First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - What was he adjusting throughout the date?

Episode Date: March 12, 2025

Mia is ghosting Ethan, and he needs our help to find out why. The reason is.. well... an adjustment.  Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Ethan is on the phone today for our first date of follow-up and he's getting ghosted by Mia. So in a few minutes we'll call her and see if she tells why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date if he still wants one. But first Ethan, how long has it been since you heard from Mia? Oh man, it's been a minute.

Like I just, I don't know what's going on. Like it's been like, you know, a week or so. So I, I kind of nervous about all this. Like I don't know what the problem could be. Okay. Well, was the date good? How did that go? We went rock climbing.

So it was a lot of fun. I mean, it was my idea and you know she said that she liked being active so I was like hey why not. Did you go actual rock climbing or do like a rock climbing gym? Oh we went to like a gym. Oh okay. Still hard. Right and like I almost fell once but we just laughed it off and I thought it was, you know, just a fun way to break the ice.

So. Did it seem like she enjoyed it? Yeah, yeah. It's also a good way because like near death experiences are supposed to make people horny. What? Really? Yeah.

I could see that. What? But did she fall though? I almost fell, I almost died. Take me home. Wait, it's like that. But did she fall?? I almost fell, I almost died, take me home. Wait, just like that. But did she fall? Cause if she didn't fall,

then it might've been a little bit off center, you know? Maybe that was part of it. And maybe she's just afraid to come back, but I don't know. But really guys, like she was awesome. Like, I mean, she was brilliant. Like, and we had good conversation. It wasn't just surface level.

Did you guys talk while you were rock climbing? Here and there, like while we were rock climbing, we were just kind of focused on that. But afterwards we went to a nearby smoothie bar afterwards and that's where we did like most of the talking. Cause like, I mean, it was, it was for over an hour and you know, that was, that was really cool. But I mean, she just knows everything about like finance,

which I totally don't. And I mean, she just made it seem cool. And her smile was really cool. But she just knows everything about like finance, which I totally don't. And I mean, she just made it seem cool. And her smile was amazing, guys. Like she just lit up the room. How did you guys get into a conversation about finance at Smoothies? Well, she works in finance. So like I thought that was really cool. And just because all your cars got declined.

cool and just cause all your cars got declined that would be a good reason to like not want to date but yeah like like I was kind of curious like you so so what's what's going on in the market and she was like oh this has been up and that's been down and you know it goes up and down and up and down and all that and sounds like life but maybe he was right on that whole rock climbing danger thing because we did share a kiss at the end of the day. What do you think could have gone wrong? Okay so there was this one minute it was kind of awkward when we were rock climbing. I reached for a rock and she was moving and well, I, I ended up grabbing her butt and she screamed like right away.

Okay. I mean, that's awkward. Yeah. And I, I keep replaying that and I'm wondering, is that why she goes to me? Well, how did you play it off though? So like, did you grab it and you're like, got it? Or, you know, or was there some other kind of like, I don't know, how you react to something like that is kind of how you take it, you know?

Yeah, well, she was obviously mortified. So I was like, oh, I was so sorry. Like, I seriously thought I was just I reached the wrong place. I was going for a rock and I was not looking. You OK? He's like, yeah, yeah, I'm fine. All right. Did you make any more comments

about her? But I mean, because I could that could also be it. Like if you just kept talking about it like, yeah, well, I think it's rock hard. I thought it was like a rock, you know, sorry about it's rock hard. I thought it was like a rock, you know, sorry about grabbing your butt there.

I listen, I almost said something about a steak. I was almost like, hey, I thought I was grabbing a rock. But I thought real quick, I was like, oh, if I say that, that's probably not going to sound right. So let me just be like, oh, grabbed in the wrong place because.

Yeah. Yeah. Well, it seemed like she got over it. Right. I felt great It felt great? As long as you didn't say that to her maybe it's okay yeah I mean she did kiss you at the end so it seems like she got over it

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the phone and he's getting ghosted by Mia. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him. But before we do that, Ethan, why don't you break down your date for us one more time? Yeah, so we had a lot of fun going rock climbing. I accidentally grabbed her butt and apologize. We went out for smoothies afterwards. Maybe she got horny from the rock climbing because we ended up with a kiss.

All right. Wow. Well, here we go. I'm gonna, but she's ghosting you, so we don't know why, so. Maybe she did it actually. Cold shower. I'll call her right now. Okay, you ready?

Yes. All right, here we go. Hello? Hello? Hi, may I speak to Mia please? This is she. Hey Mia, how are you? This is the Jubel show. It's a radio show. Hi Mia, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. And I'm Jubel.

How are you doing? Oh, wait, this is on TikTok. I've seen you guys. I've only heard these on TikTok. Cool. Well, guess what? Now you're on one on TikTok and on the radio. Oh my gosh, I did not think that this would ever be me.

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Also, you can check out the podcast at thejewelshow.com. It's all there now. Now it's you, Mia. Yeah, we do a segment called the first aid follow-up. That's where if you go on a date with someone and end up ghosting them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them.

