First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - What happens why there are multiple reasons why you might not be getting a call back?

Episode Date: October 12, 2022

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".We have a listener on the phone who is getting ghosted by a girl he went on date with, and you know the date has gone bad if there are multiple reasons for not getting a call back! We are going to see if we can pin point of why he might not be getting a call back in this First Date Follow Up!Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The Jubal Show on demand. First day follow-up. Justin is on the phone today for a first day follow-up and he's getting ghosted by Olivia Why is Olivia ghosting him? I don't know, you don't know

Justin doesn't know, only Olivia knows And that's why we're about to talk to Justin real quick Find out what their date was like Find out why he thinks she's not calling him back And then give Olivia a call And see if we can get the answer for Justin And maybe get him another date What's up Justin?

Hey, how's it going? Pretty good, man. How are you? Great. How are you holding up? I've had better days. You know, I'm really feeling Olivia. And I'm kind of at a loss here for why she's ghosting me.

I thought we had a great date. You know, everything went swell. And I still know it's the weirdest thing. I've never had this happen to me before. You've never been ghosted before? Never, ever. I'm a pretty solid guy, stand-up guy. And, you know, I try to do everything by the book.

And I thought I treated her with respect and as a woman. And, you know, I thought we had a great time from the time that we met. It was really organic the way things came together. No phone calls. She's not returning. Text messages. She's not returning.

I even reached out on her Facebook. I tried her Instagram. It's nothing. I tried email. And at this point, I just want to make sure she's okay. You know, tell us about your date then. So, all right. So we basically met through a Reddit thread, um, about things to do in the city and ended up chatting back and forth for some time. And, um, you know, it was good conversation. So eventually we decided to hook up and go out on a date.

I didn't know people met on Reddit. Yeah, I don't think people normally meet on Reddit per se. I just happened to be on there on a thread like, hey, things to do around the city. And I saw that she commented. And we were going back and forth. This is really unconventional, unconventional way to meet and you know decided to talk and you know we decided to try out this um zipline thing you went ziplining oh yeah it was great it was really uh it was it was pretty romantic i i must

say that the views and you know yeah yeah yeah, yeah, it was really nice. And afterwards, we did a little hiking and we had lunch. And, you know, it was really just a nice, quiet date. The only thing I could think of that could probably maybe scare her off was, you know, I have some pretty stinky feet at times. Oh, dear. A little corn chip in the air, but that's the only thing I can think of. Don't ever say that again. You said there was a corn chip in the

air? Do you mean smell or like one actually flew off your foot? No, no, just a little stinky feet, you know. That's odd. But if you know that you tend to have some stinky feet, why would you unleash those bad boys? Well, here's the thing.

I didn't think they were going to be like that at the time. What did she say to you? Yeah, well, at one point when I took my shoes off, she said, what is that smell? And I didn't want to tell her it was my feet because she didn't know. I just said, oh, maybe it's something coming out of the grass or you know I hope that she didn't catch on I did get a kiss on the cheek. Oh, that's nice. Yeah. So I thought, you know, I was in there like swimwear. I don't know. I don't know what happened.

I just don't know what happened. Everything was great. We were supposed to get together again and nothing. That was it. It's like she disappeared off of the face of the earth. The only thing you can think of is the corn smell from your feet. You're going to really tick off her

if you say that again. Please stop. All right. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you then, okay? We'll see if we can figure out

why she's ghosting you. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her and find out if it is your stinky feet or if it's something else, okay?

All right. All right. We'll do it next. Right in the middle of your first eight follow-up, if you're just joining us, Justin is on the phone and Justin went out with olivia and now olivia's ghosting justin and he doesn't know

exactly why he thinks that he might have gotten ghosted because hey justin how do you describe your feet again when they get a little funky it's a little it's a little musty corn. Oh, stop. Justin and Olivia went hiking. He said they had a great time. Did a little picnic type action. She took off her shoes. He took off his. And he said that it was not a good day for his feet.

And she might have been grossed out by the smell or might have known it was him. Even though he blamed it on the bush. He said that bush over there must smell like corn on my feet but he did get a kiss on the cheek at the end of the night or evening at the end of the day and did she say like hey let's go out again yeah she said i'll text you and you know she never did so yeah maybe maybe well we'll see we'll see what happened we're gonna give her a phone call right now and then find out if it is your feet or something else that turned her off. Okay. All righty. All right, here we go. Good luck.

Hello. Hi, may I speak to Olivia, please? This is she. Who's calling? Hey, what's up, Olivia? How are you? This is the Jubal Show. It's a radio show, and my name is Jubal.

Mine is Alex. I'm Christian Gray Snow. Mine is Bennett. We're calling you because... Oh, are you guys going to give me money? No. Maybe Justin has money, and we don't know that. Oh, Justin?

Yeah. Is that why you're calling me about Justin? Uh-huh. Yes. You figured it out. The guy you went on a date with named Justin, he emailed us for a first date follow-up because you're not, because you've been ghosting him since your date and he wants to know why, so.

