First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Which body part scared Robyn away in this First Date Follow Up!?
Episode Date: November 3, 2021First Date Follow Up is when we get an email from someone who went on a date and the other person isn't calling back. We get that other person on the phone to see why they're "ghosting".How do we desc...ribe today's First Date Follow Up!? Terrence the pinball master isn't getting a call back from Robyn because of a certain part of his body and we're not talking about that part! Find out which body part scared Robyn away in another exciting First Date Follow Up!Let us know what you think on social!Follow us at: @thejubalshow @jubalfresh @thatdreas @evanontheradioSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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First day follow-up.
Did you guys know they had pinball leagues?
No. Neither did I. Does anyone know that? know they had pinball leagues? No.
Neither did I.
Does anyone know that?
If you're into pinballing, probably.
Yep.
If you're into pinball, then you know they have pinball leagues.
And I say that because Terrence is on the phone right now.
And Terrence isn't getting a call back from a woman named Robin.
They went out on a date.
And apparently, they are both in a pinball league.
I don't really care that much about your date or not getting a call back.
I just want to learn more a pinball league. I don't really care that much about your date or not getting a callback. I just want to learn more about pinball leagues.
Where'd you sign up to be in a pinball league, Terrence?
They just had this gaming bar where they had like old school, you know, video games that you can play when you drink.
So this isn't like a major national pinball league.
This is a pinball league that you and your buddies created at a bar that you go to.
Yeah, yeah. It's like the community level. Yeah. So did you meet Robin? National Pinball League. This is a pinball league that you and your buddies created at a bar that you go to.
Yeah,
yeah, it's like the community level,
yeah.
So did you meet Robin,
the woman who's not
giving you a call back
at the bar
where you have
your pinball league?
Is that how you guys met?
Exactly,
yeah,
we met there.
All right,
and before we ask you
about the date and stuff,
how long has it been
since you talked to her?
It's been a couple weeks
that I haven't heard anything back from her. And how many times have you reached talked to her? It's been a couple weeks. I haven't heard anything back from her.
And how many times have you reached out to her?
A couple times.
That's weird, like a huge
athlete like you not getting a call back.
You know, normally women are throwing themselves
at pinball athletes, but...
Ooh, that endorsement money.
Yeah, yeah, you know, I mean,
I just don't want her to think that I'm just
you know, a gamer. Like, that's all I do. Like, I am naturally, you know, I mean, I just don't want her to think that I'm just, you know, a gamer.
Like, that's all I do.
Like, I am naturally, you know, gifted when it comes to pinball and 90s gaming.
But, like, you know, I do other things.
Like, I hike.
I do pottery.
Well, we don't even know why she's not calling you back, but she's clearly not calling you back for a reason.
So what did you guys do for your date?
Let's try to figure it out.
You know, we a the pinball
tournament we did a couple rounds of that we got out early because we we did like you know we teamed
up together usually for pinball tournament you can go in as solo or duo so how did you meet her
it was just at the bar i was doing this weekly pinball tournament with my homies that we always do every week.
And I saw her with her friend and went up to her, talked to her a little bit, you know,
bought her a drink and told her to come by next week and play on my team.
Okay.
Nice.
She obviously, you guys exchanged numbers and she came back and that was your date playing
with her in the pinball tournament.
How was that?
Was it fun for her, you think, or just for you?
Yeah, I thought so.
You know, I thought we had a couple, you know, inside jokes and we were making
some like, you know, good little memories, especially at that bar.
Did you have any conversation at all?
Or was it just all about the game and the sport?
I think it was good give and take, you know.
Some, you know,
gaming. I was kind of coaching her through some stuff.
And then also just, you
know, talking about growing up
in the city.
Was there any point throughout the date that you thought that
like her attitude kind of changed
or that you could feel that she wasn't really enjoying it
anymore?
Not that I could tell, no.
Okay, so you have no idea, not the slightest clue as to why she's ghosting you?
No, I thought my energy was great.
I thought she had great energy.
I thought we were, you know, we had great chemistry.
I feel like we, you know, we were making little jokes, giving each other names,
and I'm, like, shocked that she didn't reply, you know, after that night.
Okay.
I guess I am kind of concerned that she only thinks I'm like one dimensional when it comes
to, you know, playing video games and just.
