First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - This First Date Follow Up was served up with some clam chowder!

Episode Date: January 6, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".A First Date Follow Up is when we help you find out why you've been ghosted! Today doesn't know why Trina won't text him back, even though she's still online! Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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First day follow-up. Javi is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and apparently he's getting ghosted by a girl named Trina. Oh, no. I feel so sorry for him. I don't know why. I don't know anything about Trina. I just feel sorry for anybody getting ghosted.

Yeah, it's a terrible thing to go through. He actually said that he liked her a lot, but now she's not calling him back. And before we get into the date, Javi, how long has it been since you went out with Trina? It was going on a week and a half, like 10 days. Yeah, you know what? That was rude of me.

I'm sorry. Hi, Javi. How are you? Yeah. I'm heartbroken. I'm heartbroken. Javi's a person, too. Yeah, I didn't even say hi to you.

I just right into it. But anyway, so it's been about a week and a half, you said. And how many times have you tried to get a hold of her since your date? Three times one way and like one another. So like four. Okay. Well, what do you mean by that? So I shot her a text like three times.

And then I was on Facebook the other day and saw she was on. So I shot her a message real quick to say, you know, what's up. And right after I did that, it showed that she logged off. I don't know if, well, yeah, yeah. But I don't know if she logged off because I messaged her or if she was already like, you know, about to walk out the door or something.

It's a coincidence, isn't it? Yeah. I'm going to go ahead and say it might be because you texted her three times. She didn't answer. And then you saw that she was online. You're like, Hey,

and she's like, bye. You know, that's kind of usually what happens. Uh, I think it's a point buddy. Yeah. But let's think positive.

She was headed out the door and she just logged off. Oh, she was busy. Yeah, she was busy, you know, so that's what we'll think for you, Javi. All right, well, what did you guys do for your date? What did you and Trina do? So we met on Tinder

and we live like pretty much in the same neighborhood and we were talking how, you know, fall's around the corner, winter's around the corner. We were talking about soup and I told her that I can make a mean clam chowder. So she came that I can make a mean clam chowder so she came over and I made clam chowder and she

seemed to like it sounds like code yeah I mean it was a little awkward like my roommate was home you know when you're trying to like have a date when there's a third wheel but but as soon as he left you know she seemed cool and we just chilled and I made chowder and she helped you know what I mean like here you cut this I'll prep this it was fun she was funny alright so did you guys make

anything more than chowder if you get my vibe no that sounds like code would you make more than chowder I hope we didn't make anything but we definitely, if you get my drift. I kind of get it. Okay.

You didn't make anything, but you practiced. So what you're saying is you guys hooked up. Yeah, ding, ding, ding. With all your chowder breath and everything. Gross. That's fishy. Yeah, I mean, yeah. So you tell me. It's like that Yeah, I mean, yeah. So you tell me,

it's like that's a 10 out of 10 in my book. You're making soup one minute and then in the bedroom the next. I mean. And this is the first time you've hung out. That's a very successful first date. So why do you think she's ghosting you? The only thing I can think of,

like she didn't stay the night. She left pretty quick after. And when I woke up in the middle of the night I like my stomach was tore up I was sick so I don't know if it was like bad chowder or like I feel like she got food poisoning like that's the only thing I could think of okay so maybe your mean

cup of chowder that you made her while you probably had a bowl your mean chowder that you made her anyway you think may have made her sick just like it made you sick? Like, because everything else was straight, you know what I mean? Like, everything else was chill, so I hope,

I hope that's the case. Like, you know, she just feels bad that she got sick or something. Like, I don't know. Yeah, I mean, I don't think that's a reason to not call somebody back.

No, I don't think so either. Because they're a terrible chowder cook. Unless you're, I mean, you're way too into chowder if that's the case. Right. You know? Or maybe you lied about it. I don't know. All right, well, we'll play a're, I mean, you're way too into chowder if that's the case. Right.

You know? Or maybe you lied about it. I don't know. All right, well, we'll play a song, come back, and then call her and see if your nasty clams, sorry,

your nasty clams are the reason that she's not calling you back. Awesome, thank you. All right, we'll do it next. Your first day follow-up right after this. It's the Jubal Show.

