First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Walker & Julia - Intimidating or…?

Episode Date: October 29, 2024

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And together with my wife, Andrea Waters-King, and our dear friends, Mark and Craig Kilberger, we explore the personal journeys that shape extraordinary lives. Join us for heartfelt conversations with remarkable guests like David Oyelowo, Mel Robbins, Martin Sheen, Dr. Sanjay Gupta, and Billy Porter. Listen to My Legacy on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. This is My Legacy. First date of follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at advocateslaw.com. Julia is on the phone today for a first date follow-up.

She's getting ghosted by a guy named Walker. So in a minute, we're going to call him and see if we can figure out why he's ghosting her. But first, Julia, how long has it been since you heard from Walker? About a week. Okay. A week, okay. That's kind of the sweet spot. How many times have you reached out to him in that time? I sent him a couple of texts. Like three or four? Like what's a couple? About three. That's not too bad. And you've heard nothing from him?

Nothing, not a peep. All right. Tell us a little bit about your date. He asked me to meet him at a sushi restaurant, which I thought was really cool. Okay. We had dinner, and he hadn't had much sushi before, so he let me kind of pick everything out. And he seemed to really like what I picked out, like especially the spicy tuna. Okay.

Yeah, so dinner went really well. He told me all about his business that he's starting and he just seems so motivated and passionate. I loved that. And then we went for a walk, which I thought was a really good sign okay how was the walk it was nice I mean it lasted about an hour and we just kept talking how did it end like did y'all kiss hug high five um we hugged okay yeah did anything happen between the walk and dinner that may have been a little bit off? I mean, the only thing I can think is that I recently, I told him a lot about my work too, because he was telling me a lot about his business.

And I recently got a promotion at work and I was so excited about it. Congrats. Thank you. So I just wondered if that rubbed in the wrong way or something like how what do you think that could have rubbed him the wrong way well he looked a little i don't know like he didn't want to ask me a lot about it or something and i wondered if because he's having he's just at the beginning stages of starting his business, if he felt a little insecure or something that I'm doing so well in my career.

Did he talk a lot about his business? He did talk a fair amount. I mean, he seemed excited about it and like he was really interested in what he's doing. I don't know how that would take away from what you're doing, but I mean, there are guys like that, so I believe it. But I don't know if this, yeah. Yeah, it seems like maybe he's not quite where he wants to be in his career. So I wonder if that was it.

Well, that's also kind of a red flag for you because you want to be with somebody that's a little bit more secure in that space. Right? If that was it. I mean, we're highly speculating at this point. Yeah. I mean, I honestly, I feel like I've come across this before.

So, that's what made me wonder if that's the only thing I can think of because we just had the best time. Okay. And then at the end, when you guys hugged, did he say like,

Oh, I want to meet up again or anything like that? Or did he just bounce? Um, no, I think we just said we had a really nice time. Okay. Well,

we'll see if we can figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date if you still want one. Okay. Okay. All right. We'll play a song, come back, and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date if you still want one, okay? Okay. Alright, we'll play a song, come back, get your first date follow-up next. Ugh, we're so done

with New Year, New You. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you. Someone else will too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble.

Right in the middle of your first date follow-up, if you're just joining us, Julia is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Walker. So we're just about to call him, see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But before we do that, Julia, why don't you refresh everybody's memory on your date with Walker? We went out for an amazing sushi dinner and had a nice walk afterwards. He told me about his business that he's starting up and he seemed super into it.

And I told him all about my promotion at work and how excited I was about it. Did you make a lot of walker jokes while you were walking? I didn't even think about that. I just thought of it right now. That could also be a reason if you wouldn't stop with the walker jokes. Like I would go ham on that. That could also be a reason if you wouldn't stop with the Walker jokes. I would go ham on that. That would have been a great joke. I totally missed it on that.

Okay. I was thinking maybe that is the reason, but maybe not. We'll call him right now. Are you ready? Yeah. Here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Walker, please? Yeah, this is him. Hey, man, how are you?

This is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. My name is Jubal. Hi, I'm Nina, also on the show. Hi, I'm Victoria. We got an email about you from somebody that you are ghosting, and they want to know why you're not calling them back. Oh, okay. Oh, okay.

Yeah, okay. This is Julia. Yes, it is, Walker. Yeah. Yeah, Julia emailed us, told us a little bit about your date, and is really confused why you're ghosting her. You mind telling us? I mean, that's about it. I'm starting to think maybe even a radio show about it could be on that list, but

that wasn't it initially. Okay. So, wait, what's the deal? Why are you ghosting her? I don't know, man. Like, we went to dinner and it was fun. It was great, actually. We got some sushi. I'm not used to that stuff, but I housed

a couple of those spicy tuna rolls. Those things are great. Told you tuna rolls went with the spicy tuna rolls. Yeah, they are good. And it was fun, you know, like it seemed pretty easy at first, but she kind of got on, oh God, she kind of got on like this tangent about her job and stuff and how she got this new promotion.

