First Date Follow Up - The Jubal Show - Why is Carissa ghosting Dave?

Episode Date: February 26, 2025

Dave really wants to find out why Carissa is ghosting him. He wants a second date, so we call her for an update. She straight up LEFT the event she invited him to. Ever been ghosted after what you thought was an amazing date? Do you REALLY want that Second Date? The Jubal Show has your back! On First Date Follow Up, we track down the person who disappeared to get the real reason why. Awkward, hilarious, and sometimes downright shocking—First Date Follow Up delivers the truth, whether you want to hear it or not. Will there be a second date or just secondhand embarrassment? Subscribe to The Jubal Show's First Date Follow Up and find out! ➡︎ Get on The Jubal Show with your story - https://thejubalshow.com This is just a tiny piece of The Jubal Show. You can find every podcast we have, including the full show every weekday right here…➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com/podcasts The Jubal Show is everywhere, and also these places: Website ➡︎ https://thejubalshow.com  Instagram ➡︎ https://instagram.com/thejubalshow  X/Twitter ➡︎ https://twitter.com/thejubalshow  Tiktok ➡︎ https://www.tiktok.com/@the.jubal.show Facebook ➡︎ https://facebook.com/thejubalshow  YouTube ➡︎ https://www.youtube.com/@JubalFresh  Support the show: https://the-jubal-show.beehiiv.com/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Seven questions, limitless answers. First date follow-up, powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys, online at AdvocatesLaw.com. Dave is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Carissa. So we'll see if we can help him out. Dave, what's up man, how are you?

Hey, hey, what's up? Yeah. How long has it been since you saw Carissa? Like a week. So what was your last interaction with her? Was it a text, was it a call? No, she just left the event that she invited me to. Oh.

She invited me to this art gallery for a friend. She said she doesn't even like art but like I'm like hell yeah free booze, free tapas. Yeah. And like and the kind of people that show up at those you know it's just they're just fun to make fun of you know like many hipsters. Oh it's just fun to make fun of, you know, like, hipsters. Oh, it's super fun. People watching is great. And she was able to like throw them out just like, like the hard balls, you know, like the curve balls.

And I'm thinking she's great. We're going back and forth, making fun of people, feeding each other. And like, this is, we're having a great time and thinking that why would I not want to go out on a second date with this person? And long story short, now, I think explain this if I have my own radio show. I probably canceled like immediately I am just not very woke. I say what I think I think I'm funny Yeah, a lot of people might not think I'm funny, but Chris has seen the thing that I was funny Okay, and we're just going around the party and I just happened to just start clowning

on one person, don't know who it was. And just shortly after she, she just left. And I, I'm just wondering if I was too much for her, you know, like if my jokes were just hitting too, too hard, like on people. I mean, that could be it. Do you know who the person was that like you were kind of attacking? I mean, she's just kind of some funny pigtails. And I made some kind of below the belt joke that it seemed like it didn't go over well when everything else was, you know? Yeah, just a random person, just another random person at this bougie

get together. You've tried to reach out to her. Yeah. A couple of times. Yeah. No, it's just, it's silence, dead silence. It's definitely ghosting. The only thing you can think of is maybe she got offended.

Possibly that could make sense. It's just so strange because she was throwing some out there that like my, you know, my friends could be offended at and something can just didn't make sense. It was just out of left field. So how did she leave you Dave? You're saying that she just disappeared on you? Like you turned around and she was gone or she was like, okay, thanks. I wanted to get a few more free drinks.

You know, I mean, come on, endless bar. Yeah. Who doesn't, you know? And I told her I'm going to go get a drink. And just as soon as like I'm there and back, you know, with two Mai Tai, she's gone. Wow. Wow. So she really just like left.

Is she like wanted? Really? It's just, it's so strange. Cause we were having so much fun. I couldn't get enough of her that night. It was great. Yeah, that is really weird. Interesting. Okay. Have you ever just peaced out on somebody in the middle of a date jubil? Um, I have only one time.

But it was a double date where my friend's girlfriend had set me up. And the girl that she had set me up with she was not a fan of me and then started arguing with me so then I started arguing back a little bit and then I was like I'm just gonna go home but that was very obvious what the problem was yeah yeah I mean on my end the problem was she's arguing with me I don't know what her problem with me was but I have things that it could be problems for people so but I understood that and I also didn't want her to call me so I've been ghosted but other than that no I also didn't want her to call me so

No, I have not really left in the middle of a date before I you know, yeah I'm just kind of curious like what the reason would be well, let's figure it out We will play a song come back and then call her and see if she'll tell us why you're getting ghosted and maybe get You another date if you want one. All right, man Play some come back get your first date follow-up next first date of follow-up next. First date follow-up. Powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys. Online at AdvocatesLaw.com. Dave is on the phone for a first date follow-up.

If you missed us talking to him just a few minutes ago, he went out with a woman named Carissa and he's getting ghosted and now we're about to call her and see if we can figure out why and maybe get him another date. Before we call her, Dave, why don't you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Carissa?

Carissa invited me to an art gallery. We were having a great time, free drinks, beating each other, cracking jokes, and really just roasting everyone we saw there. And I just noticed that after I was poking fun at somebody, she sort of left as I went to grab more drinks for us. She just disappeared from the party. Okay.

So weird. That is weird. All right, well, here we go. (*phone ringing*) Hello? Hi, may I speak to Karissa, please? Yes, this is Carissa. Carissa, how are you? My name is Jubal and I host a radio show called The Jubal Show.

Oh, hi Carissa. My name's Nina. I'm also on The Jubal Show. Hi, I'm Victoria. So there's three people on the phone with you right now. How are you? Okay, good. How are you?

