First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - This First Date Follow Up has too many people to keep up!

Episode Date: September 13, 2021

After meeting at the carwash, Megan and Nathan hookup. Megan's calling The Jubal Show because they haven't spoke and they find out there's more people in the picture!Let us know what you think on social!Follow us at: @thejubalshow @jubalfresh @thatdreas @evanontheradioSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives

dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. Tune in and join in the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First day follow up. Time for your first day follow up. I just took a drink of water and I'm coughing like crazy. You're dying.

And now my eyes are tearing up. Not because I'm sad that Meg is on the phone and not getting a call back from a guy named Nathan, but because I took a drink of water and I'm coughing on it. And Meg is on the phone because she emailed us for a first date followup. And apparently she met a guy named Nathan at a car wash of all places. Meg, you met him at the car wash. Hey, uh,

yeah. Were you in a bikini? I wish. No, I mean, he's really, really hot. Um, believe it or not, it was, it was the real world finally.. No, I mean, he's really, really hot. Believe it or not,

it was the real world finally, and I came to his car wash, and I was like, wow, this guy's just standing right there. It's his car wash? He's really, really hot. Or was he just there? But he works there. Has anyone ever met a car wash attendant and wanted to date them? I don't know.

Most of the dudes I see working at the car wash, they're grimy. I mean, he must be super hot. No, yeah, no, he was, he was very, very hot. That's why I was like, Oh, I don't really date people on the car wash, but he was really, really hot. And he clearly had his shit together. And I like it though, because it's like organic, I guess an organic way normally is like people meet people on tender or hint or whatever so did you approach him i did it was weird i was like you know what i'm lonely like let me just see how this goes and and then before you approached him did he notice you at all he did oh he did he was kind of like giving me the eyes a little bit and i was like okay maybe this is it you know so i started talking and then he got my number,

and we went on a date. Where'd you go? What'd you do? Who'd you see? How'd it go? Well, we just, we went to the park, and then we just, like, had coffee and chatted for a bit, and then, like, the intent was to go to dinner afterwards, you know? The intent? Yeah, what do you mean, the intent?

Did you not go to dinner? No, know? The intent? Yeah, what do you mean, the intent? Did you not go to dinner? No. No, we didn't. Just ended up at my place. Oh, Meg. You put dessert before dinner. You were going to go to dinner, and then it was like,

no, let's just go back to your house first. No, no, but yeah, he was just so charming and i really i really like him like i'm not in love or anything like that but he's just so nice how how long before you guys went on your date after you met him like two hours oh two hours you guys went on the same day yeah yeah okay so you guys went to your house and how did that go I don't know I didn't clean up my

house at all like it was kind of a mess but I didn't think anybody was going to come back so you think that that because your house was messy is the reason why he might not be calling you back yeah I mean I don't know that's what I'm thinking. I mean, he's a car wash guy, so I doubt he cares.

I know, and guys typically don't care. No, he cleans car. He cleans for a living, though. He just cleans for a living. There are some guys who are very particular, which I appreciate. All right, so you think he might not be calling you back because your house is dirty. That's the only thing you can think of? Yeah, I mean, like, listen, I don't think the physical attraction was a problem at all. And, I mean, he did, like, he did say a comment about my underwear.

What kind of underwear were you wearing? Just not the most cutest underwear in the world. But he wasn't really stoked about that. But it was a laundry day, you know, like, I don't know. You had on the high-waisted granny panties cotton, probably. I mean, sort of. Yeah, I mean cotton probably I mean sort of yeah I mean there are some sort of I mean you you get out of like two pairs of underwear or panties or whatever you want to call them I don't wear them so I don't know what to call them and they're like not the cutest yeah like parachute pants I mean I don't think he I can't imagine him caring about that no probably, probably not. Not unless he thinks that you wear them all the time.

Yeah, that would be weird too. Did you tell them that it was laundry day? No, no, no. I mean, I did. I said that. Okay. Because I was just embarrassed. But other than that, I mean, I think it went really great.

