First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - What do Moon Signs and Mustard have to do with Kane getting ghosted?

Episode Date: May 7, 2025

Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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A week or two. How many times have you reached out to her? That'll kind of help too. I reached out last, I think about two days ago, but I've probably reached out about two, three times. Okay, let's talk about the date. How did you guys meet? How was it? Well, we met through a mutual friend. And I mean, at least from my perspective, I thought

it was a pretty good time. We got burgers and fries at this super chill retro diner and honestly, it was nothing fancy. It was just nice and easy vibes. She picked it, which I liked. I mean, I love a woman who can commit to a greasy spoon. Yeah, fair. Okay. Yeah. I mean, I think we had great conversation. And at least like I said, I swear, I thought we were vibing.

We talked about how we both love the color orange, which at least to my understanding is not a common favorite color. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, and at the end of the day She even let me eat her pickle, which I thought was really Everybody needs a friend who doesn't like their pickle. Did you guys kiss or anything after the date? No, we did that little, you know, thanks for the night hug, kind of side hug at the end of the night.

But other than that, no, not much more physically. How did it end? Did she sound like she was ready for another date after that one? I mean, I didn't really get like one way or the other. It just kind of seemed like a pretty casual Ending you know not positive negative. Is there anything that could have gone wrong on the day? I mean Nothing that's really coming to mind honestly now nothing at all

I mean my family works in politics. I brought that up pretty early. I know some people can be a little weirded out by that. Okay. Yeah. I mean, politics are always dicey, especially on a first date. Did you talk about your family's politics on that date too, or you just mentioned that that's what they do?

I mean, I was trying to do as little as possible, but she did keep asking questions despite the briefness of my answers Maybe maybe yeah, they work in politics. So when she asked about them, what do they do? It's kind of hard to Totally. Yeah, did she tell you hers or was she just asking questions? No, just asking questions. I'm not even sure where she stands, honestly. Okay. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you

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is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Leah so we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him. But first Kane, why don't you remind us about your date real quick. Yeah, sure. No worries. So, you know, basically we got the burgers and fries at this nice chill retro diner and. You know, we had some great conversations. We've talked about some common interests and you know, just kind of ended like naturally.

All right, and you really don't have any idea why you're getting ghosted, huh? Other than my political parents, nothing I could really think of. Okay, my political parents. Sounds like a sitcom. It does. All right, you ready for us to call her? Yeah.

Okay, here we go. (*phone ringing*) Hello? Hi, may I speak to Leah, please? This is Leah. Hey, Leah, how are you? This is the Jubal Show. It's a radio show. Hi to Leah please? This is Leah. Hey Leah, how are you? This is the Jubal show. It's a radio show. Hi Leah, my name is Nina.

Hi, I'm Victoria. And my name is Jubal. How are you? Hi, I'm good. How are you? Great. Thank you for asking. Have you ever listened to the show before?

Yes, I have. Have you ever heard of first aid follow up? I have. Yes. Have you ever heard a first date follow-up? Yeah, so you know that's the segment where if you go somebody they can email us to get you on the phone and ask Why you're being ghosted? Yeah Well, guess what we have somebody emailed us about you Are you ghosting girl? This is about Kane isn't it? It has to be Kane. Yes it is about Kane. Kane emailed us we talked to him a little bit about your date he said he

thought you guys really hit it off and he has no idea why you're not calling him back and it's been like two weeks. So he's a Virgo and I just I can't do it. What? I mean I mean, okay That's not the only reason but it was the first red flag But I'm a Gemini and that combo is just like a cosmic disaster We're just wider differently like he's very grounded and analytical. I'm like flowy and talkative He likes structure. I like chaos I knew it wasn't going to work when he started stacking the sugar packets by height at the

table. So like the Virgo thing was the first red flag. Then it was the stacking of the sugar packets. Then he put mustard on his French fries and not ketchup, not ranch, yellow mustard. And he didn't even explain it. He just casually dipped it like it was normal That bothers you Yeah, I tried to look past the Virgo thing but the mustard was the universe telling me run and I trust fine So the mustard really put it over the top

Yes That was a kind of the final straw Okay, what do they say about people that eat mustard on their french fries? Ew. Great. Okay. And that's it. Like everything. What about, you know, just his personality? Was it cool other than him being a Virgo and dipping his french fries in mustard? Yeah. I mean, we could be friends. I just don't see like with all those things. I just listed there being like a romantic connection We're just wired differently. Were you attracted to him? I mean he's an attractive

Person I just don't think he's like my person Thank you for being honest with us. I appreciate that Thank you, and Leah Kane is actually on the phone listening Leah, Kane is actually on the phone listening. Oh my God. Of course you're on the phone. What would you say to that Kane? Um, hi Leah. So it wasn't the political parents.

