First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Why is Amanda ghosting Jackson?

Episode Date: April 22, 2025

Jackson hasn't heard from Amanda in a few days after their first date. Let's see if we can get him a second date.  Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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So in a few minutes we'll call her, see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date. But first, Jackson, how long has it been since you heard from Amanda? It's been a few days. Like long enough to know you're getting ghosted days or is this like the you had the date last night? No, like it could, like, you know, it's been three days, maybe three and a half. Okay. What makes you feel like you're being ghosted? Well, I mean, we went on this great day, right?

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Amanda is beautiful and she ate all the food. It was so cute. You know what I mean? I just thought this would be the start of something great, but it's just having, you know, I mean, I've written her, you know, I walked into her car, I wrote her afterwards and said, you know, you know, I'm here for me. And I thought she would write me back

and she never wrote me back. And I kind of want to know what her problem is. So you said what to her, I'm'm sorry I hope to hear from you? No I said you know it was a great date and I hope you know I hope to hear from you when we left the date and then when I texted her I said it was a great night last night and she didn't respond. Why do you think she's ghosting you? Well I mean I was 15 minutes late I, I had to take my dog out.

It was apologetic about, you know, like I kind of mismanaged my time. And she teased me about it a little bit. And I thought it was a joke, but I don't know. Maybe, you know, first impressions are tough. You know, I don't know. Maybe she seemed like she understood and got over it, but maybe she didn't. So when you arrived, was she kind of cold shoulder? Or like at that point, was she cool with you?

You know, somebody shows up 15 minutes late, you're kind of mad or annoyed, I should say, but that's valid and it's the first time. So then was she like, so anyways, tell me what sign you are or was she more like, can we just order? She made a, she made a couple of jabs and uh, but she didn't uh, you know, she got over it quick, you know, boom, she got over it quick. Okay. I felt like she got over it quick. I feel like that's fair.

Yeah. How'd the rest of the day go? First of all, we had three courses, wine and dessert, and we discussed the food and we discussed travel. We like to travel. We both wanted to go to Italy. It was pretty good. We had a lot of fun. up like, you know, travel and we like to be both like to travel. We both like this, you know, like, like wanted to go to Italy.

And, you know, I mean, it was like it was pretty good. Like we had a really good conversation. It was a long night. I mean, I thought it was really good. So you felt like she was engaging with you and asking you questions and stuff like that. Absolutely. I didn't. I walked into a car at the end. So I feel like, you know, wasn't like she wasn't put off.

It wasn't awkward. Did you put her lips on your lips at the end? What I feel like, you know, wasn't like she wasn't put off. It wasn't awkward. Did you put her lips on your lips at the end? Why do you say it like that? No, I was a gentleman. Because if he did it the way Jubal said, then that would absolutely be why he's getting posted. So no kiss. Did you guys hug at least or?

Yeah, we got like a half hug. Oh, that's not a good sign. I'm not going to lie. Every time I've half hugged a guy, it kind of resulted in me never talking to him again. It must be like in a rush or you're like on your way somewhere. On a rush? That's actually not a good sign. I feel like it was a good ending.

Even though it was a half hug, it felt good. OK, but now she hasn't talked to you in a few days and you want to know why you're getting ghosted. So play a song, come back and then we'll call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you Okay, but now she hasn't talked to you in a few days and you want to know why you're getting ghosted so Play a song come back and then we'll call her see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you another date Okay Thank you so much play a song come back get your first day follow up next Peace to the planet. I go by the name of Charlamagne the god and guess what? I can't wait to see y'all at the third annual black effect podcast festival. That's right

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why she's not getting back to me after a few days I wrote her and she didn't text me back at all. But I feel like she should have. It was definitely a good time. What was the last thing you said to her on text? I said to her, I had a really good time last night and I thought she would have gotten back to me. Okay, well, you ready for us to call her

and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you? Absolutely. Here we go. Hello. I'm asking to Amanda, please. Uh, this is she who's calling. Hi, Amanda. My name is Jubal and this is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show.

Yes, the show is here. My name's Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria. Hi. Hey, hi. Oh, you know the show. Yeah, yeah. Oh, that's cool.

Sweet. You're so creepy. I'm actually calling today because you went out on a date with somebody and now you're ghosting them. Okay. I might need more info. Well, you know how we do the first date follow up on the show where if you go out on a date with somebody, you ghost them, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask why.

We got an email about you from a guy named Jackson. Aww. Okay. I love that we're laughing about this. Was that a good date for you? He doesn't know why, I guess. No, he does not. That's crazy that he has no idea why.

Okay, so it should be obvious? Uh, yeah. I would say, like, okay, this is, this is nuts. Okay. Yeah. So let me, let me preface. The restaurant was fantastic and the food is fantastic. And that was good.

The company was not good. He seemed to have a different perspective on it. That's weird because he spent the entire night just hitting on the server. So I have no idea why he would be confused. What? He was hitting on the server? Like obviously? Oh, like huge.

