First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - This First Date Follow Up is the firsts set-up on The Jubal Show!

Episode Date: May 2, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".This First Date Follow Up is a the first set-up we've seen on The Jubal Show! Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Todd went on a date with a woman named Sally. And now Sally is nowhere to be found. Todd, thank you for your email. Thank you for agreeing to do a first date follow-up. Before we get into your date, where did you meet Sally? We met on Facebook. She sent me a friend request, and dude, it was crazy. As soon as I accepted it, we started talking.

So me personally, I was like, hey, God sent me an angel in my DMs. God sent me an angel from the heavens above. Sing it, girl. That was pretty good. That was. Yeah, it was, actually. Come on, American Idol. And how long has it been since you heard from your angel?

Like two weeks, yeah. So, we went on a date. We were talking for a couple of weeks, you know, and then boom, man, she literally just disappeared. I mean, I don't know. I don't see her on Facebook anymore.

I mean, it's crazy. I I don't see her on Facebook anymore. I mean, it's crazy. I'm pretty sure she lives on campus, but I just, I haven't seen her either, so I don't know what's the deal. Did she delete Facebook, or is she just not active? I don't see her. I tried to pull her up. I guess she deleted it.

It's given block. I wonder why, though. What did you guys do for your date? We met downtown at a bar, and we just had some appetizers and drinks and just chopped it up, you know, for a few. So it was pretty chill. How did you feel like the vibe went? Did you guys get along? It went crazy.

I mean, it went good. She was awesome. Sally was awesome. I mean, she's literally everything. I mean, did I ever win a woman? I was like, whoa, this is crazy. I mean, she's literally everything. I mean, did I ever want a woman? I was like, whoa, this is crazy. I mean, she's smart, crazy funny. She

made me feel good. So she's everything you wanted in a woman except in real life now because you can't talk to her. She's not calling you back. Sorry, that sounded harsh. It really did. It is the truth though. She's not calling you back. So how did the date end?

Yeah, okay. So, I mean, we ended up back going to my house, had a few more drinks, and kind of hooked up. Yeah. I almost hit a home run, you know? Oh, almost. So what did you do then with her? I couldn't find my magnums, you know? I couldn't find my magnums.

Oh, wow. Yeah, I couldn't believe it, man. I was really so close. If I had to use magnums, I would always know where they are because they'd be on my coffee table so everybody could see them. You're like, yeah, those are magnums. That's right. You need one?

Oh, wait. Yeah, I mean, we had a great time. I mean, it was cool. I mean, it sucked. You know, I was just happy to be with her, though, honestly. So you guys didn't do anything because you didn't have protection? Yeah. All right.

Pretty much. Okay. Well, that's smart. I mean, you know, protection's a good thing. Better be safe than sorry. Yeah. I mean, yeah. I mean, that's the way I was thinking.

So why do you think then she's ghosting you? Did you tell her that you needed Magnus? Maybe she's scared. She's like, I've never been with somebody who needed Magnus before. Thank you. Yeah. I mean, that could be it. I don't know.

But she didn't seem to care. I mean, in fact, it. I don't know, but she didn't seem to care. I mean, in fact, it seemed like she was impressed, to be honest. I don't know. I don't know. I mean, I don't know. Maybe she felt I was too much of a gentleman. I don't know. I thought I was just doing the right thing or something.

I don't know. Okay. I don't know, man. It's weird, dude. I don't know. All right. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you. Is there anything awkward that you can think of at all?

Or like any part in the night where her vibe changed? It was a little awkward for a moment, but we moved on. The rest of the night was smooth. I mean, we took a little nap, and then I walked her to her car. I mean, I said I couldn't wait. I was like, I can't wait to see her again so see you again and she was cool with that.

Did she respond to you or just smile? Nah, you know, we smiled. I had a small little kiss. She smiled. It was pretty cool.

She seemed like genuine. All right, well, we'll play a song, come back and then call her and see if we can figure out why she's not calling you back with your first date follow-up next.

It's the Jubal Show. First date follow-up. Todd is on the phone, and Todd isn't getting a call back from a woman he went on a date with named Sally. He had a typical date with Sally, went out to dinner, some drinks, and he almost hit a home run, except he didn't have the proper cover for his bat. They went back to his house, and he said they were about to hook up, but he didn't have any coverage that is appropriate for him because he uses magnums. If you don't know what they are, big.

Google it. Or Google it, yeah. They didn't have anything to be safe to hook up, so they didn't hook up, but they still hung out, took a little nap. He walked her to her car, and then they kissed, and he said, I really had fun. Hope to see you later. And she seemed like she wanted to see him again, but now she hung out, took a little nap. He walked her to her car and then they kissed and he said, I really had fun. Hope to see you later.

And she seemed like she wanted to see him again, but now she's not calling him back. So we're going to call her and see if we can figure it out. All right, Todd, you ready for us to call Sally and figure out why she's not getting back to you? Oh man. Yeah. Yeah. I'm trying to seal the deal.

All right. Trying to S the D, huh? S the D. Seal the deal. All right, here we go. I'm going to call it right now. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Sally, please? This is Sally. Who's speaking? Hi, Sally.

This is Jubal Fresh. I host a show called The Jubal Show, and that's a radio show. And I'm Alex Fresh, and I co-host The Jubal Show. It's a radio show called The Jubal Show, and I'm his wife. And I'm English Evan, and I co-host The Jubal Show. It's a radio show called The Jubal Show, and I'm not his wife. And I'm Christian Greystone. I'm the digital producer for a radio show called The Jubal Show, and I'm also not Jubal's wife.