Like, it was amazing from my standpoint. I don't know. How long has it been since you've seen him? It's been like a week, I would say. A week, and has he texted you at all after that or nothing? No. Alright. Well, I'm curious as to why and what happened.

Yeah, alright. Well, we'll play a song, come back, and then call him and get your first date follow-up, okay? Okay. Alright, we'll do it next. It's The Jewel Show. I'm self-conscious. About what? My underwear. Why? I've got cotton granny panties on today. No, you don't.

Because I buy your underwear and I've never bought you those. And I've never seen you in them. Also, I'm your wife and I should know that. In case you don't know. In case you don't know. That's why Alex buys my underwear. But also, you know, something that I did notice with you is you used to go commando like me. But now you actually wear underwear every single day because I do your laundry.

And I didn't realize that, but it's been like that for a while now. It doesn't have to do with the laundry. Why did it change then? I'll get into it off the air. That sounds disgusting. I'm sad for you. Why? That you have to wear underwear. That's not sad. For some reason. Well, no, I like going commando, but then at a certain point,

I don't know, I just started wearing underwear. And then I noticed something about myself that I don't want to get into right now because it's the first date follow-up. I think I know. I just started wearing underwear and then I noticed something about myself that I don't want to get into right now because it's the first date follow-up. I think I know. What? Skid marks. No.

No. I have three things in my head but we're not going to go over them right now. Look, okay. Sometimes when you get older, certain things sag a little more and it's nice to have support. Okay?

Keeps them up. I like the support. Evan doesn't know what that feels like. No, I know. Wait, Evan. Just wait. I haven't even dropped yet. One day,

you're going to wear underwear and you're going to be like, oh, this is nice. This is okay. He's still hanging on to his mom. Yeah. Everything's in place. Everything is in place right now. So it's really nice. Anyway, on the phone, I said that because on the phone with us is Meg and she's not

getting a call back from a dude named Nathan. They actually met at the car wash. She was getting her car washed. He was a car wash attendant. She thought he was hot. He thought she was hot. They exchanged numbers, went out to coffee,

had full intention of going to get some dinner, but dinner didn't happen. They just went back to her place and then bam. And they had dinner. Yeah, exactly. And so, and then after that,

he hasn't called her back. She thinks the two reasons that he might not be calling back are one, her place was dirty. The other one, it was laundry day and she wasn't wearing the best underwear.

All right, Meg. Anything else you want to say before we call him? Let's just find out. I'm like nervous. Okay. I'm going to dial his phone number right now. Okay. We'll do our best. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Nathan, please? Yeah, this is Nate. Nate, how are you?

This is The Jubal Show. My name is Jubal. My name is Alex. My name is Evan. And The Jubal Show is a radio program. Have you heard of it? Showgram program. Yeah, of course.

Yeah, yeah. Oh, you have? Oh, okay. Cool. Do you listen to the show? From time to time. I'm just curious why you're. Yeah, yeah. Oh, you have? Oh, okay. Cool. Do you listen to the show? From time to time. I'm just curious why you're calling me, though. This is a first date follow-up.

So you went out on a date with someone, and now you're not calling them back. And then they emailed us to get you on the phone and ask why. Sarah. Is this about Sarah? Sarah. No, this is not about Sarah. Uh-oh. The thing is, I didn't text Sarah back in a few days Okay hold on

Nathan Let's think about other options Anyone else come to mind She's the girl I'm sort of seeing I really like her You're sort of seeing her So you and Sarah together I met her last week and we really hit it off.

It's just casual at the moment. But then you stopped calling her? I felt like I'd been blowing her off. We've been in contact. You just forgot to call her back. Okay, well, can I tell you that it's not about Sarah? Yeah. Which should worry you?

Oh, shit. Is this Meg? This is about Meg. This is about Meg, yes. It's about Meg. Meg is a girl I want to date with, but look, listen. We hooked up unexpectedly, all right? And I, you know, I wasn't going to turn it down, you know what I'm saying? She seemed like a nice girl.

