First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Trevor & Ella - Ghosted Over a Ferret?

Episode Date: November 19, 2025

Ever been ghosted for a bizarre reason? Trevor thought his first date with Ella went perfectly, cozy game night, laughs, and even some flirty moments, until radio silence hit. The culprit? Mistaking a ferret for a dog. In this episode of The Jubal Show, we call Ella to uncover why she ghosted him and witness the hilarious, awkward, and ultimately heartwarming conversation that earns Trevor a second date. Tune in for dating fails, funny misunderstandings, and a masterclass in persistence that will leave you laughing, and maybe second-guessing your own dating missteps. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at Advocateslaw.com. Trevor is on the phone today for our first date follow-up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Ella. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a second date. First, Trevor, how long has it been since you heard from Ella? It's been a couple of months, actually.

Whoa. And you still want to get a hold of her? I can't stop thinking about her. What do you guys want to want, you know? You know, the heart wants what it wants. Well, tell us about your day with Ella. Look, I'll keep it real simple. You know, we were kind of just being texting and flirty and stuff,

and she invites me over to this, like, game night kind of situation with their friends, right? And it was super cozy. There were candles lit, snacks, that. you know, everyone was in sweats. It was something really nice. I really enjoyed it. And, you know, I thought I was a gentleman. I brought out a bottle of wine and my kind of like, funny but chill kind of energy.

You guys know how all that goes. Right, right, right. That's pretty much it. Yeah, like, her friends are super nice to me, except this one guy who kept winning everything, like he was born inside of a deck of Luma cards, but that's for the best of time. Mid heads up, I accidentally blurted out one of the answers

that I wasn't supposed to stay. like total rookie move, right? Everyone booed, laughed it off. Okay, chill. But I could tell Ella looked like, how can I say? Like, I broke some, I don't know, some sacred board game code. I accidentally did it twice. I'm so stupid.

I mean, I just also. I know. You're an innocent mistake. You know what can happen. But she's probably feeling like the guy I brought to Game Night is the one that's going to ruin Game Night. Right. I know, but listen, none of us are getting out of this thing alive anyways. So, you know, have a laugh and move on.

Totally, totally, totally. Like, felt fine and felt chill, you know, again, back to laughing, sitting close, we're all cozy. You know, her knee was touching mind and all that. I left thinking, sweet, game night boyfriend material. Yeah, you got some reaction. Yeah, like. That's a science. That's the part, well, listen, that's the part that I'm confused about.

Like, after that, don't know, radio silence, nothing. I texted her the next morning, nothing in the night. Truthfully, I still can't. figure out what it is like did i embarrass her but what the hell happened with do her friends not like me i don't i just don't get it yeah that does feel weird so yeah and i thought okay you know she just it didn't work out it's not meant to be so hopefully i thought i would have moved on from it but i i just can't i'm still thinking about it and i feel over a month and you're still thinking about it yeah i mean whenever she was giving you radio silence though did you think about like oh

let me just try texting like hey what's up well Well, I did, but that's what I'm saying. She didn't respond to me. Like, she's, she boasting me. Okay. So do you think it's the, you blurting out the thing at the board game? That's the reason she's ghosting you? I mean, I think that's a dumb reason to ghost someone,

but sure, that's the situation I have that came to mind that could be a reason. Do they take games really serious? Like, was that, did it feel like high competitive level? Not even, because, like, her friends were laughing. It was just her. She just looked bugged. I don't know where. I don't understand what the hell it was.

Yes, I guess it was that, but that's weird. All right, well, we'll see what it is. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you a second date, okay? All right. Good luck. We'll get your first day follow up next. Hey, I'm Jay Shetty, and I'm the host of the On Purpose podcast.

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I'll keep it real simple. I went out on this date with this girl called Ella. I really liked her. I went to her house. We had a nice little game night with her friends, cozy, the snacks and stuff. And I kind of made me f***ed up. I blurted out a couple of answers. I shouldn't have blurted out and maybe spoiled half of the game.

But, hey, everybody else was laughing. She's the only one who seemed bothered by it. And that's it. I texted her the next morning. I haven't heard from her, ghosted, and I want to really try to reach out to her. That has been over a month. All right. You ready for us to call her?

Go for it. Okay, here we go. Hello. Hi, may I speak to Ella, please? This is she. Hey, Ella, how are you? This is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show.

Hi, Ella. I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. My name's Jubal. What's up? Hi. I'm good. This is cool. What's going on? Do you listen to the show? I do, yeah.

Sweet. Thank you. Have you ever heard a first day follow-up before? Yes. Great. How excited would you be to know if I was calling you because of that? I would be a little nervous. You know, that's the segment where if you go on a day with somebody and you end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. We got an email about you, Ella.

From who? You want to take a guess? Okay, I don't know that I ghosted anyone recently. Have you gone on a date with anybody and just, like, didn't talk to him again? I mean, yes, I've definitely done that, but the last day I went on was Josh, but I don't think that, I think that was, like, a mutual ghost. Okay, he goes to each other It's not Josh And it has been a while since this date

Think back to like over a month ago Over a month ago Game night Oh my gosh, this is for Trevor Yes it is Trevor emailed us Told us all about your date said he really liked you He's been thinking about you for over a month

And you ghosted him and he wants to know why Would you mind telling us? Oh my gosh, this is embarrassing Okay, yeah, I will tell you about it. Okay. It was really weird, honestly. We were at this game night, right? It's my friend's house, and he keeps referring to my friend's dog, and he's like, hey, little dude.