And we got an email about you. This is Ethan, right? It's about Ethan. Yeah, it is about Ethan. OK, so you're pretty confident about that. What happened? He's like too much. I guess I'll say I'm look, I'm ghosting him because honestly,

I couldn't stop staring at his business, you know? Like in not a good way? You're ghosting somebody because you couldn't stop staring at something. Did you like it? No, no, no, it's not like that. Okay. I'm just thinking out.

No, it's not like that, I swear. Okay. Is it out? So, no. Okay, I'm sorry, I'm sorry like that. I swear. Okay. So, um, so, we want rock climbing, right? And you know, when you go rock climbing, you wear the harness and it kind of goes around your hips area and it very much frames your junk. Uh, it's you have junk like that. And, um, I get it. The harnesses are tight. It's a safety thing. I totally understand. But for the entire date, after we got down from the rock climbing wall, he kept adjusting himself.

Like every five minutes, he was adjusting, moving his hand was down there, doing something. It was driving me crazy. I could not focus on anything else, no matter what we were talking about, because his hand is going, another adjustment, another shift, another, like. And this is after the harness is off? Yes.

Oh. Yes, this is after the harness. I mean, maybe it was like super tight. I don't have junk like that, so I don't know what it's like. So it's like you were on a date with a toddler and you had to keep being like, get your hands out of your pants, stop touching yourself.

I didn't say anything. All right, okay. Other than that, did you like him? I mean, we definitely had a good talk. You know, sometimes, I mean, there are, I'm in like finance and there are guys who get kind of bored about that, but there's some who are into it and some aren't into it too much and they try to mansplain it to me. Well, we had a good time. Yeah. I mean, he listened to what I was saying and it felt nice to be able to sort of teach someone about the stuff that I do, you know.

And I think we- Except he wouldn't stop adjusting himself. He just wouldn't stop adjusting himself. So sometimes I definitely would lose my train of thought. It was, that was also embarrassing for me. That was my train of thought. I just don't think I could see him after that experience. You know what I mean?

Well, thank you for being honest with us. I appreciate that. And Ethan is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Um, you know, like, wait, why I, I didn't even realize I was doing that. Uh, was that bad? You were, yes, you were were even. You were doing that. It was, I don't know, I don't know, it was just a lot. I get it, maybe the harness was tight, uh, but... Yeah, for sure.

You know, it was just kept happening. Sorry, I saw. You didn't realize you were, uh, you know, moving stuff around a lot? Yeah, I just kind of thought like, well if I just just kind of shift a little bit, I'll be fine. But maybe every time I shifted, I was out and I didn't know. I wasn't doing it on purpose. I swear. It must have been like, you know, just the harness, like you said. Okay. I get that. But I don't, it just, it made me uncomfortable. It made me feel kind of weird.

Like it couldn't stop looking. And I know it sounds weird or silly or I don't know if it sounds superficial, but it just made me question if we should go out again. Cause I just didn't feel great about that. You know? I just want to be clear. So you're ghosting me because I couldn't stop adjusting my area. I mean pretty much it's just, I don't know. I've never had that happen. And it just really threw me off. You know, is there a lot to adjust? Why is it so distracting? I'm Mia. I'm a great guy. Aside from all the accidental adjusting, like we can just listen,

we can do something totally different. I could take you to a place with zero chance of awkwardness. Sorry again about the grab that I grabbed the wrong thing. Plus you told me you think I'm attractive and a really good picture so I mean I can definitely not adjust myself to normal clothing. Okay so that's not the norm for you. That's not how it's gonna be That's right. Yeah You didn't even know you were doing it even how do you know that do you do this Has nobody ever said that you adjust often before? No, nobody's ever said that I mean like I guess maybe they'd be afraid to mention that but I Haven't noticed you know, apparently now I want to like go back and look at any videos I'm in and just make sure. I mean the harness was tight, you know, like it was...

Hey Mia, would you like to go on another day with Ethan? We'll pay for it. I mean... If he promises to use duct tape or something so he doesn't have to adjust. I feel like you have to just to see if he's gonna do it again. And maybe no like, no rock climbing, no horseback riding, nothing like that. Nothing involving that area. Yeah.

Parachute. We can chill at like a coffee spot, something nice and like a, it can be similar to an office, like a financial office, you know? What? A financial office, you know financial office Okay, I feel like it's you're making it pretty hard to say no and I feel like I should give you another chance because you're Right about what I said. I don't know that you had to tell everybody in the world, but yes, I had a good time and

I think you're cute. And look, but seriously, if there's one adjustment, I am out of the door. All right. Well, congratulations Ethan. You didn't have my word. You got another date. Yay! Yay!

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bodies. So give yourself permission to be a science geek and listen to Science Stuff on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts. Hi, I'm Bob Pitman, Chairman and CEO of iHeart Media. I'm excited to share my podcast with you, Math and Magic, Stories from the Frontiers of Marketing. Make sure to check out my recent episode with legendary musician and philanthropist, Jewel. I didn't want a million dollars. I wanted a career. I wanted a way to figure out how to do something that I loved for the rest of my life.

Join me as we uncover innovations in data and analytics, the math, and the ever important creative spark, the magic. Listen to Math and Magic, Stories from the Frontiers of Marketing on the iHeart Radio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.