First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Was it the Drunk, Dirty Talk that is getting Charlie Ghosted?

Episode Date: February 25, 2025

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a woman named Mary. And I'm sorry for you Charlie. I think Charlie and Mary is a cute name. It's also sounds like it could be a sitcom name too. Charlie and Mary think Charlie and Mary is a cute name It's also sounds good like it could be a sitcom name to Charlie and Mary Charlie and Mary Thursdays on NBC anyway Charlie was up man Thanks for coming on so before we get into your date with Mary how long has it been since you talked to her It's probably been I'd say like a week at this point And how many times have you tried to reach out to her? Um, like every day? Once every day?

Multiple times every day? Eh, at least twice a day, I'd say. Jolly. That feels like a lot, man. It probably is a lot, but I think I probably started doing it more in the last few days because it's like, probably the opposite of what I should have been doing really so how did the date go I thought I weren't great I mean we we just went to like a bar and we had dinner and we were talking the whole time and really I

got a really good vibe from her that she loved it and yeah I mean it was honestly one of the best dates I've ever been on. So I, I'm really clueless as to what's going on here. Okay. Well, tell us about the date. All right. Yeah. So, uh, well, first off we, you know, we met on Tinder, who Tinder, um, and then

we, uh, we chatted for a while and then we decided, uh, like we even talked on the phone a bit and then we're like, yeah, let's, you know, let's, let's do this. So I picked this, this bar that I really like, it's usually a winner. Um, and, uh, then we had dinner and she told me she enjoyed all of it, which I could kind of get that vibe. And honestly, like we drank, no, well we pretty much closed the bar down is how the date went, which is already like a usually a great sign. Um,

and then even better was I walked her out to her car and I was, you know, keep myself contained to the best of my ability to, you know, make, make too crazy of a move, but we did make out a little bit and, uh, which was again, another home run. And then she said she would text me, uh, when she got home, which she actually, when she got home, she didn't text me. She called me. She called me and then we spent literally like two, a little over two hours just talking

on the phone. And it was honestly so much fun, which is great. It's just like a great, you know, nightcap to the, to a date. And then before she hung up, she said she'd call me the next day and we decide like where to go from there and the yeah That was a week ago. It seems like she was into you, but you said you closed the bar down So like on a scale of one to ten how wasted were you guys? Okay, so is there anything in that eight and a half part of the day that you can remember something happening that might have turned her off?

I've been honestly trying to remember for like so many hours of the day. I'm just like, what did I do? But I can't really grasp anything. No, I don't know. I really feel like it went well. I didn't make a fool of myself, I don't think. So yeah, I got nothing. Is there anything from that phone call that could have been a flag? Um, I definitely did get a little forward in the phone call and like, you know, said like, oh, like, next time, like, you know, it's going to rock your world world or you know, some stupid probably like that honestly

Yeah, I did get a little dirty in the call and that oh my that might have done me in Yeah, maybe and you've heard nothing back from her and you've texted her almost every day for a week Yeah, haven't heard anything back. No responses and the last thing I pretty much was saying was dirty talks, you know Yeah, I mean, you know, I've been there I've been in your shoes and I felt the same way. I was like, that probably is what did it. And I know I never got an answer. So I'm glad you're doing this so we can find out together. I'll just take your answer as mine now too.

We'll play a song, come back and then call her and see why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date in your first day. Follow up. Okay. Awesome. Thank you guys. All right, man, we'll do it next. Hey y'all, it's your girl, Cheeky's, and I'm back with a brand new season

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by a woman named Mary for about a week now and he doesn't know why and we're about to call her, get her on the phone and ask her and then maybe get him another date if he still wants one. Charlie, before we give Mary a call, why don't you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Mary? Yeah, sure, so met on Tinder, went to a bar,

had a great time, closed down the bar, met out at her car and then when she got home, she called me. We already talked a little bit and I haven't heard from her since. So that's pretty much where I'm at. Okay. All right. We're gonna dial her up right now. Are you ready, Charlie?

Let's do it. Okay. Here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Mary please? Yeah, this is her. Who's calling? Mary, how are you? My name is Jubal.

I host a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show. Hi Mary, my name's Nina. I'm on the show too. Hi, and I'm Victoria. Why are you guys calling me? Have you ever listened to the show before? Are you guys calling about Charlie?

You're answering a call. I'm calling about Charlie. I'm calling about Charlie. I'm calling about Charlie. I'm calling about Charlie. I'm calling about Charlie. I'm calling about Charlie. I'm calling about Charlie.

I'm calling about Charlie. I'm calling about Charlie. I'm calling about Charlie. I'm calling about Charlie. I'm calling about Charlie. I'm calling about Charlie. I, I'm Victoria. Why are you guys calling me? Have you ever listened to the show before? Are you guys calling about Charlie? Oh, you're answering a question with the question, but I'll just go ahead and answer your question. Yes, we are. Oh my gosh. Okay. How'd you know? Yeah, how did you know? Why else would a radio show be calling me? It's not like date things. You could have won a prize. I didn't apply for anything though.

