First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Very Classy, Red Lobster Date!

Episode Date: July 8, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".Bia is not getting a call back from a dude named Ryan. They went to a very classy and expensive date but now she is not getting a call back! It has been about 2 months and she thought they had a great connection on their date but he hasn't responded to any of her messages since the date!Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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What's the song? Bia Bia I don't know the song It is Lil Jon It's Lil Jon While you're acting like a Bia Bia I'll look for a way to start this Now I need to hear it But Bia Bia? I'll look for a way to start this because now I need to hear it.

But Bia Bia is on the phone. And she's not getting a call back from a dude named Ryan. And they went to a very, very, very, very classy restaurant for their first date. He obviously dropped a lot of cash, but now he's not calling her back and I don't know why. And we're about to find out. Before we find out about your date, how long has it been since your date? It's been two months, actually, since our first date. Two months.

Dang. Okay. Yeah. And how many times have you tried to reach out to him after your date? A bunch of times. Like, you know, it's now been a couple of months. And, yeah, he's not responding at all. And so you're still trying?

Yeah. I mean, I'm still trying to reach him because you know we had a great connection and i really like him okay yeah where did you meet him so we actually met on instagram um in my friend's comments yeah we started flirting there and took it to the dms and you know made it a reality he hasn't responded to you at all like he's completely ghosted you um since the beginning like reality. He hasn't responded to you at all? Like, he's completely ghosted you since the beginning? Yeah. Okay.

Why don't you tell everybody what you did for your date? So, we went to Red Lobster. You know, I know it's not the fanciest place, but it's one of my favorites. When I was growing up, if we went to Red Lobster or Sizzler, that was fancy. You were living.

Yeah, you knew that. Man, it sounds like you had fun yeah such an amazing time but honestly though he's he's perfect like he's literally my ideal type like we have similar interests in like traveling and i mean i would definitely fuck him i hear that okay do you have an idea of why he might be ghosting you? Well, the only thing I can think of is, like, because I suggested Red Lobster. Like, you know, I said it's not, like, the best food, but I loved it, and he didn't. And honestly, I think he might have actually, like, thrown up.

Oh, no. For real? Oh, no. Yeah. What makes you think he threw up? Well, he, like, it was so obvious that he didn't like the food. I'm like, but, like, the rest of the date was so smooth. And it was just that one thing. And, like, we actually left the restaurant and hung out at a park.

So he could, like, catch his breath. So did he actually throw up? He did. Yeah. Oh, okay. It was kind of gross. So he wasn't just full. He got sick. Like like not food poisoning sick but

like yeah did he go home after that or did you guys continue the date no we continued the date and he like he seemed like he was really into me and um he said he wanted to see me again and okay don't make fun of me but like we we made out after he threw up. That is nasty. Maybe he's not calling you back because you were okay with doing that. I'm really feeling it. That's real love, okay? Did he brush his teeth first?

Mouthwash? Mouthwash gum? I'm going to throw up. There was some time that elapsed before we made out. Oh, man. I don't get grossed out by stuff like that. And to throw up seafood and then make out? Even worse. that elapsed before we made out. Oh, man. I don't get grossed out by stuff like that. And to throw up seafood and then make out?

Even worse. And by the way, I have that song. Okay, when you say it like that. I have that song that we were talking about earlier. So this is the song. Bia, bia. Bia, bia. Bia, bia.

Bia, bia. What? I can't even hear it. Red lobster Alright, so that's your song, Bia. I don't know if you know that or not. We'll listen to this afterwards. Back to the throw-up make-out. Yeah, it wasn't like directly after he threw up, you know? There was some time in between.

Still gross. Stale at that point, though. I'd rather have fresh throw up than stale throw up. Let's move on. Maybe he's not calling you back because you kissed him after he threw up. Maybe he was that disgusted. We'll find out.

We'll find out. We'll play a song and then come back and then call him and get your first date follow up right after this, okay? Okay. Thank you. Good luck. We'll see if we can figure it out. Everybody go do something to make their stomachs a little less queasy and then we'll be back play a song come back here for say follow-up next in the middle of today's first date follow-up and if you just joined us you missed out on something that happened on bia's first date with a dude named ryan that we think might be one of the reasons that she's not getting a call back but

bia is on the phone and she doesn't know why she's not getting a call back from a guy named Ryan that she went on a date with. They went to Red Lobster because it's one of her favorite restaurants. She knows it's not the fanciest joint in the world but she wanted to go there. They ate a bunch. He actually got sick and threw up after and

they still made out later on. With no toothbrushing And they still made out later on. Oh, s***. With no toothbrushing in between. So that was the part that grossed everybody out. Cannot. And Bia doesn't understand why he's not calling her back because she thought the date was amazing. It's been two months, actually, and she can't stop thinking about him. So she wants us to call, find out why he's not calling her back, and see if we can get her another date.

