First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Was this First Date Follow Up a success?
Episode Date: May 17, 2022First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".Was this First... Date Follow Up a success? A woman ghosted because she wanted to redecorate her dates kitchen, and we convinced her not to do that because that's a bad idea, but we also convinced him to go on a second date with her!Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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First date follow-up.
Time for your brand new first date follow-up.
And you know how it goes.
You're getting ready for your first date and you're nervous.
And you look at the clock and you're like, I got to be there by seven.
And it's 645 and you know it takes 10 minutes to get to the restaurant you're going to.
So you're like, well, I guess I can shower one more time and shave again and do my hair again.
And then before you know it, it's 710 and you're late for your date and they don't understand and they're upset.
And they didn't realize
you just had to take three showers
for whatever reason.
That's what happens
because I'm late a lot of places.
I get distracted and I might take two showers
thinking I have more time than I do.
And maybe that's what Emma did
because Emma says she went on a date
with a dude named Jonathan,
but now she's not getting a call back
and it might be because she was late.
So Emma, tell us a little bit about your date with Jonathan how was it
well I thought we had a great night together but then that mother never
tested me for our date well you know I thought it was a lovely day I mean he's
got me out here thinking I'm crazy. How long has it been since your date?
Two weeks ago.
Okay.
Yeah, we were texting right up until the date.
Mm-hmm.
And he literally didn't text me, like, ever again after the date ended.
You were late to your date, right?
Is that the problem?
Was he annoyed about it?
I mean, he was definitely late. I mean,
around 35 minutes late.
Oh,
that's very late.
35 minutes is more than just a little late.
35 minutes is super late.
That's enough time
for the guy to get up
and leave.
Well,
I got a speeding ticket
on the way there.
Oh,
no.
So you're going to be late
and then you're speeding
and then you got pulled over
and made you later?
Wow.
You really know how to make someone feel better, don't you?
No, I mean, we were just joking around.
You know how we do on the show.
We're playful.
We don't think you did anything.
I mean, look, it happens to everybody, right?
Yes, it does, but you don't have to give me shit about it.
I mean, I already feel bad.
How did the date go, though?
Did you enjoy him and did you think
that he was cool with that wow you're you're really being nice to me i mean i thought we had
a really good date and i am absolutely mystified why he is not calling me back and i apologized
i mean i apologized a really lot about it hey It's okay. No, I'm a really
nice person.
All right.
Well, we'll try to figure out
for you.
How did everything end with him?
Great.
I mean, we had a kiss
at the end of the night
and I went home.
I mean,
we were going to set up
a second date, but...
Did he kiss you back, though?
Did he seem weird?
How did you go kiss him?
Did you just jump on him and kiss
him kiss him on the forehead the cheek the mouth and what was his reaction when you did that no
we were leaving the restaurant and um he said he had a really good time and i said a really good
time and so i just leaned in and kissed him and said okay i'll see you later emma one other question
i had for you how did y'all meet in the first place? Well, I mean, we met at the YMCA.
Well, that's a new one.
Like working out at the YMCA or?
Wait, they have a gym at the YMCA?
No, I was just hanging out at the front of the YMCA and he came up and he just started
talking to me and I don't know, he's really cute.
So we decided to go out.
Okay.
Oh. Well, that's cool.'t know. He's really cute. So we decided to go out. Okay. Oh,
well,
that's cool.
I mean,
nevermind.
It was really easy.
All right.
Well,
the hard part,
the really effing hard part is you're not getting a call back.
And I know that that's what you're worried about.
So we're going to play a song,
come back and then call him and see if we,
see if we can figure out why he's not calling you back and try to get you
another date.
Okay.
Oh,
we'll try.
Okay.
It shouldn't be this hard.
No.
We'll do it next.
It's a Jubal show.
Emma is on the phone today for a first date follow-up.
If you missed the first part, she wants us to call a guy named Jonathan, who she met
at the YMCA.
