First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - This First Date Follow Up is a Foodbank Love Affair!
Episode Date: August 17, 2021After volunteering together at the foodbank, Angel doesn't know why Mikey isn't returning the call! The Jubal Show find out Mikey isn't that charitable in this First Date Follow Up!Let us know what yo...u think on social!Follow us at: @thejubalshow @jubalfresh @thatdreas @evanontheradioSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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First day follow-up.
There's like three types of guys
that play
the lead role in a romantic
comedy. Right? The character.
Not even the guy. But there's
the guy with the dog.
Women love a dude with a dog. They sure do. Then there's the guy with the dog. Women love a dude with a dog.
They sure do.
Right?
Then there's the guy that plays guitar.
Oh, by the campfire?
Mm-hmm.
Women love the guy that plays guitar.
Also, the guy that donates his time on the weekends to hand out food to the homeless.
The charitable dude.
Yeah.
Women also like that guy.
Try hard.
Yeah.
And Angel is on the phone right now
for a first date follow up and apparently she's not
getting a call back from the third option
there, the charitable guy.
Aww. Yeah.
Hi guys.
So you said that you met
a guy named Mikey
and you really liked him but now
he's not calling you back and you guys met at a food bank?
Yes. Yes. We were both volunteering at a food bank and I don't know, I kind of felt this
like chemistry between us. I felt like it was going really well. I felt like we were
having a great time. We really liked each other, had a lot in common. Um, and we exchanged
numbers and we said we were going to hang out.
You guys were working at a food bank.
We just strike up a conversation over a can of beans or something.
Just like, wow, these beans are good.
What do you think of these beans?
We should get together and warm up these beans together and eat them.
No, we were both like serving together.
I think that's a super sweet way to meet somebody.
It is very cute.
It was kind
of romantic it was kind of like what you just mentioned how you meet somebody in a romantic
comedy I thought it was really cute and he was really sweet and very attractive and very nice
um and smart we had a great conversation we're just like joking around a little we had like
really good back and forth a little you know like flirty and uh i don't know i just
i felt like i felt like wow this guy's like really into me and then we exchanged numbers
and i i texted him after a few days and i was like hey i'm volunteering at this place
uh this weekend do you want to come help us out and he didn't answer i was like i was like all
right he's he's busy or whatever. Okay, so he
hasn't said anything to you since then?
No, I texted a couple of times
about different things and he just did
not respond ever. Oh, that's weird.
Well, what if you have the wrong number? What if
he accidentally took a down wrong or something?
Well, I don't know. I would
assume somebody would actually text me back
and say, this isn't Mikey. You have the wrong number
or something, right? You know what you have the wrong number or something.
You know what? He sounds like a great guy.
Maybe he donated his phone to the less fortunate.
Doubtful.
I would expect the less fortunate to at least call me back to be courteous and say, hey, he gave us his phone.
It sounds like you're super into this guy but did were you getting those vibes back from him
i i really was that's why i'm so surprised because he was i don't know he was like flirty but like
in a nice way he wasn't like you know too much but just like really sweet and cute and chemistry
and vibey you know who asked who did you ask for his number or did he ask you for your number? You know what? He actually asked me if I had an Instagram
and he said, let's add each other on Instagram. Okay.
And I said, I don't use Instagram. I'll give you my phone number.
You don't use Instagram? What's wrong with you? That's weird. What era are you from?
I mean, I'm not, I mean, I'm on Instagram, but I just
don't use it. I don't go on it to talk to people or anything like that.
You know, I hardly ever use it.
Okay.
Well, if you do, you should follow us at the Jubilees show.
I'm at Jubilees Fresh.
I'm at that dress.
I'm at Evan on the radio.
Yeah.
And follow us whenever you want.
Why do you think he's not calling you back though?
I don't know.
Is it possible that I'm that bad at knowing when somebody's fake or lying or is he married?
Does he have a girlfriend?
I have no idea.
I don't know.
I got like really good vibes from him.
So I'm,
I don't know if I'm crazy for not seeing this person is lying or is that
something happened or maybe he is this great guy.
Maybe something happened.
I have no idea.
Maybe he didn't like the way you were volunteering because some people
volunteer,
you know,
just do it really weird.
Yeah. Maybe you gave too much mashed potatoes or something and you know
that would do it or not enough oh even worse we'll try to figure it out for you all right we'll play
a song come back and then call him and see if he answers please help me out find out what went wrong
and hopefully get you another date okay thank you all right we'll get your first date follow-up next
it's a jewel show right in the middle
of today's
first date follow up
and I call this one
love in the soup line
because that's
the romantic comedy
that I've made up
in my head
for Angel
who is on the phone
right now
and Angel
met a prince
an angel
a guy angel
because we're talking
to a female angel
right now
but a guy angel
at a food bank when they were both volunteering.
Their eyes locked in the food line.
And he said, hey, you got a little custard on your cheek.
And she said everything was great.
He seemed to really like her.
They exchanged numbers and said they should go out.
And she texted him after and nothing.
So we don't know why. And we're about to figure it out.
Any last thoughts before we try to call Mikey and get you another date?
I don't know.
I'm really nervous, but I'm excited and I want to know what happened.
I'm really curious.
I just want to do it.
So no matter what, you at least want to know why he's not calling you back if you can't get another date.
Right, right, right.
Okay, cool.
I'm going to dial this phone right now
and see if it picks up.
Here we go.
Hello?
Hey, is this Mikey?
Uh, yeah.