And then she was very excited about it. It's cool, but it's kind of dominated the whole back end of the night so i don't know it just kind of felt weird not i don't know she talked about her job too much is that it it's not even just about i don't know like a job but just it seemed to be just all encompassing you know like i don't know like somebody's whole identity is wrapped up in that you know and it's just i don't know it just kind of was oh gee it was kind of boring i'm sorry her job is boring or the way she talked about it no not that i don't know you like i don't know much about finance but that you know just the same thing over and over again you know does that make sense if somebody's

talking about just something like you get excited and then it just goes downhill and it's like, God, all right, I get it. You know? I mean, is that all she talked about? It just wasn't interesting or what? I mean, sure. It's interesting. I mean, at first she talked about some friends too and, you know, they seem nice and a little bit about her family.

But for the whole thing, it was about like wanting a promotion and then what I had to do to get it. And I finally got it. Now I felt about it afterwards. It's like, God, rent a movie or something. That's terrible. I shouldn't say that, but I feel bad. Rent a movie or something.

Did you ask her questions? I mean, the usual stuff, like, you know, where'd you grow up, and what were you into as a kid? You know, did you play any sports? You know, where'd you grow up and what were you into as a kid? You know, did you play any sports? You know, where do you live in the city? Like that kind of stuff. You know, pretty, pretty basic stuff. I think when you're on a first date.

All right. Well, thanks for telling us, man. Yeah, for sure. Thanks for asking. No problem. Julia's also on the, on the phone and has been listening this whole time and wants to talk to you I should tell you that too if you have any movie recommendations

yeah no I'm sure she is yeah right she really is hey Walker hey Julia I guess I'm a little confused i mean do you think yeah i don't really know how to put it any more plainly than how i did when i didn't know you were there but uh um you know i don't want to be mean it's just i'm really happy for you, but I don't know. I just feel like maybe we're just not in the same spot.

I mean, I just feel like someone can't accept a woman in a relationship to be successful. Well, I mean, that's not it. No, it's not it at all. I just wanted to show you with a little more interest in life, I guess. Are you intimidated by me? Not even a little bit. No, no, not at all. I think it's great. You know, it seems to make you really happy and that's wonderful. I just don't know if I can be a part of it. Well, I think you're intimidated by me and you can't be with a woman who's more successful than you. I think that's what I'm sorry. I really don't know how to respond to that,

but that's absurd. That's not what this is. And it feels kind of, I don't know, that feels oddly accusatory and weird to go to. It's not that at all. Trust me. It's I just think we're on two different playing fields right now. That's all. Okay. I think that's exactly what it is, but agree to disagree, I guess. Sure, I guess. Yeah. I'm sorry if I gave you that impression, but I, that's not what this is. So please don't harbor that ill will towards me. Okay, well, if you don't want someone who's happy and feels good about their job, then, you know, what can I do about that? There's nothing you can do about it.

Keep being those things. It's just not for me. I think it's great. I'm very happy for you. Okay, well, I don't really believe you, so you know, just because you can't be happy at your job doesn't mean

I can't be happy at mine. I... Sure. Yeah, okay. Walker, would you like another date with Julia? We'll pay for it. I mean, I think that would be a horrible idea. This was rough. Jubal's first date follow-up.

Ugh, we're so done with new year, new you. This year, it's more you on Bumble. More of you shamelessly sending playlists, especially that one filled with show tunes. More of you finding Gemini's because you know you always like them. More of you dating with intention because you know what you want. And you know what? We love that for you.

Someone else will too. Be more you this year and find them on Bumble. The Indicator is a podcast where daily economic news is about what matters to you. And we're guessing most days, that's money.

Workers have been feeling the sting of inflation. So as a new administration promises action on the cost of living, taxes, and home prices. The S&P 500 biggest post-election day spike ever. Follow all the big changes and what they mean for you. Make America affordable again. Listen to The Indicator from NPR on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you get podcasts.

Calling all Yellowstone fans. Let's go to work. Join Bobby Bones on the official Yellowstone podcast for exclusive cast interviews, behind-the-scenes insights, and a deep dive into the themes that have made Yellowstone a cultural phenomenon. Our family legacy is this ranch. And I'll protect it with my life. Listen to the official Yellowstone podcast now on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

I'm so sick of hearing men talk about women's basketball. This is Lexi Brown. And Mariah Rose. And we've got a new podcast. Full Circle. Every Wednesday, we're catching you up on what's going on in women's basketball. We'll be right back. Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Presented by Elf Beauty, founding partner of iHeart Women's Sports. Welcome to My Legacy. I'm Martin Luther King III, and together with my wife, Andrea Waters King, and our dear friends, Mark and Craig Kilberger, we explore the personal journeys that shape extraordinary lives. Join us for heartfelt conversations with remarkable guests like David Oyelowo, Mel Robbins, Martin Sheen, Dr. Sanjay Gupta, and Billy Porter. Listen to My Legacy on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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