He says it, like 50 times, little dude. It's not a dog. What is it? It's a ferret. He thought it was a dog. Okay. These are so cute. I know, they are so cute

But they're very different than dogs And he was Choosing it like a dog He was like petting it and saying like Oh, what a cute little puppy He thought that ferret was a dog Yes Did you correct him?

I don't know that I necessarily was like It's a ferret I feel like It was like self-explanatory It's one thing to like Oh, he's calling the ferret a dog Ha ha ha ha But he was trying to feed it

and ferrets have really sensitive tummies and I felt like I was being like really clear like hey don't feed it and he just kept coming back to like this is a cute little dude he needs to eat like it was so odd too like why was he doing this puppy voice all night it's like one thing like when you first see the animal but all night and like my friends are watching the whole thing and oh it was just so embarrassing okay so the ferret that he thought Thought was a dog is the reason that you ghosted him. Yes. My friend even pulled me aside and was like, hey, can you get this guy to stop?

And I asked him, and he was just, he's so cute. Yeah. Put me in an awkward position. And I was like, I don't want to go out with someone who doesn't have any social cues. Honestly, I can't recognize a fare from a dog. All right. Well, thank you for telling us why you're ghosting him. Yeah, of course

Well, I don't know if you forgot or not But Trevor is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you Yeah Oh, yeah I definitely Okay, Ella Yes That is absolutely ridiculous

It has spur I could have swore I thought it was a dog Oh my God, I'm sorry It was a ferret It's like a pool noodle with teeth I don't understand And so you just don't want to see me anymore because of that?

I mean, Ella, look, I was enjoying my time. If it bothered you so much, why didn't you just tell me that it was a ferret? I just assumed you wouldn't know. I didn't want to make you feel stupid. Well, you're making me feel stupid now. Well, I aren't the one who called into a radio show about a dog ferret. I called about you because I miss you and I have a, I had a good time with it. I want to see you again.

Chairman, we went on one date. And we can go on a second date. If you get over this whole dog fairy thing, look, I can work on it. It takes a second for me to go to a dog part and work on my dog spotting capabilities. What? You're going to bring flashcards to the dog park? If that's what it takes to get a second Ella date, I'm in. That's very sweet, but why would I want to go out with someone who are doesn't know what a dog and a ferret is.

Well, because he knows now. Like, lesson learned, it's not going to happen again. Ferrets are ferrets, dogs are dogs. Like, I get it now. Trevor, I don't want to have to be your teacher. You should have learned that and it's great. Well, you're my teacher anyways because you're teaching me now and I learn. Better late than never, right?

Trevor, you're hot, but maybe you need a little more life experience before you can try to bond with another species. Ella, would you like another date with Trevor? We'll pay for it. Um, not yet. Ella, Ella, they just offered a free date.

If you don't want to go, I'll go off with the ferret, but I need that. I want a free date. Oh, so you only want it because it's free? No, I don't want it because it's free. I mean, yeah, of course, that's too, but it's because it's with you.

Man, you guys are between you and your ferret. I don't know. It's kind of hard to please you guys, and why am I liking it? Why am I turned on right now? Ella, did you see what you just did? You just cracked a laugh. People who don't like people, don't do that.

I don't laugh when I don't like someone in front of me. I was just laughing because it was ridiculous what you said. See, when you said that, you were smiling. I can hear it. I just saw you. And you're smiling right now. I see you. Come on, Ella.

One more day. I promise you no animal species will be mixed up. What do you think, Ella? As long as we don't go to a zoo, I'm in. Really? Wow. Trevor, congratulations. You got another date.

There you go. Persistence pays off. Thank you, guys. Ella, I'll be seeing you soon and not at the zoo. See you, too. On the podcast, Health Stuff, we are tackling all the health questions that keep you up at night. I'm Dr. Priyankawali, a double board certified physician. And I'm Hurricane Dibolu, a community.

Median and someone who once Googled, do I have scurvy at 3 a.m. And on our show, we're talking about health in a different way, like our episode where we look at diabetes. In the United States, I mean, 50% of Americans are pre-diabetic. How preventable is type 2? Extremely. Listen to health stuff on the IHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,

or wherever you get your podcasts. I'm Robert Smith, and this is Jacob Goldstein, and we used to host a show called Planet Money. And now we're back. making this new podcast called Business History about the best ideas and people and businesses in history. And some of the worst people, horrible ideas and destructive companies in the history of business. First episode, How Southwest Airlines Use Cheap Seats and Free Whiskey to fight its way into the airline is. The most Texas story ever.

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And like most guys, I haven't been to the doctor in way too long. I'll be asking the questions we probably should be asking, but aren't. Every week, we're breaking down the world of men's health from testosterone and fitness to diets and fertility. We'll talk science without the jargon and get your real answers to the stuff you actually wonder about. So check out the Mailroom on the IHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your favorite shows.

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