First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - What did he bring out that is getting him ghosted?

Episode Date: April 3, 2023

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".It is time for a new First Date Follow Up and did this guy getting ghosted because of something he brought out during their date? This guy is something that everyone knows and has in thier friend group! Find out why one of our listeners is getting ghosted by said guy in this First Date Follow Up!Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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You'll hear from Bloomberg journalists like Matt Levine. A lot of this meme stock stuff is, I think, embarrassing to the SEC. Follow the Big Take podcast on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen. The Jubal Show on demand. First day follow-up. Amanda is on the phone today for a first day follow-up, and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Brian. So we'll see if we can figure out why and see if we can get her another day if she still wants one after here after she hears why in just a second. Amanda, thank you for coming on the show.

Before we get into your date and why you think you're getting ghosted by this dude. How long has it been since you heard from Brian? Hey, so I haven't heard from Brian in, God, it has to have been like eight days now. So, I mean, it hasn't been like excessive, but it's more than, you know, he said he would call back within, like he said he'd call back within a couple of days.

Have you reached out to him at all? Yeah, I mean, I like messaged him like uh hello but he didn't respond to that and i didn't feel like sending another message because i thought that would be weird i feel you that was probably a good move what happened on the date okay so i went to this rock show and i met brian there and he seemed really. We just kind of started talking and we like sat at the bar next to each other during the show. And then we started talking for a really long time after the show. And when everything closed down, we just decided to go like across the street to another place and then just keep talking. So like it was going really well.

And like he is so attractive. street to another place and then just keep talking to the floor. So it was going really well and he is so attractive and I wasn't surprised at all to learn that he was also a guitarist in a band. Oh my gosh, this answers my question as to why you had to hear from him so badly after

eight days. Always the guitar guys. I mean, I get it. I'm a musician too like i get it's fine whatever oh that's got to be awesome if you're a musician to meet another musician for a date i mean that's cool you guys are both in the same thing yeah we really bonded it was it was really cool and you know after they closed everything down at the second place i was um kind of like you know my apartment's only a block away okay girl yeah so like i just i decided i wanted to take them home with me okay yeah and so he agreed and we went to my place and we had a lot of fun and then he left the next morning and you know

before he left we did exchange numbers and he told me he'd call like the next morning. And, you know, before he left, we did exchange numbers. And he told me he'd call, like, the next day. And, you know, again, it's been, like, well over a week. And I don't really get it. I hate to state the obvious. Sorry. But do you think it's like, whoop, got that. See you later. You know, I mean, it sucks.

It sucks that that's a real thing. But it is. Do you think that could be it? I don't know. mean it sucks it sucks that that's a real thing but it is do you think that could be it i don't know i really hope it's not that sure like i mean i was really smitten with him to be honest and like you know among everything else i especially love talking about our music taste and uh you know i'm not very snobby about music but like maybe it's that like i can be a bit judgmental and like brian said he was exactly the same way so i don't know i'll admit it's been a long time since a guy has pleased me like that oh Oh, okay. So that's also why you want to call him back. Exactly.

Okay. But yeah, so I don't know. We like talked about jamming together at some point and, you know, I played in a few bands as well. So I don't know. It would be cool to just jam with him artistically and maybe physically too. You'd keep having that thing happen that he was able to do.

Get those high notes, man. Okay, well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you then. We'll play a song, come back, and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date if you still want it, okay? Okay, great. Jam session. Yeah, another jam sesh. All right.

We'll play a song, come back, and get your first date follow-up next. Amanda is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and she is not getting a call back from a dude named Brian, and she really wants to almost said rock out with... Socks off? Yeah, there you go. Rock out with her socks off. She wants a jam sesh with Brian, the guy's name.

There we go. Now we're back. And we're about to call him to see why he's been ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But before we do that, Amanda, refresh everybody's memory. Tell us about your date with Brian and why you think you're getting ghosted. I met Brian at a rock concert at a bar. And we were really in touch with each other. Like, we were both musicians and really just kind of bonded.

And so he spent the night and said he would call the next day after he left. But then he didn't end up calling back. And it's been about eight days since then. And I'm really just confused. Amanda wants another date. She does. Or at least another evening. All right.

So we're going to call him right now and see if we can figure it out. You ready, Amanda? Yeah. Okay, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to brian this is him brian how are you man my name is jubal calling from radio show called the jubal show hi brian i'm nina i'm here on the jubal show what's up guys why are you on my phone we heard you're hot hot. Yeah, why not? I'm just kidding. Have you ever heard a segment that we do called the first date follow-up? I think so, yeah.

