First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - This First Date Follow Up is served with a bag of spaghetti!

Episode Date: October 29, 2021

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".Why isn't Fionna getting a call back from a guy she shared bagged spaghetti at a concert with!? The Jubal Show finds out in another exciting First Date Follow Up! Let us know what you think on social!Follow us at: @thejubalshow @jubalfresh @thatdreas @evanontheradioSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. First Date Follow-Up brought to you by Mac and Jack's Brewing Company. Fiona is on the phone today for a First Date Follow-Up and she met a dude named Nathan and now Nathan is not calling her back and she

has no idea why. And before, Fiona, before we find out about your date, how long has it been since you went out with Nathan? It's been three weeks, but we didn't exactly go out. What? Okay. You didn't go out? You guys didn't go out, but you're being ghosted. We did go out.

Like, I'm pretty sure it was a date. Well, you sound on the fence. I don't out like i'm pretty sure it was a date well you sound on the fence i don't know pretty sure it was a date doesn't mean it was a date well no yeah we met at a concert so um then we hung out a ton after so it's cool yeah okay yeah so when's the last time you reached out to him after meeting him, I guess? Yeah, it was three weeks ago. And I reached out the same night that we met. So it's been three weeks. Dang. Oh, it's been a while.

Oh, and he hasn't responded at all? No. So what if he has a girlfriend then? Yeah, maybe. So here's what happened. Basically, I wanted to go to this EDM show, but I couldn't find any friends to go with me. So I bought a ticket, made some spaghetti, put it in a bag, and went to the show. Okay.

You did what? I'm sorry. You made some spaghetti and put it in a bag and ate it at an EDM concert? Yeah, this is getting weird. What am I missing? This is getting weird. The spaghetti in the bag with me because I thought it would be funny. Anyway, I'm a sucker for puns. Yeah, anyway.

Also, I figured it would be a cute conversation starter. I would have questions if I saw a woman standing next to me at a concert by herself eating spaghetti out of a Ziploc bag. I would have a lot of questions. I'd be worried. Yeah. I'm guessing Nathan had questions too. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. He totally did.

No, I was standing there eating my spaghetti. Wait, but you said it was for a pun. What was the pun? So, okay, the artist's name is Spag Hetty. So I put a bag of spaghetti in. So is this something that like his fans do? They bring spaghetti? No, no.

No? I was just being silly. I'm just, no. I'm just, no, I'm just, it's something I did. Just doing your own thing. Okay, so now I know why. Taking it to the extreme.

She's being ghosted. Why not? Why isn't that a thing with spaghetti? I don't even know who Spaghetti is. I've never heard of Spaghetti. Why isn't that

a thing in his shows? Why don't people make spaghetti, put it in a Ziploc bag, and then eat it at his concert? They should. Could you imagine seeing thousands of people with Ziploc bags of spaghetti?

Yeah, that'd be awesome. And that's kind of like what I did. I just took out my fork and when I saw him there, you know, he asked for a bite. Like, he came up to me and asked for a bite. Nathan did? Yeah. So I took out a second fork. I gave it to him and we talked.

You had a second fork? Yeah. I mean, that's prepared. You had a second fork? Yeah. I mean, that's prepared. You said it was a conversation starter, so you came prepared with the second fork. That's awesome. Yeah, and we danced together. It was awesome, you guys. There was just like such a spark. He must have liked you

to share spaghetti from a Ziploc bag with a stranger at an EDM show. Sounds like a player to me. Yeah. Oh, no, no. You guys, he even introduced me to his friends, because again, I was there, you know, rolling solo, and yeah, his friends were great, and it was

honestly one of the best nights ever, and they kept calling me Spaghetti Girl. Well, so how did it end? Like, how did you guys' night end? Yeah, well, we didn't exchange numbers, but I did DM him on Insta twice, and that's, like, how... I haven't heard back from that,

so I really wanted to see him again. Well, then how would we get his number, then? Well, I... Okay, so I don't have his number, but I paid for one of those, like, phone lookup websites. Oh, okay. And I have two numbers,

so I figured one of them has to be his. Okay. It's a 50-50. So we'll take a shot then. He's going to be so creeped out if we get a hold of him. Yeah. We're looking for you, sir. You met Spaghetti Girl.

Yeah. All right. Well, then we'll play a song, come back, and then try those phone numbers and see if one of them is Nathan, the guy that you met at the concert that you shared spaghetti out of a bag with. Yeah. Thank you. bag with. Yeah. Thank you. All right.

Yeah, you're welcome. This could go terribly wrong, but who cares? Let's do it. We'll get your first date follow-up right after this. It's a Jubal show. All right. I'm just going to dial some random phone numbers, I guess. This might be incredibly awkward.