Like you're just all about the video games?
Like.
Yeah.
And like that I don't have a life.
Right.
Okay.
So is that, that's the reason that you think maybe she doesn't want to go out with you
again or see you again?
Yeah.
Okay.
Did you guys kiss or anything at the end of the night?
How did the evening end?
No, we hugged, though.
We hugged for like, you know, a good three, four, five seconds.
Okay.
That's a long hug.
You didn't hear from her one time afterwards.
Is that correct?
Yeah, yeah.
And the only thing you can think of is that maybe she just thinks
you're too into gaming?
Yeah, that's what I'm thinking.
Did you guys win in your pinball tournament or did you lose?
Oh, you know, we lost early
but it gave us more time to play other
games. That might be what it is.
She might want to date a champion.
Doesn't want to date a loser.
Yeah.
Yeah, I mean, I hope not.
Alright, well, we'll find it out for you. We'll play a song, come back
and then call her and see if we can figure out
why she's not getting back to you, alright? Alright, cool. Alright, hold on, we'll find it out for you. We'll play a song, come back and then call her and see if we can figure out why she's not getting back to you. All right.
All right. Cool. All right. Hold on. We'll do it next. It's a Jubal show.
Normally athletes have women throwing themselves at them, you know, like NBA players. They got
groupies waiting in the lobbies of their hotel all the time. Football players.
Specifically the Kardashians they have waiting. Yeah. The NBA, the Kardashians are just hanging
out in the lobby of the hotel room.
Well, surprisingly, we have an athlete on the phone who isn't getting a call back.
His name is Terrence, and he plays in a pinball league.
And he went out with a girl named Robin. And when I say went out, I mean he hangs out at the same bar every weekend with his homies playing pinball.
And he saw her in there one night and said, hey, you should come back next week and play on my team.
I don't want you to play on anybody else's team but mine.
And she agreed.
And they played pinball together.
And now she's not calling him back.
The only reason you can think of that he's not getting a callback is maybe she thinks he's a little bit too into gaming and doesn't have anything else to offer.
But Terrence swears that he does.
There's more to you, Terrence, than just a pinball master, right?
Yeah, absolutely.
And I really want to reconnect with her again
because, you know, we were laughing
and you guys really want to know what happened
and, you know, we can make it work.
All right.
Well, we'll dial her number right now
and see if we can figure it out for you, okay?
Cool. Thank you.
Thank you so much.
Here we go. Hello?
Hi, may I speak to Robin, please?
Yeah, this is she.
Hey, Robin, how are you?
This is Jubal from a radio show called The Jubal Show.
And this is Alex from a show called The Jubal Show.
And this is English Evan from a show called The Jubal Show. And this is Alex from a show called The Jubal Show. And this is English Evan from a show called The Jubal Show.
And The Jubal Show is a radio show called The Jubal Share.
Drip a drip.
Wow, okay.
Great, what's going on?
You ever listened before?
I have actually, so I'm totally surprised.
Are you a fan?
Yeah.
Yes, I am.
What is this?
What's happening?
What do you think could be happening right now?
I think I do know what happened.
I think I do know what happened.
Okay, what?
Are you following up with me on a date?
Yes.
Wow.
Oh, no. Okay, all right. Okay. Wow. Oh, no.
Okay.
All right.
Okay.
Well, our question is,
do you know who we're talking about?
Yeah, I do.
I do.
So you haven't gone out on a lot of dates
in the past few weeks?
And ghosted them?
No, I'm not like,
no, you remember.
You remember your dates,
but I don't go on
three dates a night.
Obviously,
you know that we're
calling about Terrence. Yeah. Terrence emailed us. Obviously, you know that we're calling about Terrence.
Yeah.
Terrence emailed us.
Obviously, you know how this works.
He emailed us and wants to know why he won't get back to him,
why he won't call him back.
Oh my gosh.
Okay.
I feel kind of bad about this.
So here's the thing.
He's really fun.
We had a great time.
