First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - What disgusting thing did this man do to not be getting a call back?

Episode Date: September 28, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".One of our listeners is calling because he isn't getting a call back from a girl he went on a date with! He even admitted that he did something disgusting while on his date and that may be why he is not getting a call back but we don't know for sure and are here to find out!Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Connor, before we get into your date and the reason that you think you're not getting a call back, how long has it been since you went out with Ashley? It was, it's been about a month now, I guess, three, three and a half weeks, something like that. Wow, a long time. So you're just trying three and a half weeks, something like that. Oh, wow. Long time. So you're just trying to do a first date follow up right now. How many times have you tried to get a hold of her since your date?

I'm going to say more than 10. Oh, geez. I'm not empathetic at this point. At least you admit it. Yeah, you said it, not us. Force your guessing. You're definitely being ghosted. All right.

So tell us a little bit about Ashley and your date, and we'll see if we can maybe try to figure out why you're getting ghosteded. All right. So tell us a little bit about Ashley and your date and we'll see if we can maybe try to figure out why you're getting ghosted before we call her. I thought I had a good date lined up with, uh, there's this wine festival kind of close to where I live. And I thought that, I thought that'd be cool. You kind of walk around,

you know, you get samples, you something to talk about. It's like a built in conversation. I liked that one. I didn't like that one. I thought, I thought that would be good.

And, uh, it was good. We were having fun. And, the best part for me was like i love uh 90s r&b and we started talking like 90s r&b and she brought up like i brought up genuine because like tony's my favorite and then she was like tony braxton the heat and that was man dude i love that tape so yeah uh here's where I think I may have gone wrong. And you guys tell me if this is bad or not. My parents were real strict about, like, cleaning your plate and stuff. And so I'm one of those guys that, like, if you don't finish a taco, I'm going to finish it for you.

You going to eat that? If you don't, I am. You can't go in the trash. So maybe this wine festival was a little bit fancier than I'd been anticipating. I don't know if you guys know this wine move, but at this one, they call it a dump cup. You're supposed to sip, taste, and spit. Yeah, you swish it around and you spit it out. And then so at a certain point, I just got this whole cup of wine, this whole cup of perfectly good wine.

Nobody else has drank it. It's only been solely by my mouth. It's basically the same as a cup of wine that I've been sipping from. There's no real difference between that and a little bit of backwash in a cup of wine. No, no. As far as I'm concerned. No, no. Block me back.

This may be where I went wrong. You drank your dump cup, didn't you? Oh. Yeah, I had to. It's perfectly good wine. I agree. By the way, if you knew how much these tickets were, you'd probably drink your dump cup too. Just let me know when he's done.

Yeah. Everybody's taking their headphones off because they don't want to hear you say that you drank that. It's been, I agree, at that point you got all the flavors. I probably would drink it too. If it's my own dump cup, I'll drink it. I wouldn't drink somebody else's dump cup. You didn't drink her dump cup, did you, Connor?

No, no, no. Although I would have if, you know. Depending on how many wines we drink. I'll take yours too. Did she say anything to you when you did it? No. Did she puke in your lap?

Maybe like a little look away. There was maybe a little double take and a look away, but nothing was said. Why not like a brand new glass of wine? Okay, first of all, the line is a million people long, and then they give you a thimble full of whatever it is. You get a thimble full. Right. Okay. so you're just like hey i spent all this money on tickets i sipped all this wine i'm not gonna waste the wine that

i had to spit out for the tasting all right and why wait in line the only thing i would add is the phrase perfectly good perfectly good wine so did you call attention to it like hey check this out i'm kind of wacky i will drink my own dub cup and make a joke out of it or you just picked it up and started drinking it no no i was i was aware of it i tried to do it on the slide but uh one thing i did notice is that you know like i said maybe she maybe she caught it out of the corner of her eye but uh at the end i kind of went in for a kiss and she definitely did turn her mouth away so there's no maybe maybe, you know. And before that, everything was fine.

We were laughing, we were talking, we had the, we had the 90s R&B connection. And then after she noticed me drinking out of the dump cup, I think maybe she was grossed out by that.

