First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - This First Date Follow Up is Popping!

Episode Date: April 18, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".You'll never believe why someone's getting ghosted in today's First Date Follow Up ... let's just say it's popping! Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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decisions on the black effect podcast network. I heart radio app, Apple podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. The Jubal show on demand. First day follow up. If you could go back to like high school and do something over

one thing over that you made a mistake on in high school what would it be oh I wouldn't pee myself in that tennis match oh

that was the most my god embarrassing thing that's ever happened to me um what I would change is that I would have been there for that

yeah yeah I'm gonna go with that that I would have been there to see Igo Shevin pee himself in a tennis match don't ever admit that. That I would have been there to see Isochev and pee and tie himself in a tennis match. I had a doubles partner too so I had to tell him. I was like, please don't tell anyone

that this has happened. He told everyone. This is a first date follow up and I really want to get to the date. It was horrendous. I just have so many questions about that. I had to dry myself off with an air dryer in the bathroom. Ew. I won the match. Why did you pee. Ew, that probably sucked really bad.

I won the match. I won the match. Why did you pee again? Your pants? Well, I didn't mean to. So why did you pee again? Your pants? Because it was like juice.

It was tied. And it was not my pee was the juice. The game was that juice. So you were excited about the excitement of the game? Yeah, and I had to stay in the moment. Usually people poop. You peed? Yeah.

You couldn't help it and you couldn't stop it? I couldn't stop it, no. Well, I'm excited about getting to the first date follow-up, so much so that I'm peeing myself right now, even if I'm... And Katie is on the phone. That didn't go at all like I expected it to. Katie is on the phone today for a first date follow-up.

Thank you for your email. I'm sorry you're not getting a call back from... Freddie is his name, right? What did you guys do for your date? So I thought it was amazing. And, you know, high school, we never really spoke to each other but now I feel like I don't know he's someone that I should have known or should have connected with a long time ago but I feel like you know we just have a lot of things in common and I could just see us hanging out and growing together it's

really interesting but um I wish we just would have spoke more in high school. Maybe we would have had something. You could have been married by now. Big kids. Yeah. And they could have gone to the same high school and you could have gone to watch them in the football games on Friday night wearing their jerseys or the tennis matches. So the day was good then I'm guessing. It was good, but I'm kicking myself for this now because I don't know, my mind was somewhere else that day and I forgot to take my anxiety medication and I remember like in the middle of the date so I'm thinking oh my god what do I do and I just took it out right in front of him like I know I

have to take care of myself and he was just kind of looking at me like what's that for and I told him the truth I don't think it's a big deal you know and uh he was accepting kind of looking at me like, what's that for? And I told him the truth. I don't think it's a big deal, you know? And he was accepting of it at the time, I guess you could say. But I'm kind of worried now. Like, what if he's judging me? He thinks I'm some kind of like crazy lady who cannot control her emotions, which is not the case. Yeah.

If he's judging you because you took anti-anxiety medication because you deal with anxiety, then you don't want to date him anyway. Yeah. And you said he was accepting though at the moment, right? Yeah. Oh, definitely. And yeah, we said we'd go out again and, you know, he walked me to my car and we ended up kissing and it was an incredible kiss.

Probably like the best one I've ever had. What? Oh, wow. Damn. Dang. That's a good kiss. You've texted him and he hasn't responded at all. No, I just can't get over it.

It's just crickets. And I don't know, like, did I do something wrong? Because the date was really incredible and I really wanted to do it again. Yeah, and he gave you one of the best kisses of your life at the end of it. Yeah, I couldn't really, like, only go off from there, too. I mean, I better look at better each time. All right, well, we'll play a song, come back and then call him and see if we can get it figured out

and get your first date follow up right after this. Okay? Okay. Please be nice to him because I really do want this second date. I can tell. You do.

If I had the best kiss of your life. Yeah, you need another date. It was like heavy on the tongue. Like, blah, blah, blah,

blah, blah, blah, blah. Oh, okay. Why don't we all, why don't we all have the best kiss

of our lives right now? Ready? All of us. All right. One, two, three. I like it. You were talking over there. I have chills and not in a good way.