Apparently, she was just hanging out in front of the YMCA, and Jonathan and her struck up
a conversation, and then they decided
to go out for dinner and Emma thinks she's not getting a call back because she was 35 minutes
late to her date. She said she was already late and then she got pulled over and got a ticket
and she thinks that maybe being late is the reason that Jonathan's not calling back after their date.
They did share a kiss at the end of the evening. Did you share it or did you just take it? You said you kissed him.
Yes, I kissed him.
Okay.
You act like there's some kind of problem with that.
No, I don't know.
I think that's fine.
If you want to kiss somebody, try.
And if they say no, then don't.
Right?
He didn't say no.
What did your best friend say about it?
I actually haven't told her yet.
We're saying it's fine.
So you went and you kissed him and you thought he enjoyed himself.
You guys talked about plans, but he hasn't called you since then.
It's been two weeks.
We're going to get him on the phone and try to find out what happened.
Okay.
Let's see if we can get you another day. Hello. Hi, man. Hello?
Hi, man.
Speak to Jonathan, please.
Yeah, man.
Who's calling?
This is Jubal from a radio show called The Jubal Show.
And this is Alex from a radio show called The Jubal Show.
And this is English Evan from a radio show called The Jubal Show.
How are you?
Oh, wow.
I'm doing Oh, wow.
I'm doing good, man.
That's the reason for the call this morning.
Do you know the show?
Are you familiar with the show at all?
Yeah, I'm familiar with the show.
I listen to y'all in the morning time.
Okay, cool. Thank you.
All right, sweet.
Well, then you might have heard the first eight follow-ups before.
You ever hear one of those?
Yeah, I've heard those before.
Okay.
Yeah.
Well, that's why we're calling.
We got an email about you from someone else who listens to the show.
Wait, what?
What are you talking about?
Who?
You don't know who it might be?
No guesses?
Gotta be this crazy chick, Emma, man.
Yes. We have a winner. It is Emma. um gotta be this crazy chick emma man yes she emailed us about you because she said you guys
went out on a date and you're not calling her back and she wants to know why i'm guessing the
fact that you just called her a crazy girl you didn't say that in a complimentary way
man look she's a you know she's very pretty. Like, she comes up very shy, very meek.
Like, her personality, man, is just like, it's all over the place.
Like, I didn't know who I was talking to throughout the day sometimes.
Like, and then, you know, she got a speeding ticket or some crap, you know.
And it was like, she just cried about it and cried about her insurance going up and her dad being mad like we're teenagers or something.
I'm like the entire date.
She's, you know, she's just all over the place crying about the insurance.
And she was crying enough.
Did it make a scene?
It made a scene, man.
The whole restaurant was turning, looking at.
Mind you, this is my first date with this girl, man.
Like now I got people looking at me like I did something, and she just got there.
So during the dinner, were you trying to, like, calm her down?
Like, did you say, it's going to be okay?
Yeah, man, I kept telling her, you know, it's going to be okay.
It's a speeding ticket.
Like, we all get them.
Like, I mean, just pay the ticket.
You know, she's talking about her insurance and stuff.
Yeah, it's like, who cares?
Give it up.
You're on a date.
Who cares?
Exactly.
We're here.
You're here now.
You got here safe.
Let's enjoy the date.
She just cared more about the ticket and everything else.
I'm like, you know, one moment she'll be crying.
One moment she's perky and happy and want to get to talking.
That's like, man, do you know how they say crazy girls are good in bed?
Look, she was so crazy.
I didn't even want to take her home.
That's the one I didn't even want to deal with.
I didn't want to touch that.
All right, man.
Well, hey, she's on the phone.
If you listen to the first day of falls,
you know that she's actually on the phone
and wants to talk to you.
Is she crying again?
Food roasted.
Oh, man.
Wow, I didn't know I was going to be mocked while I was on hold.
But I'm so sorry I made you uncomfortable.
Hey, look, man.
I'm sorry.
You're sobbing at the table.