Okay. So the dump cup, is that the only thing you can think of that went wrong on your date, maybe? I think so. Everything else was perfect

as far as I'm concerned. It was a good date for me. All right. So it's been about a month and she hasn't responded to any of your phone calls, any of your text messages, nothing?

Yeah, an excessive amount. As I said, it was too much. Okay. All right. Yeah, at this point, you've definitely creeped her out over 10 times. I mean, if it's not that, though,

drinking your regurgitated wine. That could do it. I want to know what it is. Yeah. All right. Well, we'll try to figure it out. Play a song, come back, and then call her

and see why she's not calling you back with your first date follow-up next. Right in the middle of your first date follow-up, if you're just joining us, Connor is on the phone. And Connor went out with a woman named Ashley. He took her to a wine tasting. He said that they had a great time. They bonded over 90s R&B. But did they knock the boots?

No, that's a 90s R&B reference. I like that one. Somebody rocking, knocking the boots. No, they did not at the end of their date. He actually went in for a kiss and she snubbed him on that. He got the cheek instead and he doesn't know why. He thinks the reason he's not getting a call back is because at the wine tasting, he's the only person there that started drinking the dump cup. If you don't know what the dump cup is, it's the cup that you spit your wine into after you swish it around in your mouth.

He only drank his dump cup. He didn't start going around and drinking other people's spit your wine into after you swish it around in your mouth. And he only drank his dump cup. He didn't start going around and drinking other people's spit out wine. That's funny. But she did see that and he noticed that her mood kind of changed after that. So he thinks he might have grossed her out. We're about to call her and try to figure out if that is the reason or if there's another reason why he's getting ghosted right now. All right, Connor, you ready to call her?

Yes, please. Let's do it. All right. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Ashley, please? This is Ashley. Ashley, how are you? This is Jubal from The Jubal Show. It's a radio show.

This is Alex from the same show. This is Christian also from the same show. This is Bennett from the same show. Yeah, and it's The Jubal Show. It's a radio show. I don't know if you've ever heard of it before, but hi. It's a radio show. Surprise.

Yeah, I have. Hi. Hello. Hi. What's up? What's going on, guys? Not too much. It's hot in studio, and I'm a little tired because of the heat.

You know, you drive a baby around in a car to make them fall asleep. You turn the heat up, and then they just get a little tuckered out and fall asleep. That's what I feel like right now. You turn the heat up. You just put them in the car. Do you? Oh, I don't know. I've never had a baby. I just asleep, you turn the heat up and then they just get a little tuckered out and fall asleep. That's what I feel like right now. You turn the heat up, you just put them in the car. Do you? Oh, I don't know. I've never had a baby. I just assumed that you put the heat on. Ashley, do you have a baby? No. Okay. But would you put the heat

on or would you just put them in the car and drive them around to make them fall asleep? I don't know. Probably both. She's like, what's happening? You ever been hot and tired? Hot and yes. My eyes are all sticky because it's hot in here and I'm just tired.

Okay, so let's get to the point, though. It's not about me being tired. Nope. You need to take a nap? Yeah, I do. I might take a nap in the middle of this. So if I just stop talking, Ashley, someone else will handle it for sure. Dude, we'll go to bed earlier.

Okay. Ashley, before I fall asleep. Wow, do you know why we're calling? What? No. I guess just talk about the heat? No. No, it's not that. We're calling to see if you can come fix the air conditioning in the studio is what it is.

Yeah. Are you an HVAC expert? Yeah. No, that is not in my skill set. Sorry. We're calling you because we got an email about you from No, that is not in my skill set. Sorry. We're calling you because we got an email about you from a dude that you went on a date with. His name is Connor. Oh.

Yeah. Okay. Okay. So we do a segment on the show. I don't know if you heard it or not. Called the First Date Follow-Up. It's where if you go out on a date with someone and they end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and find out what happened. And Connor told us about your date.

He said that you have been ghosting him for almost a month now and he's wondering why. So we're trying to figure it out for him. You mind telling us a little bit about Connor? Yeah. I mean, it's been a while. He kind of blew up my phone there for a little bit, but I thought it was over now. He calls the radio. Yeah.

