First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Trey & Erin - Migraine-ing Control

Episode Date: November 2, 2023

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First date follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. Trey is on the phone today for a first date follow-up and he's getting ghosted by Aaron. So we're going to call her in a minute and see if we can figure out why he's getting ghosted and maybe get him another date if he still wants one. first trey how'd you meet aaron hey uh well uh we were at a club uh we were there separately uh we just actually literally bumped into each other uh we were leaving the dance floor to go to the bar and uh we just accidentally just like bumped into where i wasn't looking and i kind of walked into a little bit but i apologized and uh made a little small talk we talked for a bit on our way to the bar and uh you know we were chatting and you know, we decided to exchange numbers before we left the

club and, you know, maybe get together again at some point and, you know, just, you know, we seem to have like a little mutual attraction right off the bat. This is what we all hope for when we go to clubs. Okay. Yay. Yeah. So I got her number and then I texted her a couple times, and we actually talked on the phone once, and we decided we were going to go out and just grab something casual to eat. So we were in like a club setting and just kind of actually try to get to know each other

so we could actually hear each other. Sure. And she recommended this cool little place that we wound up going to that was pretty close to both of us. And she said she liked it. So I'm like, yeah, heck yeah, let's go there. So I took her out there. So then what happened when you were there? Well, she walked in and she's a showstopper.

She was gorgeous. I mean, she was hot as hell when we were at the club, you know, literally and figuratively. It was pretty hot there. So, you know, we were dancing and we were sweating and it was kind of just one of those big gross club nights, but she was hot there too. But I mean, she was gorgeous when she showed up at the, at the, at the restaurant. So it was just, it was nice to see her in kind of like a real life setting, I guess. Okay. Yeah. We, we had a conversation and we were talking and everything seemed great and i knew that you know if i fumbled the ball or anything then you know we could always fall back on music as our conversational topic because we have that in common but but it never even got to that like we

we did the conversation was natural and it was easy and it was just it was a really really cool cool conversation we were having a great time. So what do you think could have gone wrong? I mean, it sounds like it's been really great. So then I have no idea. Then she gets up to excuse herself. No big deal. Yeah, of course.

And she goes off to the ladies. And I'm just sitting there waiting. And she comes back about 20 minutes or so later, which not a big deal. I didn't really think twice about it. She sits down and she says, uh, sorry. And since then we start talking again and, you know, trying to pick up, uh, trying to pick up after where that lag was, but then it was just different. Like she was, she, it was almost like a different girl came back out.

She sat down and she was kind of like, just vacant. Like she's one word answers, uh, nodding her head a little bit, uh, you know, and I'm trying to keep a light, I'm trying to joke around and not over pressure. I didn't know if I was coming off too desperate or too, whatever. So I'm really trying to keep it as light as I can. But she was just, she was trying to force a smile here, but you know, her shoulders were slumping a little bit and she just looked like, I don't know, bored. Maybe she was just waiting for the whole thing to wrap up. I couldn't tell. So something happened in the bathroom. Something must've happened in the bathroom. I wasn't, I wasn't going to force anything. I really did like her.

I do like her, but I really did like, I didn't want to force anything. I really did like her. I do like her, but I really did like her. I didn't want to force anything. We decided to just wrap it up, and I offered to walk her back to her car. She said, yeah, cool, no problem. But, you know, we're walking back, and she's still just kind of like, you know, head down, just kind of walking through. We get to her car, and I thanked her for her night. And she perked up a little bit, and she said, I really had a good time, which kind of made me scratch my head a little bit. All and she said i really had a good time which kind of made me scratch my head a little bit all right well she had a good time so i went in just for a little kiss but uh she kind of gave me the swoop and uh kissed me on the cheek and no problem not gonna

push it so i say i say uh okay well get home safe and if you want just uh you know text me to let me to let me know that you get home. She did. She actually did. She texted me when she got home. She said, made it home safe, and she said, thanks again for a great night. Really appreciate it.

And she said, I'm super beat. Go into bed, but I'll text you tomorrow. And that was a week ago. Didn't hear back. All right, sweet. Play detective and find out what happened in the bathroom. Let's do it. We'll play a song, come back and then call her and see if we can figure out why you're getting ghosted and maybe get you another date with your first day follow up next. OK, awesome. Thanks. All right. Play a song. Come back. Your first day follow up right after this. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch and I'm exhausted. But turns out the end is near, right in time for

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Follow the Big Take podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen. First date follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. Right in the middle of your first date follow-up, if you're just joining us, Trey is on the phone. He's getting ghosted by Aaron, so we're going to see if we can figure it out and call her in a second and find out why he's getting ghosted and maybe get him another date. But before we do that, Trey, why don't you refresh everybody's memory on your date with Aaron? Well, I met Aaron out at a club. It seemed like we had some sparks, maybe a little connection,

so we decided to exchange numbers and meet up for dinner. Uh, we met up for dinner and we had a fantastic, amazing conversation until she went up to go to the bathroom and she came back out of the bathroom like a different girl. So, uh, after that, it was just kind of, the energy was totally gone the whole evening deflated. And I don't know what happened. And I've tried reaching out to her a couple of times, but I haven't really heard much back from her. Okay. Ready to call her? Yeah, man. All right.

Here we go. Here we go. Hello? May I speak to Aaron, please? This is Aaron. Hey, Aaron, how are you? My name is Jubal, please? This is Erin. Hey, Erin, how are you? My name is Jubal, and I host a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show.