Okay. Hi. Okay. Hi. Hi. So, have you heard of the show before? I have. Okay. Nice. Have you ever heard us do a segment on the show called A First Date Follow-Up?

Yes. We do a segment called The First Date Follow-Up. It's where if you go out on a date with someone and then end up ghosting them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and find out why. And you seem like a smart person, Sally. So why do you think we're calling you right now? Oh my God. Are you serious right now?

Yes. You went on a date with a guy named Todd recently and you're not calling him back and he wants to know why. I mean, I don't know that I would call it a date, but I do in fact know Todd. What on earth did he tell you? Well,

he said that he liked you a lot. He said, he said, actually, you're everything that he would want in a woman. And he said, you guys went out for dinner drinks, went back to his place and,

you know, mess around a little bit there. And then that was it. That's the last he heard from you. And he wants you guys went out for dinner drinks, went back to his place, and messed around a little bit there. And then that was it. That's the last he heard from you, and he wants to know why. He said he's trying to find you on Facebook, too, but he can't because either you shut down your Facebook or you blocked him. Probably blocked him. Yeah, so girl, what happened? Yeah, I hella blocked him. Oh, no.

What happened? him um oh no what happened i mean he seriously got in touch with a radio station to get in touch with me i don't even really like him well why don't you just then respond to him we really want to know what happened but yeah you can just respond and be like i'm not interested yeah um yeah i only even hung out with todd because I wanted to get back at his girlfriend. What? Come on. What? His girlfriend.

What? Oh, my gosh. You clearly need a lot of background on this guy. There's a lot that he has not been telling you. Give us the tea. What? Guys, Todd's sleazy. Like, he's a creep.

Oh, really? Oh. Seemed like a nice guy, but you never know. Why is he a creep? Oh, really? Oh. Seemed like a nice guy, but you never know. Why is he a creep? Oh, so he seemed like a nice guy. Did he tell you when he talked about our date that he has a girlfriend? No. He didn't let that part out.

Yeah, he did not. Yeah. He's been dating her for like two years. And you knew this before going out with him or you know it now? That is specifically why I went out with him. Okay. I was all about seeing how far he'd go with me so

that I could take it back to her and completely ruin their relationship. What? What? Jesus. So you don't know Todd from before though. You just know that he's sleazy and cheats on his girlfriend. So you talked to him on Facebook, went out with him, saw how far he would go just so you could ruin his relationship.

Yeah, because he's dating a total bitch. Okay, so you don't like her either? Oh my gosh. No, she's the main problem here. She did the exact same thing to me when we were in high school. Oh, revenge story. Did you say when you were in high school

you're still on that? Look, she is the reason that me and my ex broke up. So when I saw that she was dating sleazy Todd and he accepted my friend request on Facebook, it was like, okay, okay, let's see how I can use this because I wanted to see how far he'd go. So a war of the roads and a first date follow-up.

Seriously. So did you ruin his relationship then? Did you tell his girlfriend that you guys were messing around? Not yet. I really want to do it in a way that is going to like ruin her life. You know, it's all about timing, guys. Well, there's that

saying, hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. Damn. So since high school, you've been thinking about getting her back. She gets a boyfriend and then you hit him up and now you're going to ruin their relationship. Look, I since high school, you've been thinking about getting her back. She gets a boyfriend and then you hit him up and now you're going to ruin their relationship. Look, I wouldn't say that I've been like thinking about it for years. I'm not like a criminal mastermind. I saw an opportunity.

I took advantage and now I have the tape. You have the tape? There might be a video. You filmed it. Hey, payback's a bitch, guys. You cannot do that that's illegal i think no i just i had my phone recording so you can hear us and you can hear him oh wow i mean i guess i know why you're not calling him back um yeah and todd and todd's probably freaking out

right now because he is actually on the line listening and wants to talk to you or wanted to talk to you he's on the phone now yeah sorry i forgot to tell you man i mean i i don't even know what to say man are you serious right now are you this whole who's serious i want to know you left out a big part of your story bro i mean man dude dude please You cannot send those photos. I mean, why would you do this? I mean, I actually loved you. Come on, please. Don't do this.

Sorry. Back up. What? It sounds like this could work out. Sally, would you like to go on another date with Todd? We'll pay for it. Hell no. There is a perfect place for cheaters

in hell. Maybe Todd can call the radio station back when his girlfriend gets the message. Sally, please listen. What? The photo. Poor Todd. So sorry, Todd.

Oh, it's so tough. I mean, all the time we spent together. I don't think Sally's playing. I think she's going to. I know it's serious. I would be freaked out if I were you. Also shouldn't have cheated on your girlfriend. You wouldn't be in this situation.

Oh, we were having a break. It was a break period. It's always a break. I think it should be cool. I just want Sally. I don't even want to get back with my girlfriend. I want Sally. That is total bulls**t, Todd. I literally

just saw a picture that she posted of the two of you yesterday. Oh my God. Dude. She posted it, but we took it like weeks ago. He's still trying. Let it go. Consider this first date follow-up done and let you guys handle this off

the air. But update us. Let us know how it goes. Can't wait to hear. Seriously. The Jubal Show on demand. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast. Next question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me,

Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show, ears edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed

and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. Tune in and join the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.