First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - To Catch A Cheater - Bethany & Dustin - It's All Up To The Courts

Episode Date: February 21, 2026

After two years together, and surviving one cheating scandal already, Bethany thought her relationship was finally back on track. Then she opened a piece of mail that changed everything. In this jaw-dropping episode of To Catch a Cheater on The Jubal Show, Bethany discovers a court-ordered paternity test addressed to her boyfriend. A name she doesn’t recognize. A child she didn’t know existed. And a past mistake she thought they’d worked through. Think your partner might be up to something shady? The Jubal Show has you covered. In this explosive segment, The Jubal Show helps suspicious lovers uncover the truth by setting up the ultimate loyalty test. We call their significant other, posing as a grocery store’s floral department offering a free bouquet. You know.. a War of the Roses. The catch? Who they choose to send the flowers to—and what they write on the card—could reveal everything. Will it be a romantic gesture for their partner or a shocking betrayal? Get ready for twists, surprises, and jaw-dropping confrontations as we help our listeners get the answers they deserve. Subscribe to The Jubal Show's To Catch A Cheater / War of the Roses.➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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so we'll see if we can help her out. Bethany, sorry you have to come on the show this way, but what's up? Why do you think Dustin might be cheating on you? Oh, well, it's kind of a crazy story. So, yeah, basically Dustin and I have been together for two years, and we've had, like, a pretty good relationship. I mean, it's been work, but, like, all relationships are worked,

and I don't ever really have any doubt that he loves me, which is really important. Yeah. And there's just certain times that I see him look at me are just, you know, little things he does that lets me know that he's always thinking about me. And so we have a good foundation. So even though there's no major problems, about like a year into our relationship, you know, I did touch him cheating.

I saw text messages. Oh. And I will say that, you know, he admitted it right then and there. He was like, yes, you're right. I've been wanting to tell you. And it was, it's done. It was only one time. And so it did take a while for me to trust him again.

And, you know, that was like a year ago. And it's been pretty good ever since. But now there's like this moment that happened. And I am freaking out kind of. Okay. What happened? Okay, so I just was like, like two days ago, I was just, you know, took care of mail and as soon as I saw this, like I just was like,

I mean to call the show immediately because I don't know how to handle it. Basically, I was just mindlessly opening a letter and it was addressed to Dustin because I'm just like opening our mail like I handle, you know, our bills and everything. And my heart's saying, it's a court order for a picture. Do you're going to detain. Whoa. Does it say who's asking for it? Yes.

The name was there, and I probably can't say on the radio. I've never heard of this woman in my life. I even tried to look her up on Instagram and Facebook. I couldn't really find anything. I'm freaking out. Yeah. So you haven't confronted him yet, have you? No.

I don't even know how to. You don't have any clue? that he might have a kid out there or anything like that? Like, or that he involved in a court thing at all? No. I don't know what I can do other than going through his phone again, and I really don't want to do that. I just don't want to, like, re-traumatize myself.

And so I really, I just want, like, a different way to approach this. Mm-hmm. Because at the end of the day, it's like, I just want to know why. Like, we've been through so much, we made it out to the other side. Like, if he did, he'd on me and angry. if when he cheated a year ago, if this person is pregnant from it, like I had a child, like, I, I don't even know

if this is the first person he cheated on me with him. There's another girl. Like, I'm so confused. Like, is there a one-year-old out there? Like, what's happening? I mean, there is definitely a chance that this could be from that one girl, the one-off, quote-unquote, unless, yeah, there were other ones.

Something happened. So I guess we have confirmation that he has cheated. We just don't know when or who or... Well, we'll try to figure it out for you. You already told us what grocery store. He's a rewards card member at, so we'll do the usual and call him and pretend to be from the grocery store and say that he's this month's lucky winner of free flowers delivered from our floral department, and we'll see if he sends those to you or somebody else, okay?