Yeah. I mean, there's not a lot to say. He seemed like, you know, a nice enough guy and all of that. And we had some stuff in common, which was pretty cool. Yeah. I'll tell you what he told us.

He said that you guys went to a wine tasting and that he really liked you a lot and you guys bonded over 90s R&B. He said that that was fun. And then he said that you've been. And you guys bonded over 90s R&B. He said that that was fun. And then he said that you've been ghosting him ever since. Yeah. So it was a fun day or whatever. But then I realized he had to show his ID to be able to drink.

And I realized that his ID, it was his picture. But it was a different name, a different address. It was like a fake ID. Wait, so he's under 21? Or he's not who he says he is. I don't know. I was thinking that too. I've been on some of these Tinder dates

that are super sketch, and it just weirded me out. Oh, yeah. Yeah, I don't need that. He thought it might be because he was drinking the wine that he had switched around and spit out. I totally forgot about that.

How could you forget? Because at the time I was thinking like, is he a fugitive of the law? I was kind of worried about that. I was a little distracted. Yeah, that was gross. So when you were on the date, did you like end up asking

him or like? No, I just got out of there. If I went on a date with someone to a wine tasting and they showed up with an id that looked fake and it wasn't their name it wasn't their address but their picture i would be sketched out and then if they started drinking their own spit i'd be i'd be like absolutely what am i doing with this maniac yeah exactly yeah i mean that's exactly how i felt it was really weird so i don't blame you i don't need this yeah okay well that explains why you're ghosting him and also i want to let you know

that whoever he is he's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk great uh hi connor if that is your real name good hey ashley yes that is my name. How's it going? It's fine. I can definitely explain the ID thing, but I just want to mention first that you guys could have gone without mentioning the dumb cup at this point. When the ID came up, the dumb cup didn't need to come up. Sorry about that. So my name is Connor, and everything I told you about myself is 100% true. Well, that's good. Okay, well, then why do you have a fake ID?

Yeah. Are you not 21? Doesn't add up. Yes. I am a legal drinking age adult, and I knew I'd have to prove that at this wine festival, but I had actually, I'd left my ID at the gym,

and the gym was going to be closed. I wasn't going to be able to get my license back in time, so I kind of took advantage of a certain fact of my life, which is that I have an identical twin brother. I have an identical twin. And so I just swung by his house. I borrowed his license.

That's funny. And that's why the name was different. You know, it wasn't my address. That's all it was. Okay. Well, you could have just said that. I mean, we were both handing our IDs over at the same time. Like, I can see

your ID. But who even looks at an ID? I'm giving an ID. I don't look at the person's ID. I don't even look at, you know. But I feel like if I was doing that, I would tell the person I was with, oh my god, funny story, by the way. Look, I have to use this. You know, my idea of my brother. Yeah, if they saw it, right? Yeah, I think I mentioned just the same. I look at IDs because you should

see some of the weirdos I've been out with. I mean, online dating is a hellscape. And so it's as simple as that. I have a twin. I'm not, you know, on the run from the law or anything weird like that. Well, that's good. Good to know. That's good.

Ashley, I need to remind you, though, he did drink his own spit. Yeah. You still have that in all the time. You don't have to. I don't know. I mean, it's good to like clear this up and everything, but I think I'm, I'm still, you know, I'm, I'm good with no second. Are you sure?

If you like to go on a second, you're not like a serial killer or 16 years old. Like what if we pay for it though? Ashley, would you, if you, would you like to go out with Connor again? We'll pay for it. Um, no, I'm, I? Ashley, would you like to go out with Connor again? We'll pay for it. No, I'm good. Thank you.

Oh, man. No, I understand. I understand. But, you know, at least I got to say on the radio that I drank my own bodily fluids. That's fair. Yeah, yeah. It's fun. It's fun, isn't it? I've said that a lot on the radio, so that's fine.

That's the best thing that came out of this call. The Jubal Show on demand. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast. Next question. I'm bringing in some F.O.K.'s, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun,

thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines,

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