It's your first date follow-up. If you're just joining us, Fiona is on the phone, and she met a dude named Nathan at an EDM show. Fiona didn't have any friends to go with her, so she went by herself. That's a cool move. Very confident move. She also took a bag of spaghetti with her to eat at the show and ended up meeting a guy named Nathan who ended up sharing the spaghetti with her. And we didn't ask you in the first part, Fiona, did you guys kiss at all? Any kind of make out or anything? Yeah, we did kiss um

yeah once once at the um concert and then like once outside of the concert after all right pasta breath and all it's hot all right so Nathan hasn't called her back it's been three weeks they didn't exchange phone numbers though she d DM'd him on Instagram and he hasn't responded. So Fiona paid for a website to look up phone numbers and has two phone numbers for us to call hoping that one of them is Nathan. So we're going to see. I'll dial the first phone number. Okay, Fiona?

And then we'll see if it's Nathan here. Hello? Hi, is this Nathan? Yes, it's him. We did it. Hi. Yes. Hey, what's up, Nathan? My name is Jubal from a radio show called The Jubal Show.

And my name is Alex from a radio show called The Jubal Show. And my name is English Evan from a radio show called The Jubal Show. And my name is English Evan from a radio show called The Jubal Show. Sorry, I forgot my name. Yeah, Nathan, how are you? I'm great, thanks. How can I help you? So, I don't know if you listen to our show or not. It doesn't matter. We don't have time to get into all that

right now, but you should one day, okay? It's called The Jubal Show. It's a radio show. And we do a segment where if you've been ghosted, it's called the First Date Follow-Up. If somebody ghosts you, you can email us to get that person on the phone and ask why they ghosted you. And we got an email about you. And we just want you to help us

by telling us why you're ghosting Spaghetti Girl. Are you guys talking about Fiona? Yes. We sure are. Do you know another Spaghetti Girl? We're talking about Fiona. Why are you ghosting her? I'm not ghosting her. What do you know another spaghetti girl we're talking about Fiona why are you ghosting her I'm not ghosting her what do you mean

yeah yeah if you're not ghosting her then why haven't you well she said that you guys didn't exchange phone numbers but you did on social media

and she tried to hit you up oh yeah we never exchanged numbers actually like how did you guys even get my number we never

yeah because we never exchanged any numbers. Well, you know, it's really easy to find information on the World Wide Web. We actually hired Navy SEAL Team 6 to track you down. We got you. Well, so for real, though, like, I've been actually kind of disappointed just because I didn't get her number. Did you not get her message on Instagram or whatever, however she did?

I mean, I didn't see it. I don't think she did. Or, however she did? I mean, I didn't see it. I don't think she did. I didn't see it. Yeah, I did, Nathan. I messaged you. Fiona? Yes, that's Fiona. I should have let you know she's actually

on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Hi, Nate. Hi. This is a little weird. Yeah, no, it's definitely weird. I did DM you, though. You did? Well, what on?

I don't see anything. Here, check your Instagram I definitely message you huh like I just don't see it and I have like only three total DMs um yeah I don't

see anything message him again right now see if it goes through yeah okay oh I do see I've never even seen this. There's like a request folder. Yeah, it's like blatantly obvious in the upper right hand corner. It says request in

big letters. Yeah, I am not very savvy at all. Because we don't follow each other, so it could have gone in that other folder. Yeah. Oh, yeah, I see it. Wait, so you guys didn't follow each other either? Like, that's weird. Yeah. Oh, yeah. I see it. Wait, so you guys didn't follow each other either? Like, that's weird.

Yeah, that is weird. You guys didn't, like, follow each other or get each other's numbers, but you guys both liked each other? That's why we're both here. Y'all, communication is key. You shared spaghetti. What is going on? Yeah.

Can you see it yet? Can you see my message? Yeah, I'm just now seeing this. I'm so like, I had no idea this was even a folder in Instagram. Oh, dear. Messages. Yep. Yep.

There it is. That's the message. This is so strange. Okay. But I mean, so you didn't mean to not message me back is what I'm gathering from this. No, not at all. No. It was just, I did not even know that folder existed on Instagram.

I hardly ever use it. Dude, there's probably a lot of other things. Probably like long lost family members trying to get a hold of you. Maybe a Saudi princess has some money for you in that folder. You should check it more often. How many were in there? Pretty much just Fiona's message. Well, now you know it's there.

Now you know that she was trying to get ahold of you since that concert. And would you like to go on another date? Well, a date. Like an official date with Fiona. You guys go get some spaghetti that's on a plate this time. Noted a bag. We'll pay for it. Oh, really? Yay. Oh. We'll pay for it. There we go. Oh, really?

Yay. Oh, that makes me so happy. This is the best case scenario of Colleen to radio. I don't know if this one counts officially because Fiona didn't really get ghosted. Well, yeah, they both got ghosted. We got them a second date. That's all I care about. Yeah. I mean, we guys kind of ghosted each other by

not getting each other's info when you needed to. So congratulations, Fiona. You got another date. Woo! Woo-hoo! Thank you, guys, for helping me. It could happen.

No problem. And Nathan, you get to see Spaghetti Girl again. Yes, I'm excited. Jubal's First Date Follow-Up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time

for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein,

Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well.

I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show Ears Edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the

world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. Tune in and join the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.