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Episode Date: April 28, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".Get ready because this First Date Follow Up is about to cause a huge debate! Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Anything where you'd have to work together as a couple to kind of solve something. Gotcha, like an escape room. Yes. Oh my gosh, an escape room on a first date, not a good idea. Because you're going to get frustrated with each other eventually and be like, I said it goes in the round hole right here. You're an idiot. I never want to see you again. And Mackenzie, who was on the phone for a first date follow up today, did something similar on her first date. So maybe there was an argument. She's not getting a call back. She says she went to a maze. We'll find out what the date is

in just a second. But first, Mackenzie, what's up? Thanks for your email. Hey, guys. Yeah. I was just wondering if you could help me out. Well, we can do that. I mean, we're doing it right now. So hopefully we can. All right. So tell us a little bit about the guy you went on a date with that is now not calling you back. I went on a date with this guy named Matt and, um, I've been on Tinder for a while and we met on Tinder and it was, I really liked him. And, um, I've had a couple of, uh, misfortune with Tinder. Let's just put it that way. Yeah. I am. I'm like getting so sick of that. It's no farmers sure. Yeah. So we had a really cool great date idea. Basically, he was like, I want to take you to this maze.

And I was like, a maze? That sounds so cool. Like, that's normally something people do on, like, Halloween or something. Yeah, never a good idea. So anyway, he's like, there's one that's here around next to near my house. Um, we'll kind of go there and hang out. And so when we meet up, he's just like the photos, super attractive. Um, so sweet. He brought like these, um, snacks for me and like some water and stuff. Cause we were going to be outside and you might get lost and be stuck in that maze forever maybe that's his plan like you know have a picnic in the middle of the maze

it's fine um we had a great time like we just went through the whole maze we finally finished it and um you know he said he would text me afterwards um after we kissed and everything which is great. That's nice. And yeah and then and then he never did text me and so I'm kind of trying to figure out what's going on. The date sounds fantastic. Did you try and text him though after the date? Yeah I waited a couple of days and then I texted him and he never responded. And so I don't know, I thought it was weird that he said that he would text me and he never did. You can't think of why? I am kind of awful with directions. And so we, we got lost often. Like every time I was like, let's go this way. It was a dead end or it led us back in a circle or whatever.

And so like, you know, maybe he thought I was like kind of ditzy. Maybe he thought that I was just like, you know, just being bossy for the sake of being bossy without any kind of experience. I don't know. I don't think you could take that personally, because if you're in a maze, chances are you're not going to know where to go. That's the whole idea of a maze. And on first dates, it doesn't ever get that crazy, right? I mean, do you guys ever have a date or do you guys act like, I just can't fathom being on a date and actually getting upset or any sort of weird way. Unless you're really annoyed with them and don't like them and just want the date to end.

I have been on one of those before. I've gotten in an argument on a first date before. Same. Oh, really? Yes. What were those like? It was awkward because I was on one of those before. I've gotten in an argument on a first date before. Same. Oh, really? Yes. What were those like? It was awkward because I was on like a double date. My buddy had a girlfriend, you know, it was her friend that I was supposed to be on the

date with and we did not get along at all. So the whole time they're fine and we were arguing, it ended with me dropping them off somewhere and leaving. Usually doesn't get heated on a first date, but it could. And maybe he just got, like, frustrated, too. Yeah, I mean, like, he was very sweet. Like, I didn't really, it didn't really seem like he was upset,

but maybe he was, and I don't know, maybe I just didn't read it right. All right. Well, we'll see if that's the reason. We'll play a song, come back, call him, and see if we can figure out

why he isn't getting back to you after your date, okay? Great. Thanks, guys. All right, we'll do it next. It's the Jubal Show. If you're just joining us for today's first date follow-up, Mackenzie is on the phone, and Mackenzie went on a date with a dude named Matt. She met him on Tinder, and they went to a maze. Matt and Mackenzie went to a maze.

Amazing. Oh, my God. Lots of them. She liked him a lot. They had a really fun time. They even kissed. Good night. And after the date, she hasn't a really fun time. They even kissed. Good night. And after the date, she hasn't heard anything from him.

She doesn't know why. The only reason that she can think of is that maybe she was frustrating on the maze. And that's the reason that he doesn't want to go out with her again. But other than that, can't think of anything, Mackenzie. You sure? Yeah. I mean, that's pretty much what my problem is. I thought it was a great date.

And now I have no idea why he's not texting me. Alright, well, we'll call him right now and see if we can figure it out for you. Here we go. Hello? Hello. This is Jubal from The Jubal Show speaking. And this is Alexal from The Jubal Show speaking. And this is Alex Fresh from The Jubal Show speaking. And this is English Evan from The Jubal Show speaking.

And now all of us are speaking. Okay. Do you have any idea what The Jubal Show is at all? Yeah, I've heard it, but what are you guys up to? What is this about? We're just working. Just doing a first date follow-up segment. That's a segment where we call someone,

and if they've been on a date with someone and not calling them back, then we ask them why. We're doing that segment right now. That's what we're doing. Oh, s***. What happened? So who do you think that we're talking about? I'm really not sure, to be honest.

