First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - What is the sexiest job out there? And what does it have to do with this First Date Follow Up?

Episode Date: January 25, 2023

First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".What is the sexiest job out there? You might be suprised what we found! In today's First Date Follow Up one of our listeners is not getting a call back from a date she went on, so we are going to call him and find out why he is not calling her back and also find out what the sexiest job is in the world!Leave a rating and review wherever you listen. It will help the show out in a big way. If that's not your thing, you can find us on social media here:https://instagram.com/thejubalshowhttps://twitter.com/thejubalshowhttps://www.tiktok.com/@thejubalshowSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. The Jubal Show on demand. First date follow up. Millie is on the phone today for a first date follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Gio.

What's up Millie? How are you? I'm okay, guys, but thanks for having me. Isn't it nice when you come on the phone and three people go, aww. Thanks for on your side. Aw, thank you. So before we get

into your date with Gio, tell us a little bit tell us how long it's been since your date. It's been like, gosh, two weeks now, I think. I've been ghosted. Yeah. How many times have you tried to get a hold of him? I reached out like once.

I'm a big believer of like letting the guy pursue. So like I reached out and when I didn't hear back, I was like, oh gosh, that's not, that's a ghost. Like, so yeah, I was like, oh, gosh, that's that's that's not that's a ghost. So, yeah, pretty clear on that. Maybe you're getting ghosted because you didn't reach out and he feels like you're not interested. Well, I did reach out once, but he just never responded. My point.

What did you say when you reached out? Hey, I had a great time. Hope your week is going well. And like you never, never responded. Yeah. OK. All right. Well, tell us a little bit about your date with geo then yeah yeah yeah he um so we went to a steakhouse and like took a walk that was the date so it's really nice but we had like tons of time to talk

which is my favorite okay and the conversation was good oh my gosh so good i i he's i mean like he was super cute i had a really fun time he picked me up um like in this really nice car so like immediately i was like oh provider vibes love that um all right so he had a nice car you like that yeah i mean like i knew i recognized it immediately it's a like a 1968 mercury cooper like my granddad had the exact same car. And so I was really impressed by that. And like, also he dressed well, it was just,

it was a really good date. I mean, we, we talked a lot about like, um, growing up and like going, like getting odd jobs to, you know,

make it work and making rent through the years. And like, he was just, he was really humble. And, um, yeah, we,

like we laughed a lot. He had a good sense of humor. So there's a lot of positives. Sounds like he was easy also to talk to, which is kind of nice to have. Yeah, totally. Totally. I felt really comfortable with him. So why do you think he's ghosting you then?

Yeah. Now that I've like had two weeks, like as a woman that's been out a little bit, I'm worried I may have come off ditzy. Okay. I just, yeah, like it's just something that I think I can do. It's dumb. I get like nervous on dates and I think I default to be like a little ditzy. Like at one point we were, I was like, do they have daiquiris here?

And I was like, I don't even know how to spell daiquiri. And it just, I don't know. I don't know if I like came across this. And your defense daiquiri is a hard word. It is. Okay, thank you. Thank you. It's not like you said, I don't know how to spell and.

And I was spelling be champion in fourth grade. I'm just saying. Yeah. And even like at one point, like I, you know, I got so excited about the car. Like I was, I was a little too excited. And so I just downplayed like how much I knew about the car.

You know, like just trying to, I don't know, dumb myself down. So I'm worried that that's the reason. Okay, so maybe he was just like, wow, okay, she's like fun but not very smart. Stupid, yeah. Okay, I was trying to find a way to be nice but you said it.

It's embarrassing, yeah. All right, and how did the date end? Did you guys make out? It wasn't like a big make out. There was just like a kiss. It was a little, listen, it was a little awkward. I think first dates with chemistry can be a little awkward with like that but

it was a really sweet kiss and it felt like if you got me, if you pulled me aside after the date and said, are you going to get a call from this guy? I'd be like 1000%. Like it was, it was a solid date. You guys. All right.

Well, we'll see if we can figure out why he's ghosting you. Then we'll play a song, come back and then call him and see if we can get you another date. Well, if you still want one after you hear why he's ghosting. Okay. Okay. Thanks. All right.

Play a song. Come back. Do your first day. Follow up next. You're just joining us for today's first date follow-up. Millie is on the phone, and Millie isn't getting a call back from a dude named Gio. They went out for steak and a walk, which is a nice date. Love it.

She said that they had great conversation. She really liked him. He had an awesome car. What kind of car was it again, Millie? Oh, the car that he picked me up in was a 1968 Mercury Cougar. 1968 Mercury Cougar. And I guess Millie's grandfather had that same car, so she's been a fan of that car. The reason that Millie thinks she's not getting a call back is maybe because she was nervous and she really liked him.

She might have come across a little ditzy and he might have been turned off by that. There's nothing else you can think of? Yeah, there's like nothing else I can think of. i've replayed it a lot in my head okay well we'll dial this phone right now and see if we can figure it out for you here we go hello hi may i speak to Gio, please? Yeah, this is Gio. Gio, how are you, man? This is Jubal. I host a radio show called The Jubal Show.

And this is Victoria from The Jubal Show as well. And Christian Gray Snow and Surprise, also from the same show, The Jubal Show. Why are you calling? I'm calling you today because we do a segment on our show called The First Date Follow-Up. What it is is if you go out on a date with somebody and end up not calling them back,

they can email us to get you on the phone and ask what happened. So you recently went out on a date with somebody and you're ghosting them. Is this about Millie? Ding, ding, ding. Yes, it is about Millie.

So man, I can't believe you guys told me about this. Yeah. So she, you know, she emailed us and we talked to her about your date. She really liked you. She thought you were great, and she's wondering why you're ghosting her.

