First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - What could she not handle in this First Day Follow Up?

Episode Date: January 23, 2023

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".One of our listeners is not getting a call back from a date he went on and we don't know why because he might be one of Jubal's favorite people right now, and you will understand why in this First Date Follow Up!Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The Jubal Show on demand. First date follow-up. Kane is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and Kane is getting ghosted by Savannah.

And he doesn't know why. Kane, how are you? Hey, I'm alright. How you doing over there? Not too bad. Thank you for emailing the show and thank you for agreeing to do a first date follow up. So before we talk about your date with Savannah and try to figure out why you're getting ghosted, how long has it been since you saw Savannah?

About three and a half, four weeks ago. Three and a half, four weeks. Okay, that's a long time then. You're definitely getting ghosted. Yeah. I kind of feel that way. Three and a half, four weeks ago. Three and a half, four weeks. Okay, that's a long time then. You're definitely getting ghosted. Been a little bit. Yeah, yeah. Okay.

I kind of feel that way. And how many times have you reached out to Savannah in these three or four weeks? Oh, heck, man. I mean, I had in the past week, but before that, probably three, four times a week. And sent a text at least four or five times. Wait, did you say you called her three, four times a week? I mean, I don't know. Heck, I just called. If I called, I left her a message,

and then I sent out her texts, like, you know, the next day. You know, I did that for about two weeks, but I hadn't done anything the last week because I figured, well, heck, you know, I don't know what's going on. So I just, I don't know. I'd rather find out, you know, if I did something wrong or not. All right.

Well, tell us about your date. What did you and Savannah do? I mean, it was pretty cool. We went and played some putt-putt golf and, you know, arcades. It was like more of an adult venue we went to. Right. I mean, had some good dinner. Okay.

You know, nice supper. Everything was good. I thought we had a good dinner. You know, nice supper. Everything was good. I thought we had a good time. Okay. Well, if you thought it was so good, why do you think she's not calling you back at all? Why do you think you're being ghosted? I don't know. I mean, I told her I had to come back home for a spell for a few weeks,

and I don't know if she thought I was, you know, joshing about that or not. I tell you what, though, every she thought I was was you know joshing about that or not I tell you what though every time I was caught you know she kind of was cringing and looking I don't know if I had something in my teeth or oh I don't know hell I checked I don't have a tooth missing I don't know man I'm just at a pick I'm at a loss here buddy maybe a tooth fell out and you didn't know it well hey you know what now actually I'll be honest you. That did happen to me on a date a while back now. But, hey, that day it was in. It was in tight.

Okay. All right. So, you're, you're, you're, okay. And everything seemed fine. And it's been weeks and you haven't talked to her. Yeah, yeah. Like, yeah, three and a half weeks, man. Two, two and a half, three weeks, something like that now.

How did the day end? I mean, it was nice. I didn't, you know, I didn't press on trying to make out or anything. I told her I had a great evening. You know, I did grab her hand and I kissed her on her hand. I didn't try and peck her on the cheek or anything like that. So I thought it went nice and she seemed okay with everything. Okay.

Could she have wanted to maybe end with a little good night kiss? Oh, yeah. Maybe she wanted more. I don't know. I was just, you know, shiver is not dead with me. So I was just trying to be, you know, my southern hospitality. So I'm not certain. What a gentleman.

Yeah. I love that. There are some gentlemen out there. Kane, good for you. Thank you, sir. I appreciate that. You give me hope in the world of men, Kane.

Alright, well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back, and then call Savannah and try to find out why you're getting ghosted and see if we can get you another date, okay? Thank you, sir. We'll play a song, come back, and get your first date follow-up next. In the middle of your first date follow-up, if you're just joining us, Kane is on the phone

and Kane is getting ghosted by a woman named Savannah. They went out for drinks and mini-golf. He really liked her, but it's been about four weeks, he says, and he's heard nothing. He's reached out to her a few times. There was no kiss at the end of the date because Kane is a gentleman, right, Kane? That's right. Southern gentleman. So he did not.

There was no kiss. Well, he did kiss her on the hand and thank her for a good evening. Kane, I didn't ask you when we talked to you a second ago, did she say that she would want to go out again? Like, hey, call me later. Or does she just get in the car and then drive out of your life? No, she was pretty nice. I mean, she was like, I was like, I tell her, I said, I'll give you a call, make certain you get home. Okay. She was like, okay. You know, like that. But that was it. All right. So you, you, you thought she's like okay you know like that but that was it all right so you you you thought she was into another date and it's been weeks and you haven't heard from her so we're about to get her on the phone right now and find out why she's ghosting kane and see if kane would

like another date after here's that reason you ready to go man let's do it let's do it here we go down her phone number right now hello hi may i speak to savannah please uh this is she hey savannah how are you this is the jubal show it's a radio show and my name is jubal and my name is atoria and my name is Victoria I'm Bennett I'm Christian Gray Snow okay and you're calling me why we're calling you because we actually got an email from one of our listeners about you and we want to talk to you for a second okay all right I'm curious what is it can you think of any reason that somebody you know would email a radio show to give you a call and talk to you. No, not really. No?