Okay, thank you so much. Please not come back and get your to catch a cheater next. In the middle of the night, Saskia awoke in a haze. Her husband Mike was on his laptop. What was on his screen would change Saskia's life forever. I said, I need you to tell me exactly what you're doing. And immediately, the mask came off. You're supposed to be safe.

That's your home. That's your husband. To keep this secret for so many years, he's like a season. pro. This is a story about the end of a marriage, but it's also the story of one woman who was done living in the dark. You're a dangerous person who prays

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or wherever you get your podcasts. If you're just joining us for today's to catch a cheater, it's a big one. Bethany is on the phone and she thinks that her boyfriend of two years named Dustin might be cheating. So we're about to call him and pretend to be from the grocery store that he's a rewards member at and say that every single month we choose one lucky rewards member who gets a free gift from our store just for being a loyal customer and it's flowers delivered from our floor department to anybody that they want and we'll see if he sends those to his girlfriend, Bethany or to somebody else. But before we do that, Bethany, why don't you run down your situation for us to get real.

quick. My boyfriend and I've been together for two years. A year ago, he did cheat on me. We were very responsible about, you know, how we handled it, it's therapy, and we've been great, but two days ago, I was going through our mayor and I see a court ordered paternity test, and I'm freaking out. It was addressed to him, and I just want to know. Yeah. I just want to know what the of it. Yeah. Well, are you ready for us to call him? Yeah. Okay, here we go. Hello. Hey, this is Corbett calling from B. I was looking for our rewards card member named Dustin. Uh, uh, yes, yes, that's, uh, that's me. Hi, Dustin, please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call. I'm actually calling with a big congratulations and thank you for shopping with us. You're this month's winner. Okay, I won something?

Yeah, the flowers. Yeah, okay. Um, um, it. flowers. That's, um, that, that's, that's pretty cool. Yeah, I guess. Yeah, they did, thank you, I guess. Not sure if you know this or not, but every single month, we choose one rewards card member who gets a free gift from us just for being such a valued and loyal customer. It's our way of saying, thank you for shopping. You've won 36 long stem red roses, a box of candy or chocolate and a card to be delivered to anybody that you want within the 50 United States. Absolutely free. It's actually a $316 value. Wow. I'm winning. Yeah. Congratulations. And again, thank you for shopping with us. And it is all free. And the first thing I would need will be the name of the person.

And then if you want to put anything on a card and then we'll get the address and you'll be off the phone and they'll be getting flowers. Okay. So the person that's receiving the roses, her name is Bethany. And the last name on that? Got you. Okay. And would you like a card included with that? Yes. Yes. Okay. No matter what, it's It's always you and me. Always. Great. Got that down.

And at this point, I'll let you know it's not a grocery store at all on the phone. Hey, what? Yeah, this is actually a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And my name's Jubal.

I'm on the radio right now. Yes. We do a segment on a show that's called To Catch a Cheater, where if you think your significant other might be messing around, you see who they send flowers to. And your girlfriend, Bethany, is actually on the phone. and I think still has some question. Oh, shit.

Okay. Hi. Hi. Wow. So, okay. You saw the paternity order, didn't you? Oh, so you know. Yeah, buddy, I did.

Okay. So you knew about it already. Because I haven't. Yeah. I haven't even shown. the mail. But I've known about it for about a month. It's from that same girl that we talked about before. It may might actually be true. Her name's Alicia. I'm sorry. I'm sorry for I'm so embarrassed right now. Okay. I'm so confused because you told me, you told me

this was one time. I mean, it's so first of all, in the back of my head. Okay, that's pretty rare for that to happen. Like, it's like, wouldn't she know she was oscillating? Like, this is crazy. Even worse than that, it's like, you shouldn't have kept this for me. You know? I know. I, I, I, I, I, I'm so sorry about this. I, I didn't mean to keep it from you or anything like that. I was just trying to ignore it because it just seemed like I feel so just I don't know what to say it just guilty yeah you don't know what to like I don't know what to say so wait so did you cheat it was a year ago and and we talked about it it was one time and it was we've been through it and everything like that but it just keeps coming