Hey, what's up, Mikey?
How are you?
This is The Jubal Show.
My name is Jubal.
My name's Alex Fresh. And this is English Evan. Hey, guys's up, Mikey? How are you? This is the Jubal Show. My name is Jubal. My name's Alex Fresh.
And this is English Evan.
Hey, guys.
Do you know what that is?
Yeah, yeah, I've heard you guys.
Oh, well, that's cool.
Well, thanks for listening.
Yeah.
Absolutely.
What's going on?
Not much.
We're just calling you because somebody sent us an email about you, Mikey.
Okay.
That doesn't worry you? Do you know what about?
I don't know what about.
Yes, what's the email?
What's the email about? Well,
we got an email from somebody
that you met while you were volunteering
at a food bank a few weeks ago.
Oh.
Oh, okay.
I'm assuming you're
talking about Angel then? Yes. Yes. you're talking about Angel then.
Yes.
Yes.
We are talking about Angel.
Angel emailed us because she told us how you guys met,
said that you really bonded and made plans to go out again. But when she texted you after meeting you,
she hasn't heard anything back.
So she's wondering if she did something wrong.
Yeah.
Honestly, I thought Angel was really cool. She she was great why won't you text her back
yeah what happened you know uh i a reason is i'm i'm a little embarrassed embarrassed embarrassed
what happened so i wasn't exactly too truthful with uh angel when we first met. Okay, so she said that you guys met at a food bank, volunteering.
Yeah.
Were you not volunteering?
Did you go there to get food?
No, that's not it.
Okay, well, what weren't you truthful about then?
What's the reason that you're embarrassed?
So I wasn't there actually volunteering.
I was actually there doing my community service.
Oh, you have to be there.
I had, yeah.
Okay.
So we got a bad boy on the line.
So when she texted you, you just left her on read and you just didn't want to see her again?
I was just embarrassed.
I didn't know how to explain to her that I was actually,
because she was very into it and
she's all about the food bank and volunteering
and she was really cute, really
really pretty and great.
So I was pouring it on pretty thick.
So were you like, yeah, I volunteer
every single Saturday down here.
They all know me by nickname because they know him so well.
My name's Mikey, but they call me Mike around here.
Something like that.
Yeah, basically you got it right.
So you didn't want to tell her that you have to be doing it because of a court order.
I feel like for how much you poured it on and said you did that, you can't go back from that.
You can't start dating this girl and then like, so just joking, you know?
Yeah.
Yeah.
I didn't call her back because I just didn't think she would respond well to that.
Okay.
Next time, just don't give your number.
Right.
Give a fake number.
Yeah.
I mean, I did like her.
I don't know.
I know I probably, I know I shouldn't have done that.
Yeah.
Well, you did.
You lied about being a charitable dude
when really you're a court-ordered charitable guy.
And I can understand why you wouldn't want to call her back,
but guess what?
You can talk to her right now
because she's actually on the line listening
and wants to talk to you.
Oh, that's right.
She's on the phone. Yes, she is. Hi. Hi, Mikey.
Hey, what's going on, Angel? You tell me. What's going on? I'm really confused.
Well, Angel, I guess obviously you've heard the entire conversation. You know, I feel bad.
I shouldn't have lied to you.
But yeah, I wasn't volunteering.
I was doing community service.
I mean, that's really weird
because you went into this whole thing
when we met about how much charity you do
and how much you're into it.
Like you lied the whole time, basically.
Was he pouring it on that bad?
I'm very confused right now.
I feel like this is not the person I really talked to that day.
That's weird.
Well, no, the person you talked to was, you know,
a guy who volunteers at the charity place all the time and just loves it.
Not a criminal.
Yeah, exactly.
A hardened criminal.
What am I going to say?
That's who he actually is.
So actually that's what's more important to me. Can I ask why you're doing community service? Like what happened?
Basically, my license was suspended one too many times, especially for not having insurance.
If you do it more than three times, you're a habitual offender, and then they give you community service.
If that's all it was, then why were you so embarrassed?
Like, it's not that big a deal.
Yeah, I completely, obviously, I completely agree, Angel.
And I was just having so much fun with you.
And, you know, I just, I was embarrassed.
I didn't want to look bad.
Mikey, would you like to go on another date
with Angel? We'll pay for it.
Not your car insurance premium though, you
maniac. But we will
pay for another date if you'll go out with her again.
I mean, it's out in the open.
You know, I feel
better or, you know, that she
doesn't think it's such a big deal.
So yeah, you know, I would love to go out such a big deal so yeah i you know i would love
to go out with her again i had a great time the first time yeah and i think we already know that
you liked her i guess it's more importantly now angel do you want to go out with mikey again
because you just found out that he's a liar and a serial non-insurancer so that point doesn't
bother me that much. What does
bother me is that he lied. That's
kind of more of a big deal to me.
I think he's pretty innocent, you guys.
If you give him a second chance, talk about it.
Communication is key. And he
really liked you and
he wants to go out with you again.
You should talk about it on the next date.
Yeah, I'll give it another chance
yay
sweet
alright well Angel
we'll have you get in touch with Mikey's
parole officer and
see what his schedule is
hey everyone it's Katie Couric
well the election is in the
home stretch right in time for a new season of my podcast next question Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch,
right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs,
friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also
going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the
God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well.
I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about?
Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric,
on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show,
which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Welcome to Decisions Decisions,
the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite
hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional
relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.
Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives
dictated by traditional patriarchal norms.
Tune in and join the conversation.
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