First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - This First Date Follow Up they were High School Sweethearts!
Episode Date: April 30, 2021Jeff saw an old crush from high school, Lisa at a Bar they exchanged numbers but she hasn't responded back! Jubal Fresh calls her up and finds out what happened!Let us know what you think on social!Fo...llow us at: @thejubalshow @jubalfresh @thatdreas @evanontheradioSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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First date follow-up.
A listener named Jeff is on the phone for a first date follow-up today,
and he's super excited because apparently he might have a shot with his high school sweat heart.
Sweat heart?
I think he misspelled the word sweetheart And it says sweat heart in his email
But Jeff apparently might have a shot
At his high school sweat heart
What's up Jeff
I actually didn't proofread
I must have been so excited
I missed a letter or two
But sweat heart wasn't the intent
I like sweat heart better
Tell us about this sweat heart
Her name's Lisa, right?
Yeah. Lisa, Lisa with a sweatiest of heart. I have had a crush. We never dated in high school, but I always crushed real, real, real hard on her. And I actually ran into her at the bar
and I was like, Hey, a little liquid courage. Let me go up to her. And I
just basically said, Oh, Hey, long time. No, see how you've been. You know, I know this sounds
crazy, but you know, back in high school, I had the hugest crush on you. I bet she loved that line.
She, she didn't give me the stink eye, you know, She laughed. I was like, oh, that's so sweet.
Did she remember you?
That is.
Oh, yeah, yeah.
I mean, yeah, we didn't have, like, the biggest graduating class or anything.
So, I mean, and it's not like we were in marching band next to each other, but we definitely knew who each other were.
Okay, well, that's got to be exciting.
How long has it been since high school?
Oh, geez, Louise, if it was 18 years, it's got to be at least eight years now.
I was going to say, I hope it's not like a year because you just said, geez, Louise.
It's been a little bit.
Oh, I'm trying not to cuss on the radio.
I'm trying to keep y'all family friendly.
All right.
So it's been a while, though, since high school?
Yeah, yeah.
So I was like, hey, is it cool, you know, if I can get your number, I'd like to just, you know, see if you want to go on a date sometime.
And she was like, oh, well, how about, you know, you take I take your phone and put in my number, you know, just I don't want to, you know, I hope no offense.
But, you know, a lot of times it's kind of creepy for guys just, you know, given my number.
Oh, no, no, no, no. That's cool. That's cool. It's cool here.
You can totally take my phone and put your number in my condo or, you know, however you
want to play it.
She put her number in your phone and.
Yeah.
So I put my number on her phone and then it's just like dust in the wind.
Haven't heard nothing.
Nothing at all.
Yeah.
So that's why I guess I'm calling in the troops calling in the reinforcements to see
if we can do you follow her on social media at all i mean i'm not no stalker or nothing but i'm
sure we're friends on facebook you know you're friends on facebook come on yeah but like i said
i mean i'm a i've got instagram and facebook but i mean i don't by any means like troll social media
i ain't got tiktok or anything like that all right and she don't by any means like troll social media. I ain't got TikTok or anything like that.
And she hasn't posted any long rant
about how she met some weird creepy
guy named Jeff that she went to high school with out
at the bar on Facebook or anything like that.
I feel like I might have been tagged
in one of those.
Maybe she has a boyfriend.
Oh, let's hope not. Maybe she
was drunk and she's like, yeah, let's get together.
And then she woke up the next morning and was like, oh, that was a bad idea.
And her boyfriend was like, who's this Jeff guy?
And then you got a direct message on Instagram from him saying back off.
Did that happen?
You know, like I would not be offended if she has a boyfriend and her way to defuse the situation was just to put, you know, her number in my phone.
I totally respect the fact that she's in a relationship for sure. But I'm also just kind of wondering why there's no,
there's no conversation past the one we had at the bar, especially since she
put changed numbers, you know? Did she seem romantically interested or was it more like
a friend thing? Oh, I mean, you know, the way her eyes just looked at me like it was a disney movie and you
know we danced i mean it is weird though that she would want your number and wanna and say she'd
want to go out again or whatever and not get back to you so we'll play a song come back and then
call her and get your first day follow-up right yeah sounds like a plan all right sweet we'll do
it next right in the middle of your first date follow-up If you're just joining us, Jeff is on the phone
And Jeff might have met the one that got away
And then let her get away again
Because he's not getting a call back from Lisa
They went to high school together
And Jeff always had a crush on Lisa
And the other day, I guess he saw her out at a bar
And then he walked up to her and said
Hey, do you remember me from hike school?
Hike school.
You used to wear my letter man's jacket and I wore your cheerleading skirt.
Remember that?
Anyway,
they bonded.
He said that he told her that they went to high school together and he had a
crush on her.
And she apparently liked that and asked for his number.
And now she's not getting back to him for whatever reason.
So he's very confused.
Really weird.
All right, Jeff, are you about ready to call her?
Yeah.
I mean, I'm just hopeful that I didn't do anything weird or creepy.
You know?
Yeah, we hope that too.
Yeah.
All right.
Well, I'm going to dial her number right now.
Here we go. hello hi may i speak to lisa please
this is her who's this lisa how are you my name is jubal my name is alex fresh my name is english
and this is a radio show called The Jubal Show.
Have you heard of The Jubal Show?
Okay.
I mean, yeah, I have heard of your show, but why?
Did I win something?
You did not.
We do a segment on our show called The First Date Follow-Up.
It's where if you go out on a date with someone and then end up not calling them back,
they can email us to call you and ask what happened.
And we got an email from a high school sweetheart of yours.
I think you have the wrong person because I can, without, you know, blasting myself on the radio, I definitely have not gone on any first dates as of late.
Well, all right.
Yeah, I guess I could say that makes sense because I don't think this
was really a date.