I don't know. Nothing at all? No. Well, I'll tell you then. So we do a segment called the First Date Follow-Up. What it is is if you go out on a date with somebody and then end up ghosting them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask what happened. And we got an email about you from somebody that you went out with on a date that you're

ghosting and they really liked you and they would love to see you again, but they don't know why you stopped talking to them and they want to find out. Yeah, I think I know who it is. Okay. Give it a shot. I'll tell you if you're right or wrong. Is his name Kane? Yes, it is. Okay, give it a shot. I'll tell you if you're right or wrong. Is his name Kane? Yes, it is.

It's Kane. Kane emailed us and said he really liked you, but he said you've been ghosting him for like four weeks now, and he doesn't know why. He said, well, okay, look, he did say he called you a bunch. Maybe he called you too much, but do you mind telling us the reason so that we can let Kane know? Well, I know this is horrible and artificial and i don't know but he's southern and i can't

stand his accent it drives me crazy like it's awful okay i mean he has a heavy accent for sure but that's it i mean did you like him because was he fun i love that he sounded like he sounds like a fun guy we talked to him a little bit. Yeah. I mean, there's a Southern accent, but his is like ridiculously Southern. Like the phrases that he was using, I was just like, what is going on? Like completely way too Southern for me. Hi, it's Christian Snow here. As a fellow Southerner, I would just like to know what is wrong with that. Yeah.

You just don't like it? It's that bad for you where you wouldn't want to call him back? I mean, I just don't like a southern accent. I mean, even if Matthew McConaughey asked me out, I could not go out with him because of his accent. What? So you don't like the southern accent. Did you know he had a southern accent before you guys went out?

No. No. No, because we just text and we met on a dating app and we just talked back and forth that way. So, no, I had no idea. And I also realized why he didn't smile on the dating app because he has a gold tooth. And I'm totally not into that. What? It's bad.

I mean. Good as gold, girl. Right. Yeah, what's wrong with the gold tooth? Oh, no. It's awful. It's cringeworthy. Oh, my gosh.

I mean, between the accent and now we know he has a gold tooth. Thank you for being honest with us, Savannah. I appreciate it. Hey, you're welcome. Yeah, no problem. And good luck to you in dating in the future and finding someone who doesn't have a heavy southern accent or a gold tooth. Before you go, though, I do want to let you know

that Kane is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. You darn scootin'. You darn scootin'. Let me tell you something, little girl. I mean, let me tell you something. Do you know why? I could have got a silver tooth, but hey, I'm an expensive kind of southern guy. So that's why I have gold.

So you darn tootin', Luke Scootin', it's gold. What color did you think it was going to be? I mean, I didn't need that shadow. White. Oh, man. I don't want you with that shell. White? Oh, man. I don't think you're my kind anyways if you're that shell. Let me ask you something. Who the heck would want a white tooth when you can get a gold tooth?

Exactly. You can get a white tooth. It's true. Oh, my God. I mean, think about it. We all got white teeth over here, white teeth over there. How many people you see with gold teeth? He said stand out when you can.

You're doing right, buddy. Savannah, now you may be ripping and got your little partake on my gold tooth, but that's what separates me from the other ones. That's why I'm what they call exceptional. I like it so much. Stand over his gold tooth. You know, it's just not my thing. It's not your thing?

Well, what's your thing, little girl? White teeth. I got a good white teeth. I got 30 some other white teeth. I just gotta go. And you know what? I got a positive perspective

on everything. let me tell you little girl when some people turn 17 and got hit in the mouth with a baseball bat and lost a tooth they will crumble up into pieces and start crying i was like yeah doggie i get to go get my gold hey you know what do Google and good people? You ain't got to ask me, do I want another date? I don't want to have nothing to do with it. I am fine how I am. Savannah, best wishes to you.

I hope you find you Mr. White Teeth Guy with no accent that's going to treat you so well. But I'm out of here. I'm good to go all right are you sure savannah i mean i think you might be missing out girl um i'm i'm okay all right kane you're a really nice guy and i really appreciate it but just not for me i appreciate that i appreciate that little I appreciate that, little mama. You have a good one, okay? You too.

You know what, guys? Everybody has their type, so I understand. I mean, her type is her type. Not everybody wants a hog-slaying, horse-riding, cow-roping, gold-toothed cowboy. Not everybody can handle it, you know? Yes. The Jubal Show on demand.

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