I'm pretty sure I have. What that is is if you go out on a date with someone and then you end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone to find out why you've been ghosting them. And we got an email about you from someone. I'm guessing it's probably Amanda, right? Andy's smart too. So this is an intentional ghosting then. Yes, it's Amanda. For you to know right away definitely. It is Amanda.

Amanda emailed us and she told us that she really, really enjoyed her evening with you and wanted to see you again but it's been a while and she hasn't heard anything so she's wondering if you might tell us why you're ghosting. Yeah, well amanda's great uh she she was really great we had a really good time we talked a lot we drank a lot uh had an excellent time where things kind of went a little south was when we got to her place i don't know how much she told you but

everything she told us everything she didn't give us all like yeah she didn't give us all the details but i want some of the details later on, not on the radio, because she said that you, sir, did a great job and I would love some pointers. Oh my God, I'm red right now. I'm going to leave during that part. Or maybe I'll stay. I don't know. So what happened to her place and she kind of she went from like rock musician fangirl to like danny tanner from full house he's a clean freak she is a clean freak i felt like i couldn't sit down in the house and we were drinking at her house still and

like she wanted me to use coasters which is is fine. I understand it's your house. You want to keep it clean. But I also felt like there was nothing I could do in her house without breaking some rule or doing something wrong. There was a lot of, no, no, don't do that. Do this instead. The whole time I was there. It was just a bit much. It's too bad because she was real cute.

She was a lot of fun. She plays instruments, which is a rare thing it seems like these days. And I was really looking forward to jamming out with her. Just couldn't put up with the fact that she might be too much of a clean freak for you. It was too much. And I'm not even scratching the surface, guys. If you had seen it, you'd understand. I'm trying to picture it because I just feel like clean is such a turn on.

All her chairs are wrapped in plastic. Oh. And if it was only, you know, once or twice, okay, fine. It's your house. I'll follow your rules. But it was the whole night. Thank you for being honest with us, man. I appreciate that.

Yeah. Is this going to be on the radio? Yeah, it is. Also, she's actually on the phone, has been listening this whole time and wants to talk to you. Oh, I should have guessed. Hi, Brian. Hi, Amandaanda how are you can i just say like i feel really ridiculous for going overboard about the cleanliness because weirdly not the first time that someone's referred to me as like a danny tanner kind of are you

serious but like i guess i get kind of anxious when i have a guest over so like i don't know i i feel i feel bad about going overboard like i'm usually pretty chill and um yeah i don't know i don't know i don't i just i think i was just really nervous so then what's up with the plastic why are all the chairs wrapped up like christmas presents and clear wrappers well um so like the plastic you might actually find this funny i actually am really lazy and haven't unwrapped it since buying it wait why are you serious i mean like here's the thing it does make it easier to clean. It is kind of like my grandma vibe, which I hear is chic now.

It's that grandma chic in your house. So somehow your laziness turned stylish all of a sudden. Right. But is that comfortable, though? I just feel like my butt would stick to the chair. You know, sometimes it does. I'm not even going to lie. Are you sitting on the couch naked a lot?

Keep it interesting, I guess. Yeah. I don't know. I guess like after the pandemic, I feel like everybody's really just psyched out about like coming into a place and knowing that that person isn't clean or washing their hands or whatever. So I think I have a little bit of that going on, too. I love how honest you're being about your cleanliness.

I think that that's something that, I mean, do you appreciate that a little bit? I mean, I do. Yeah. I don't think there's anything wrong with being clean. I just don't, you know, want a list of rules to follow if I'm going to come over. You know what I mean? Yeah. No, I definitely get that.

I totally could see why that came across as abrasive and maybe a little psychotic yeah i promise i'm not crazy i maybe just a little normal about a crazy but not that crazy a little crazy is good right brian yeah i mean a little crazy is a lot of fun exactly yes. So, Brian, would you like another date with Amanda? We'll pay for it. You know, yeah, actually. I honestly didn't think we would ever talk again. But, yeah, I'm into it, and I think we could have a good time still.

Jam session? Yeah, yeah, let's jam out for sure. Well, let's get wild next time and rip that plastic off the furniture. Ooh, wow. I'll make sure to bring the bass next time for our jazz session. What? You guys talking dirty. I can't tell.

Yeah, I can't tell. Ripping plastic off of furniture and slapping the bass. Love it. All right. Well, congratulations. You got another date. Yay. Are you excited?

Yep, I am. And I'm excited, too. Well, congratulations. You got another date. Yay. Are you excited? Yeah, I am. And I'm excited, too. Yeah, we're all excited. So excited. Yeah. And the chairs are excited and the bass is excited and the band's excited. Thank you, guys. No, thank you.

The Jubal Show on demand. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch, right in time for a new season of my podcast, Next Question. I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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