It rhymes with McKenzie. That's what it rhymes with. Can you tell us why you're not calling McKenzie back? She's a cool girl. But, you know, unfortunately for her, it's bad timing. I'm wrapping up the trial run of girls I've been dating off Tinder.

What did you just say? The trial run? What does that mean? Yeah up the trial run of girls I've been dating off Tinder. What did you just say? The trial run? The trial run. What does that mean? Yeah, the trial, you know. You know, you have the trial run, and then they eventually bring in starters. She just didn't make the cut. Oh, so you're a player?

I wouldn't say I'm a player, but I just have, you know, I just have priorities and I don't have a limited time. Have you, like, settled on one person or she's just not on the level of the other ones that you want to date? She's just not on the level. She just cut below. Oh. Yeah. It just came out at the end and I don't know. The other ones already blew me away. So she didn't make the cut to get on your team, huh?

No, unfortunately. Are a lot of people trying to get on your team, huh? No, unfortunately. Are a lot of people trying to get on Matt's team? Is that the issue? Yeah, I usually have five starters right now. Oh, my God. Don't hate the player, guys. Hate the game. Yeah, I mean, she's a decent kisser and everything,

but I just... Yeah, she was just a trial girl. Trial girl. I've never heard that term before. Ever. No, everyone's saying it. Okay. I literally think it's just you, Matt.

Yeah, I think it might just be you, but that explains it. You were just, she was a trial girl. She didn't have enough to make it through to the next round. Okay. Have we clarified enough? No, she did not. Well, Mackenzie is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Hi, Matt. Oh, we did not. Well, Mackenzie is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Hi, Matt.

Oh, what? Yep. Hello? Mackenzie, are you still there? Do you have another trial to get to? Yeah, I'm still here. I heard it all. I made it through this trial, at least.

Are you dating anyone else? You know, kind of like he is. You know how. I mean, you guys are on Tinder. Yeah. are you dating anyone else you know kind of like he is you know how i mean you guys are on tinder yeah i mean like i i've dated people but i don't date people like all at once if that makes sense like i i will like you know i don't i don't agree with that i don't think it's like you're i mean if i'm online dating i'm gonna be testing several people at once that's fine it's normal so yeah until you make it official with someone you can date yeah i just think the way that i don't know phrasing it is a bit strange yeah like it's fine that you're dating people but like a trial girl like you're just like i don't know trying me on like a pair of shoes or

something and just like i don't know just discarding me afterwards like and not even like saying anything to me like that's kind of up, especially because we've been talking for a little bit before we met. I wouldn't say take it. I want to take a trial girl. I mean, every girl is a trial girl at first, so I wouldn't get too offended by that. I mean,

honestly, it's just, that's all. He probably wouldn't have said those exact words if he knew you were on the phone. Oh no, I would have. Oh,

just kidding. Kenzie, he would have. Well, it would have been nice for you to have, like, just let me know. Well, I thought you got the hint when I didn't text you. Yeah, like, I just wanted to know why. You didn't have to, like, give me a long explanation. Just like, hey, I'm not interested or I'm seeing someone else now.

Like, whatever. I deserve more than to be just discarded. I mean, you said you would call her a trial girl to her face. You could at least text her and be like, I'm not interested in going out again. Yeah. Well, now you got your answer now, though. So, I mean,

is that good enough for you? Yeah, but I had to go on the radio to get the answer. Like, why would you be such a jerk about it? I'd like to get an answer. Matt, would you like to go on the radio to get the answer. Like, why would you be such a jerk about it? I'd like to get an answer. Matt, would you like to go on another date with Mackenzie? We'll pay for it. You know what?

I'll give you another shot. Give you another opportunity. If you really want it that badly. Wow, I wasn't expecting that. You mean another trial. Oh, I see how it is. Yeah, I don't give those out very often. Oh, your chance at a second shot to make it to Matt's starting lineup.

What do you think, Mackenzie? Wow, I just feel so privileged to see Matt. Thanks. Like, great. Yeah, I don't think so. I think I'm pretty much done with this. This is like, if that's how you treat women, then no. I don't think so. I think I'm pretty much done with this. This is like, if that's how you treat women, then no. I don't think so.

And Matt, maybe you should go to like a hair doctor to get that receding hairline thing. Oh, no blow. Yikes. Apparently he's got a receding hairline and he can still have trial girls. It's a shame. And have someone want to find out why he ghosted them. Yeah. Yeah, it's a shame Mackenzie just didn't have the mat factor.

Sounds like she would have put up with his receding hairline. I know. It sounds like she was almost on the fence about maybe like, okay, well he's going to call me a try girl. I'll go out with him again and then show him that I should be a starting lineup. Here.

Let's, let's, let's throw it out to everybody listening right now. Text in four one Oh six one. Is it rude to be known as a trial person? Like if you're dating someone and they call you a trial girl or a trial guy before you make it to the next level. Is it rude or is it okay? No, for the love of God.

Oh, to me, it's definitely rude. No. So it wouldn't be rude, Alex, if we were dating? I don't care. Call it what you want. It is what it is. Because you know you'd make it to the starting lineup. Is that what you're saying?

I didn't say that. The Jubal Show on demand. me out like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show, Ears Edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. to give you the context you need to make sense of it all. Every day in just 15 minutes, we dive into one global business story that matters. You'll hear from Bloomberg journalists like Matt Levine.

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