I like clam chowder. I love it. It's okay. It's just not my favorite. Okay? Oh my God, it's literally my favorite. It's really not even okay. It's like, so-so. Oh, it's my favorite soup. New like clam chowder. I love it. It's okay. It's just not my favorite. Okay? Oh my God. It's literally my favorite. It's really not even okay.

It's like... Oh, it's my favorite soup. New England clam chowder. New England? I don't know. The best. That one. That's the white one.

Oh. Oh yeah, that's the one I like too. Yeah, Manhattan. Kind of creamy. Or something like that. Yeah, like chunks of whatever, potatoes and whatever the hell it is. Potatoes, clam, everything.

Chowder. Anyway, this is the first day of follow-up where we call someone who, where we try to help someone out who's getting ghosted. And Javi is on the phone right now. And Javi makes a mean clam chowder.

At least that's what he told his date, Trina. They met on Tinder and they talked about soups and she came over to his place and he made her clam chowder. And then they made clam chowder. Yeah. Wink, wink. If you know what I mean. And then she left.

And that's the last he's heard from her because she hasn't answered any of his phone calls. He actually also hit her up on Facebook and she logged off right when he said hi to her and he doesn't know why. He thinks that the possible reason he's not getting a call back could be the fact that he woke up in the middle of the night

and it felt like he got food poisoning. So maybe he made clam chowder that made her sick as well. And he's not sure if that's the reason he's not getting a call back. All right. We're going to try to get her on the phone right now. See if we can figure out what the reason is though,

that she's not calling you back. Are you ready? Yeah, let's do it. All right, here we go. I'm a dollar phone. Hello. Hello?

Hi, may I speak to Trina, please? Yes, this is she. Trina, how are you? This is The Jubal Show. My name's Jubal. And mine's Alex. And mine's English Evan. And this is The Jubal Show, and it's a radio show called The Jubal Show.

How are you? I mean, I think i'm good i i i think i know what this calls about i'm a big fan oh big fan thank you what do you think it's about yeah um it's one of those like first date call to check back in on the thing something like that right the official name would be first date follow-up on the show, but I like that one better. It's more catchy. So if it is, do you know who would want us to get a hold of you? Yeah, I mean, there's only been one guy that I've been out with in the past few weeks, so I would say I'm 99% sure I know who this is.

Well, let me ask you this. When's the last time you had some clam chowder? Oh, it's hobby. Yeah. It was pretty good, you know, clam chowder. Well, that's good. Then why aren't you calling him back? I mean, like, it's just, like, really awkward, you know what I mean?

It's just sometimes things aren't meant to be you know you know what i'm saying okay so it's awkward yeah why was it awkward though he didn't i mean he explained what you guys did but it didn't sound awkward to me or like anything awkward happened besides his roommate being there for a little bit but was there something else that happened that like he might not know how like might not have don't know, caught on to during the date that you didn't like? Yes. Yes. I'm just going to say, yeah, it's just, you know, it's just, it's just, it's just, there's,

there's weird things going on. And like, I know that I think that he's not, I don't know, like privy to it, but it's just like weird. Like, you know, it's just the vibe's not right. You know what I'm saying? It sounds like there's more to this, though. It's fine. The way that you're saying it does. He asked us to call you. Yeah, because he likes you.

It's okay if it's something that he might not want to hear because he knows that that might be coming. Absolutely. And if it's awkward, let's just make it more awkward. Javi's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. I knew it. You can hear it from him. Hey, Trina. Oh, I knew it. You can hear it from him. Hey, Trina.

Ooh, hello there, Javi. Trina, do you want to tell Javi why he won't call him back, what the awkward thing is? Yeah, Trina, why? Why are you ghosting me? Listen, Javi, you're great great everybody at the radio station like i love you guys um everyone's great um it's just like it's it's a lot is it because that you did like you get food poisoning too is that why i know i i didn't get any food poisoning did you get sick

well i mean yeah like i thought that you maybe didn't want any food poisoning. Did you get sick? Well, I mean, yeah, like I thought that you maybe didn't want to see me again because like you, you left. And then when you were gone, I mean, I definitely got sick. And that's why I thought like, I was like, oh man, like I hope, I hope this isn't it.