back now with with this paternity test and here's the thing Bethany I don't think it's mine I really don't think it's mine because I've seen pictures of the kid it just doesn't just don't believe that it's mine at all first of all I don't know why you're calling it an end it's a child very likely to be yours and like how is our life going to change if you're like a dad like am I supposed to be involved in this kid's life like this is crazy I don't know I'm I'm so sorry about this I don't want this to mess us up I don't want this to ruin us I know I have to take that paternity test because she's definitely starting to come after me for money too. She wants that paternity test because she's going to want some child support.

I just don't know. Like, of course she would. Like, if she has a child from you, I would also, like, I would also want a child support. Like, this is your responsibility. Don't put it on her. Bethany, do you think you could stay if it is his? Would you be willing to raise somebody else's kid with him? I don't even know, like my head is spinning.

Yeah. Definitely, I promise you, this, it was the one time and we talked about it. We went to therapy together about it, and I know that I-h-up. And I don't, I did not want to go down that road again, and I didn't go down that road again. I've been spending this whole time making up for that one mistake. And now, because of that one mistake, I'm probably going to lose you anyway, and I don't want that. I don't want to lose you. Okay.

Please just believe me on that. And please just, just hear me out and just work with me with this. Please, I'm begging you. You can even come with me to take the test. We can find out at the same time together. I'm not trying to hide this from you. I don't know why I didn't tell you about it before,

but I don't want to hide it from you. Obviously, you guys have a lot to talk about. Yeah. I guess first things first, right? Just find out what's going on with the paternity and then you guys can take it from there. Yeah, I have a lot of thinking to do. It doesn't sound like he has cheated since the time that you knew about, but obviously there's a lot, so.

Yeah. Yeah. Give us an update and let us know how you guys are doing. Well, thank you so much, you guys. The Jubil shows to catch a cheater. In the middle of the night, Saskia awoke in a haze. Her husband, Mike, was on his laptop. What was on his screen would change Saskia's life forever.

I said, I need you to tell me exactly what you're doing. And immediately, the mask came off. You're supposed to be safe. That's your home. That's your husband. Listen to Betrayal Season 5 on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Over the last couple years, didn't we learn that the folding chair was invented by black people because of what happened in Alabama? This Black History Month, the podcast, selective ignorance.

with Mandy B. Unpacks Black History and Culture with comedy, clarity, and conversations that shake the status quo. The Crown Act in New York was signed in July of 2019, and that is a bill that was passed to prohibit discrimination based

on hairstyles associated with race. To hear this and more, listen to Selective Ignorance with Mandy B from the Black Effect Podcast Network on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. I'm Bowen-Yin-Yin. And I'm Matt Rogers.

During this season of the Two Guys' Five Rings podcast and the lead-up to the Milan Cortina, 2026 Winter Olympic Games. We've been joined by some of our friends. Hi, Boen. Hey, Elmo. Hey, Matt.

Hey, Bowen. Hi, Cookie. Hi. Now, the Winter Olympic Games are underway, and we are in Italy to give you experiences from our hearts to your ears. Listen to two guys,

five rings on the IHeart Radio app, Apple podcast, or wherever you get your podcast. What if mind control is real? If you can control the behavior of anybody around you, what kind of life would you? Can you hypnotically persuade someone to buy a car?

When you look at your car, you're going to become overwhelmed with such good feelings. Can you hypnotize someone into sleeping with you? I gave her some suggestions to be sexually aroused. Can you get someone to join your cult? NLP was used on me to access my subconscious. Mind Games, a new podcast exploring NLP, aka neurolinguistic programming. Is it a self-help miracle, a shady hypnosis scam, or both? to mind games on the IHeart radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

This is an IHeart podcast. Guaranteed human.