Okay. All right. Anyway. Yes, it is one of those. We do a segment called the first date follow up where if you go out on a date with somebody and end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone

and ask why you're ghosting them. And Charlie emailed us about your date. He said he really liked you, but he doesn't know why you're not getting back to him Okay, I like to think like the bar and the dinner was cool and you know, I I did really like talking to him He's pretty sexy He just like really Helped me off like later When we got home when I got home. What happened?

Well, so I was going to text him just to say I had a really great time after I got home, but I accidentally slipped with my hand and I actually hit call. So he picked up before I even realized what happened and then he just started talking to me. That's usually what happens to people. Yeah. Call people. Yeah.

Well, I mean, he just kept, you know, talking a lot. So I just kind of joined in our conversation like no harm, no foul. Like I did really like talking to him. So then what went wrong? This is where it got weird. I mean, he started like kind of getting into dirty territory. It was kind of just like a little bit abrupt. Like I kept trying to deflect it, but he just kept pushing and pushing and pushing. And then he just wanted phone sex.

It was just... Oh wow. So he was like, he wasn't just like a little bit. Oh, you didn't tell us that part. No, I mean, I know we both had a few drinks, but he just kept being very graphic and it really kind of freaked me out. Oh God, I do not remember being that bad.

Mary, that was actually Charlie. He's actually on the line listening and wants to talk to you. No, no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no I'll be honest your voice is really say you were just really hot really sexy, and I was very drunk And we'd already made out so it's feeling really really good, so I sincerely apologize. That's super embarrassing I don't remember being that bad, but if I was I'm very sorry You're asking for some weird We know we don't have to go into it. We don't have to do that. You know, we can just forget that. I'm sorry. I'll just apologize. I don't even remember what I asked for. Look, I was, I was just, I was really drunk. I promise I'm not into any of that weird stuff. I'm

not a psycho. I just, I was really hammered and you're really hot. And that was just, hey, you know what? Yeah. Charlie, do you remember any of the things that you were saying? I think it might have involved peanut butter. What? What? I don't know. Yeah. A few different condiments actually. Charlie, what were you asking for? I was. I was drunk and hungry at the time. I guess so.

I'm sorry. It's I mean, it was entertaining, but I just wasn't expecting to get that, you know, close that that quickly. Yeah, no, I wasn't either. So I do again. I apologize. I was not in the right mental state at the time. And again, you're very attractive. And to be fair, I'm actually

allergic to peanut butter. So I was even remotely bringing that up. Yeah. Hides and hides sounds pretty bad. I don't want to have to take you to the ER. Yes, let's let's let's avoid that. So I promise that would never happen if you know you've ever wanted to go out again. Mary, would you like to go out with Charlie on another date? We'll pay for it. No condiments. Yeah, if there's no condiments. I mean also who has phone sex anymore? I mean, I'm sorry. I was way too drunk. We made out in the parking lot. You're hot.

I was getting way out of myself. Yeah. Just text me. Good night. Okay. Like we don't need all of that. It's that's okay. And my condom.

It's also exciting. That's all okay. And the condiments are okay. It's also exciting. That's okay. Agreed. Look, if you go out with me again, I promise you I will not phone sex, dirty talk, condiments, peanut butter, any of that nonsense. I promise. I'm hiding the whipped cream. All right.

So is that a yes, Mary? Yeah. Swag. Yes. Congratulations, Charlie. I love that. You got a little bit of a twist. and this is the last. Alright, so is that a yes, Mary? Yeah. Swag! I like it.

Yes, congratulations, Charlie. I love that. You got another date, man. Oh my god, this is the first for me, thank you. Yup. Jubel's first date follow-up. Hey y'all, it's your girl, Cheeky's, and I'm back with a brand new season of your favorite podcast, Cheeky's and Chill.

I'll be sharing even more personal stories with you guys. And as always, you'll get my exclusive take on topics like love, personal growth, health, family ties, and more. And don't forget, I'll also be dishing out my best advice to you on episodes of Dear Cheeky's. It's going to be an exciting year and I hope that you can join me. Listen to Cheeky's and Chill, season four,

on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome. My name is Paola Pedroza, a medium and the host of the Ghost Therapy Podcast, where it's not just about connecting with deceased loved ones. It's about learning through them and their new perspective. I think God sent me this gift so I can show it to the world. And most of all, I help people every single day.

Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hey, it's Alec Baldwin. This past season on my podcast, Here's the Thing, I spoke with more actors, musicians, policymakers, and so many other fascinating people, like writer and actor Dan Aykroyd.

I love writing more than anything. You're left alone. You know, you do three hours in the morning, you write three hours in the afternoon, go pick up a kid from school, then write at night, and after nine hours, you come out with seven pages and then you're moving on. Listen to Here's the Thing on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. This is Mel Reed, LPG Tour winner and six time Lady Geovine Tour winner.

And Kira Kaye-Dixon, NBC Sports reporter and host. And we've got new podcast, Quiet Please with Mel. winner.