Like, I don't want that to be our first, you know, first and only date is you getting sick. I don't think you want to know. Like, honestly, you might like puke or like get sick all over again. If I tell you. Trina,

like I'm throwing up the Hail Mary to a radio station to call you. Like, I like you a lot. I just want to know. You can tell me. Like, do I need to get like tested? That's starting to sound kind of like that,

man. No, no, no, no, no, no. I keep my, it's like, tested? Is that what you're saying? That's starting to sound kind of like that, man. No. No, no, no, no, no. I keep my eyes. Like, we're good with that. Okay. Well, fine. Javi, I hooked up with Ricky a couple of days before we went out.

Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. Yeah, are you serious? Yeah, who's Ricky? It's my uncle. Ricky's's Ricky? It's my uncle. Ricky's my uncle. That's my uncle. What? No way.

Did you know that it was his uncle? No, no. I did not know until after my date with Javi. I was like checking out all of Javi's beautiful, beautiful pictures on Instagram. And then I saw Ricky in a photo and it was his uncle. Whoa. It's not like you did it on purpose. I know, but like it's so weird.

Yo, Trina, like what the f***? Like how? In his garage. What? In his garage? Sorry, why were you? You hooked up with him in his garage? Why?

No, Trina, no. Like how with him in his garage? Why? No, Katrina, no. Like, how did you meet my uncle? Now, where... Now I'm like, what? Please, don't share those details. Oh, man. Oh, God. Okay.

I'm so sorry, Javi. Like, come on, seriously. You don't want all the details. Like, I said too much. I said too much already. No, I think we want them. Yeah. We would love to know how you met his uncle

and hooked up with him a couple days before you went out with Javi. That's in the garage. Please don't tell us any more about the garage though. Okay. Fine. I met him at church. At church?

And then you guys ended up hooking up. Oh my God. Pretty little Ricky. Yeah. That's what she said. Javi is not having a good time. Oh man. Yeah.

Like, okay. So I didn't plan it, but, like, now that I know it's his uncle and, like, it makes sense, like, his uncle Ricky is hot. Like, Javi gets his looks from Ricky is what now I know. Can we not, let's not rub salt in the wound.

He's on the phone. Yeah, yeah, like, I know my uncle. He's also, like, 20 years older than me. What the heck? I'm just surprised how you guys all know each other or whatever we're in the same neighborhood like that's what i meant on timber like it was like like how close to you oh my god this is i'm so sorry but like after i saw that he was your uncle, like, it's just too weird for me. For you. Weird for you.

Well, I'm going to ask a question. Trina, would you want to go out with Javi again on another date? We'll pay for it. Yeah. I mean, like, weirdness aside, like, yes, I would love that. It was an amazing, amazing date with hobby like i can't say enough good things about him so like i'd be down i just don't know if he will be jesus i'm gonna puke again guys

i mean i don't know um how about you guys go on the date and talk it over? Yeah. Okay. All right. All right. All right. You know what? Like, okay. Let's... Yeah.

What? Yes. Yes. I really like you. You'll do it? You'll go out again? Awesome. Congratulations.

Got her done. You got another... Well, yeah. Javi, you got another date, too. Good for you. Congratulations, you guys. And enjoy the date. Javi, just, you know, don't take her to a family reunion.

Or church. The Jubal Show on demand. We're so done with New Year, New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of

my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Catch Jon Stewart back in action on The Daily Show and in your ears with The Daily Show Ears Edition podcast.

From his hilarious satirical takes on today's politics and entertainment to the unique voices of correspondents and contributors it's your perfect companion to stay on top of what's happening now plus you'll get special content just for podcast listeners like in-depth interviews and a roundup of the week's top headlines listen on the iheart radio app apple, or wherever you get your podcasts.