Like, like I checked out five minutes in. Oh, I'm good. The food's good. And I just focused on my food and getting, you know, a good meal out of it. And that was it. But I checked out five minutes in instantly. He was like, oh, you're so gorgeous. And like, he's like, oh, your hair is so pretty. And like, oh, my gosh, I love the color of your nails.

And like, like, yeah, like no joke. Like he was making jokes about like feeding her. What? And he was like, oh, you want a of this and like I can feed you. Oh, yeah Like he called he commented on her legs at one point like it was it was sick That is a little bit awkward and a huge red flag. But yeah Yeah, tell me about it. Like the fact that he doesn't know what's going on, it just blows my mind. That's just kind of funny. I mean, that's blatant.

Yeah. Like, I mean, in front of me, he was just like, he was like instantly she walks up and he's like, he's like, oh, hey, you're gorgeous. And then he just like, every time she came to the table, there was something else. Like he talked about, he was just like, oh, this is very like, it's almost as sweet as you are and blah blah blah yeah that's also kind of like rude like you're on a date with someone else did he say that stuff to you too was it just like how he communicates with women or was it her specifically no like there wasn't even like a you look nice like there was like none of that it was all in the waitress I was I was flabbergasted like it

Okay. Well, thank you for telling us also. I don't know if you forgot but Jackson is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you or maybe find out who the waitress isn't I don't know but Like you made him sound like I was really elaborate like I I'm always, you know, just talk to, you know, you know, treat your servers, you know, awesome and give them great compliments because they give you bigger servings and better pours. And I mean, you know, better treatment all around. It's like a win-win. And that's what I was doing. And I just, I was sick. I was like, you know, like into the, into the waitress so much. Like that's teaching you your please and thank you, sir

Not like your legs So you were hitting on her If she hadn't had nice legs then you wouldn't Because I feel like you should compliment her legs no matter what her legs look like if that's just strategy you're going for. Well, she had nice legs, but it wasn't, I mean, it was just something to say to her. It wasn't like I was hitting on her. No matter what, if you say to a woman, you have nice legs, that comes across as hitting

on. Yeah, for real. I mean, because you're complimenting her looks all the time. You could have like, if you were doing that, you could have said like, Oh, you're so nice and thank you. And you're so helpful. And like, you know, you could have said like, I like your nails, not like, Oh, your nails are so beautiful. And I love that color. Like, you know what I mean? Like you could have just been like, Oh, what'd you get them done or something.

But no, like you're hitting on her because you're talking about her looks to her every time she came to the table. Like that's not like that's not getting extra stuff out of it. That's not what you're talking about. Wow. I didn't really realize you were the jealous type. Like I'm not really into that. What? Like I'm just not into rude people. And let me remind you that you're the one that like wanted me so bad that you're willing to go on the radio and do that. It's all good because I was really so good to that girl I got her number and you know what?

So you were hit harder than if you got the number. Have you tried the number because I thought it's fake? Amanda you're impossible. Well, I would love to ask Amanda, would you like to go on another date with Jackson? We'll pay for it. There is never a chance in this world that I would ever do that. Yeah, that's totally OK. It's your loss, Amanda. Oh, no, I guess I'm just going to have to pick the L on that one.

I'm so sad. Jubal's first date follow up. Peace to the planet. I go by the name of Charlamagne the God and guess what? I can't wait to see y'all at the third annual Black Effect podcast festival. That's right. We're coming back to Atlanta, Georgia, Saturday, April 26th at Pullman Yards. And it's hosted by none other than Decisions Decisions, Mandy B and Weezy, okay? We got the R&B Money podcast with Tank and Jay Valentine.

We got the Woman of All podcast with Sarah J. Roberts, the Funky Friday podcast with Cam Newton, the Neck and Sporch podcast with Carrie Champion, Good Moms Bad Choices podcast, the Trap Nerds podcast, and many more will be on that stage live. And of course it's bigger than podcast. We're bringing the black effect marketplace with black owned businesses, plus the food truck court to keep you fed while you visit us. All right, listen, you don't want to miss this.

Tap in and grab your tickets now at black effect dot com slash podcast festival. Proudly sponsored by Nissan. Yo, K-pop fans, are you ready? It's your boy, BumHan, and I'm bringing you the K-Factor, the podcast that takes you straight into the heart of K-Pop. We're talking music, idols, exclusive interviews, and even the real behind the scenes K-Pop stories. Plus you're the fans, you're part of the show, and you can get a chance to jump in, share your opinions, and be part of the conversation like never before. And trust me, you never know where we might pop up next. So listen to the K Factor starting on April 16 on iHeartRadio

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Can I get an A man? Hey, this is Financial Literacy Awareness Month. Tune in to Money and Wealth with John O'Brien, a podcast that breaks down financial freedom in a way that's real, relatable, and rooted in empowerment. From rebuilding your credit to starting your wealth journey, I give you all the tools to rise. I'm going to break down how the modern economy works.

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