Okay. All right. Just between us, if you really want to know and there were two reasons well first of all he can't grow facial hair at all like he had yeah he had uh the laser hair removal stuff done on his face you know so because because he didn't want to shave anymore right so I heard girls doing this at like their bikini line or something you know so because because he didn't want to shave anymore right so i've heard girls doing this at like their bikini line or something you know something discreet but i i never heard of a guy doing that on his whole face so um yeah i mean i i don't like a baby face look forever i

like a little facial hair you know and then you said there was something else? There was another big one. Oh, okay. Yeah, this one's kind of hard to overlook. Oh, no. He has a really, really big tattoo on his forearm. And what is it of? The tattoo was actually, it's like a woman's, you know, the JJ, her downstairs. Are you serious? What?

And it's big, too. It's really big. And it is graphic. What? On the forearm. Whose is it? Yes. And well, you know what?

I was like, well, that's very creative for a tattoo. What inspired you to do that? And he actually admitted it's his ex-girlfriend. Are you kidding? What? That's bizarre. It was that big? Is it a life-size replica, though? He claimed he got it because he lost a bet, right?

But in my mind, I'm thinking, thinking okay how long did she have to pose in front of the tattoo guy to get that just right oh my god if you're going somewhere and you're going to a pool party or something i mean i can't take him out like that i mean that's it that's there's no tequila in the world it would make me tattoo a penis on my forearm. Hey, everybody look, that's my boyfriend. Yeah, so it's just so awkward to me. You know, it's really kind of crazy. Okay, so that's why you didn't want to see that tattoo all the time.

Well, yeah, I mean, obviously what you're going to do, take him home for the holidays. Hey, mom and dad check out my new man's ex yeah good Olivia he's actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you oh yeah yeah hey Olivia um good to hear your voice well hi yeah the. The voice is very nice on him, isn't it? Yeah, I didn't know that the tattoo was an issue. I thought it was my feet. You shouldn't have said that. Yeah, you could have kept that part to yourself, bud.

Wait, what do you have tattooed on your feet? No, I thought it was the corn smell that came from my feet. What did I tell you about that? Dig in the hole deeper. What does that mean? A corn smell? Okay, no, don't tell me. You don't want to know, trust.

What does your forearm smell like? I was going to say, stop blaming it on your feet, blame it on that tattoo. Oh, no! I am out of here. It's not really that big of a big deal. You know, I think it's something we can get past. I don't know. How can we get past that?

I mean, I'm just trying to look at big picture. What are you going to do about it? I mean, you know, I can always just cover it up or wear a long sleeve. You know, it was one of those poor bets. You know, I lost a bet and, you know, it was a drunken poor bets you know i lost a bet and you know it was a drunken thing you know how do you forget about a huge thingy on your phone on your arm you see it every day i you know it's just one of those things where i actually i just become a part of me and i live with it and didn't think anything of it honestly um. And, you know, I'm not like somebody that's just been out playing the field and, you know,

dating a lot of people. So I can totally get rid of it. I'm down for some laser removal if I have to. I think that might be a good move. Something else. All right. Well, hey, Olivia, would you like to go out with Justin again on another date? We'll pay for it.

He's down to get the tattoo removed. Okay. Well, I mean, if you're really serious about wanting to get it removed, I think it's great. I'll go out with you again. Congratulations. I'm confused about one thing now. What did you talk about with a corn thing? What is that?

Please trust me. You don't want to hear. Do you have a tattoo of corn somewhere? I don't understand. If only. Please, trust me, you don't want to hear. Do you have a tattoo of corn somewhere? I don't understand. If only. Oh, trust me, it's nothing.

I made a little joke about some musty corn tortillas earlier. Wouldn't make any sense. You don't even want to know about it. Okay. Yeah, you want to believe

him on that one. Okay. It gets worse from the arm tattoo. Yeah, maybe I don't want to know. Yeah, if you can even believe him on that one. Okay. It gets worse from the arm tattoo. Yeah, maybe I don't want to know. Yeah, if you can even believe it, yes, it does. Okay, well, I'm excited to see you again. I think this could be great.

Yeah, y'all can make it a Taco Tuesday date. Oh, gross. The Jubal Show on demand. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. The Jubal Show on demand. Ed Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. catch John Stewart back in action on The Daily Show and in your ears with The Daily Show Ears

Edition podcast from his hilarious satirical takes on today's politics and entertainment to the unique voices of correspondents and contributors it's your perfect companion to stay on top of what's happening now plus you'll get special content just for podcast listeners like in-depth interviews and a roundup of the week's top headlines. Listen on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.

That's right. Every Monday and Wednesday, we share our personal journeys navigating our 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engage in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations. From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that will resonate with your experiences, Decisions Decisions is going to be your go-to source for the open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections. Tune in and join the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.