It wasn't official.
Yeah, it wasn't like an official date, but you did meet a high school sweetheart out
at a bar the other day.
His name is Jeff.
Does that ring a bell?
Yeah.
Oh, my God.
Yeah.
Wow, you sound very excited about Jeff.
Jeff emailed us because he says that he saw you out at the bar the other day, recognized you from high school, and then he went up to you and he professed how much he loved you in high school.
I don't know if he said loved, but told you that he liked you in high school and always wanted to go out with you.
And then he said that you actually asked for his number.
Okay.
This is where men just totally get their wrongs.
Oh, God.
They just can't take it.
Okay.
First of all, he's a super nice guy.
Definitely remember him from high school.
We definitely had an exchange.
But there was no concession.
So then why did you give him your number?
Okay. There was no confession. So then why did you give him your number? Okay, because actually in high school, my best friend, who happens to be single right now, always had a crush on him.
Oh, no.
And so I thought it was just a friendly exchange.
There was no flirtation on my behalf um so you know and then i went to like give him my number and i guess yeah i don't
know i i kind of felt him get a little excited about that and i got kind of put off towards the
end of our little meeting and so he's been calling me and can you see how that's a little bit
confusing though giving him the number and not saying, hey, my friend's single?
Well, it was really loud in the barn. I didn't want to get into all of that.
So I thought he could just, I was kind of on my way out.
And I thought he could just call me after. And to be honest, I kind of like, I'm that overprotective friend that I kind of wanted to hang out with him first.
Because it's been like, you know, almost 10 years since high school, to be honest with you guys. And like, who knows what he's
gotten into. So I'm trying to be wing woman, but I'm trying to be good friend at the same time.
And I guess he got a little excited and then he kept calling me. So now it's super weird. And I
definitely don't want to hook him up with my friend knowing that he likes me. Okay. So did
you, did you actually end up talking to the friend or no?
To your friend?
No, because then he was like harassing me.
He was calling me, like texting me.
Like it was super weird.
How many times did he call you and text you?
Oh, God.
A few times were like late night.
One time was like 6 a.m.
I'm like, bro, I'm like, what do you think I'm doing right now?
Yeah, that's too much.
Yeah, and then he texted me a few times.
Like, when are we going to get together?
I don't think that's harassment, though, is it?
I know how it is.
I'm like, there's been guys I won't respond to when I was single.
Yeah, it's just not fun.
He's really nice, but it's just not fun. He's really nice, but it's just the off-putting.
Like, it's just too much.
I mean, maybe he just was so into you because he had a crush on you in high school
and he was super excited about that, you know?
I mean, I know that now.
Well, if you know that now, then you want to talk to him
because he's actually on the line listening and would like to talk to you.
Wait, he's been listening this entire call yep jeff yeah um well i guess
lisa i'm sorry that i blew up your phone so much uh i guess i was a little uh liquid courage from
the bar um and i'm really i guess i'm more embarrassed now than I was about coming up out of the blue saying I had a crush on you.
Yeah, you didn't really say that, though.
You didn't really tell me you had a crush on me.
So, I mean, I know that now, but Jenna always had a crush on you.
And she really, really likes you,
so that's why I wanted your number.
No, no, no, I see what you're saying there,
but what I'm telling you is I came up and asked you for your number
because I was, since high school, interested in you,
so I guess I'm a little confused that you would do the old bait and switch.
And I guess try to hook me up with Jenna when I was trying to at least take you out on a date.
Do you even, do you remember Jenna who she's talking about from high school?
I do, but it's not, uh, I had a, I had a crush.
I had a crush on Lisa because.
I think he's saying that he likes you and not your friend.
Yeah, like, it sounds like.
But I definitely, yeah, more attracted to you than Jenna.
Well, Lisa, I don't think he's interested in taking Jenna out on a date.
So I will ask you, would you like to go out on a date with Jeff?
We'll pay for it
i mean this is gonna sound crazy but like i'm kind of down now whoa so you'll go out with jeff
on a date an official date yeah i feel bad that this is such a big misunderstanding and like i'm
open to just getting to know you know you better in general sure That's exciting. Well, Lisa, thank you
so much, and I promise
I will not call you nonstop.
You'll get one text, and then I'll
wait for a response. That'll be the way I'm going to
operate. And how long will you
wait for the response, though?
Hey, man, if the
response comes, I know we're on for putt-putt
golf. If the response don't come,
they'll say love you. That means 10 minutes. I'll waitt golf. If the response don't come, say lovey.
That means 10 minutes. I'll wait 10 minutes.
I'll be like, hey, just checking. Is my phone working?
All right. Well, congratulations
you guys. Have fun.
Thank you guys so much. Thanks.
Jubal's First Date Follow-Up.
We're so done with
New Year, New You. This year,
it's more you on Bumble.
More of you shamelessly sending playlists,
especially that one filled with show tunes.
More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them.
More of you dating with intention because you know what you want.
And you know what?
We love that for you.
Someone else will too.
Be more you this year and find them on Bumble.
Consider this is a daily news podcast, and lately, the news is about a big question.
How much can one guy change?
They want change.
What will change look like for energy?
Drill, baby, drill.
Schools?
Take the Department of Education, close it.
Health care?
Better and less expensive.
Follow coverage of a changing country.
Promises made, promises kept.
We're going to keep our promises.
On Consider This from NPR.
Listen on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get your podcasts.
Calling all Yellowstone fans.
Let's go to work.
Join Bobby Bones on the official Yellowstone podcast
for exclusive cast interviews, behind-the-scenes insights, and a deep dive into the themes that have made Yellowstone a cultural phenomenon.
Our family legacy is this ranch.
And I protect it with my life.
Listen to the official Yellowstone podcast now on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.