And you really liked this dude. Yeah, I like him a lot. I mean, he was super dope and we had this amazing connection and I really want to figure out what happened. Okay, well, let's see if we can figure it out. We're going to call his phone number right now and see if he answers. Here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Ryan, please?

Yeah, this is Ryan. How are you, man? This is The Jubal Show. It's a radio show. My name's Jubal. My name is Alex. I'm Christian Gray Snow. I don't know what's going on.

What's happening? Well, it's a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. We do a segment on our show called The First Date Follow-Up. That's where if you go out on a date with someone and you end up not calling them back, they can email us and get you on the phone and find out what happened. And you recently went on a date with one of our listeners, and she's confused because you've been ghosting her. Oh, okay.

Do you know who we're talking about? Um, I might have an idea. I'll give you a hint, okay? Her name is... Bia Bia! Bia Bia! It's Bia, okay? It's Bia.

Yeah, if you didn't catch on. Remember her? Yeah, if I had known that song, I might have used that on my first date for sure yeah it is definitely yeah this is yeah this is bizarre it's been like two months she told us all about your date but she also said that she said that it's been two months she said that she really liked you a lot and she's been thinking about you ever since and she wants to know why you're not calling her back so would you mind telling us why you're not it's hard to put in words but she was almost like too good to be true.

It kind of scared me, you know? Like, it went so well. I mean, I threw up and everything, and she didn't freak out. She didn't, like, make fun of me or embarrass me. I mean, I was really, I don't know. It's just been so long since I've been in, like, a real connected relationship, you know? It kind of scared me off. Yeah, why would you run from that? Sounds like a good thing.

Sometimes, you know, I guess you get afraid of really connecting with somebody after you've been through something where you try to be with somebody and then things don't turn out the way you thought they were going to turn out and it really hurts you. So you got hurt in your last relationship? Yeah, it was pretty bad. Okay. I ran away.

You know, it wasn't really a good move on my part. Do you want to be in a relationship eventually, like a good one? You know, truthfully, yes. I think it's just like, I don't know, you get scared and then you run away. And that's kind of been a pattern for a little bit. And it's like, BL is the best thing that happened for a while and I think sometimes you're scared of things

that are good for you. You can't run from Bia Bia right now because she's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Oh, are you serious? Yeah. Oh my gosh.

Yay! Bia Bia! Hi Ryan. I can't run forever, cania! Hi, Ryan. I can't run forever, can I? No, you can't. Bia found you. She ran after you. Oh, my God.

That actually kind of means a lot. Hey, Ryan. Bia, you tracked me down like this? That's crazy. I mean, in a good way. It was worth it. Ryan, this is crazy. Like I, I really had no idea that you were feeling the same way I was feeling. It's bonkers to hear you say that. Yeah. I mean, honestly, like I was just so scared and then I ran away, but like having said everything with you hearing it kind of takes

a load off my shoulders. You know, I don't think at the time when I met you, I don't think I was ready to like get into like a relationship with somebody. But, you know, I've had time to process things. And like, you know, you kind of do pop up in my mind every once in a while. I do feel bad ignoring you. There's something that I regret like pretty frequently oh wow i mean it's it's crazy hearing you say that like i was i was really bummed like that you didn't text me back

and honestly i almost like gave up red lobster which for me is insane i didn't realize it was no joke um but like but real talk though like ryan, I'm totally willing to take it one step at a time. I don't want to rush into this. I know what you've been through. And I just think this could be something really, really great. Ryan, would you like to go on another date with Bia? We'll pay for it. Oh, yes, absolutely.

I promise I'm not going to get away this time. We did it. That's great. Yes. Hey, congratulations. Guess what? Bia, Bia. Hey.

You guys are going out again. Congratulations, Bia, Bia. I love it. And congratulations, Ryan. Thank you. Have fun, guys. Yeah, have fun. We'll check back with you guys and see how everything worked out.

And hopefully it goes just as good as you guys think it will go maybe there'll be a wedding in your future oh and then there'll be a kid and then there'll be another one yeah and then the be our celebration that we come to attend because we put y'all together exactly all right but for All together. Exactly. All right. But for right now, let's just have it be a second date. Don't get too crazy. Don't get away from yourself. Like Bia said, one step at a time. The Jubal Show on demand. We're so done with new year, new you.

This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. The Indicator is a podcast where daily economic news is about what matters to you. And we're guessing most days, that's money. Workers have been feeling the sting of inflation.

So as a new administration promises action on the cost of living, taxes, and home prices. The S&P 500 biggest post-election day spike ever. Follow all the big changes and what they mean for you. Make America affordable again. Listen to The Indicator from NPR on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get podcasts. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of

Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.