First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - This First Date Follow Up is why you should never talk fruit on a date!

Episode Date: November 4, 2021

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".There's things that you shouldn't talk about on a first date: politics, exes and cheese!? In today's First Date Follow Up, Eric isn't getting a call back from Maggie because of cheese and fruit! Let us know what you think on social!Follow us at: @thejubalshow @jubalfresh @thatdreas @evanontheradioSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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First date follow-up. There's always things that you shouldn't do on a first date. Shouldn't talk about religion, probably. Yeah. Politics. That's a big one. Exes. Exes.

That's a big one, too. Shouldn't talk about whether you like pineapple on a pizza or not. Hot debate. Very. And Eric is on the phone for a first date follow-up. That's a mistake he might have made, because now he's not getting a call back from a woman he went on a date with. Her name is Maggie.

He said he liked her a lot, and he can't figure out why she's not calling her back. It might be because of the pizza debate. We'll find out more about that in just a second. Eric, thanks for your email. Thanks for agreeing to do a first date follow up. Before we get into your date, tell us how long has it been since you talked to Maggie? Yeah, it's been five days since our date and I just don't know what's going on. You think it's five days. Are you sure she's ghosting you or she's just taking a while to

get back to you? Well, I thought it was taking a while to get back, but then after like, you know, one or two days I got suspicious. So, and since then it's just been worse. How many times have you tried to get ahold of her? Quite a few. Like, um, I texted the first time, and then on the second day, and then on the third day. It's just nothing that's been going through. Okay, so she hasn't talked to you since your date. It's been five days. That would be, I mean, that's obvious that she's stopped talking to you, unless she has an excuse.

I don't know. She randomly went out of town. Yeah. Or isn't alive. I was going to say died, has a boyfriend, married. So before we get into why you think she's not calling you back, tell us a little bit about the date. Yeah, we met at a house party in college about four years ago.

And I remember we clicked and it was great. Then I met her on, I found her Instagram and I DM'd her. And to my surprise, she actually remembered me. So you met her at a party and what a few years ago and you've been wanting to ask her out for for that long? Yeah so I've been thinking about her for four years and I've been I dated this other girl in the meantime we broke up and I just couldn't stop thinking about her so I took the plunge. Wow, it sounds like she could be the one. I really want her to be the one, but sure doesn't look like it now, unfortunately. I'm guessing you guys, did you actually go out on a date or have you only been talking on Instagram and text messaging?

We did actually end up going on a date. Okay. We went out to get pizza. Well, how was getting pizza with her? She was amazing. Easy to talk to. She was pretty. We learned about her family. She actually surprised me because she remembered me from all those years ago. And she said she liked the look of me. So that's why she said yes. And the date went great. Why do you think you're not getting a call back? I don't know.

We kissed at the end, which I felt was a good thing. We drove away in separate cars, so we didn't get a chance to go to any of our places. I mean, I'm this type of person, but maybe we, it's, I got pineapple on my pizza. Ooh's I got pineapple on my pizza. Ooh, I'm a pineapple on my pizza kind of girl. Yeah, me too. It's delicious. It's a very hot debate.

Yeah, some people hate it. Does she not like it? She did not get pineapple on her half, so. She took the other side though. She doesn't like pineapple on pizza. You do. Yeah. Oh, all right. Yeah. Maybe, you know, opposites like pineapple on pizza. You do. Yeah. Opposites sometimes compliment each other.

They attract. Or did you call her names because of it? That might be a turn off. I made sure to not call her many names. Okay. I mean you guys kissed after the date so I mean it probably wasn't the pizza then, unless you kissed before you got pizza,

which would be weird because you said the kiss was at the end of your date. So if I'm following along with your timeline correctly, I don't think it'd be the pizza. No. Well, unless there was like pineapple taste in my mouth and she got a whiff of that. Oh, maybe. She hates the sugary taste.

Yeah. I can't it's the sugar taste. Yeah. I can't tell what's going on. And then, like I said, five days later, she hasn't texted me. Okay. And, um, other than the getting pineapple on your pizza, there's nothing you can think of. Not to my knowledge. I think everything went great.

Well, let's figure out why she's not calling you back. Yeah. We'll play a song and we'll come back and we'll call her And see if we can figure out what the deal is okay Thank you We'll get your first date follow up right after this It's the Jubal Show Some people think pineapple can ruin your pizza

It might also ruin your dating life If you're just tuning in today's first date follow up Eric is on the phone And Eric went out with a woman named Maggie They went out and got some pizza They actually met in college a while back Like four four years ago. And he finally decided to ask her out on Instagram. She said yes. And they went out for pizza. He thought the date was amazing. He thinks the only reason he might not be getting a call back from her is because he put pineapple

on his pizza and she seemed against that. They didn't have like, according to him, a heated argument about it, but that's the only thing you can think. He did get a kiss goodnight, but it's been five days and he's heard nothing and now we're about to get her on the phone and see if we can figure out why she's ghosting eric eric any other any anything else you want to add before we call her uh no i'm very curious to see what's going on so we are all very curious sir i love that no. All right, here we go. I'm going to call her right now. Hello?