How did you get my number? That's a good question. I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Is this catching me a little bit off guard? I hope I won something Well, you might have I'll tell you how we got your numbers though first And then we can figure out if you won something or not so we do a segment on the show And it's called the first date follow-up That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them that person

Can have us call you and ask why so? you're currently ghosting someone they wanted us to get a hold of you oh boy his name is Dave you know Dave oh yes yes I do all right oh Dave wants to know why you're ghosting him he said he really he really liked meeting you he thought you were amazing and nothing My apologies is a little weird. I wasn't expecting anything like this But that night has been on my mind. So I quite strange. Okay, I'll just tell you what happened Kind of like karma. I should explain myself Okay, so I went out on the state with Dave and Dave was a great guy.

I took him to this art gallery thing that I had an invite to and I didn't really want to go but I figured out perfect first date. At least I have somebody there with me, free food, free booze, you know, whatever. We can have fun no matter what. So Dave was really funny. You know, like we got along really well. We both had like raw kind of like offensive sense of humor with each other and that we were both able to appreciate.

And that's like kind of hard for me to find. So I thought, wow, you know, this is cool. Okay. So you liked Dave's jokes and stuff. Yeah, Dave was cool, man. Dave was really cool. So, so what I really, I'm sorry, what I'm trying to get to is it wasn't date. This was all me.

So, and it's been haunting my brain and I should just clear the air. Okay. What I should have done was, okay, so I don't know how much you know, I have no idea, but I just left. He did tell us that. Yeah, and I should have lied and said like,

you know, I had, you know, this or something, like I should have lied and said like, you know, I had, you know, this or something like I should have lied and said like someone died, you know, like I should have just like done something. I'm just really confused how lying would have been better. But so what actually happened though? I don't know. I'm not good with confrontation. Like I'm not good with, with things like this.

So I just left. But what happened was, is we were making fun of a lot of people there because it's an art gallery and there's a bunch of weirdos there. We were making fun of people and all of the sudden I noticed that one of them happened to be my ex. Oh. And yes. And okay, so I mean, it was all funny,

but rather than feel bad about it When I saw my ex it kind of like ignited something else inside of me. Um How should I put this in in nice terms um urges came over me so I Ended up leaving to hook up with my ex in their car. Oh Okay, You are fine. I know. I never do. I don't even do stuff like this. Like I don't even know what happened. Like maybe it was just the booze or the sliders. I don't know. But I went and I hooked up with my ex in the car. And then what made me feel really even like I didn't feel bad because I was like, I only know Dave for like five minutes.

So we'll just never see each other again. I mean that's what I thought like I'll never see him again and this will be a really great story about how me and my ex got back together but instead they ended up ghosting me after that. What? Oh what? So you ghosted Dave and then your ex ghosted you? This art gallery is really G. I like art galleries and everything else you just described I like too. So.

Oh God. And you know what? Which one was it? Whoa, Dave. Who was it? Yeah, I'm here. Is that Dave? Who was it?

Yes, it is. He's on the phone. Who was it? Ah. Sorry, Chris. I should have told you that. Dave is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. It's okay.

It's okay. You know what? I needed to clear this this this was on my mind. I felt bad I think I said I don't know who was it It was the one that I caught that you were calling an Oompa Loompa with the green hair But she kind of like was like she's kind of like like like an oompa loompa, but she kind of like was like, she's kind of like, like that hot oompa loompa. Like you're saying it was, wait a second. Yeah, it was that she's saying you're in the women to do with me being attracted to women. I left you to go hook up with somebody else.

Look, in the amount of time that we had to get to know each other in our sense of humor and our openness, you don't think you could have told me that and that I wouldn't have been like, Hey, this is cool. Let's, you know, talk more seriously. Who's okay with somebody going, Hey, pause. I'm not gonna hook up with my ex real quick. Call me tomorrow. It's not okay. It's just easier to just, to just leave. It's easier to just disappear and then- I'm just pulling your chain. It's okay.

It's gonna hot. If her ex was a guy, would you feel the same way? Right, I don't know how to take this. Do I sound like I'd feel the same way? No! I don't know. Okay, thanks for not like, hating my guts. I mean, I was pretty crackading.

I mean, a little, maybe a little bit. I know that you didn't want to tell me. I can understand why. I mean, I was pretty cracky thing. I mean a little, maybe a little bit. I know that you didn't want to tell me. I can understand why I just, sorry for leaving you an art exhibit. I know that's pretty terrible. Maybe, maybe we can go people watch at like, you know, the beach or something sometime, you know, just the boardwalk. Are we really doing this on the radio? This is weird. But are you, are you asking me out again? Carissa, would you like to go on another date with Dave? We'll pay for it.

He obviously doesn't mind that you hooked up with your ex and the car on the same day you were on. Wait, you're going to pay for it? Yes. Yes. Yeah. All right. I will go back out with Dave. You're paying the bill. I mean go back out with Dave.

You're paying the bill. I mean, I was going to say that I owe him a drink. You know, they do not. I do owe you an X. So. If I see one of my X's, you'll know what happened, okay? Then we'll just be even. You guys are a TV show.

Yeah. I deal. You guys sound like you're made for each other, honestly. I think this is a match made in heaven, for show. Yeah. I hate you all. You guys sound like you're made for each other, honestly. I think this is a match made in heaven for sure. Yeah. Two crappy human beings. I thought you were. That's why I wouldn't give up.

I just can't give up. Well, congratulations Dave, you got another date. And Karissa, you also got a date. Yay! Free meal! Free meal! Thanks guys! It's a free meal.

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