Can you tell us? Would you mind? Yeah, I mean, she was great. I just feel bad that I misrepresented myself a bit. You misrepresented yourself? What do you mean? I don't know why I did this, but I kind of faked something.

You faked something? What do you mean? She didn't tell us the date went that far. She said you guys ended with a kiss. Yeah. No, nothing like that. Not to the point of faking things. What did you fake? I actually borrowed the car

that I took her out in from my uncle. Oh. So you showed up in your uncle's car, and I'm guessing you didn't tell her, this is my uncle's car. And she was way too excited about the car that is actually not yours. Now you're getting it. Gotcha. We talked to her, and she did tell us how awesome that car was.

So she was into the car and you knew that obviously. And that's the thing. Like I, um, I guess I felt like, you know, it's not a match if she only likes me for the car. So that's kind of how the date fell.

She just got so excited about it, you know? So you feel like she only liked you and was only going out with you because, uh, or for the car? No, I just, I, I don't know. I couldn't tell if she was excited to be with me or excited to be in the car or if her enthusiasm was, you know, was it for me or for, for my uncle's car? I had no idea. When you guys agreed to go out, she didn't know about the car, right? Exactly. I didn't like put a picture of me in the car, you know, online to get her to go out she didn't know about the car right exactly i didn't like put a picture

of me in the car you know online to get her to go out with me i want to think about that because it seems like it's probably a cool car honestly you know you so she didn't see the car until you showed up no and we had great conversation it just kept coming back to the car uh that's so i just was a little confused okay so you think maybe she's materialistic then and just into that kind of stuff or what? Yeah, maybe, you know, she didn't come across like that, but it was also a first date and the car stuff just made me think that maybe, maybe that's all she cared about. So that's why you decided to ghost her? Yeah, I just, yeah, it just, it felt like she was more into the car than me.

Well, thanks for telling us why you, um, why are you ghosting her? I appreciate that, man. Again, she, she was more into the car than me. Well, thanks for telling us why you're ghosting her. I appreciate that, man. Again, she was great. I just felt like maybe she cared about the car a little too much. Since you were honest with us, I'm going to be honest with you. Okay. Millie is actually on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. Hey, Gio.

I actually heard all that. Hey, Millie. this is pretty awkward. Yeah. I mean, I had a really good time with you. I was excited about the car, but like, yeah, I'm sorry. Did you really think I was only interested in the car but like yeah I'm sorry did you really think I was only interested in the car or I know I mean you just heard me I never felt that you were only interested in the car I just I I saw how excited you got about it and

you know we had a great time I really enjoyed talking to you but you kept mentioning the car throughout the night. So I just, you know, I thought maybe that impressed you more than me, and that's why you kept mentioning it. So I guess, you know what, I guess I'm sorry I was a little insecure about it. Oh, that's great. No, I mean, like, I get it. I was definitely talking about the car a lot.

But, like, the reason I was talking about it a lot, Gio, is first of all, it's an amazing car. But the minute I saw it, like my granddad had the exact same car, the exact same model. I'm pretty sure the same year, like just all of it. So I just, I don't know. It really, that was why I was excited. It was like more emotionally based than like me just being excited about a car.

Does that make sense? That makes, I mean, that makes a whole lot of sense. And I can totally understand that now. And I would be super excited to seeing my granddad's car, you know? So I get that. And, you know, I just, I wanted to borrow a car. And of course, the car I borrowed, to try to impress you, is the one car that blows you out of the water

and gives you all these memories. Yeah, who wouldn't? Nobody could have planned for that one. You decided to borrow a car and not tell her, and it happens to be a car that her grandfather actually had. It's the only car she cares about. Yeah, well, no, I mean, the conversation with you was much more exciting to me than the car,

but I totally get that. Like, it would seem funny that I keep talking about the car. And I just want to like make it crystal clear. You know, I didn't not tell you that the car was my uncle's to hide it from you or, or, you know, uh, be kind of shady. I just, I just didn't tell you because, you know, I wanted to impress you on our first date. Oh, that's actually really cute.

But honesty is the best policy. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, exactly. Like, but yeah, I guess if we ever did a second date, I don't, would you just make sure to bring your uncle's car? Because, you know, that backseat is pretty big. Oh, oh, hello. Hey, in that case,

would you like to go out with Millie on another date? We'll pay for it. Oh, I'm definitely down for that. But I think Millie and I are going to go on a few more dates. Oh, I love that. Oh, that's safe. What kind of car do you actually drive, Gio? I have a Toyota RAV4 and it's very clean and very nice. Well, that sounds like a nice car. RAV4s are nice. I'm happy with that. Okay. Well, I mean, I'm an insurance guy. I mentioned this, you know this Millie.

So it's a very safe car. You know, Ben, Volvos, it was a toss-up. There you go. Love a Volvo. Sounds like Gio's a sensible dude, too, Millie. Absolutely. Well, you being sensible is definitely more attractive and exciting to me than, you know, some classic car, so. Oh. Well, if you like that, just wait till I show you all the coupons that I clip before.

This is getting too sexy. We have to let you guys go. But congratulations. The Jubal Show on demand. Hey, everyone. It's Katie Couric. Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast. Next question. I'm bringing in

some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out, like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon. But we're also going to have some fun, thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God. We're going to take some viewer questions as well. I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about? Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric, on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show, which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast. Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's

biggest headlines, exclusive extended interviews and more. Now this is a second term we can all get behind. Listen to The Daily Show Ears Edition on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. Welcome to Decisions Decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid. Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love. That's right. Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, we share our personal journeys navigating our 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engage in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations. From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests

to relatable stories that will resonate with your experiences. Decisions Decisions is going to be your go-to source for the open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections. Tune in and join in the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network, iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.