's been a few years since I went on a date, and so I thought I'd give it a try again, and it just reconfirmed for me that I just hate dating. Yeah, that's pretty terrible. Like I just don't wanna date anyone, ever.

But don't you think like sometimes you might wanna do something else? Yes, I get it And that sounds like a good idea in theory But I don't know how to say this But I don't really need that And if I do need something intimate I know how to handle it

I just prefer to be alone and work You're completely self-sufficient even in the bedroom department. Do you just hate people, Trayvon? No, I'm not saying that at all. I like people, but I just love my work more. You know, I love my computer and my work. And it's not fair to continue a relationship with someone, you know, knowing that there's not going to be a future for that person. So I just don't feel comfortable.

Yeah, but you could also tell her, text her back. Yeah, you don't have to ghost someone. You could even tell her right now because she's on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Hi, Trayvon. Trayvon? I'm here. Hi. Hi.

This has now gotten really strange. Kelly, you just heard why he's not calling you back. Yeah. I mean, is that true? You don't want to have a relationship with anybody? Well, yeah. I'm sorry I didn't tell you that when we were out. I wanted to try.

I just, I really did. It's just not, I'm sorry. I'm just, it's not going to work. Okay. That's really it. You just, you don't want to date. Yeah. I mean, I, I'm sorry. You're really smart and cool. And I had a great time. I just, I, I, it's very awkward for me and I just don't feel right leading someone on. And I apologize. Listen, Kelly, you deserve to be with a man who's a dater. And I'm just not a dater.

You deserve to be with a dater. Well, wait, before we end this, I do have to ask a question, Trayvon. It's not that I wasn't paying attention to what you were saying. I just don't really care what you said because I still have to ask the question no matter what. But would you like to go on another date with Kelly? We'll pay for it. I just really don't think. Actually, I have an idea.

Oh, you know what? I got it. I'll pay you to come with me to these work events. So, you know, because you're so outgoing and fun, and I do enjoy being around you. You come with me to these. So this way you can, like, way you can be outgoing and talk to people and then we'll still get to actually go out and do things.

Kelly, what do you think about that, Kelly? So you're gonna pay her to be your girlfriend to go to these things to talk to people? Well yeah, just to pretend to be my girlfriend for the time that we go out. That is definitely an escort, is what you're describing. Yeah, definitely. Kelly, are you above being an escort no i don't want anything anything else

other than just the company and and her to be you know a block against me having to talk to people uh wow okay um well for like you don't have to pay me. That's, that's weird. I don't want to be paid. Kelly, will you go out with Trayvon, but be paid to talk to people?

So he doesn't have to, well, you said, Nope, not paid, but we'll hang out with him so you can talk to him. So he doesn't have to. I mean,

I, I have to be honest with you, Trayvon, I'll do it. Um, but like, you don't have to pay me with you, Trayvon, I'll do it. But, like, you don't have to pay me or anything. Just, you know, if you want to date for something, let me know.

I'll go with you. But I've noticed something about you that I really like, and I'm going to do it because eventually, like, just full disclosure, I want you to date me. So I'm going to try to sleep with you next time. Okay. Oh, transparency. There you go.

It's all out there now. You okay with that? Oh my God. Yeah, I guess I am. The Jubal show on demand. We're so done with new year, new you this year.

It's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will too.

Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about?

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