We, you know, we went, I'm sure he told you,
we went and played pinball he's actually
in a league and uh that was all great like it was kind of cute and goofy and everything but
he just did something that was just kind of a turnoff we want to know so you were turned on
because the pinball of course and then somehow it somehow he did something that was a
turnoff to you what was it okay what he did though is he asked me to call him the thumb
like as a nickname of his or yeah like yeah it's fine funny little nickname but it the way he asked
was just a little intense like Like he got real serious.
He's like, all right, all right, listen, listen.
And he pulled out a jersey that he had made.
And like, you know, it looks like a professional sports jersey.
And it said, the thumb.
He's serious about it.
And he's like, I think we're really vibing.
I want you to refer to me as the thumb.
Okay.
All right.
And there was no hint of a joke?
Like, he wasn't joking at all?
No, I didn't think so.
I thought he was, like, really serious.
He probably was.
But we were joking before.
Like, we were having a great time.
And then it just, like, the mood shifted.
Wanted me to call him The Thumb.
Well, it was game time, I guess, right?
Yeah.
That was it. Other than that, we had a good time.
It just was like, that was intense.
I thought it was strange.
And I couldn't shake the vibe.
You want to date Terrence and you don't want to
date The Thumb.
The Thumb, yeah, exactly.
All right, well, I don't know if I have to remind you of this
because you said that you listen to the show quite a bit,
but the thumb is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.
Oh, damn it.
Okay.
Did you forget?
No, I mean, this is all a lot.
Yeah, I didn't forget.
I knew it was coming.
Here we go.
Terrence, do you go by Terrence or the thumb right now?
Hey, Robin.
Hey, Terrence.
How are you?
I've had better days.
No, I'm good to hear your voice, you know?
Yeah, man.
Like, can I call you Terrence now?
Can I call you Terrence?
Yeah, you know, and that's something.
It is kind of like, you know, an alter ego thing,
and it is just very, like, it's not serious,
but it is kind of just like what, you know, my friends call me.
You know, I guess I didn't know it was that big of a thing for you
to just kind of hop on board
of that.
No, no, I just, I just thought it was intense. That's all. I, I really,
I had a good time the rest of the time, honestly, I really did.
Yeah. You know, it is just like a, a very important thing that just,
you know, people call me the thumb while I'm in the zone.
It just helps me play better, you know, and be who I am when I am gaming.
Gotcha.
Well, I mean, let me ask you this.
If we ever went out again, could we do something not pinball related?
And could I just call you Terrence?
Yes, absolutely.
If we're not gaming, you can me terrence yes well in that case
uh robin would you like to go on another date with terrence we'll pay for it with terrence not
the phone no yes oh my gosh she's making me laugh you know what why Why not? Let's do it. You have to plan something. That is a present.
Yeah.
Okay.
Yeah.
Yes.
I promise.
I promise.
It's just Terrence for you.
Okay.
You're just going to get Terrence.
Yes.
Terrence.
Congratulations.
Hey,
thank you so much. Thanks guys.
And thank you.
Thank you,
Robin.
Like,
I promise you,
you won't be disappointed.
Okay.
Terrence will not disappoint.
Okay. I hope not.
Neither will the thumb.
Yeah.
Will the thumb disappoint is the question.
Jubal's first date follow up.
Hey, everyone.
It's Katie Couric.
Well, the election is in the homestretch right in time for a new season of my podcast.
Next Question.
I'm bringing in some FOKs, friends of Katie's, to help me out,
like Ezra Klein, Jen Psaki, Astead Herndon.
But we're also going to have some fun,
thanks to some of my friends like Samantha Bee and Charlemagne the God.
We're going to take some viewer questions as well.
I mean, isn't that what democracy is all about?
Check out our new season of Next Question with me, Katie Couric,
on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Jon Stewart is back in the host chair at The Daily Show,
which means he's also back in our ears on The Daily Show, ears edition podcast.
Join late night legend Jon Stewart and the best news team for today's biggest headlines exclusive extended interviews and more now this is a second term we can all get behind listen to the daily show ears edition on the iheart radio app apple podcast or wherever
you get your podcasts welcome to decisions, the podcast where boundaries are pushed and conversations get candid.
Join your favorite hosts, me, Weezy WTF, and me, Mandy B, as we dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.
Every Monday and Wednesday, we both invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms.
Tune in and
join the conversation. Listen to Decisions Decisions on the Black Effect Podcast Network,
iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.