I have a man. I don't know what you're trying to blame me on that. I'm weird. Alex. You're so weird. I have chills in the greatest way. if you quit trying to blame me on that you weirdo you're so weird I have chills in the greatest way that was an amazing kiss

was that amazing for you Katie as good as the kiss you had on your first date yeah I mean it was like a

gentle soft kiss not gross not something you may love to have in your life gentle or soft do you like my gentle soft lips

like that alright cool alright we'll play a song come back and then call him and I love to have a man where I don't check out why he's not. Gentle and soft. Do you like my gentle, soft lips? Like that. All right, cool. All right, well, we'll play a song, come back, and then call him. Does she hang up?

I don't know. Katie, are you still there? We are so annoying sometimes. I'm sorry. Yes, I'm sorry. Don't go anywhere. We'll get your first date follow-up next. It's a jubile show.

Katie is on the phone for her first date follow-up. She went out with a dude named Freddy that she actually knows from high school but matched with on Tinder. She was excited to go out with him. They went out with a dude named Freddy that she actually knows from high school, but matched with on Tinder. She was excited to go out with him.

They went out to like a bar, hung out. And she said the date was amazing. They laughed a lot. They connected a lot. And she ended the date with one of the best kisses in her entire life. We're about to call him and figure out why he's not calling her back, though, because it's been a week since she's heard from him. He literally has not responded to a single text and she thinks it might be because in the middle of their date, she had to take her anxiety medication. So she took out, you know,

pills, took her medication. And she thinks maybe the fact that she takes an anti-anxiety drug might make him, she thinks that he might think that she's a nervous wreck. Lots of he and she there. Sorry about that. And she thinks. But is that a fair assessment of what happened, Katie? Yeah, it is. I'm really wondering if he's going to think I'm a nervous wreck. And I'm not.

I just, I don't know. I want to see him again. Okay. Well, we're going to dial this phone number right now and get him on the phone and see if we can get you another date. Hello? Hey there, smooches. How you doing?

I'm good. Who is this? This is the Jubal Show. My name is Jubal. Mine's Alex. Mine's English Evan. And I'm Christian Gray Snow. And it's a radio show, and we heard that you are a good kisser, Freddie.

I mean, I really get, like, a lot of feedback. Am I winning, like, an award on a radio show for kissing? Because, I mean, I'll take it. Freddie, we're calling you because we do a segment on the show called The First Date Follow-Up, where if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and find out what happened and we got an email about you from katie she told us all about your date she also said that you gave her one of the best kisses of her entire life and now you're not calling her back and she doesn't know why and that's why we're calling you oh okay so she the

that's kind of weird these guys are calling about that we only went on like one date so it's not you know yeah i mean one day i feel kind of weird right now but you ghosted her so we want to know why well i i mean it was like we knew each other from high school i don't think i know that we were like in high school and like when i matched her on tinder i was like oh my god like it's Katie so it was like it was kind of easy for me because I walk out of already I don't know her nowhere but like already know her yeah and so you know like I was just we'll keep it simple like go out to a bar I you know it was like I think like part kind of like high school reunion she told us all of that

stuff like what you guys did everything I guess you could say, like, yeah, it was maybe, it was amazing. And, you know, like, I enjoyed the kiss, too. You know, I really liked it. Why are you calling her back? Did you not enjoy Katie? I'm having a good time. And then I'm pretty sure she, like, popped a molly, like, during the date right in front of me.

Are you serious? Yeah. She pops a pill. And, you know, I mean, like during the week, I gotta get up in the morning. I mean, I don't know what she's doing at night, but that kind of threw me, that definitely threw me afterwards.

Like, I'm not that type of person. What was she acting like afterwards? She just got kind of like sweaty, a little fidgety, a little, you know, a little frantic. I don't know. I don't know what the terms are for that, you know, but like, I was just kind of sweaty, a little fidgety, a little frantic. I don't know. I don't know what the terms are for that.

But I was just kind of like, Molly's not really my thing. I'm not one of those people, I guess. How do you know if it's Molly, though? Yeah. Well, I mean, if you're at a bar and you're just going to pop a pill right there at the bar. Do people have medication they take? It could be an ibuprofen. But you're not supposed to pop a pill right there at the bar. Well, do you know, people have medication they take. It could be an ibuprofen. But you're not supposed to take a medication with alcohol in a bar.