You know, if you just slow the f*** down,
and then, you know, you slow the f*** down in the car,
maybe the kids you slow down in the car maybe
the ymca what yeah i mean what are you talking about you went through four other girls before you got to my name is that where you go and pick up all your girls this is the ymca
see i told you all she was crazy. I told you
she was crazy. No, you're laughing at me.
I mean, there is no respect
at all.
Look, look, Emma.
I do not meet all my women at the YMCA.
I was minding my business.
You were the one standing
in front of the YMCA like a
whole weirdo.
You didn't even go inside for workouts.
I was handing out travel brochures, you asshole.
I was working.
Travel brochures?
You wasn't handing out travel brochures.
You was handing out ValPaks.
Like, who the hell cares around thousands of ValPaks?
Hey, you're the one who accepted the date.
You were handing out ValPaks?
Like, the coupon things that you get in the mailbox?
Yeah, it's my job.
I'm doing my job and he's getting a little judgy.
Look, man, that's not actually a job.
You know?
Yeah, it is.
It's charity work.
I go and I hand out Valpaks at the YMCA to people who need them because it is charity.
Oh.
Again, I told y'all she was crazy. Charity and jobs are two different things, baby. You don't get paid for charity. You know, that's free time.
It's charity work, okay?
So do you do charity for some place that hands out Valpax outside of the YMCA? No, I go to the valve pack, the place
where they print the valve packs and I get a bunch of them and I go hand them out to places where
people who need them are like the YMCA. On time, bro. That's correct. That's a hobby. Yeah. It's
not a hobby. It's not a hobby. It's not a hobby. It's a charity. And you met me while I was there, and you thought I was good enough to date, so I don't think you should be judgy.
Okay?
I mean, I just thought your boobs looked perfect.
What?
Lord have mercy.
Thank you.
I had them done last year, and I know they're really pretty good.
All right.
Hey, I want to ask a question right now, then, on that note.
Jonathan, would you like to go out on another date with Emma?
We'll pay for it.
Sounds like you both like something about each other.
Oh, no.
I'm all the way good on that.
Come on, Johnny.
You sure?
You know what?
You see, anybody that you see how quick she just switched?
Anybody that switched like that, I don't need them around me.
I'm okay.
I'm good.
Sure?
Oh, my God.
Is that what you think about me when you see my boobs?
I had them done.
They were very expensive.
I would go get a refund if I was you.
They're really not helping your personality.
Well, fuck you hey look man
can I go now
yeah
yeah go ahead man
sorry you didn't get
another
well alright
take care
okay see you later
Johnny
bye
you guys
thank you so much
you just clarified
so much
and I'm
I'm gonna text him back
and
hopefully we can get
a second date going
did you not hear the call I don't think he wants to go out with you again that's what I was much and I'm going to text him back and hopefully we can get a second date going.
Did you not hear the call? I don't think he wants to go out with you again. That's what I was picking up
on the end. Did you get the same thing?
No, he liked my boobs. I mean, I had them
done.
Oh, no.
Excuse me. Just to clarify things for you,
Emma, I will never
go on a date with you again.
Okay? Okay, but will you go on a date with you again. Okay?
Okay, but will you go on a trip?
Hey guys, y'all have a good day.
All right.
The Jubal Show on demand.
Hey everyone, it's Katie Couric.
Well, the election is in the homestretch,
right in time for a new season of my podcast,
Next Question.
I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's,
to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki,
Astead Herndon.
But we're also going to have some fun,
thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God.
We're going to take some viewer questions as well.
I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about?
Check out our new season of Next Question
with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on
The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team
for today's biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews, and more.
Now this is a second term we can all get behind.
Listen to The Daily Show, ears edition on the iHeartRadio app,
Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Welcome.
My name is Paola Pedrosa, a medium and the host of the Ghost Therapy Podcast,
where it's not just about connecting with deceased loved ones. It's about learning through them and
their new perspective. I think God sent me this gift so I can show it to the world. And most of
all, I help people every single day. Listen to the Ghost Therapy Podcast on the iHeartRadio app,
Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.