Oh, you just used her. Well, I know. I mean, I went to coffee, we hooked up. It was just like in nice girl. Oh, you just used her. Well, I know. I mean, I went to coffee. We hooked up. It was just like in the afternoon. But I had a dinner date with Sarah that night. Oh. Well, I mean, Meg was like a hookup. It was totally unplanned.

But I just liked her. What? I can't believe this. What is that? What's going on? I really, I did not believe this. What is that? What's going on? I really, I did not see this coming. Meg? Yes.

That is Meg. Meg's actually on the phone listening and wanted to talk to you. Yep. I'm so sorry, Meg. Oh, my God. I can't believe this. Oh, God. I totally forgot she was on the phone.

Yeah, sorry. That'll happen. Always. Silly Nathan. Well, you were thinking about Sarah. That's understandable. Wow. I'm sorry, Meg.

I just didn't know what to say. All you have to say is like, hey, I'm not interested and just move on. Well, I have another woman. It's easy to just send a text to somebody so they're not wondering because you don't owe her anything else. I mean, honestly, you could have said something. You could have texted.

You could have just been like, hey, I'm sorry I met so many. I don't know. I would have understood. This is so, I don't even know. Well, I mean, honestly, I figured you probably just had other dates and guys that are lined up. What? You know? Why would you think that?

Because we hooked up in like a minute. So I sort of assumed you're sort of a get around and you wouldn't even be thinking about me. Well, I mean, you did. That is so f***ing mean. Why would you? Just because I wanted to. Because I'm not seeing someone right now and I want to hook up,

I'm immediately a whore. Yeah, come on. Dudes do it all the time. Yeah, I'm saying like, hey, man, even if a guy does that, like still the same thing. Like, obviously, if you meet a, I was going to say gas station attendant,

but let's go with gas station again. Sir, if I met a gas station attendant and I hooked up with them right there in the gas station, they might be thinking like, obviously if you meet a, um, I was going to say gas station attendant, but let's go with gas station again, sir. If I'm at a gas station attendant and I hooked up with them right there in the gas station, they might be thinking like this dude hooks up with gas station attendants all the time. And that's a past I don't talk about anymore. But anyway, it's, I mean, that's what happened. So I can understand how you would think like you're probably dating other people too. I could see that also doesn't mean that, yeah, it doesn't mean that you get around a lot.

It means that she wanted to get around with you. All right. Well, look, my bad, you know, I mean, you know, I just, I honestly, I thought you were a nice guy. I'm, I was, I'm, I'm honestly shocked right now. Like even with you saying that, that is just, wow. Okay. Well, let's see, because, you know, he's not with Sarah, so...

Nathan, would you like to go out with Meg again on another date? We'll pay for it. Absolutely not. I was asking Nathan. Yeah, you wish. I was asking Nathan, Meg. No, I know that you were, but I'm saying no. Absolutely not.

I love how the tables turn. She's gone off the idea now. Alright, Nathan, well, I'm sorry you didn't get another date, even though I don't think you wanted one. And Meg, I'm sorry that Nathan's seeing Sarah now, I guess. Yeah, well, if it doesn't work out with Sarah, maybe we could go on a date then. No.

Probably not. Nathan. Oh, my God. Yeah, okay. You wish. You know what? I did find some of your friends on Instagram. Oh.

It's pretty hot, so maybe I'll sample his friend group. There you go, okay. You wish. You know what? I did find some of your friends on Instagram. Oh. It's pretty hot, so maybe I'll sample his friend group. Go get it, girl. There you go, man. Go get it, girl. Do it, babe. Find the hottest one. Yeah. There's the doesn't sleep around part, right?

Oh. Okay. Yeah, just never with you again. That's true. Good luck with Sarah. Jubal's First Date Follow-Up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch,

right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Jon Stewart is back at The Daily Show, and he's bringing his signature wit and insight straight to your ears with The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. Dive into John's unique take on the biggest topics in politics, entertainment, sports, and more. Joined by the sharp voices of the show's correspondents and contributors. And with extended interviews and exclusive weekly headline roundups, this podcast gives you content you won't find anywhere else. Ready to laugh and stay informed? Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B,

as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. Tune in and join in the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,

or wherever you get your podcasts.