Did you ask her? You take them with a glass of water at home. Well, no, because that would have been like a really awkward conversation. Like, hey, are you doing illegal drugs at this bar right now? I mean, it is weird, like, without any explanation, like, go do it in the bathroom if you're going to take something, right? Right. It doesn't matter what it is.

Like, if you're not going to explain it, yeah and i don't want like people to hear and then like we get the cops called on us and it's like wow great first date like i better get a lawyer because i just got arrested for illegal drugs okay that's extensive yeah i don't think they would arrest you for her taking one of whatever it is just an accomplice calm down you think she popped a molly in the middle of your date because she took a pill and then started getting sweaty and fidgety. Yeah, exactly. Thank you for sharing. I mean, it's understandable if I went out with someone and like all of a sudden that happened, I might be like, whoa, that's weird.

I just wanted to meet up for a drink and then Molly happened. Katie is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. I wasn't taking Molly. What were you taking? I was taking my anti-anxiety medication because I needed it. I was going into almost a panic attack state, so I needed to calm down.

And that's why I was so sweaty and fidgety. I'm not going to lie, guys. I'm still shocked. She heard our entire conversation. Sorry. It's quite shocking. She's there now. Do you believe her that it was anti-anxiety medication and not molly i i yeah yeah i i think so i mean i guess i mean i

don't remember her like running with like a weird drug crowd in high school so i mean yeah i mean that makes you should have just told me to be honest like if you would have just been like hey it's my you know i'm a little you know. Like, if you would have just been like, hey, it's my, you know, I'm a little, you know, I take this. I probably would have just been like, cool. I, you know, awesome. I don't really judge when it comes, you know, everybody's got stuff they're working through. And, you know, they need, you know, stuff to help them get through it. I'm not going to judge you.

Well, I didn't want to tell you, but my anti-anxiety medication is Molly. No, okay. No, all right. I feel, I'm't want to tell you, but my anti-anxiety medication is Molly. No, okay. No, all right. I feel, I'm not going to lie. I feel really like, I apologize. Like, I feel so dumb. You know, I mean, she just said it though. But, I mean, okay.

Yeah, well, I don't, you know, you never know. Like, people, like, you watch TV and, like, someone pops a pill at a bar like 90 percent of the time. Like it's like they're ready to have a good time. And I'm not like the coolest guy at the bar. So, I mean, it was, you know, I was like, oh, wow. Katie's like really cool. Like what a confidence. She's popping it back.

She's going all night. I don't think I can. I think that was the part thing is like i was afraid of the drugs and part of me was like i don't know if i can keep up with katie's like extreme underground party side well listen um you know i was probably way more exciting and adventurous let's just say back in high school that's not me now i'm way too old to be having a good time like that i am like everybody else in 2022 to see my anti- me now. I'm way too old to be having a good time like that. I'm like everybody else in 2022

to see my anti-anxiety meds. Way too old to have a good time. Pretty much. I mean, if you... Well, number one, I'm sorry I didn't call you back because I was under the impression that you had that lifestyle.

And I would love to make it up to you if you'd like. Freddie, wait, Freddie, Freddie, Freddie, I think you're going where I wanted to go with it. And let's do this together. Would you like to go on another date with Katie? We'll pay for it. Yeah, I would, I would, I would love that. Oh, nice.

Yay. Katie, do you still want to go out with him? Of course. Yeah. I think that he. Oh, nice. Yay. Katie, do you still want to go out with him? Of course, yeah. I shouldn't say he realizes he was wrong. It sounds that way. Well, congrats, guys. Yeah, glad you're not a crackhead. That's awesome.

I didn't see it going this way at all. Yeah, I know. And don't forget to bring two Molly for your next date. Oh, my God. The Jubal Show on demand. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast.

Next question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Catch Jon Stewart back in action on The Daily Show and in your ears with The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. From his hilarious satirical takes on today's politics and entertainment to the unique voices of correspondents and contributors, it's your perfect companion to stay on top of what's happening now. Plus, you'll get special content just for podcast listeners, like in-depth interviews and a roundup of the week's top headlines. Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF. And me, Mandy B. As we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. Tune in and join in the conversation.

Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.