It was mustard and star signs that did me in. Kane, you're great. You're really, really great, but it's like the Virgo Gemini dynamic. You'd spend our whole relationship with reorganizing my spice cabinet while I'm trying to plan like a spontaneous trip to Tulum. That sounds kind of balanced to me. I bring snacks and an identity and you bring chaos and a passport. Aren't you getting ahead of yourself though?

Like don't you need to know if like, cause I feel like you're planning right now, Leah, for the future to be so unstable before you even know it. I don't know. Like he brings mustard to fries and he brings secretive energy. Secretive energy. I mean the way I was raised, it's not secretive. It's respectful. I didn't want to bore you with political drama on a first date.

I like the thing that's called emotional intelligence. That's called Virgo energy. You're always trying to like control the flow. And you're a Gemini talking in metaphors and checking costar mid combo. Because it worked! Checking what mid-convo? What is CoStar? It's an app, I used to have it.

It's an astrological app. Did you do that, Leah? Did you check your astrology? Yeah, of course. Why wouldn't I? Yeah, we were literally talking about a second date when she pulled out her phone and started changing the conversation to tomorrow's horoscopes. Ugh. when she pulled out her phone and started changing the conversation to tomorrow's horoscopes.

So just to recap, you're literally ghosting me over horoscopes and condiments. If I wouldn't have checked it, I wouldn't have known. Of course I'm going to check it. It also shows me like both of our charts and like the compatibility and everything. It's very thorough. Leah, do you use charts for everything in your life or just dating? Pretty much everything, yeah. Is it usually right? Yeah, very right. I mean, it's thousands of years old for a reason.

And this is the same person who says, I'm too organized. And there you go. It's that Virgo energy again. I mean, I got to be honest with you guys, I barely even know my horoscope. I don't even know what that means. It's also not really a horoscope. It's a birth chart. Well, it's kind of like we're talking. We'll just talk. We're talking to different languages and like, hey,

I'm so sorry you're attractive and you're kind, but I need someone who won't judge me for like talking to my clients. And I really think you will. Wait, wait, wait, wait. You talk to your plants? Any green thumb knows that you need to talk to your plants to get them to grow. And when you talk to your plants, do you hear responses? Well, it's obviously not like a human response, but it's an energy.

Yeah. How do you feel about that, Kane? I mean, I thought the horoscopes was a little off putting, but now we have mother nature here speaking to plants. I don't even know where to go with that. I mean, I'll give you a second chance. You can meet my fern and I can see what kind of energy it gives me after and then I'll know for sure. All right. His fern code. Leah see what kind of energy it gives me after and then I'll know for sure All right

Leah would you like another date with Kane? We'll pay for it. I Mean we can try I I Do feel like he's going to be more compatible with like a grounded tourist who appreciates mustard and like bullet point plans But worst-case scenario we end up being friends, you know, but I have no problem like seeing how my plants interact with him. Oh, okay. Kane. That's great news.

Kane second date. I mean, I would consider it. I have to ask though. Does the fern have a name? Yeah. Miguel. Oh, okay. What do you think, Kane?

Give it another shot and meet Miguel the Fern gotta do it? Yeah, I don't know you guys we that might be too much for me as you said like I'm too much of a Virgo for this I wish you and Miguel the best Okay, yeah, I know this is what I said from the start, but you know Kane no ill will if I ever see you in the streets I'll definitely say hi. Like, it's not your fault, you're a Virgo. Please. All right.

Okay. Well, good luck, guys. Okay. Jubal's first date follow-up. I found out I was related to the guy that I was dating. I don't feel emotions correctly. I collect my roommates' toenails and fingernails. Those were some callers from my call-in podcast,

Therapy Gecko. It's a show where I take phone calls from anonymous strangers as a fake gecko therapist and try to learn a little bit about their lives. I know that's a weird concept, but I promise it's very interesting. Check it out for yourself by searching for Therapy Gecko on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,

or wherever you get your podcasts. Yo, K-Pop fans, are you ready? It's your boy, Bom Han, and I'm bringing you the K-Factor, the podcast that takes you straight into the heart of K-Pop. We're talking music, idols, exclusive interviews, and even the real behind-the-scenes K-Pop stories. Plus, you're the fans, you're part of the show, and you can get a chance to jump in, share your opinions,

and be part of the conversation like never before. And trust me, you never know where we might pop up next. So listen to the K Factor starting on April 16 on iHeartRadio Apple Podcast or wherever you get your podcast. This isn't just a podcast. It's a K-pop experience. Are you in? Let's go.

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I had a panic attack on a conference call. Knowing that she had six months to live, I was no longer pretending that this was my best friend. So this Mental Health Awareness Month, take that extra bit of care of your wellbeing. Listen to the psychology of your twenties on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

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At first he didn't remember her, but then he realized they had a one night stand right before we started dating. Wait, but do we have proof he's the dad? To hear the explosive finale, listen to the OK Storytime podcast on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. You're listening to an iHeart Podcast.