Hi, may I speak to Maggie, please? Yeah, this is she. Who is this? Maggie, how are you? My name please? Yeah, this is she. Who's this? Maggie, how are you? My name is Jubal Fresh from The Jubal Show. My name is Alex Fresh from The Jubal Show. My name is English Evan from The Jubal Show. And The Jubal Show is a radio show

and includes all of the people that just introduced themselves. Wow. Hi. Did I win something? We're calling you because we do a segment on our show called the First Date Follow-Up. It's where if we go out on a date with someone and then end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and figure out why. So that's why we're calling. Oh, okay.

Have you gone out on any dates recently with anybody? I don't think so. Oh, okay. Weird. Well, we got an email, I think about you, from a guy named Eric. He said he went out with Maggie and he met you in college a few years ago and decided to finally DM you. And then you guys went out for pizza. Is this the wrong Maggie?

No. Okay. Yeah. I guess, I mean, I guess that was the date. You guess. I mean, it felt super like, you know, casual. We talked to him, right? Because he emailed us and told us that you guys went on a date, even though it sounds

like you don't think it was a date. And he said he had a great time and he's wondering why you're not getting back to him. He's trying to text and call you a few times after. He also said that at the end of the night, you guys kissed. Do you do that with just everybody you go to pizza with, or do you do that on dates? Yeah, I don't know. I mean, to be honest, I just felt like I just did it. There was no reason behind it.

I was just like, well, poor guy. You're a friend kisser? Oh. I don't know. I just felt like, yeah, I'll give him, I'll throw him a bone. Pity tongue. Really? Ugh, pity tongue.

Yeah. Okay. Was it a date or not? Um, I mean, in my mind, it wasn't. Okay. He was pretty, he was really sweet, but but it was like it was kind of awkward and I kind of just thought it was a catch-up and um there's this guy that he knows that I know college and I thought that I mean he's this guy I've had a crush on for six years and I just got

out of a relationship and whenever he DM me I was like oh maybe he's still friends with Oliver and so maybe we could like connect that way but then I found out he's not friends with him anymore so I kind of just was like you know okay okay kind of using Eric to get to Oliver yeah and I mean I mean, it was free pizza, so. Well, that's never a bad thing. I mean, yeah, I felt kind of bad about kissing him, but I was really there to find out about his friend and if he still knew Oliver and he doesn't.

Okay. Dang. All right, well, thanks for being honest. I appreciate that. Yeah, no problem. Yeah. And now I guess I'll be honest with you and let you know that Eric is actually listening and wants to talk to you.

Hey, Maggie. Hi. Hi. I can't believe this is, that was the whole point, is to try and get up and get with Ollie? Yeah, this is really awkward. I'm sorry. I hope, I don't know. So you heard everything that I just said?

Yeah. I mean, do you just use it to get to Ollie? Oh, I didn't. Well, I didn't really use you. I thought we were just kind of like, you know, chilling, hanging out. I didn't think it was, like, that deep. You said you liked the look of me, and you remembered me from all those years ago. That was a lie?

It wasn't a lie. I do. I think, yeah, like, you look good after all these years. Like, you're, you know, aged well. I was really looking forward to hanging out more with you and more dates. But this just sucks. I'm sorry. Well, he's got herpes, you know.

What? Wait, what? Yeah, my friend Oliver that you wanted to date, he's got herpes, so that's something you know now. Well, she can, just because he has herpes doesn't mean... She can still date him, yeah. I mean, I love how you just dropped that in there. Yeah. Does he actually, or are you just trying to bad mouth him now?

Yeah, he does. He told me about it. It was a thing he told me in confidence, but I don't care anymore. We're not friends anymore. Aw. I can just tell it. Okay, come on. Now you're just like throwing him under the bus because I didn't want to date you.

Well, it also hurts that I was used to get to a friend. You didn't think of what I felt. Yeah. Sorry. I don't know. Well, it sounds like this is going well. So I'll just ask the question right now. Maggie, would you like to go on another date with Eric?

We'll pay for it. I think I'll pass. Really? Weird. You don't say. I didn't see that coming at all. Yeah, I wanted to get a second date out of this. This whole reason I did this.

But nah, screw it. I don't want this anymore. You enjoy finding Ollie and you enjoy your herpes. Wow. All right. Jubal's first date follow up. Hey right. Jubal's First Date Follow-Up. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric.

Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions

as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show, ears edition on the iHeartRadio app,

Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives

dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. Tune in and join the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.