My name is Nina. Hi, my name's Victoria. Hi, Erin. How are you? Hi, I'm fine, thanks. What's going on? We do a segment on the show called The First Date Follow-Up. That's where if you go on a date and ghost somebody,

they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why they're getting ghosted. And you are currently ghosting somebody. Oh my gosh. Are you serious? Well, I mean, you would know for sure. Yeah.

Are you ghosting somebody? Is this about Trey? Yes, it is about Trey. Trey emailed us and he said he really liked your date, but now you're not calling him back and doesn't know why. He went to a radio station to find out why I'm not texting him back? Are you serious?

Can you really blame Maren? I mean, it's the worst when you don't know why somebody's not calling you back, you know? No, no, no, no, no, no. I totally agree. I can't believe he went to all this trouble. Oh, my gosh. I feel so guilty, guys. He really likes you. Yeah. I really so guilty, guys. He really likes you.

Yeah. I really liked him, too. I really like him. I really like him. The date was great. We have so much in common. Gosh, he's really, really good looking. Just to get that out of the way.

It's like nothing to do with him. You can tell he's one of those guys who's like really raised to like treat women right i i loved our date why aren't you talking to him no this is so embarrassing um so i didn't tell trey ahead of time but i suffer from these really severe chronic migraines and they come on really really fast and um so one came on while we were on our date and I was like I felt miserable I could barely keep my eyes open and so I like escaped to the bathroom and I was in there for like 20 minutes. Like I was like, this guy's going to think I'm like nuts or doing drugs or something. And so I like was trying really, really hard to keep together and to like not say anything.

But I was so dizzy and nauseous that I threw up while I was in there. I just felt terrible. Yeah, I know. Those are rough, Erin. Wouldn't he understand that? Probably. I probably should have just said something. Like, he was being so sweet, though, that I didn't want to, like, ruin it by being like, well, I have this, like, massive issue and it's going to get in the way of us being able to have a conversation it's like

I've had a lot of really nice nights and like awesome times in the past that these have just ruined I was so embarrassed because like he was really nice about it he seemed like he like took the hint that I wasn't doing great and he like asked if I was okay but it was just it was just like it was just a weird situation for a first date you know I just feel like I ruined the night you know and I like didn't want to have to deal with the fallout from that and hear him say that I ruined it thank you for being honest with us Aaron Trey is actually on the phone right now listening and wants to talk to you by the the way. I should have told you that. Oh, my gosh. Seriously?

Yes. Yeah. Oh, my God. I'm surprised that you just didn't feel like you could tell me that. I know we were just having a first date, but like, I don't know. That's kind of like a little red flag for me that you just didn't even want to just mention that you were going through that. You think that's a red flag? Like, why is that a red flag

i mean just just be upfront about it just just come forward with it just be honest hey look i oh my god i i'm feeling faint i'm feeling my head's gonna explode i feel sick something just let me know that you're not just like off shooting up somewhere oh i mean i'm sorry I didn't want to lay something super vulnerable and like a little gross out on a first date. On the other hand, I do appreciate that we didn't get that kiss. So thank you for saving me from that one. What? Wait. I mean, yeah, if you're sick or you're not feeling well or, you know, you give me COVID or something like that, then thank goodness.

Wait. I don't think that's what the migraine was from, though. Do you know what migraines are? Erin, why don't you just explain for everybody who's not fully aware of what migraines are? Yeah, it's nothing to do with, like, being sick or having a cold. It's just, like, a headache that's so bad that, like, I can't deal with light and i get super nauseous and yeah like i i threw up like of course i didn't want to kiss you good night that would have been so gross that's true too yeah that was a nice thing yeah you should be saying thank you

that that actually yes all right thank you in all seriousness thank you for not kissing me after you threw up thank you i. I liked it a lot. I still do like you. Is this just the way you handle things? So, like, you know, if there is a going forward, is that just, you know, what to expect going ahead? Look, I really like you, too, and could probably have been a little bit more upfront. Like, I can't promise that I'm just going to, like, tell of my deepest, darkest secrets within like a couple of days of knowing you. But I could try to tell you a little bit more what's going on, I guess.

Yeah, I don't need to know all the deep, dark ones right off the bat. But just, you know, if something like that happens, here's the reason why. That would have been enough for me. That totally would have been enough for me. Well, would you like to go out with Trey on another date? Aaron will pay for it. Oh, wow. Um, I mean, yeah, yeah.

Like I like you and now that this is out in the air, let's see, maybe, maybe next time it could be different. All right. Sweet. Uh, yeah, no, I'd be happy to. We can do whatever you want, however you're comfortable. And if it winds up that you need to go throw up again, would you please tell me that time so that I don't go in for that kiss again?

Yeah, yeah. That is definitely a promise I can make. Puke-free second date. Congratulations. Yay! Jubal's first day follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorney. Online at advocateslaw.com.

Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God.

We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show, ears edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Joel, the holidays are a blast, but the financial hangover, that can be a huge bummer.

If you are out there and you're dreading the new statement email that reveals the massive balance that you may have racked up, well, you could use our help. That's right. I'm Joel. And I am Matt. And we're from the How To Money podcast. Our show is all about helping you make sense of your personal finances so you can ditch your pesky credit card debt once and for all, make real progress on other crucial financial goals that you've got, and just feel more in control of your money in general. You know it. For money advice without the judgment and jargon, listen to How to Money on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.